by jimbo2018
Wed Jul 04, 2018 3:36 pm
I chatted with someone on a hookup site and then moved to Kik, where I sent nude photos of myself. Yesterday, he threatened to blackmail me with photos and everything he taped me doing. He listed names of 4 people I know on a public group site, where my name and photo are listed. I told him that I'm not ashamed of those photos, and that I'm not afraid of those people seeing the photos (which is mostly true). He did not ask for anything specific--only made the threat, and the chat ended with another threat.
I deleted my accounts on the hookup site and Kik. I also disconnected the phone line I gave him. So, there is no direct way for him to reach me, but I know the old phone number is likely easy to find via people search sites. I have tightened security settings on Facebook and Linkedin. For any sites that were using the same photo as the public group site, I deleted or replaced.
I feel stupid and unsafe, but I'm trying to hold it together. I'm now going through all my other accounts and eliminating any similar user names, deleting unused accounts, and changing passwords.
I also filed a short complaint with the IC3.
What else should I be doing?
Thank you for maintaining this board.