by andee2103
Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:57 am
To Smith Jones; I can't go back through past conversations as had to take my tablet back to factory setting because of a problem, and we really don't email much. I can however remember everything and no he gives me much more information than I do him, so that doesn't fit. I've even gone so far as to check out people that are his friends on his FB page, that includes one friend, a woman who I have become very good friends with too, I have no doubts about her at all, she is real and lives in Texas and has known him for many years. Through him I have experienced his brothers traditional Igbo marriage ceremony by video. I met his brothers, father and sister, and many other relatives and friends. He has told me all about his life while I have kept most of mine to myself. His oldest brother pays for his post graduate university studies. I have seen their home which was the home of his father and mother before she died in 2007. I have the address, his phone number, we do talk on the phone also with him calling me the majority of the time. We share a mutual affection, of that I feel quite sure of, and he doesn't use any of those phrases you told me about. My initial doubts came from the scare stories about Nigerian men, which there are a lot of, the longer I know him the more I see that he's as real as you and me. I have been keeping my eyes wide open believe me, and kept him at arms length for the first few weeks. Thank you so much though, I really appreciate what you've said all of you. I came back to see if any more answers had been posted, I'm nosy. Again thanks.