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Sat Aug 08, 2015 2:24 pm
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Conversation started July 31
McMahon Garry
7/31, 7:33pm
McMahon Garry
Hello and how are you doing my dear friend?
Connie Mc Lain French
7/31, 8:29pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am fine, and you?
August 1
McMahon Garry
8/1, 12:37am
McMahon Garry
am doing good my dear..... how is the weather condition over there ?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 12:39am
Connie Mc Lain French
Nice today, around 90, but tomorrow inching up to mid 90's and increased humidity. Where are you and how is it there? I am in Arkansas.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 1:39am
McMahon Garry
the world is wonderfully made. it so good to know about your weather over there
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 1:39am
Connie Mc Lain French
What part of the world are you in?
McMahon Garry
8/1, 1:40am
McMahon Garry
what may i call y ou by your name my dear
i am currently at the Gulf of mexico
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 1:41am
Connie Mc Lain French
I love the Gulf. I used to live in Texas. My name is Connie.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:07am
McMahon Garry
it so good to meet here.... i was actually searching for my old school when i came across you lovely profile , i read and i liked and became so interested in you, anyway i am a positive type of person that believes that character and integrity are the most basic quality any one can possess
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:28am
Connie Mc Lain French
I agree. I am a Mormon and those are qualities I look for in my friends. I am a scripture reader and try to follow the teachings of Christ in all things.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:42am
McMahon Garry
i am a Christian man and i have faith in God... i lost my wife 4 years ago in a car accident, i have a daughter and she's 16 currently in a boarding school, are you married with kids?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:44am
Connie Mc Lain French
No, my husband died in 2002. I have three grown children, 12 grandchildren, and 6 great grandchildren. I am 64 years old, in case you are wondering.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:48am
McMahon Garry
Age does not matter to me, what matters is how the heart truly feels my dear... you're older but that is no problem for me
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:50am
Connie Mc Lain French
How old are you? My first husband was older than me and my second was 3 years younger. Both are deceased now. Whereabouts are you in the gulf?
I loved in different places from the Rio Grande valley to Louisiana as a kid, and moved to Arkansas in my teens.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:53am
McMahon Garry
am still in my 50's.....55 precisely..i hope am not too young ?. i and my ship crew will will be sailing to Australia in few days
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:56am
Connie Mc Lain French
Wow, are you on a trade vessel or in the military? My Dad, brother, and 1 nephew were in the Navy. My other brother was I. The Coast Guard. No, I don't think you are too young. Like you, I put more value on a person rather than age.
How long will it take for you to go to Australia? I assume you will go ddown to the Panama Canal to get there.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:59am
McMahon Garry
probably a month, i also have to do some personal business transaction which will take another 1 week so in about 5 weeks i should be back to California
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:01am
Connie Mc Lain French
What part of California? I have lived in Sacramento, Lake Tahoe, and Blythe. I think both my mother and husband number one were part gypsy. We moved around a lot.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:05am
McMahon Garry
i live in San Francisco, have you used online dating before cos am new to this
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:06am
Connie Mc Lain French
No, I never have.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:13am
Connie Mc Lain French
I didn't spend much time in San Francisco, only got to go to Fisherman's wharf once, but I loved it. My first husband was going to take the kids and I to Leyland by the Sea, but it was closed up and deserted. So we drove to the bay, had aligns sandwiches and went back to Sacramento. I nearly froze to death in July, I thought the coast was going to be like the Gulf. Lol
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:17am
McMahon Garry
that's good, what do you do for a living?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:42am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am on disability, I messed up my back and have had surgery on both knees.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:49am
McMahon Garry
what's your profession and how long have you been on disability
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:50am
Connie Mc Lain French
I worked in a doctors office for years and before that a motel manager. I have been on disability since 2010
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:51am
McMahon Garry
am so sorry to heal about your knees
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:53am
Connie Mc Lain French
I fell at work and tore the meniscus in them. I can't climb stairs and such very easy.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:53am
McMahon Garry
are you a morning person ? what do you do for fun?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:58am
Connie Mc Lain French
I was, but now I have gotten in the habit of staying up til 2-3 and sleep til about 10. I do a lot of work for my church and love genealogy. My daughter's tell me I know more about what happened two hundred years ago than currently. I love sightseeing, traveling, amd spending time with those I care.about. I also read and knit a lot.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:00am
McMahon Garry
that's good..... when was the last time you've been in a relationship, i would love to know about your past
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:03am
Connie Mc Lain French
I haven't, since my husband died. Both of my husband's were abusive alcoholics, so I figured I wasn't a good judge of men. They were good as gold and bad as sin.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:06am
McMahon Garry
ever since i lost my wife, have been spending most of my time with my kid and my job so my dating life was missing
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:10am
Connie Mc Lain French
I understand. I spend a lot of time with my youngest daughter and her three kids. She is a single Mom. When her ex was in Afghanistan, my grandkids asked if I would fill in for their Dad
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:15am
Connie Mc Lain French
I did that for 6 tours, then when he came home they split up. I was really hoping my kids could avoid the single parent part, but all three of them have been single Mom's. My folks divorced when I was 4 and I know the challenges I had. So I have had my share of helping raise grandkids. I hav one grandson that will be 16 on Tuesday, a granddaughter 14 and one 11. My grandkids range from 26 down to 4 months.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:15am
McMahon Garry
And what was your response to your grand kids?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:17am
Connie Mc Lain French
I was there for them. We are a multi nationality family. I have two Korean sisters, and my grandkids are mostly mixed. Some are half black, half Mexican, and some half Cherokee Indian.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:21am
McMahon Garry
the only family i have now is my daughter ever since i lost my dad.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:26am
Connie Mc Lain French
My Dad just turned 90. I lost my Mom in 2005 to lung cancer. I have 2 brothers and 3 sisters. Tons of cousins, but i only have 1 aunt and 1 uncle left. All my Mom and Dad's siblings are gone. I only see 1 of my brother's regularly. In face, I am spending the day with him tomorrow.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:26am
McMahon Garry
ever since i lost my parents i have not been hearing from any of my relative, so i must say i only have my daughter and she's my best friend
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:30am
Connie Mc Lain French
That is good for both of you. My step mother split up my parents and she hated my Mom, oldest brother and me, so I missed out on spending tome with my Dad. Now he is in Texas, deaf, and in a nursing home in Texas. So I don't get to see him much. It has been 4 years since I saw him. I was hoping to go down there for his birthday, but tore a muscle in my side and couldn't make the trip.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:33am
McMahon Garry
i really can't wait to meet you when i finish my project in few weeks....
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:33am
Connie Mc Lain French
My brother is my best friend. We were raised together and are very close now. He is alone too. We shared a house for a few years, but when I went on disability, he was going to lose part of his social security, so I moved. He lives in the country near the lake so we go fishing some.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:34am
Connie Mc Lain French
Ok. I am going to try to sleep a few hours. So I will say goodnight. It has been good visiting with you.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:37am
McMahon Garry
it so good talking with you, you have a lovely night rest sweetheart
Happy New Month
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:41am
Connie Mc Lain French
Thanks. I am glad July is done. I had to have my transmission and air conditioner worked on and the warranty didn't cover either one. Then I had a birthday on the 30th. Happy New Month to you as well.
August 1
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:04pm
McMahon Garry
hello dear
August 1
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 8:25pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello. Sorry I never did get to sleep, just napped this morning. I finally got up at 8 and went to my brother's. When I got home, I went to sleep.
Sunday
McMahon Garry
8/2, 12:29pm
McMahon Garry
Happy sunday sweetheart, i missed talking with you
am sorry my job does not allow me to access my social account on duty, well you can add me to my person yahoo [email protected] so we can chat on messenger
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 1:30pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I missed talking with you too. Sorry, I was hurting so bad after our day of sorting that I went to bed and slept til my alarm went off. I missed church because I was hurting all over and took a muscle relaxant and went back to bed. Very unusual for me. I looked at the pictures on your sight. You must have a very interesting job. If that is your daughter, she is very pretty.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 1:31pm
Connie Mc Lain French
What hours are you available online? So I know when you might be online.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:01pm
McMahon Garry
honey do you have yahoo messenger?
i am always connected on yahoo '
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Yes. [email protected]
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:03pm
McMahon Garry
i just sent you a request
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:03pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am getting on there now.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:03pm
McMahon Garry
thank you so much for your high level of maturity to have giving me your email
okay
am waiting
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:04pm
Connie Mc Lain French
You are welcome. I feel the same way.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:04pm
McMahon Garry
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:04pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:33pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I didn't get a friend request from Yahoo. I got one from Hotmail. I sent you an email from my yahoo account. I have to leave for about an hour, but will check when I return.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:42pm
McMahon Garry
okay dear
McMahon Garry
8/2, 5:38pm
McMahon Garry
Hello sweetheart
Sunday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 9:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello, I jist got home from my brother's again. We went through some more of our mother's things. It is tough doing that. But it needs to be done and together. That way neither of us throws away what the other wants to keep.
Monday
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:20am
McMahon Garry
I waited to get responses from you but you never showed up
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:24am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am sorry. When he asked me to come back out this evening, I couldn't refuse. That stuff has been in his garage for 5 years waiting for me to help him. I just couldn't bear to get rid of her stuff til now. I am still keeping way too much. But it is hard to get rid of things she considered treasures. Then I found birthday, Christmas, and Mother's day cards we had given each other and I cried a lot.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:25am
Connie Mc Lain French
I was afraid you would think I was avoiding you or something.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:26am
McMahon Garry
No I never thought that way
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:29am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good. Thank you. I checked as soon as I left there to see if you had responded. Then I came home and washed most of the thongs I brought home. Killing time til I had to pick up my grandson from work. He had forgotten his keys to lock up, so I went a little early and played games on my phone until he finished. He is living with me for another few weeks. I will miss him, but at the same time I am ready for him to go.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:30am
McMahon Garry
Are you home alone?
I hope you don't get lonely?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:36am
Connie Mc Lain French
No. He is here with me. I don't get very lonely. Both of my husbands were gone a lot so I adjusted at about 18 to being alone. Before that my Mom worked a lot and I was alone. I knit, read, sew and play games on my phone to keep myself occupied.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:39am
McMahon Garry
Do you intend to remarry when you fine the right match
Find
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:40am
Connie Mc Lain French
Yes. I firmly believe in marriage.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:41am
McMahon Garry
I also which to marry a woman my heart match.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:45am
Connie Mc Lain French
When I find the right person, God will tell me. I used my own judgement before and even though they lasted a long time, they probably were not the best choices I could have made. My first marry was 23 years and my last one was almost 13, but I haven't dated or looked for a mate since he died. I still miss him a lot of the time ans still visit his grave regularly.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:49am
McMahon Garry
Do you intend to go into any relationship or marriage when you fins the right person?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:50am
Connie Mc Lain French
Yes, I believe so. December 30th, I will be a widow for 13 years. Time to let go and let God.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:56am
Connie Mc Lain French
Too many people now days want a throw away marriage or none at all. I believe in marrying for love, not looks and certainly not money. A friend's daughter said she married for love the first time and is going for money now. We have both told her, that would be a horrible marriage. Not sure if we got through or not.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:58am
Connie Mc Lain French
Are you a Skipper, Captain, researcher, or something else?
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:58am
McMahon Garry
I am a ship engineer
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:59am
Connie Mc Lain French
Like a mechanical engineer?
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:59am
McMahon Garry
Yes sweetheart
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:04am
Connie Mc Lain French
Ok. My Dad, oldest brother, and two nephews were/are mechanics. My oldest nephew works on the planes used on Navy aircraft carriers. He retires from the Navy in a couple of years. He has been all over the world working on planes. His favorite was when he had to go to the Mediterranean. He said it was beautiful.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:04am
Connie Mc Lain French
I know a little about mechanics, but nothing about civil engineering.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:05am
McMahon Garry
That's very good
If you could visit any place where would it be?
?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:08am
Connie Mc Lain French
It would be a toss up. Probably the Holy land first, then Ireland for overseas. In the US, I want to go to Wyoming, Montana, Niagara falls, and several church sites. I love travelling. I was thinking. Sorry.
What is your favorite place to visit?
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:11am
McMahon Garry
Mine would be Roma, cos it full of history
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:15am
Connie Mc Lain French
That is most of my reasons for travelling. Along with my genealogy work, I go to many cemeteries locally and take pictures of headstones for Find A Grave. Them I check the site for names of ancestors I might be researching. I love history, there is so much to learn from it.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:16am
McMahon Garry
That sound good to me
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:16am
Connie Mc Lain French
I have my linkage traced back to Adam and Eve on one leg, and to the 1500's on another side of the family.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:17am
McMahon Garry
Good
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:17am
Connie Mc Lain French
When I got back to Charlemagne, I got really excited.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:18am
McMahon Garry
I like that
What do you think about distance in a relationship
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:22am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good. It bores my kids, but they brag about it to their friends. Today, my brother laughed at me when I found my old 1952 dictionary.
My first hisband was a truck driver, he would be gone for up to 6 weeks at a time, sometimes. Distance doesn't bother me, infidelity does. I don't believe in the old saying "whole the cat's away, the mice can play"
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:22am
Connie Mc Lain French
*husband
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:24am
McMahon Garry
What matter to me is how the heart feels... distance mean so little when some one mean a lot to you
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:25am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am old fashioned, I believe that if people care enough to be in a relationship, whether they are together 24/7 or only see each other occasionally, they should remain faithful, honest, and truthful. I agree. Love knows no distance.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:26am
McMahon Garry
Yes that's true and strongly agree
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:30am
Connie Mc Lain French
My second husband was brutally honest, which hurt my feelings a lot at first, but after I got accustomed to hearing the total truth from him, I was happy. He made me face some truths about my kids that I was denying at the time. I am grateful now, because even though I love them, I see them as they really are. They are open and honest with me. Something some of my friends do not have with their grown children.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:33am
Connie Mc Lain French
I had my oldest grandson on a pedestal for years, now that pedestal is in pieces at the bottom of my heart. He lied to me and stole from me. We haven't spoken in almost 2 years. It breaks my heart, but I have boundaries and he crossed them.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:42am
McMahon Garry
What does it takes to win your heart
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:51am
Connie Mc Lain French
Not sure how to answer that. I saw both of my husband's several times in several situations, not dates, before I realized I cared for them. Bill, my second husband was married the first time we met and so was I. Then a year later, we were both divorced, he was raising a son, and I was raising my grandson. We started dating to let them, ages 3 & 2, respectively, play together at the park. Blame that one on the babies. Lol. My first husband was getting me out of a bad situation, before it got worse.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 4:02am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am getting sleepy and have to take Lester to work tomorrow at ten so I have to be up by p
*9.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 4:10am
McMahon Garry
okay dear
Monday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 10:00am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good morning. I am so sorry about last night. I was so tires from digging through boxes and then to find out I had to take him back to work so early.
Monday
McMahon Garry
8/3, 1:59pm
McMahon Garry
It Okay honey
I hope you're doing good?
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Monday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 8:18pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Wow. What an exhausting day. I have been running since I getb up. I have run errands for everyone. I almost forgot to pick up I my medicine. Tomorrow and Thursday, I sit with a lady that had a stroke. Then I have 3 missionaries coming for dinner tomorrow night. Wednesday I was going to help my brother some more, but we have a 70% chance of rain, so I get a day of relief and need to go out there Friday and Saturday. He wants to use his garage this winter. Of all the nerve. Lol.
Tuesday
McMahon Garry
8/4, 6:05am
McMahon Garry
Good morning honey How're you doing today? I hope that everything is moving fine with you..
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 7:52am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good morning. It is good so far. How is your day going?
McMahon Garry
8/4, 9:06am
McMahon Garry
it a lovely day honey
What are your plans for the day?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 9:34am
Connie Mc Lain French
I just had to go get my daughter, she is having car trouble. I situations with my lady from noon to 4, she is a friend's mother who had a stroke, and have missionaries coming for dinner at 5. Then I am free for the evening, I hope.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 9:48am
Connie Mc Lain French
Since it will probably be raining tomorrow, I am planning to go see my grandson's, he will be 16, with my daughter. He is living with his Dad in Muskogee, OK. along with his two sisters. I miss them so bad, they have always lived close to me and now are 100 miles away. Lol. But it gives me a break, they are getting to the age that they are going somewhere all the time.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 10:13am
McMahon Garry
Honey that's good
You did not include me in your plans
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 10:17am
Connie Mc Lain French
I thought you were leaving for Australia. I will have time for you in the evening.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 10:46am
McMahon Garry
honey that will be nice, text me when your free to talk, enjoy the rest of your day
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 11:07am
Connie Mc Lain French
You too. Actually I caught myself checking to see if I had a message from you several times yesterday.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 11:40am
McMahon Garry
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 11:42am
Connie Mc Lain French
Thank you.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 11:43am
McMahon Garry
i am falling in love with you honey
McMahon Garry
8/4, 11:48am
McMahon Garry
am very happy that will are moving ahead to know more about our self ,one thing i will like to get from you is honest and trust and i will not be happy if you didn't open up your heart for me because i have seen you as a very nice woman and am much ready to go into this relationship with you....
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 12:11pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am open and honest. I feel like I may be boring you, my life is comfortable and slower than most of the world. I drive an older car, a 2007 Saturn Vue, suv wirh a standard transmission, the house I live in was built in the 1930-40's, but i love it. It was my ex husband's parents home. I took care of him for 3 1/2 years until he died, so he could die at home. That was 20 plus years after we divorced. When I moved into the spare bedroom, the dr told our kids he had 2-3 months to live. He was a very lonely man, he had 4 kids besides our 3 and none of them came to visit like they should have. I got onto them, but as adults with their own kids, I couldn't make them care for him. They remembered the things he did and didn't forgive him. I told them, he did bad things to me too, but God tells us to forgive, so o did. I know so little about you. I just got a new project for tonight. The faucet in the kitchen started leaking, so I will replace it tonight or tomorrow. I bought the new one, just have to out it in. I even remembered the Teflon tape this time and do not have to go back for it. I even impressed myself with that. Haha. I will talk with you later.
Tuesday
McMahon Garry
8/4, 4:59pm
McMahon Garry
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:00pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:01pm
Connie Mc Lain French
My guests just arrived.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:01pm
McMahon Garry
that's good
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:02pm
McMahon Garry
how're you doing over there ?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Good and you?
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:03pm
McMahon Garry
am good as well
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:09pm
McMahon Garry
i hope you're having a lovely evening
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:50pm
McMahon Garry
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McMahon Garry
8/4, 6:15pm
McMahon Garry
Honey
McMahon Garry
8/4, 6:36pm
McMahon Garry
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Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 7:25pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello. My company just left. It was such a good time, I love feeding the missionaries, good fellowship, excellent conversation, and great prayers. These boys are between 18-20 and serve for 2 years, one of them only has 5 weeks left before he gets released and goes back home. I fixed fresh cucumbers and tomatoes, pot roast and fresh rolls. My friend made a red velvet cake for me. We had planned to feed them on my birthday, but had to reschedule to today.
Tuesday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 11:49pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Goodnight. You seem to be sleeping so I am going to bed. Talk to you in the morning.
McMahon Garry
8/5, 12:35am
McMahon Garry
good night sweetheart
McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:13am
McMahon Garry
honey I have tried a million times to put into words how I feel for you. It's so hard to describe such an intense emotion. I knew from the day we met that you were meant for me. sleep well honey
Wednesday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/5, 9:13am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good morning. I just woke up. My doctor put me on some muscle relaxers and I actually slept through the night and feel rested. I have to leave in about an hour to go to my grandson's. I should have a good signal most of the way over and back. I am excited, it has only been a couple of weeks since I saw them, but I get to see 5 of my grandbabies at once.
Wednesday
McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:22pm
McMahon Garry
Honey we are heading to Australia... I tried contacting you but the signal was very bad.. I just can't wait to come home to you honey, I miss you so much
McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:23pm
McMahon Garry
McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:26pm
McMahon Garry
like emoticon
Connie Mc Lain French
8/5, 2:27pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Be careful. I will be checking my messages.
Thursday
McMahon Garry
8/6, 3:46am
McMahon Garry
Honey am so happy to write you this message, well I pray it meet you in good health, well the sea is calm today and the journey so far is safe, I have tried to text you earlier but the signal here is bad.. I miss you so much, honey I will always love you.......hope to read from you soon
Thursday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/6, 11:15am
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello. I had an incredible day yesterday with my daughter and grandchildren. We went to the Bass Pro Shop and did a little shopping, then to Applebee's for lunch, then off to the mall for new school shoes. I was pleased with the choices the kids made, they are growing up way too fast: 16, 14, 11, 2, and 5 months. I got a fish for Juan, the two year one, and a cute onesie for Selena, the baby. They are my grandchildren's half brother and sister, but I claim them as mine. Ed's Mom died years ago, and he and I are very close. I told him, he was the son I never had. He did 6 tours in Iraq, Iran, and Afghanistan, then had to get out. Ptsd was setting in, he is Puerto Rican, but as I told you before, my family is really a mixed, international family. Today I work and then a meeting at church tonight. I am president of our activities committee and love it. As you can tell, I manage to stay busy.
What kind of ship are you on? I looked at the pictures on your profile, but I really can't tell. I like the little sub, my Dad was on a sub during WWII. Bye now.
Thursday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/6, 9:57pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I just got home from another amazing night at church with my women's group. I made chili and another lady made strawberry water. It was just good fellowship. I cannot imagine the vastness of the ocean you are travelling. I doubt you see many ships. It is a good thing you have shipmates to talk with. Good night, I will check again in the morning to see if you found a signal.
Friday
McMahon Garry
8/7, 2:57am
McMahon Garry
My Dearest,
How are you today? I guess you are fine? Please I need your prayers. our ship has develop a major fault and we are now moving at a very slow pace. Please Pray for me and the crew members that nothing happen to us.
Hugs and kisses
Friday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/7, 12:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Praying for you. What has happened?
Friday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/7, 10:34pm
Connie Mc Lain French
At last a night to relax. I took my grandson to his friend's house and an home alone tonight. I still have a lot to get done before Sunday, but a night alone is rare for me lately. My daughter has someone coming to fix her car tomorrow and might stay all night, not sure. Lester is planning to move next week and I am looking forward to it. He was supposed to only be here 2 months, use his money to get his driver's license back, and get transportation. He has been here 4 months and has done none of the above. I will help people when they are down, if they help themselves, if not, I am done. He likes having the internet, satellite tv, and me for transportation but isn't willing to help out much. I know he has fines to pay for a drinking and driving, but household expenses must be paid too. He wasn't happy about my decision, but in my house, it is my rules. I hope you got the ship going. It is too hot to be out there on the water with the sun reflecting the heat up to an iron/steel ship. I was on a shrimp boat as a kid and got sunburned really bad from the reflection of the sun on the water. My uncle made me stay in the shadows, but I still cooked.
Today
McMahon Garry
6:26am
McMahon Garry
Honey Whatever situation I found myself I always give Glory to God. Please I need your prayers.
We are in a very serious problem here and need God intervention. The brain box of the ship is having a very serious problem and we are all confused here. we just received information from the Signal house that there are sea pirates from Indonesia blocking the sea and they are about 312 KM away from us and the nearest place for this Ship to anchor is Laban Island somewhere in South Malaysia.
As it is now, we are no longer safe because we fear the pirates attack because the ship is very slow now. We have called for a rescue team but we are yet to get a response from our headquarters
The captains of the Ship have announced that all passengers should offload their goods for another means of transportation as the SHIP will duck here for another 20 days until it’s safe to continue sailing.
Honey my problem now is, valuable documents my money ($120,000) United States Dollars which I kept in my cabin safe box. I do not want it stolen from me in the event of any attack. My plan was to use this money to buy Metal oil in drums from Australia and supply to a company in Mexico I already had contract agreement with.
Honey, as a Director of Operation in this Ship, it’s not possible for me to move along with the passenger because I have to take care of this ship until all GOODS/PRODUCT are completely discharged.
Now there are so many security company stands at the sea shore and I am thinking of what to do? And at this time I need you to stand by me. I don't know what to do now; I want to quickly send you the money so that you can help me to secure it in your place until I have the chance to make my trip and meet you soonest. I know we have not met each other but I TRUST you and give you my whole heart so that life can move straight with us and i know you will never disappoint or halt me because we are already two in one flesh .I have learned to take life as it happens as I remember everything happens for a reason.
I will discuss with one of the security company here. They will precede delivery immediately I get a confirmation from you to assist me in receiving this money because there is no bank here and I don’t want to lose this money to sea pirates because I know how I suffered for it.
Honey quickly forward to me your information as follows to enable me send the money to you immediately through Nat West World Wide Security Company:-
Your Full Name:
You’re receiving Address:
Phone Number:
Please get back to me as soon as possible.
Today
Connie Mc Lain French
1:11pm
Connie Mc Lain French
16 September
What ever situation I found my self I always give Glory to God.Please I need your prayers.
We are in a very serious problem here and need God intervention.The brain box of the ship is having a very serious problem and we are all confused here.We just received information from the Signal house that there are sea pirates from Indonesia blocking the sea and they are about 312 KM away from us and the nearest place for this Ship to anchor is Labuan Island somewhere in South Malaysia.
As it is now, we are no longer safe because we fear the pirates attack because the ship is very slow now. We have called for a rescue team but we are yet to get a response from our headquarters.
The captains of the Ship have announced that the SHIP will duck here for another 20 days until its safe to continue sailing.
Honey my problem now is my valuable documents.I do not want them stolen from me in the event of any attack.its an agreement on Metal oil in drums wchich i bought in Australia and to supply to a company in Mexico I already had contract agreement with.
Honey, as the Director of Operation in this Ship,I have to take care of this ship until all GOODS/PRODUCT are completely discharged.
Now there are so many security company stands at the sea shore and I am thinking of what to do?and at this time I need you to stand by me .. I don't know what to do now.
I want to quickly send you my valuable documents. so that you can help me to secure it in your place until I have the chance to make my trip and meet you soonest.I know we have not met each other but I TRUST you and give you my whole heart so that life can move straight with us and i know you will never disappoint or hurt me because we are already two in one flesh .I have learned to take life as it happens as I remember everything happens for a reason.
I will discussed with one of the security company here.They will proceed delivery immediately I get a confirmation from you to assist me in receiving this my valuable documents and some money because
there is no bank here and I don't want to loose my valuables to sea pirates because I know how I suffered for it.
Honey quickly forward to me your information as follows to enable me send the my valuable documents to you immediately through PIGEON WORLDWIDE Security COMPANY.
Your Full Name
Your Receiving Address:
Phone number.
email Address
Please get back to me as soon as possible.
The man that loves you,
Paul.
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Connie Mc Lain French
1:12pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am unfriending you. Do not send me any more messages. I didn't believe the crap anyway and gave you the benefit of a doubt. I also reported your scam.
Studied at Indiana University
Conversation started July 31
McMahon Garry
7/31, 7:33pm
McMahon Garry
Hello and how are you doing my dear friend?
Connie Mc Lain French
7/31, 8:29pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am fine, and you?
August 1
McMahon Garry
8/1, 12:37am
McMahon Garry
am doing good my dear..... how is the weather condition over there ?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 12:39am
Connie Mc Lain French
Nice today, around 90, but tomorrow inching up to mid 90's and increased humidity. Where are you and how is it there? I am in Arkansas.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 1:39am
McMahon Garry
the world is wonderfully made. it so good to know about your weather over there
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 1:39am
Connie Mc Lain French
What part of the world are you in?
McMahon Garry
8/1, 1:40am
McMahon Garry
what may i call y ou by your name my dear
i am currently at the Gulf of mexico
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 1:41am
Connie Mc Lain French
I love the Gulf. I used to live in Texas. My name is Connie.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:07am
McMahon Garry
it so good to meet here.... i was actually searching for my old school when i came across you lovely profile , i read and i liked and became so interested in you, anyway i am a positive type of person that believes that character and integrity are the most basic quality any one can possess
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:28am
Connie Mc Lain French
I agree. I am a Mormon and those are qualities I look for in my friends. I am a scripture reader and try to follow the teachings of Christ in all things.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:42am
McMahon Garry
i am a Christian man and i have faith in God... i lost my wife 4 years ago in a car accident, i have a daughter and she's 16 currently in a boarding school, are you married with kids?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:44am
Connie Mc Lain French
No, my husband died in 2002. I have three grown children, 12 grandchildren, and 6 great grandchildren. I am 64 years old, in case you are wondering.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:48am
McMahon Garry
Age does not matter to me, what matters is how the heart truly feels my dear... you're older but that is no problem for me
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:50am
Connie Mc Lain French
How old are you? My first husband was older than me and my second was 3 years younger. Both are deceased now. Whereabouts are you in the gulf?
I loved in different places from the Rio Grande valley to Louisiana as a kid, and moved to Arkansas in my teens.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:53am
McMahon Garry
am still in my 50's.....55 precisely..i hope am not too young ?. i and my ship crew will will be sailing to Australia in few days
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 2:56am
Connie Mc Lain French
Wow, are you on a trade vessel or in the military? My Dad, brother, and 1 nephew were in the Navy. My other brother was I. The Coast Guard. No, I don't think you are too young. Like you, I put more value on a person rather than age.
How long will it take for you to go to Australia? I assume you will go ddown to the Panama Canal to get there.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 2:59am
McMahon Garry
probably a month, i also have to do some personal business transaction which will take another 1 week so in about 5 weeks i should be back to California
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:01am
Connie Mc Lain French
What part of California? I have lived in Sacramento, Lake Tahoe, and Blythe. I think both my mother and husband number one were part gypsy. We moved around a lot.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:05am
McMahon Garry
i live in San Francisco, have you used online dating before cos am new to this
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:06am
Connie Mc Lain French
No, I never have.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:13am
Connie Mc Lain French
I didn't spend much time in San Francisco, only got to go to Fisherman's wharf once, but I loved it. My first husband was going to take the kids and I to Leyland by the Sea, but it was closed up and deserted. So we drove to the bay, had aligns sandwiches and went back to Sacramento. I nearly froze to death in July, I thought the coast was going to be like the Gulf. Lol
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:17am
McMahon Garry
that's good, what do you do for a living?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:42am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am on disability, I messed up my back and have had surgery on both knees.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:49am
McMahon Garry
what's your profession and how long have you been on disability
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:50am
Connie Mc Lain French
I worked in a doctors office for years and before that a motel manager. I have been on disability since 2010
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:51am
McMahon Garry
am so sorry to heal about your knees
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:53am
Connie Mc Lain French
I fell at work and tore the meniscus in them. I can't climb stairs and such very easy.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 3:53am
McMahon Garry
are you a morning person ? what do you do for fun?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 3:58am
Connie Mc Lain French
I was, but now I have gotten in the habit of staying up til 2-3 and sleep til about 10. I do a lot of work for my church and love genealogy. My daughter's tell me I know more about what happened two hundred years ago than currently. I love sightseeing, traveling, amd spending time with those I care.about. I also read and knit a lot.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:00am
McMahon Garry
that's good..... when was the last time you've been in a relationship, i would love to know about your past
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:03am
Connie Mc Lain French
I haven't, since my husband died. Both of my husband's were abusive alcoholics, so I figured I wasn't a good judge of men. They were good as gold and bad as sin.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:06am
McMahon Garry
ever since i lost my wife, have been spending most of my time with my kid and my job so my dating life was missing
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:10am
Connie Mc Lain French
I understand. I spend a lot of time with my youngest daughter and her three kids. She is a single Mom. When her ex was in Afghanistan, my grandkids asked if I would fill in for their Dad
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:15am
Connie Mc Lain French
I did that for 6 tours, then when he came home they split up. I was really hoping my kids could avoid the single parent part, but all three of them have been single Mom's. My folks divorced when I was 4 and I know the challenges I had. So I have had my share of helping raise grandkids. I hav one grandson that will be 16 on Tuesday, a granddaughter 14 and one 11. My grandkids range from 26 down to 4 months.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:15am
McMahon Garry
And what was your response to your grand kids?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:17am
Connie Mc Lain French
I was there for them. We are a multi nationality family. I have two Korean sisters, and my grandkids are mostly mixed. Some are half black, half Mexican, and some half Cherokee Indian.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:21am
McMahon Garry
the only family i have now is my daughter ever since i lost my dad.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:26am
Connie Mc Lain French
My Dad just turned 90. I lost my Mom in 2005 to lung cancer. I have 2 brothers and 3 sisters. Tons of cousins, but i only have 1 aunt and 1 uncle left. All my Mom and Dad's siblings are gone. I only see 1 of my brother's regularly. In face, I am spending the day with him tomorrow.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:26am
McMahon Garry
ever since i lost my parents i have not been hearing from any of my relative, so i must say i only have my daughter and she's my best friend
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:30am
Connie Mc Lain French
That is good for both of you. My step mother split up my parents and she hated my Mom, oldest brother and me, so I missed out on spending tome with my Dad. Now he is in Texas, deaf, and in a nursing home in Texas. So I don't get to see him much. It has been 4 years since I saw him. I was hoping to go down there for his birthday, but tore a muscle in my side and couldn't make the trip.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:33am
McMahon Garry
i really can't wait to meet you when i finish my project in few weeks....
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:33am
Connie Mc Lain French
My brother is my best friend. We were raised together and are very close now. He is alone too. We shared a house for a few years, but when I went on disability, he was going to lose part of his social security, so I moved. He lives in the country near the lake so we go fishing some.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:34am
Connie Mc Lain French
Ok. I am going to try to sleep a few hours. So I will say goodnight. It has been good visiting with you.
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:37am
McMahon Garry
it so good talking with you, you have a lovely night rest sweetheart
Happy New Month
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 4:41am
Connie Mc Lain French
Thanks. I am glad July is done. I had to have my transmission and air conditioner worked on and the warranty didn't cover either one. Then I had a birthday on the 30th. Happy New Month to you as well.
August 1
McMahon Garry
8/1, 4:04pm
McMahon Garry
hello dear
August 1
Connie Mc Lain French
8/1, 8:25pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello. Sorry I never did get to sleep, just napped this morning. I finally got up at 8 and went to my brother's. When I got home, I went to sleep.
Sunday
McMahon Garry
8/2, 12:29pm
McMahon Garry
Happy sunday sweetheart, i missed talking with you
am sorry my job does not allow me to access my social account on duty, well you can add me to my person yahoo [email protected] so we can chat on messenger
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 1:30pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I missed talking with you too. Sorry, I was hurting so bad after our day of sorting that I went to bed and slept til my alarm went off. I missed church because I was hurting all over and took a muscle relaxant and went back to bed. Very unusual for me. I looked at the pictures on your sight. You must have a very interesting job. If that is your daughter, she is very pretty.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 1:31pm
Connie Mc Lain French
What hours are you available online? So I know when you might be online.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:01pm
McMahon Garry
honey do you have yahoo messenger?
i am always connected on yahoo '
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Yes. [email protected]
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:03pm
McMahon Garry
i just sent you a request
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:03pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am getting on there now.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:03pm
McMahon Garry
thank you so much for your high level of maturity to have giving me your email
okay
am waiting
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:04pm
Connie Mc Lain French
You are welcome. I feel the same way.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:04pm
McMahon Garry
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:04pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 2:33pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I didn't get a friend request from Yahoo. I got one from Hotmail. I sent you an email from my yahoo account. I have to leave for about an hour, but will check when I return.
McMahon Garry
8/2, 2:42pm
McMahon Garry
okay dear
McMahon Garry
8/2, 5:38pm
McMahon Garry
Hello sweetheart
Sunday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/2, 9:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello, I jist got home from my brother's again. We went through some more of our mother's things. It is tough doing that. But it needs to be done and together. That way neither of us throws away what the other wants to keep.
Monday
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:20am
McMahon Garry
I waited to get responses from you but you never showed up
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:24am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am sorry. When he asked me to come back out this evening, I couldn't refuse. That stuff has been in his garage for 5 years waiting for me to help him. I just couldn't bear to get rid of her stuff til now. I am still keeping way too much. But it is hard to get rid of things she considered treasures. Then I found birthday, Christmas, and Mother's day cards we had given each other and I cried a lot.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:25am
Connie Mc Lain French
I was afraid you would think I was avoiding you or something.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:26am
McMahon Garry
No I never thought that way
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:29am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good. Thank you. I checked as soon as I left there to see if you had responded. Then I came home and washed most of the thongs I brought home. Killing time til I had to pick up my grandson from work. He had forgotten his keys to lock up, so I went a little early and played games on my phone until he finished. He is living with me for another few weeks. I will miss him, but at the same time I am ready for him to go.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:30am
McMahon Garry
Are you home alone?
I hope you don't get lonely?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:36am
Connie Mc Lain French
No. He is here with me. I don't get very lonely. Both of my husbands were gone a lot so I adjusted at about 18 to being alone. Before that my Mom worked a lot and I was alone. I knit, read, sew and play games on my phone to keep myself occupied.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:39am
McMahon Garry
Do you intend to remarry when you fine the right match
Find
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:40am
Connie Mc Lain French
Yes. I firmly believe in marriage.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:41am
McMahon Garry
I also which to marry a woman my heart match.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:45am
Connie Mc Lain French
When I find the right person, God will tell me. I used my own judgement before and even though they lasted a long time, they probably were not the best choices I could have made. My first marry was 23 years and my last one was almost 13, but I haven't dated or looked for a mate since he died. I still miss him a lot of the time ans still visit his grave regularly.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:49am
McMahon Garry
Do you intend to go into any relationship or marriage when you fins the right person?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:50am
Connie Mc Lain French
Yes, I believe so. December 30th, I will be a widow for 13 years. Time to let go and let God.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:56am
Connie Mc Lain French
Too many people now days want a throw away marriage or none at all. I believe in marrying for love, not looks and certainly not money. A friend's daughter said she married for love the first time and is going for money now. We have both told her, that would be a horrible marriage. Not sure if we got through or not.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:58am
Connie Mc Lain French
Are you a Skipper, Captain, researcher, or something else?
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:58am
McMahon Garry
I am a ship engineer
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 2:59am
Connie Mc Lain French
Like a mechanical engineer?
McMahon Garry
8/3, 2:59am
McMahon Garry
Yes sweetheart
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:04am
Connie Mc Lain French
Ok. My Dad, oldest brother, and two nephews were/are mechanics. My oldest nephew works on the planes used on Navy aircraft carriers. He retires from the Navy in a couple of years. He has been all over the world working on planes. His favorite was when he had to go to the Mediterranean. He said it was beautiful.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:04am
Connie Mc Lain French
I know a little about mechanics, but nothing about civil engineering.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:05am
McMahon Garry
That's very good
If you could visit any place where would it be?
?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:08am
Connie Mc Lain French
It would be a toss up. Probably the Holy land first, then Ireland for overseas. In the US, I want to go to Wyoming, Montana, Niagara falls, and several church sites. I love travelling. I was thinking. Sorry.
What is your favorite place to visit?
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:11am
McMahon Garry
Mine would be Roma, cos it full of history
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:15am
Connie Mc Lain French
That is most of my reasons for travelling. Along with my genealogy work, I go to many cemeteries locally and take pictures of headstones for Find A Grave. Them I check the site for names of ancestors I might be researching. I love history, there is so much to learn from it.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:16am
McMahon Garry
That sound good to me
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:16am
Connie Mc Lain French
I have my linkage traced back to Adam and Eve on one leg, and to the 1500's on another side of the family.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:17am
McMahon Garry
Good
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:17am
Connie Mc Lain French
When I got back to Charlemagne, I got really excited.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:18am
McMahon Garry
I like that
What do you think about distance in a relationship
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:22am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good. It bores my kids, but they brag about it to their friends. Today, my brother laughed at me when I found my old 1952 dictionary.
My first hisband was a truck driver, he would be gone for up to 6 weeks at a time, sometimes. Distance doesn't bother me, infidelity does. I don't believe in the old saying "whole the cat's away, the mice can play"
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:22am
Connie Mc Lain French
*husband
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:24am
McMahon Garry
What matter to me is how the heart feels... distance mean so little when some one mean a lot to you
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:25am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am old fashioned, I believe that if people care enough to be in a relationship, whether they are together 24/7 or only see each other occasionally, they should remain faithful, honest, and truthful. I agree. Love knows no distance.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:26am
McMahon Garry
Yes that's true and strongly agree
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:30am
Connie Mc Lain French
My second husband was brutally honest, which hurt my feelings a lot at first, but after I got accustomed to hearing the total truth from him, I was happy. He made me face some truths about my kids that I was denying at the time. I am grateful now, because even though I love them, I see them as they really are. They are open and honest with me. Something some of my friends do not have with their grown children.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:33am
Connie Mc Lain French
I had my oldest grandson on a pedestal for years, now that pedestal is in pieces at the bottom of my heart. He lied to me and stole from me. We haven't spoken in almost 2 years. It breaks my heart, but I have boundaries and he crossed them.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 3:42am
McMahon Garry
What does it takes to win your heart
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 3:51am
Connie Mc Lain French
Not sure how to answer that. I saw both of my husband's several times in several situations, not dates, before I realized I cared for them. Bill, my second husband was married the first time we met and so was I. Then a year later, we were both divorced, he was raising a son, and I was raising my grandson. We started dating to let them, ages 3 & 2, respectively, play together at the park. Blame that one on the babies. Lol. My first husband was getting me out of a bad situation, before it got worse.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 4:02am
Connie Mc Lain French
I am getting sleepy and have to take Lester to work tomorrow at ten so I have to be up by p
*9.
McMahon Garry
8/3, 4:10am
McMahon Garry
okay dear
Monday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 10:00am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good morning. I am so sorry about last night. I was so tires from digging through boxes and then to find out I had to take him back to work so early.
Monday
McMahon Garry
8/3, 1:59pm
McMahon Garry
It Okay honey
I hope you're doing good?
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Monday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/3, 8:18pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Wow. What an exhausting day. I have been running since I getb up. I have run errands for everyone. I almost forgot to pick up I my medicine. Tomorrow and Thursday, I sit with a lady that had a stroke. Then I have 3 missionaries coming for dinner tomorrow night. Wednesday I was going to help my brother some more, but we have a 70% chance of rain, so I get a day of relief and need to go out there Friday and Saturday. He wants to use his garage this winter. Of all the nerve. Lol.
Tuesday
McMahon Garry
8/4, 6:05am
McMahon Garry
Good morning honey How're you doing today? I hope that everything is moving fine with you..
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 7:52am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good morning. It is good so far. How is your day going?
McMahon Garry
8/4, 9:06am
McMahon Garry
it a lovely day honey
What are your plans for the day?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 9:34am
Connie Mc Lain French
I just had to go get my daughter, she is having car trouble. I situations with my lady from noon to 4, she is a friend's mother who had a stroke, and have missionaries coming for dinner at 5. Then I am free for the evening, I hope.
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 9:48am
Connie Mc Lain French
Since it will probably be raining tomorrow, I am planning to go see my grandson's, he will be 16, with my daughter. He is living with his Dad in Muskogee, OK. along with his two sisters. I miss them so bad, they have always lived close to me and now are 100 miles away. Lol. But it gives me a break, they are getting to the age that they are going somewhere all the time.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 10:13am
McMahon Garry
Honey that's good
You did not include me in your plans
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 10:17am
Connie Mc Lain French
I thought you were leaving for Australia. I will have time for you in the evening.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 10:46am
McMahon Garry
honey that will be nice, text me when your free to talk, enjoy the rest of your day
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 11:07am
Connie Mc Lain French
You too. Actually I caught myself checking to see if I had a message from you several times yesterday.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 11:40am
McMahon Garry
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 11:42am
Connie Mc Lain French
Thank you.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 11:43am
McMahon Garry
i am falling in love with you honey
McMahon Garry
8/4, 11:48am
McMahon Garry
am very happy that will are moving ahead to know more about our self ,one thing i will like to get from you is honest and trust and i will not be happy if you didn't open up your heart for me because i have seen you as a very nice woman and am much ready to go into this relationship with you....
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 12:11pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am open and honest. I feel like I may be boring you, my life is comfortable and slower than most of the world. I drive an older car, a 2007 Saturn Vue, suv wirh a standard transmission, the house I live in was built in the 1930-40's, but i love it. It was my ex husband's parents home. I took care of him for 3 1/2 years until he died, so he could die at home. That was 20 plus years after we divorced. When I moved into the spare bedroom, the dr told our kids he had 2-3 months to live. He was a very lonely man, he had 4 kids besides our 3 and none of them came to visit like they should have. I got onto them, but as adults with their own kids, I couldn't make them care for him. They remembered the things he did and didn't forgive him. I told them, he did bad things to me too, but God tells us to forgive, so o did. I know so little about you. I just got a new project for tonight. The faucet in the kitchen started leaking, so I will replace it tonight or tomorrow. I bought the new one, just have to out it in. I even remembered the Teflon tape this time and do not have to go back for it. I even impressed myself with that. Haha. I will talk with you later.
Tuesday
McMahon Garry
8/4, 4:59pm
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Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:00pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:01pm
Connie Mc Lain French
My guests just arrived.
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:01pm
McMahon Garry
that's good
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:02pm
McMahon Garry
how're you doing over there ?
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 5:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Good and you?
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:03pm
McMahon Garry
am good as well
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:09pm
McMahon Garry
i hope you're having a lovely evening
McMahon Garry
8/4, 5:50pm
McMahon Garry
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McMahon Garry
8/4, 6:15pm
McMahon Garry
Honey
McMahon Garry
8/4, 6:36pm
McMahon Garry
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Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 7:25pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello. My company just left. It was such a good time, I love feeding the missionaries, good fellowship, excellent conversation, and great prayers. These boys are between 18-20 and serve for 2 years, one of them only has 5 weeks left before he gets released and goes back home. I fixed fresh cucumbers and tomatoes, pot roast and fresh rolls. My friend made a red velvet cake for me. We had planned to feed them on my birthday, but had to reschedule to today.
Tuesday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/4, 11:49pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Goodnight. You seem to be sleeping so I am going to bed. Talk to you in the morning.
McMahon Garry
8/5, 12:35am
McMahon Garry
good night sweetheart
McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:13am
McMahon Garry
honey I have tried a million times to put into words how I feel for you. It's so hard to describe such an intense emotion. I knew from the day we met that you were meant for me. sleep well honey
Wednesday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/5, 9:13am
Connie Mc Lain French
Good morning. I just woke up. My doctor put me on some muscle relaxers and I actually slept through the night and feel rested. I have to leave in about an hour to go to my grandson's. I should have a good signal most of the way over and back. I am excited, it has only been a couple of weeks since I saw them, but I get to see 5 of my grandbabies at once.
Wednesday
McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:22pm
McMahon Garry
Honey we are heading to Australia... I tried contacting you but the signal was very bad.. I just can't wait to come home to you honey, I miss you so much
McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:23pm
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McMahon Garry
8/5, 2:26pm
McMahon Garry
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Connie Mc Lain French
8/5, 2:27pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Be careful. I will be checking my messages.
Thursday
McMahon Garry
8/6, 3:46am
McMahon Garry
Honey am so happy to write you this message, well I pray it meet you in good health, well the sea is calm today and the journey so far is safe, I have tried to text you earlier but the signal here is bad.. I miss you so much, honey I will always love you.......hope to read from you soon
Thursday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/6, 11:15am
Connie Mc Lain French
Hello. I had an incredible day yesterday with my daughter and grandchildren. We went to the Bass Pro Shop and did a little shopping, then to Applebee's for lunch, then off to the mall for new school shoes. I was pleased with the choices the kids made, they are growing up way too fast: 16, 14, 11, 2, and 5 months. I got a fish for Juan, the two year one, and a cute onesie for Selena, the baby. They are my grandchildren's half brother and sister, but I claim them as mine. Ed's Mom died years ago, and he and I are very close. I told him, he was the son I never had. He did 6 tours in Iraq, Iran, and Afghanistan, then had to get out. Ptsd was setting in, he is Puerto Rican, but as I told you before, my family is really a mixed, international family. Today I work and then a meeting at church tonight. I am president of our activities committee and love it. As you can tell, I manage to stay busy.
What kind of ship are you on? I looked at the pictures on your profile, but I really can't tell. I like the little sub, my Dad was on a sub during WWII. Bye now.
Thursday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/6, 9:57pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I just got home from another amazing night at church with my women's group. I made chili and another lady made strawberry water. It was just good fellowship. I cannot imagine the vastness of the ocean you are travelling. I doubt you see many ships. It is a good thing you have shipmates to talk with. Good night, I will check again in the morning to see if you found a signal.
Friday
McMahon Garry
8/7, 2:57am
McMahon Garry
My Dearest,
How are you today? I guess you are fine? Please I need your prayers. our ship has develop a major fault and we are now moving at a very slow pace. Please Pray for me and the crew members that nothing happen to us.
Hugs and kisses
Friday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/7, 12:02pm
Connie Mc Lain French
Praying for you. What has happened?
Friday
Connie Mc Lain French
8/7, 10:34pm
Connie Mc Lain French
At last a night to relax. I took my grandson to his friend's house and an home alone tonight. I still have a lot to get done before Sunday, but a night alone is rare for me lately. My daughter has someone coming to fix her car tomorrow and might stay all night, not sure. Lester is planning to move next week and I am looking forward to it. He was supposed to only be here 2 months, use his money to get his driver's license back, and get transportation. He has been here 4 months and has done none of the above. I will help people when they are down, if they help themselves, if not, I am done. He likes having the internet, satellite tv, and me for transportation but isn't willing to help out much. I know he has fines to pay for a drinking and driving, but household expenses must be paid too. He wasn't happy about my decision, but in my house, it is my rules. I hope you got the ship going. It is too hot to be out there on the water with the sun reflecting the heat up to an iron/steel ship. I was on a shrimp boat as a kid and got sunburned really bad from the reflection of the sun on the water. My uncle made me stay in the shadows, but I still cooked.
Today
McMahon Garry
6:26am
McMahon Garry
Honey Whatever situation I found myself I always give Glory to God. Please I need your prayers.
We are in a very serious problem here and need God intervention. The brain box of the ship is having a very serious problem and we are all confused here. we just received information from the Signal house that there are sea pirates from Indonesia blocking the sea and they are about 312 KM away from us and the nearest place for this Ship to anchor is Laban Island somewhere in South Malaysia.
As it is now, we are no longer safe because we fear the pirates attack because the ship is very slow now. We have called for a rescue team but we are yet to get a response from our headquarters
The captains of the Ship have announced that all passengers should offload their goods for another means of transportation as the SHIP will duck here for another 20 days until it’s safe to continue sailing.
Honey my problem now is, valuable documents my money ($120,000) United States Dollars which I kept in my cabin safe box. I do not want it stolen from me in the event of any attack. My plan was to use this money to buy Metal oil in drums from Australia and supply to a company in Mexico I already had contract agreement with.
Honey, as a Director of Operation in this Ship, it’s not possible for me to move along with the passenger because I have to take care of this ship until all GOODS/PRODUCT are completely discharged.
Now there are so many security company stands at the sea shore and I am thinking of what to do? And at this time I need you to stand by me. I don't know what to do now; I want to quickly send you the money so that you can help me to secure it in your place until I have the chance to make my trip and meet you soonest. I know we have not met each other but I TRUST you and give you my whole heart so that life can move straight with us and i know you will never disappoint or halt me because we are already two in one flesh .I have learned to take life as it happens as I remember everything happens for a reason.
I will discuss with one of the security company here. They will precede delivery immediately I get a confirmation from you to assist me in receiving this money because there is no bank here and I don’t want to lose this money to sea pirates because I know how I suffered for it.
Honey quickly forward to me your information as follows to enable me send the money to you immediately through Nat West World Wide Security Company:-
Your Full Name:
You’re receiving Address:
Phone Number:
Please get back to me as soon as possible.
Today
Connie Mc Lain French
1:11pm
Connie Mc Lain French
16 September
What ever situation I found my self I always give Glory to God.Please I need your prayers.
We are in a very serious problem here and need God intervention.The brain box of the ship is having a very serious problem and we are all confused here.We just received information from the Signal house that there are sea pirates from Indonesia blocking the sea and they are about 312 KM away from us and the nearest place for this Ship to anchor is Labuan Island somewhere in South Malaysia.
As it is now, we are no longer safe because we fear the pirates attack because the ship is very slow now. We have called for a rescue team but we are yet to get a response from our headquarters.
The captains of the Ship have announced that the SHIP will duck here for another 20 days until its safe to continue sailing.
Honey my problem now is my valuable documents.I do not want them stolen from me in the event of any attack.its an agreement on Metal oil in drums wchich i bought in Australia and to supply to a company in Mexico I already had contract agreement with.
Honey, as the Director of Operation in this Ship,I have to take care of this ship until all GOODS/PRODUCT are completely discharged.
Now there are so many security company stands at the sea shore and I am thinking of what to do?and at this time I need you to stand by me .. I don't know what to do now.
I want to quickly send you my valuable documents. so that you can help me to secure it in your place until I have the chance to make my trip and meet you soonest.I know we have not met each other but I TRUST you and give you my whole heart so that life can move straight with us and i know you will never disappoint or hurt me because we are already two in one flesh .I have learned to take life as it happens as I remember everything happens for a reason.
I will discussed with one of the security company here.They will proceed delivery immediately I get a confirmation from you to assist me in receiving this my valuable documents and some money because
there is no bank here and I don't want to loose my valuables to sea pirates because I know how I suffered for it.
Honey quickly forward to me your information as follows to enable me send the my valuable documents to you immediately through PIGEON WORLDWIDE Security COMPANY.
Your Full Name
Your Receiving Address:
Phone number.
email Address
Please get back to me as soon as possible.
The man that loves you,
Paul.
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Connie Mc Lain French
1:12pm
Connie Mc Lain French
I am unfriending you. Do not send me any more messages. I didn't believe the crap anyway and gave you the benefit of a doubt. I also reported your scam.