by chomsky84
Fri Dec 04, 2015 9:37 am
chepo wrote:Yea I know. But I say family because that's all they put down where five names and those names on my friends list aren't in that order you would have had to scroll through the whole thing to pick them out. And those were the only names they listed down. But I've deactivated my Facebook but before that deleted all my friends.
Hello Chepo,
DONT PAY ANOTHER DIME!
Worst case: they'll send it to only one person (or maybe more) after which they will lose their leverage over you and move to their next victim.
Except for the day it happened, I totally ignored the blackmailer and never replied and never paid anything.
Result: They sent it to my sis but they knew I was still going to ignore them so they never bothered me again afterwards.
SO DONT PAY AND CUT OFF ALL COMMUNICATION WITH THEM. If you dont, they will continue to keep asking for money. You need to show that you dont give a rat's ass!
Also cheer up bro. Even if your sister sees the vid, she will forget about it the next day and you will all move on.
I come from a semi-liberal muslim family, and for my sister it was initially a shock. She saw the vid two weeks after the guy delivered it as messages from strangers get delivered to the "Other" folder in their Inbox. She simply asked me she received something messed up and asked me what the hell is wrong with me. I explained one of my exgf with whom I had a long distance thing is blackmailing me. So she understood. Atleast she didnt think I was showing my tools to random strangers.
Even if you tell your sis the truth, they know we're men and we have certain weaknesses and they all understand. It will be a one off thing and will go away quickly. We're not celebrities that this will end up on any public forum. So just relax.