Hi ,
Sweetheart I feel real good checking my mail to read from you again, you are the reason to my happiness now, I am happy you are interested in learning more about me, I have been single for years, because am yet to find that special one to share my life with. I am presently in (West Africa) Lagos, Nigeria. is not just a visit, am here on business trip, am here to buy gold, sculptures, textiles and some paintings, it is cheaper down here compared to other part of the world, I inherit this business from my late Mom, it has been an interesting business. About my family it???s a long story to tell and touching that make me share tears whenever I remembered the past. I will keep this short, It's been a mixed past for me because of my lost ones, I don't know much about my Dad`s family until his death, my Dad kept all information away from me about his family for some personal reason which made me decide to come to Lagos for this trip apart from my business, my Mom was much of a loner, she never really kept friends apart of business partners and she kinda imbibed that kinda lifestyle into me. I grew up never really making much friends in school, I was glued to my studies. My Mom was never close to her relatives and because none of them stay in the States, she never bothered about them...all these really affected me because when I grew up I didn't really have to zest to get along with people, Last 6years I encountered a turning point, I lost my Mom, I was opened up to the reality of the outside world living my life by myself with my one and only best friend who finally betrayed me. Oh...a moment of silent, I miss my Mom today because of the courage and advises she use to give to me about life, but I am glad I am who I am today.
About my past relationship, I have been into 2 relationships and those are also my only sexual partners I have ever had. 2 of my relationships ended because of my partners betrayal and infidelity (cheating) . I know this sounds strange to you but as I wrote above I have not been sexually active now for 2 years, ever since then I live my life through the word of God and through my spirituality, and I refuse to have sex with someone if I am not in a relationship with them and my last relationship ended over 2 years ago. My reasoning which I understand is very strange in today's world, but my belief is my heart and soul, and the passion that is in it is very unique and special, so I made the decision and made a promise to God that I would not be sexually active for the sake of just wanting sex, or to have sex for someone else???s own self gratification. Knowing the passion that is contained in my heart and soul is very unique, I made the decision to abstain from sex because I want this special gift to be shared with the person I am dedicating the rest of my life to, as my Wife and the mother of his children.
My views in establishing a relationship in today's world, I believe that in a relationship each person has to be willing to learn the other well enough and make an effort to know what the other wants and needs and whether that makes them content or not. I belief I'm a blessing to any woman that deserves me, keep her happy and cheer her up when she is sad, comfort her, listen to her and be there for her at all times, keep her warm and keep her heart beating at a smooth peace, won't let her down, l will keep her in my mind all the time and will be loyal to that special one,will not fight, but talks her way out of any confrontation, stands up for what she believes in and stands strong by her words. I believe a woman should be treated like a queen . I have a great sense of humor,honest and very sensitive and caring for a woman's needs. I believe that if couples are true friends you will get true love, and they will do what ever it takes to make each other happy.
I can cook pretty good, I love red wine, French table wine and garlic bread. I've been working out more regularly than I had been, and eat healthy food...I don't do drugs, and I like who I am.. Although I think a terrific woman would bring out the best in me...I'm a believer in God who pray every blessed day , I am a good catholic , I attend church weekly, and try to do the right things every day...I dont worry about what people think of me...I know how to treat a woman well still yet I was betrayed by my own best friend, the longest relationship I had ended when I found out that he was seeing my best friend behind my back. shes now engaged and I wish her the best luck. That was the single biggest struggle of my life. I cared about her with all my heart, but it obviously wasn`t right...my goals and dreams will always remain the same, I want to live a good life, happy home blessed with beautiful kids with someone that believes in unconditional love.
I am really excited opening myself up with my past. But we all have one and we must learn and grow from our mistakes or they will overtake us in our own folly.
Thanks again for writing me and reading my message to you. You take the time to give your messages a personal touch and I really appreciate the effort. I can only hope that I don't end up being a disappointment to you. I can hardly wait for your next message. You've really made my day. As I'm ending this email I'm mentally giving you a hug. Have a great day and Take care sweetie.
"For we know that if our earthly house of this tabernacle were dissolved, we have a building of God, an house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens" (2 Cor.5:1).
John
i was born in Spain Madrid,spent sometime in Madrid,I live in virginia,west mclean and l Obtained my degree in the University virginia ,I find very much peace and tranquility there .I am into the Sales of Fabrics,Opral Arts and Gold chess .i was born in July 25th 1985 so i m 27yrs old, I`m 5`7"125 with a athletic build , mentally table, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening, God Fearing, and a positive person.I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener... I love to play golf and I enjoy chilling` with my friends/family , I like swimming , fishing, listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling , going bowling and also a good cook.I am a family oriented person and There is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.
