by Ina
Mon Mar 10, 2014 12:05 am
Hi blanky78,
Geeeh its been almost 5 years ago when this happened... I was a good experienced, lucky it did not really cost me much... What really helped me is the presence of mind and the fact that I was not really in romantic relationship with him. Those material things that almost parted was to help him out of the goodness of my heart.. But just as I send the items, instinct told me, something is wrong. Out of nowhere I got a pop messege "have you been scammed"Thats when the red lights flashing ...and this site and romance.com, also manage to help me clear my mind.
I have to admit, it was heart breaking to know that scammers will even used the name of the Lord for their on gain. He first contacted me through Christians Online that i was a member then.
Yes, I did played the game of being truly falling for him, crying all those sorts every time he calls, until such time, finally the items have been recovered. Still keep asking why did I recalled the goods. I maintain lies, just like him.. played innocent and no nothing about the recalled. I was not ashamed to admit it to my family, and friends and warmed them if they get contacted, to confirm it with me, personally first. My only disappointment is I reported this to the Federal Police here, they weren't interested. Its a real shame. Luckily International mail fraud division actioned it. They tried all the possible way to retrieved those items. I say, there are still good people out there. And the Lord has not abandon me.
inspite of that, I still go on chat room, IM chats.. but this time I think I'm more aware and wiser when chatting with strangers. I don't get attached with people I chat with. Another thing I maintain my details private (actually my profile information is my dogs details).
As for people who asked for money or help I tell them, I'm not a charitable institution and i need more help than they do, after that I kick them out of my chat.
In summary, I've learned my lesson from experience. Thank you.
