A person using these photos has a new profile on OKCupid AND PlentyOfFish; he's using the name Steve or Steve Smith
OKCupid username is: astonomatic (last online this morning at 8:30 am)
Two pictures that have been posted here are in common on both profiles (the one on the escalator showing three other people and the one of him in an airport skyway). The others on OKCupid are different ones, but the same person.
astonomatic
36 - Monroe, WA
Straight, Man, Single, 6’ 3”, Fit
White, Speaks English, Attended University
Never smokes, Drinks socially, Doesn’t have kids
"astonomatic
My self-summary
I love meeting new people and getting to know them better each day. What I do most of my time when I'm not working is exercise, travel, hang out with friends, family, and go shopping. It's not weird at all for a man to like shopping right ?
I'm very affectionate in and out of the house so that's a must if we want to get along. My type of woman is curvy, rocks heels, and athletic. Of course no one is perfect but that's just my preference. I'm mostly described as funny, nice, sweet, romantic, and a bad boy. That's all I'll leave for now, you can find out the rest.
I'd say the best way to tame me or lock me down is to have a round booty. Then I'm all yours.
And to avoid the "I'm not looking for a hook up" lecture, I'm not interested in that either.
You should message me if
You can cook in just an apron and heels for me
Also I put a fake location for privacy reasons so if I message you I'm probably close."
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Plenty Of Fish profile name: totallynotsuperhttp://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?pro ... =106054939"totallynotsuper: I don't grow on trees
About Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
City Your neighbor, Alabama
Details 37 year old Male, 6' 3" (191cm), Christian - other
Ethnicity Caucasian, Capricorn
Intent totallynotsuper wants to date but nothing serious.
Education Bachelors Degree
Personality Adventurer
Profession Stress reliever
I am Seeking a Woman
For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed
Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially
Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single
Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown
Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes
Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 5 years
How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets No Pets
Interests
Traveling
Food
Cars
Sight seeing
World
Friends
Family
About Steve
I love meeting new people and getting to know them better each day. What I do most of my time when I'm not working is exercise, travel, hang out with friends, family, and go shopping. It's not weird at all for a man to like shopping right ?
I'm very affectionate in and out of the house so that's a must if we want to get along. My type of woman is curvy, rocks heels, and athletic. Of course no one is perfect but that's just my preference. I'm mostly described as funny, nice, sweet, romantic, and a bad boy. That's all I'll leave for now, you can find out the rest.
I'd say the best way to tame me or lock me down is to have a round booty. Then I'm all yours.
First Date
Make love until sunrise"
He messaged me Thursday morning 12/31/2015 on OKCupid and quickly suggested we switch over to kik for chatting. He was flirty and suggestive, but not crude or rude about any of it. He came across charming and flirty. However, he asked almost immediately if I lived alone, which I didn't answer until we had been talking a lot the next day.
I'm not sure if this is the same person who ran the scam above, but it is someone using the same profile pictures, and there are a lot of them. There were 5 on the OKCupid profile and he sent me two others and there were two other different ones for his Kik and Skype profiles, which were both named AstonDBS. He is thorough with his profiles as well. On kik, his profile picture is another picture of the same person in ANOTHER airport and he sent me two other pics shirtless in a bathroom mirror. As I said, he was very flirty and was basically trying to get me to agree to meet to have sex. He asked if we could have a Skype session before meeting in person, which I foolishly agreed to. But his camera never worked, it appeared he was trying to get it to work several times, but it only showed a black screen as if the lights were off. During our chatting, when I asked his name, he said it was Steve and when we started the Skype session, his ID showed as Steve Smith. Also, during the Skype, he did not speak, he only used the on screen chat to talk, although he could hear and see me.
In retrospect, here are the red flags I missed:
1) He admits to using a fake location "for privacy reasons" when in reality there's no reason to do that on dating sites; if you want to remain private you can just post photos of yourself that don't show your full face clearly and don't post anything personally identifiable like a username or email address that can be traced
2) He almost immediately asked if i lived alone, and kept asking until I told him (he later mentioned that other women he had spoken to weren't hesitant to tell him that right away, attempting to shame or manipulate me)
3) I misidentified the location in one of his pictures as my local airport and he concurred (I later checked images of that airport skyway and discovered it was not my local airport)
4) He wanted to Skype before he would meet me (I suspect if I declined he just would have kept trying to convince me and put off meeting in person)
5) He didn't ask any personal questions, even my name (but didn't avoid answering some personal questions when asked, very smart)
6) Once we started the Skype session, his camera wouldn't work and he used on screen chat rather than talking - I should have stopped right there; I asked him several times to try and make it work and then finally, I said i wished his camera worked and he logged off saying he was going to try restarting his phone. That was when I stopped hearing back from him.
I don't expect I will hear back from him again and I don't intend to try to keep communicating with him. I haven't indicated that I've figured out he's a scammer/fake and I won't tell him that if he does communicate with me.