Almost Scammed

I RECEIVED THIS EMAIL YESTERDAY FROM MY SCAMMER ... HE NOW HAS STARTED CALLING ME BUT I THINK AFTER MENTIONING THE POLICE, HE WILL FINALLY LEAVE ME ALONE? AFTER ALL THIS I CANNOT BELIEVE HE KEEPS TRYING!!!!

Hello honey,
I am so so sorry i told you i was gonna come back .....But you could never had imagined what happened ....It very funny and silly....LOL
You know i told you i was gonna go have a shower and come back so we can continue talking but as soon as i had my shower i just sat on the bed naked ....I just slept off and till this morning ....Very funny Lol and silly me
I am so sorry ..i guess i have over worked myself yesterday to the soldier training and drilling and i never rested before coming online cos i was missing you and wanted to chat with......You know just the thought of you and looking at you pics drives me crazy and keeps me going.

You are one in a million and one of a kind i have never seen or imagine before but i thank God he brought you into my life....And i wanna say thank you for accepting me with my imperfection....

I LOVE YOU
Anthony

NB: Honey i never got no email from you...why is that honey ...i guess your heart is still heavy towards me and there is no love yet.

Scammers' persistence is positively amazing. He may continue to try, even after the mention of the police. He knows the police can't do anything, because he is not in their jurisdiction anyway. Once they have found someone they think will pay, scammers hang on tightly. If he does try, just ignore his phone calls, and don't answer his email.

Thank you Each day is getting better and much easier...thank goodness for you all here at scamwarners! So far today has been nice and quiet, but don't expect it to stay that way for long.

In late summer Mochagirl, even when I swat a wasp, it still comes back if it gets a whiff of something to feed on. It also increases a scammer's prestige that he isn't just sending out hundreds of unanswered mails a day. The fact that he's actually got contact with a potential victim gives him 'bragging rights' among his internet cafe pals.

I can't believe it! I think I'm talking to this guy right now. He is calling himself Sgt. Anthony Handy, claims his middle name is Carlos and that he's from Lake City, Florida. He claims to be in the army In Qatar. He sent me lots of pictures of himself and his daughter. He claims he lost his wife when his daughter was born. I met this gentleman on a dating site when he emailed me and we started a conversation. The dialog is choppy like you described, but he claims he isn't very good on the computer. Its the third day and he claims he wants to marry me, buy me a house, and that he has 2 million dollars in the bank, but can't access it because its over in the states. He told me how much he makes each month pay and claims he has been stationed there in Qatar for 2 years and 6 months and will be there until he retires in about 3 years. He has asked me to apply for his leave from the military, he tells me it will go faster that way. He has sent me about 10 pictures of himself and his daughter, my guess is that its probably not really him. He's tried calling me several times, but never actually got through. He text message my phone several times with no problem though---makes you wonder though. I felt this was a scam by the second day and did a web search on his name and found this posting. So much of what you are telling me is very similar. He calls me his queen constantly, tells me how much he loves me all the time. Tonight he asked me to send him 250.00 so he can buy a computer and to send it to him by western union. I thought to myself, a man who claims to have millions and he wants me to send him money? I think not. I am actually talking to this man on line as we speak. I would like to know if it is truly the same person and if so how can we stop him from doing this to anyone else? I have his emails and pics I can send, just tell me where to send it to.

Extremely Thankful You are here!

Removed name -Jillian

Welcome dsrtedlt.

Please stop all contact with the scammer immediately. Also, please do not let him know about ScamWarners or his info posted here. If he becomes aware, he'll change what information he's using and it will be harder for future victims to find out he's a scammer.

All you've described are very typical tactics of a scammer impersonating military personnel. There is an informational topic here: viewtopic.php?f=13&t=6527
Everything he has told you is a lie.

You can post any information you have from this scammer right here on this thread. Make sure not to include any of your own information and let us know if you have questions.

i wish there was pictures on here i do believe i have the same scammer not sure he says he is in the army has a daughter he asked me to send money to his mom for his daughters birthday monday mmmm but i said no i dont know you like that so im not doing it he told me he is in iraq getting out next month his daughter is in Nigeria with his mom man i wish i could see the pictures of him

Welcome Baebegirl1,

What you are describing is definitely a scammer, but if you look around this forum, you will see that there are literally hundreds of scammers posted on this forum alone, using the same storylines and general scenarios. They use photos of real soldiers copied from online, and there are literally thousands of real soldiers whose names and/or likenesses have been used in scams.

Just to show how big this is, here is one blog containing just a few of the photos used--for every posted photo, there are dozens that are not. http://militarygear.com/asp/2010/07/28/the-wall-of-shame/

If you post the name and email address of your scammer as well as his first couple of messages (a script he will reuse), you can help others to avoid being scammed. You can also post the photos you have--just follow the instructions in the link in my signature.

ok im posting his emails to me i new he was scamming i googled him and found him on this site and 75 other dating sites he has 4 profiles on black planet alone were is the real anthony handy???

first email:Hello Baby,
How are you doing?I am very happy to read from you and will be more happy to know more and i will like to share with you more information about me that will help us to start knowing each other better ….I was giving birth to a wonderful family . My dad was a white man that married an African woman due to his service and work in Malaysia when he was younger, he was in the marine until he left and become civil engineer. I was their only son and child. I'm very simple, caring, honest and self independent..I got married and enjoyed my matrimonial home. I and my then wife gave birth to a girl and she's so beautiful and I love her wholeheartedly. Well, I and my wife lived happily and I worked as an Engineer before I later joined the Army 18yrs ago. I fix and inspects Cars and trucks, but I have special interest for the Military because my dad was once in the Military before He retired and started His Civil Engineer Career.My late wife died some years ago due to Kidney cancer and I became a widow. Since then, it has been one bad experience after another; I also lost my dad last year. I really loved my wife and dad because of the relationship between us.. …She had loved me with all her heart and she had loved me for me. She was so caring and possessed all of the qualities a woman should possess. She was so much an angel that I treasured her so much but God knows why that happened to me. I also give thanks to God that she gave me a beautiful daughter sonia…I just need someone that can love me for me and we will love each other for the rest of our life, because i know life is too short to play with…I have learn t to leave my past behind and move forward to the future, though my past makes part of my life and I need to plan for my future. I need love again in my life. I had love once in my life and I need a woman that can be mine on a long term goal. I hope I will still find love someday soon, that all I believe and I'm so optimistic about it.I am ready to date from any part of the globe. I need to meet my true love, because we don't know where our love is at the moment and we have to keep searching for it anywhere, any time and any way we can.Presently, I'm active in the US Army and been stationed at Fort Lewis, Barrack Washington State . I live alone on base but currently in Afghan. serving my deployment while my girl lives with my Mom , I did`nt tell you much about my mom, My parent divorced when i was 20yrs, mom married another man after some years, she was happy with him until he passed away, He was an African man also and told mom to go with him to his home country when he was sick, because he wished to die in his homeland, after he passed away mom remained there ,she said she feels him close to her there and she also get the chance to put flowers on his graveyard always.....I guess she is fine with that,so i let her remain there, she is such a wonderful mom and have always supported me…. I planned to retire from the Army soon in order to start a family life I really need a woman to come up to and be when I will be back to the state, a woman that will be mine forever and that will cherish me for me….Thank you for spending your time reading this long note/essay about me….if you think we are still on the same looking page let me know so we can know the way forward…

i played along with him told him i wasnt having no more kids what ever then he finally got to it his daughter in nigieria with his mom needed 200 dollars for her birthday monday smdh i was like cant do it dont know you like that he said oh but i love you wait i got that email to


Hey Robin,
How are you doing,baby i have no problem with you have no more kids,I wish you were here to see how excited i am to received your email message,You sound so sincere and i am really excited about all of this and see where it goes. You are such a nice beautiful woman whom i would like to get to know,i am still wondering why such an amazing woman like you never found the right man for yourself. Well, i will like to get to know why??. . By the way, how are your families? Hope they are doing good and when last have you heard from them last... Are they close to you in communications or do they live close to you that you go to see them day by day????. Well, i am just a very caring man and i do really like kids alot because they are God gift from the heaven so parents are to do anything to make them happy and be a very good child,i hope u wont bother abt the distance between us, distance does not matter in a relationship, what really matter most is the HEART and FEELINGS and the distance is only there for us to get to know each other much better before getting to meet each other in person then see how things develop. I am a person who looks beyond what may be the obvious. Character is worth more than flashiness. I really would like to get to know you more and sometimes chat with you then see how things may work out. By the way, What kind of dates do u prefer??Well as for me i prefer private dates, with my woman and myself alone. I guess i like the private moments when we can share intimate things. Talk about plans, desires, feelings. As I said before, I'm quite physical. I love to hug and touch and be touched. I love to show affection to my woman and i love it when she's very affectionate with me. I love women and i always desire to respect them. When i have been with a woman, i have never taken advantage of them. Even when they want me to be physical with them, I always want only to honor and respect them.When i find the woman who i feel is my soul mate, i look forward to when we can spend time alone, cuddling on the sofa, watching tv/films. Making out, caressing and kissing. I can't wait to have sex with my future wife. I am a sexual person and i love the thought of being intimate with her in every way. I want a wife who feels the same way. Who has the same sexual appetite as i do and desires to be as intimate as i do. But all of this must be within the context of a relationship. So i will protect the sanctity of my future marriage. It doesn't matter to me if my future wife has a sexual history. As far as I'm concerned, when we marry we start from fresh. Her past is not of importance to me.Can you tell me more about yourself??????I hope you enjoy reading this, I will be awaiting your reply please make sure you get back to me on my email



hello honey,
baby this is just a way to scare you away from me,baby i am so real,baby you have my words,i will make it upto you,evevrything i have told you is real..baby you have to trust me because my heart is so set on you.i love you so much..my love for you is so real and pure..baby please trust me because if not i will be so heart broken..

i love you so much

your love

anthony

wish i new how to do that so you can see were the email came from can you help me i posted them here he has tried to scam alot of people so sad thanks for this lovely site

robin

here is the code to one of the photos




Edited image to deface it. ~Bubbles

Welcome to Scamwarners, baebegirl1!

wish i new how to do that so you can see were the email came from

Instructions for finding the email headers are in my sig. below. Please remove your name and email address and then post the headers here.

thanks it couldnt tell me were the emails were coming from but he stopped emailing me once i told him i wasnt sending no money to nigieria please lol i found the same pictures on so many different sites but in the comments women are on to him smh were is the real person the scammed these pictures from thats a shame that there name is being used like this

thanks robin

britt nelson/[email protected]
Hi Robin,
How are you doing tonight? I am glad you wrote to me and reading your short letter puts a smile on my face to let me know your feelings, it shows you are really interested in knowing me, Its good we get it started with some introduction so as to know who and what we want in a relationship. As you know that its myriads that someone has lots of interested women in here but its my choice to choose one, the one my heart goes for, someone i can lean on to give me the love i have always wanted from my partner. So tell me more about yourself and everything you need to tell me about yourself...and lets see how it goes from there OK.

As you already know am Widower and a father of a 10yrs old lovely girl, my late Wife passed away to cancer 5yrs ago and i have been single since then... I deal on Antiques, I love to listen to music, Music is one of my hubby: Paul Taylor, Kem, Gerald Albright, Rick Braun, Eric Darius, Anthony Hamilton, Miles Davis, Herbie Hancock, and of course, Luther, to name a few. I also enjoy live sports: Nuggets, Broncos, Rockies, and I even stop to watch Little League sometimes when I am bored at home. I am a kind, passionate person. I have a real heart for children and animals. I enjoy the outdoors, fishing, trap shooting, hiking and fast cars are fun...LOL




So tell me,,Do you have kids??? ..Do you smoke?...What is your drinking habit?...What do you enjoy doing most...your favorite sports...and all that.. well i love kids though, i would really appreciate getting to know u more and i hope we could be a good set for a relationship. I was deeply hurt when i lost wife and i guess that will never happen again....Have u ever cheated on your lover?........and how will u treat me if eventually u have me? i love to ask much question and i hope u understand why.........I really like to be treated like a king by my partner and i treat her as my Queen too.....i have never cheated but i have been cheated on...i felt so bad so i have not been into any relationship for some years now...I want you to know that am not here to talk to you about general things such as partying, the weather, sports, e.c.t. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential. And I'm using this medium to make you understand that I'm seriously seeking my Right woman, a Long term relationship and to make a peaceful family if its God's wish.

I look forward to hearing from you soon!

Love Always
Britt.
funny they all use the same dang line
heres a picture/






here is the email analysis

Header Analysis Quick Report
Originating IP: 175.139.31.252
Originating ISP: Telekom Malaysia Berhad
City: Petaling Jaya
Country of Origin: Malaysia
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