Joseph P Gorence - [email protected]

[AlanJones]

FishMeetFish profile - jpgorence - http://www.FishMeetFish.com/profile/jpgorence

Searching for my Better Half

Age & Gender: 53 Year Old Man
Height: 5' 10" (178 cm)
Body Type: Athletic
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Ethnicity: Caucasian with Blond Hair Color / Brown Eye Color
Zodiac Sign: Cancer
Location: Wheaton, Illinois, US

About Me
I am a very positive minded man.I respect boundaries,having in mind that the measure you give that you will receive. I am only here not to make myself special, but to find someone special to spend the rest of myself with. I disagree on the ground of insincerity, cheat,unfaithfulness and selfishness.They are obvious shortcomings against life and love. However,I look up to myself to make it both in love and in life.. Distance, Age nor Race is not a problem as far as am concern towards choosing a mate.. So if i fit in the same page as you, Do show some interest and lets get to know each other better.

My Perfect First Date
Dinner or Movies

PM

Hello, How are you doing?

Nice Profile, Can we get to know each other better? If Yes, Reply me with your private email or just email me to [email protected] so as for us to further communication from there and get to know each other better.

Looking forward to hear from you.

Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hi XXX,

Thanks for contacting me on here, I felt this is a very good means for us to talk, Much easier.

Can you tell me more about you and what you do?

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[AlanJones]

Hi again,

Thanks for getting back to me,

Well a Little about me, Name is Joseph Gorence, was born June 30th, 1960, 5'10", Brown eyes, Blonde hair, non smoker/Non Drinker(if you smoke or drink, that's not a problem for me at all). I am single and never being married with a 27yrs old son, who lives on his own.

I am an Auditor for the British American Tobacco(BAT) and I used to audit for them 2 times in a year(beginning and ending of the year), Per auditing is usually 2 weeks so I work full time for them; 4 weeks in a year with good pay so the other time of the year, I used it in serving the lord as a Missionary for my church. What I basically do is to minister to the poor, the sick ones, Orphanage homes and to the jailers, telling them about the love and mercies of God for them and I also try to encourage them telling them not to give up on life.That is about what I do.

I know now you will be wondering how come about this whole thing,well I started this at the age of 20 but it all happened when there was no one for me, I lost my parent in an Auto crash when I was 3, moms friend came along to my rescue she took me with her to Canada where she lives and started teaching me about the love of God and the reason why I have to worship the lord in all I do so by the age of 21 I started ministering and also pursuing my education background, at age 23 I started traveling ministering to people about the love of God that was how I heard the call and I am happy that I did it.

Not that I don't have the bad sides in life... we all do sin against God one way or the other but we seek for forgiveness.

Don't get me wrong, my reason for a woman doesn't mean she has to be close to God or desist from whatever she was doing but I would love someone who understand and support what I do and someone who is ready to walk the same road with me...Someone to make me happy and expect same in return.

I am an only child, and I just care for myself and my Grandma, I as well support my Son whenever he needs my help because he is part of my world and this is why I need a real woman that will love me for who I am.

The reason why I put my profile on the dating site was because this is going to be my last missionary work and I would love to meet the woman of my heart desires and I wouldn't mind relocating for the right woman so relocation is not a problem for me.

I am from Wheaton, IL and I have been to many countries ministering about God but presently I am in an Asian country called Malaysia; not very far from Singapore..but I am willing to get out of here soonest for the right woman if things got to work out fine.

I would like a Loving, Caring, Understanding, Faithful and Honest, Easy Going, Open Minded and a woman who has lots of love to offer. A woman who knows how to make a man feel love and also protect his family is a big plus. I am ready to accept you with everybody around you, that's if you are my woman.

I love Seafood, Chinese and some Mexican dishes.

In my spare time, I like to walk around the inner harbor, I love sports,watching movies and go to the movies ,live music, and of course, I love reading the bible and learning the word of God, I like to have fun I'm usually up for anything new and fun. I love the ocean, walking the beach, watching the sun rise or set, watching the stars, cuddling by a fire, camping, fishing (I just don't put the bait on), walking in the woods/along the ocean, or in the mountains, good conversation, or watching a good movie. I am not too much into TV, and I do like shopping. I like reading, and am an aspiring writer. I am a father of 1 grown Son, and expecting a grandchild soon. I am an independent man and am willing to make the right woman the happiest she ever wanted to be. I am not perfect, but from the inside out, I am. I am not ugly, just not perfect.

I would like to find a woman who can be fun. Someone who can laugh and have a good time. I make it part of my day in which I try to get someone to smile or laugh, at least once, then I know I have done my deed for the day. I have a sense of humor, but you will see it when you're least expecting it. I love to laugh because it is what gets us through times like we are facing. I am optimistic, positive and upbeat, and am seeking the same.

I am a real true man and know how to act like a man. I don't drink, and don't smoke cigarettes. I am not fake. What you see with me is what you get. I am an open book. I believe in honesty, loyalty, respect, and love. Are you a true lady...the kind that knows how to appreciate a man, who knows how to treat her man, and who is as real as I am? If you like to drink and smoke, it's OK in as much as you do it Responsibly.

In a relationship, I know where my place stands as a man, beside being your helpmate, an equal. A relationship takes a lot of hard work. If it is to last, it should be able to withstand the good times and the bad times alike. If you have a strong foundation of friendship, and your mate is your other half, you will have a successful life together. The woman who wins my heart will be treated like a royal queen, in bed and out of bed. I know how to treat my woman.

Mostly in a relationship is LOVE that is all that matters that is why I have decided to build my relationship on some key words LOVE, TRUST, FAITH, HONESTY and DEDICATION those are the key words to a relationship which and lastly COMMUNICATION which is a strong factor .What matters mostly in relationship is Love and nothing more.Well this is all I want you to know for now as I will be expecting to hear from you regarding what you feel about me on all I have explained about me,so we know if there is anything for the both of us. Waiting patiently to hear from you and if you think I am not a better match, I would appreciate you just tell me so I don't have my hope's up waiting for a response. I am a One woman man and not a flirt so I won't look to email any other woman until I hear from you and be sure I am what you are looking for.

I would love to ask some questions so as to be able to know more about you :

- What do U like in a Man?

- What you do for a living?

- What is your favorite food?

- What types of music do you like?

- Tell me more about yourself ?

- What's your bad experience in a relationship?

- How long have you been searching.

- How long have you being on that site we met? Any response there yet?

We all have our own beliefs, but love oversee all. Till I hear from you.

Grace and Peace,

Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hello Sweety,

How are you ?hope all is well with you ? Its my very great pleasure to hear from you back,its really make my days with the lovely email you sent to me and i like the way you answer my questions.

In my other email, I forgot to tell you that i like going to beaches, musical concerts and sometime go for dinner and taste a little coffee from a small window and i am for real,because i don't have time playing games around, it's very awful when someone hurt another good feelings... Well, to me relationship can mean two things:

- It can mean that we have a connection, which I think exists
- Relationship also means to be spiritually, romantically and sexually involved and I think we aren't at that level.

So, I think at this point, given the amount of time we have e-mail one another, we definitely have a friendship forming based on some external and internal similarities that are developing into a relationship that will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant.

I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated. In fact, many times I felt I was taken advantage of and that hurts. I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for her and knows how to be appreciative.

For instance, if I were to make breakfast for my woman just incase she wakes up late from bed,she could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss. Or perhaps sending me a card for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you.' I'm very appreciative of what people do for me and I reward them in my own little ways. To me, it's the little things that mean a great deal to me.

What does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a woman who can display her affections for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy. And a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate.

This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are many woman out there that are set in their ways.

They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advices. Stubborn woman are a major turn off for me. I like a woman who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open minded.

I think being receptive brings about sensitivity as well. A woman who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with.

I would say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring. If I'm sad, I'd like for her to be able to comfort me and cheer me up. She doesn't has to do much, but just knowing that she's there solacing me is more than good enough.

Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone I once knew wouldn't not stand up for me, even after she told me she loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my Girlfriend or my Wife, and I would always stand up for her. One thing I will always do for my woman is to protect her. I would like to meet someone who will be protective of me. Sorry i type too Much E-mails just that i didn't have any other thing to do than reply you with my thoughts .

Thanks,



Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Dearest XXX,

I wrote this and I felt i should share this with you.

"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can't wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you're quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life."

I hope this is part of what you want?



Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hello Sweetie,

How are you doing?..i am so glad to read from you and i agree with everything you said in your email.

I do really enjoy talking and emailing you and also i believe Money and power only last the hour, but friendship and love withstand the sky above, i mean i am happy sitting in front of my laptop and writing to you.

I am honest, loving, gentle, affectionate and have good friendship. I feel that a WOMAN is GOD's undeserved gift to MAN and she is supposed to be loved, reverenced, protected, respected, and cherished..I will love my woman for who she is, spoil her with love and lifetime happiness,and let her know just how much she mean to me, by the little things I do or say to make her feel special. While at the same time she treats me in the same way with love and respect, our home will be one of the best home ever that springs fruit of happiness, the only voice we will raise in our house is the voice of thanks to God, we will stay happy forever because we are so connected to each other.. I believe this is what you would want too with the right man?

I also have a pet name Wendy she is a cute dog..lil but Big....German shepherd. I have more funny questions for you check below :

- What animal resembles you most and why?
- If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?
- Your idea of a dream date is?

I'm really enjoying this, i will be waiting to read from you soon.



Joseph.

He'll adjust his format when communicating with someone who hates religion:

Thanks for being in contact,

I have never been married and i have a 27 years old Son who is married and living on his own.

Just to let you know that i am not the type that send the God bless you garbage, I am looking for true love and a woman to spend the rest of my life with so i believe we can work things out together if you would like?

So tell me more about you and what you do?

Will adjust format for disasters too:

Thanks for the email, I am glad to read from you.
It gladdens my heart to have an email from you, makes me smile.

I think it would be a very good thing for us to learn about each other and thanks for understanding the fact that i have a child out of wedlock, I really have the intention of getting married to my Son's mom but she died upon giving birth to him which made me not to search until my son is mature enough for me to look for someone.

As far as what i do, I am an Auditor for the British American Tobacco(BAT) and I used to audit for them 2 times in a year(beginning and ending of the year), Per auditing is usually 2 weeks so I work full time for them; 4 weeks in a year with good pay so the other time of the year.. I used it in Volunteering work all over the world and to the less privilege countries which is what i have always wanted and I am glad my dream came through.

Right now, I am in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia to pay homage to the family of the deceased of the Missing MH 370 Malaysian Airline(you can google about it).. I feel their pain and i am giving my full support to their family which i believe to be out of here sometimes in April and if things got to work out fine between us, I wouldn't mind getting out of here for you.

In my spare time, I like to walk around the inner harbor, I love sports,watching movies and go to the movies ,live music, and of course, I like to have fun I'm usually up for anything new and fun. I love the ocean, walking the beach, watching the sun rise or set, watching the stars, cuddling by a fire, camping, fishing (I just don't put the bait on), walking in the woods/along the ocean, or in the mountains, good conversation, or watching a good movie. I am not too much into TV, and I do like shopping. I like reading, and am an aspiring writer. I am a father of 1 grown son, and expecting a grandchild soon. I am an independent man and am willing to make the right woman the happiest she ever wanted to be. I am not perfect, but from the inside out, I am. I am not ugly, just not perfect.

I like cats and I have a pet name Wendy she is a cute German shepherd Dog, you sure would love to meet her.

How long have you been searching? and Is their anyone else you're conversing with right now aside me? As for me, I feel comfortable writing to you right now and I would say you're the only one i feel good writing to right now, So let me know what you think?

Always,
Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hello Honey,

Thanks so much for the email its so nice to read from you.

I am glad things is working out good.. I really do like the way you answered the questions i asked, i totally agree with everything...smiles..as for me my answer will be :

- I would say "CAT" Cat are caring,loving,easy going...and they like to be cuddle, i like to be cuddle as well..lol...feels good...

- About my work, it will be to wake Up in the morning, clean everywhere and wake my woman with a Passionate kiss walk her to the bathroom and cook her breakfast while she was taken her bath so she don't go out late when on appointment...Other way round, the Auditor work i am doing if Perfect because i derive Happiness from it.

- One nice afternoon me and you walking on the beach holding each other and talking, after then, in the evening go to a cool restaurant or Cinema, watch movie, or have a Nice Dinner with a Red Candle light.

I don't know how you feel about this email thing, but to me its Great, and i keep getting big smile on my face each time i read from you...I have more question for you...I will be waiting for answers :

- If you could go back and change one thing in your past, what would it be?
- If you were granted three wishes, what would you wish for?
- If you won the lottery, how would you spend the money?
- What one thing about your self would you most like to change?
- What is the one thing about your self you most like?

Those are another set of questions, i do really want to learn more about you...I wait to read from you soon.

Love Always,

Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hello Baby,

Thanks so much for the email, so nice and its my Pleasure to read from
you this wonderful email from you.

I was not expecting you to answer this email this wonderfully, i am
touched and i am Intrigued, you are a strong woman, and i take it you
are a woman of your word..I pray all what you wish and want GOD will
Provide for you, and remember always be a Good woman, so you will be
reward good by both God and People. My own answers would be :

- If you could go back and change one thing in your past, what would
it be? It would be when i lost my Mother, and also i would like to see
my father someday, and only if GOD can be merciful to return my
darling,loving,caring Mother...But i know that wont work, but its just
what i would like to be changed in my LIFE.

- If you were granted three wishes, what would you wish for? One i
would ask for Good Health, secondly Good family and Make the world a
Better place to Live, no Stress no War, No Killing.

- If you won the lottery, how would you spend the money? Really i have
never thought about this myself, lol...I just feel i should ask, i
don't even play lottery, but if i would win, I would Invest for the
Future of the Children, and also make a Big Place for the Home Less
People. I would like to be like that Man who willed half of his
Property to the Motherless Home, cant remember His name, but would
love to be like that.

- Well really i dont think there is anything about me i would love to
change, i dont smoke i dont drink, i have never been to the bar or
club i am just a easy going man who just seek for a real woman and i
found it interesting with you.

- What i like about myself, i am Gentle, Loving, Caring...Plus i have
a very soft heart and i easily fall in Love...i like it but at same
time i need to be careful.

I hope i have answered mine very good, thats is the best way i can
describe, till i wait to read from you again. How was your day going
so far?

Love Always.



Joseph.

also here
http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewto ... 27#p376327

[AlanJones]

Hello Baby,

How are you doing?....I want to believe everything is fine with you over there as i am doing just wonderful, except the fact that its has been a crazy and busy day...:d...But its cool anyway....you bring me Happiness, Joy when ever i read from you, and all this is like a Magic to me, i guess it because i am new to it...But really i feel great, and i have enjoyed all the exchanges of questions and answer more or less like quiz...lol... i do still have more questions for you...I hope you can see them below...I i wait for your answers...

- Do you believe in love?....
- Have you ever been in love?..
- Do you think love still exist and that you will fall in love someday again?...
- Do you think you can fall in love with me?..
- Do you think i am the type of your man?.
- Is there anything that you would like for that special someone in your life to do for you?
- What is the most romantic thing that you have done for someone?
- What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you?

Those are the questions above, tough huh...hahah you had better answer them right and correctly so i can give you Excellent Mark.....I cant wait to meet you soon, well the time is almost near i would let you know about my coming back...I hope you missing me as i am missing you here also?...I await your answers, and i will answer mine back also.

I wait to read from you soon.

Love Always,

Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hello Baby,

How are you doing?....I want to believe everything is fine with you over there as i am doing just wonderful, except the fact that its has been a crazy and busy day...:d...But its cool anyway....you bring me Happiness, Joy when ever i read from you, and all this is like a Magic to me, i guess it because i am new to it...But really i feel great, and i have enjoyed all the exchanges of questions and answer more or less like quiz...lol... i do still have more questions for you...I hope you can see them below...I i wait for your answers...

- Do you believe in love?....
- Have you ever been in love?..
- Do you think love still exist and that you will fall in love someday again?...
- Do you think you can fall in love with me?..
- Do you think i am the type of your man?.
- Is there anything that you would like for that special someone in your life to do for you?
- What is the most romantic thing that you have done for someone?
- What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you?

Those are the questions above, tough huh...hahah you had better answer them right and correctly so i can give you Excellent Mark.....I cant wait to meet you soon, well the time is almost near i would let you know about my coming back...I hope you missing me as i am missing you here also?...I await your answers, and i will answer mine back also.

I wait to read from you soon.

Love Always,

Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hello Sweetness,

Wow, what a beautiful thing to see you answer all the questions...is this good? tell me if you enjoying this, really you have not been in anyway boring to me, and i hope i am not boring to you as well....This are my own answer to the questions...hehehe better dont think too much about me if you read it..lol...Enjoy my own answer below :

- Do you believe in love?....Yes, I do still believe that love is out there somewhere. Given that God has made someone for us all. That one special person for us to spend the rest of our natural life with.

- Have you ever been in love?..Trick question.. I am not really sure, That I can answer that one But i will say yes. For one is suppose to love the one marries. I can say that I have not felt like I really wanted to be with someone for the rest of my life that I was truefully in love. But, I do look forward to finding real love but as things go between us, I can say am falling in Love with you already.

- Do you think love still exist and that you will fall in love someday again?...I do believe that love does still exists.

- Do you think you can fall in love with me?..I think that given time and really getting to know one another that is something that could happen which has already being happening. If it is God's will. His will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Really i am falling already because you are so sweet and i have really enjoyed all my emails with you.

- Do you think i am the type of your woman?. I think you are a smart and caring woman. There are a lot of things that would go in to deciding that. We have not even seen each other. So, who's to say I am your type of man. We know what we write another and the emails are great. But, it takes a lot to really get to know someone and make the call if they are meant to be together. I can tell from your emails that I would like to get to know you better and see if you truly are but i can tell you am already in love with you.

- Yes what i will expect from my woman to do is to be real with me and supportive to me, No Lies or Deceit, i want to confide in her in everything i do.

- Well really my last date with this lady from Ireland, i gladly welcome her from ireland and i took her to dinner and we had a nice wonderful time, untill things changed..will sure do like to talk about that later

I wait to read from you sweetness..have a wonderful day, and be good and take care of yourself for me. What are you doing today sweetness?

Love Always,

Joseph.

[AlanJones]

Hi again,

Thanks for the email again, i got a smile on my face reading from you again, thanks so much and i appreciate taking the time to write me. God Bless You.

Well, it was quite a pretty hectic day for me...my day was going pretty stressful, and hectic, but its okay, have been on the street here going around from home to home, and organization to organization, raising donation for a little boy named Joseph, an Orphan who is got the kidney transplant surgery and he need to be treated as soon as possible, We have been on the street raising donations for the little boy cause, and all the workers, and member also donated some few amount.They still need some more funds to take care of the boy, you know we would really appreciate if you can Participates in the donation also, but thats if you want to anyway... and God will reward who ever assist the needy in a mysterious way, and i believe whatever you might want to donate will help save this poor kid life in every way . Let me know if you would love to donate???

I will look forward to hear from you and Please let me know what you think about my email and also about the donation for the little boy cause, LETS SAVE A LIFE!

I wait to read from you, take care and be good have a nice day.

God Bless You,

Joseph.

[AlanJones]

He's in pain and needs to undergo kidney transplant surgery.. I can send you his pics if you want?