by aboddy07
Wed Sep 30, 2015 2:53 am
Met him on OkCupid. He claimed his name was William Durand Ness, he was a Sargeant in the Army. He said he was in Afghanistan and had 6 more months to go before his tour was over. His conversation started with him asking how I felt about long distance relationshipso and that he was looking for a woman to come home to. He was divorced, because his ex had cheated on him and that he had a 13 year old daughter. No sibblings. His mother had passed away and left him over 4 million dollars in inheritance and his dad lived in France, but he didn't have any contact with him as he had left shortly after he was born... He was very sweet and easy to fall for... He claimed he could take an Emergency leave to come and see me before his tour was over. Even though I told him I would be ok with the wait until he was done with his tour, he insisted on doing it. I agreed and got excited about it, as at that point, I was pretty into him... When he applied for the leave he asked for a replacement so, he would permanently come home, instead of for just a few weeks... That's when the money asking started. First, 6k for paying for the replacement, then another $4200 for expediting the process and some for him to have on him while traveling home, as that was Army request. And later on, another $4000 to pay for a plane ticket home and some money to pay the Rescue Team to take him to the airport, as te Army won't fly a single soldier home... Anyway, after 3 loans under my name, my car as collateral and absolutely no way of paying all of this money back I'm still waiting on this prick to show up, right?!?! The worst part was having the suspicion and yet avoiding all the red fla, although the language thing wasn't present... he was very good on keeping things going... money was sent over to the Philippines under different names, mostly one, Eddie Cole, who he claimed being clerks at the base... I have pictures of him and would like to post them, if someone can help me with it... also, I know there'probably no way out, but if there's any way I can get help with either fighting these loans or not having to pay them back, or some way cheaper to pay them back, that would be helpful as well...