Hi again XXX! It is so nice to find your letter. I think that you
like our correspondence, because I see your another letter to me. If
to be true I was thinking all day long - you will answer to my letter
or not, because I think you've heard a lot of bad stories about girls.
In my opinion they have ashamed their countries and I do not respect
this type of people.
I want to tell you about my bad experience of using social networks.
I had an account on Facebook 6 years ago. But one day a friend of mine
added to my friends. At first he just wrote to me and wanted to meet
me. He wanted to meet me and invited me to various cafes or
restaurants. But I was not interested in this acquaintance. Because at
that time I was graduating from university and I was only interested
in my studies. Because I dreamed of getting a diploma, because I
studied for free at the university and I was worried about how I would
pass all the exams. But this man was very persistent. I explained to
him that I liked his attention, but he was not sympathetic to me and I
was only busy with my studies. When I explained all this to him, he
did not stop writing to me and every time he demanded to meet me. At
first I just refused him, but he did not stop writing to me. After
that I stopped responding to him. But he tried to find out from my
friends where I live. They immediately talked about this to me and did
not tell him where I live. One month after I found out about this he
met me at my university. I realized that he recognized this from my
Facebook account. He told me about it. I began to fear his
persecution. A couple of days after he met me at the university, he
somehow found out where I live and came to my house and tried to
persuade me to give him time. But he behaved very strange, so I was
scared to leave my apartment. I tried to ask for help from the police,
but they told me that they can not do anything about it until a crime
occurs. I was shocked that they do not want to do anything. And
finally, one day I was just terribly frightened and asked my classmate
Anna to accompany me to my home after school. And this request was
heard by one guy from my group. His name was Victor. He said he can
help me. At first I did not understand how he could help me. But he
had been boxing since childhood and he was very big. He escorted me
home for a couple of days and a couple of days later this man was
waiting for me at my house again. Victor approached him and at first
just started talking to him, but this man did not understand him and
said that he was in love with me and was trying to get me this way.
Victor realized that this man will not leave me behind and Victor told
this man that he is my boyfriend. And if this man does not stop
pursuing me, then Victor will have to beat him. After this incident, I
no longer saw this man, but now I have a fear of using social
networks. There in the net are a lot of bad people. You are absolutely
right. I am also scared of them. Some people want to get someone's
money, others are seeking for slaves and prostitutes, still others
have other bad intentions. However there are millions of those who are
seeking for love and relations, just like you and me, and I want to
hope that they make up the majority. But, you should feel if a person
is true or not, that's it. As for me there was also a man who wrote me
a lot but I felt that he lied to me from his first letter and I
stopped answering him. Just listen what your heart tells you. So I
think that we understand each other and we will never talk about it
again. I respect you.
I know that you are tormented by the question of what made me come to
the states. Now I try tell you as much as possible about this. As I
said earlier. I was born in Belarus. And this country with a weak
economic development. Corruption is very developed in our country and
this prevents ordinary people from having a decent standard of living.
I studied in Maxim Tank Belarusian State Pedagogical University. I
have a teacher's degree. I have a pre-school pedagogical
specialization. I graduated from the Pedagogical University and hoped
that I could find a decent job, but when I got a job I was shocked. So
several years have passed and I began to think about my life about a
place where I could realize myself. One day my friend Elena told me
that if I lived in the states I could find a decent standard of living
and could live for a while there.
I know Elena for 14 years, me a lot when I came to USA. Elena is my
best friend. Do you have a good friends? I live in the flat of my
employers. I have a working visa. I have a little free time and I
haven't time for communicate in messengers or Skype. I hope you
understand it. I like live in New York City. I have a friend Elena.
She was born in Minsk also. Elena live in New York about 10 years and
she has an American citizenship. She was married within 2 years, but 6
months ago she divorced. Elena have a a little son Sean from this
marriage.
I am a very romantic woman. And my big dream is to find MY MAN. A man,
who will love me and respect me, who will have a kind heart. May be
you will think that I dreamed like a child, but this is not like this.
I am a very sincere girl, that's why I believe in sincere love between
man and woman. I think you must know it. You are a handsome. I fell in
love with you. Am I right? Therefore I want to see your e-mails.
I am lonely girl now. Therefore I try to find my love. And I like to
search for my love with a help of Internet. Correspondence and waiting
for the reply of a handsome man - this is very interesting and
romantic. This type of communication will help better before our
meeting face-to-face. What do you think of it? If you have any
questions. What I can tell you more now - I am very good at cooking. I
like to cook most of all in my life. I can cook everything I think;) I
like flowers and gardening. I like fishing and camping very much too.
I like read books, dance. I can not tell you that i am a great fan of
music preferences ... I like the music that SOUNDS good, but what I
certainly do not like is RAP. I just do not understand it and those
who are listening to it. But if you like rap I do not mind, after all
this is not that important. I like the music of Mariconner (not sure
in the spelling), if I am not mistaken films. this is about music
I like to watch a movies. My favorite one is the "Ghost". Patrick
Swayze and Demi Moore are the main actors in it. Did you watch this
movie? I do not know what to write you else, I will try next time. I
have some questions for you. Can you describe me a woman of your
dream? Can you tell me a little bit more information your work? I send
you my new photo. I hope you will like it. I hope to see your another
photos too. I will give you my phone when we will know each other
little more. I want talk with you by the phone but I think it's early.
I am waiting for your answer!
Sofia