by Katharina
Mon Aug 08, 2011 7:56 am
Welcome kaygb5310!
I'm so sorry you have become a victim of a criminal.
Please protect yourself against this heartbreak. Block him from your messenger, add all the email addresses he is using to your spam filter, don't accept his phone calls - just disappear. Do not confront him and tell him you found out, he will try to lure you back or to find out what mistakes he made; you don't want him to become a better scammer.
He might try for weeks to get back to you, but eventually he will move on to other victims.
This will be a hard time for you. I do hope you have friends who will be with you and support you through this process.
Best wishes!
EDIT: One more thing: He might have passed on your email address to other scammers who will try to steal even more money from you with different types of scam. Please be careful when you get suspicious emails and come back here any time you need help.
I'm so sorry you have become a victim of a criminal.
He seems to be very good at what he is doing, a perfect manipulator, switching between romancing you and sending you onto guilt trips. And I can see you already realised he is a scammer. It can be hard to let go but you need to be aware that he will only cause you pain and yet more pain.I'm haveing a very hard time of letting him go an always go back to him..
Please protect yourself against this heartbreak. Block him from your messenger, add all the email addresses he is using to your spam filter, don't accept his phone calls - just disappear. Do not confront him and tell him you found out, he will try to lure you back or to find out what mistakes he made; you don't want him to become a better scammer.
He might try for weeks to get back to you, but eventually he will move on to other victims.
This will be a hard time for you. I do hope you have friends who will be with you and support you through this process.

EDIT: One more thing: He might have passed on your email address to other scammers who will try to steal even more money from you with different types of scam. Please be careful when you get suspicious emails and come back here any time you need help.