Hav Rudduck/Stanley US Army Scammer

Havard Chapelle Rudduck, also registered on the same dating site, Fish Dating using the same photo, but called Stanley. This one claims to be a Staff Sargeant in the US Army, currently stationed in Kabul, Afghanistan. Right from the beginning, he favoured chat on yahoo to emails or dating site chat and messages. He claims to have a 2 bed roomed cottage in Cornwall and a 6 bedroomed house in New York. Has two flash cars, including the usual Range Rover. Predictably, he states that he is due to retire within a few months and wants you to his wife forever.

However, he makes lots of silly mistakes right from the beginning. For example, his profile states that he is a vegetarian, but during chat, says that he has just eaten chicken. He keeps getting his time zones wrong, so that when you ask him what time it is in Afghanistan, he gets it wrong by one hour. On
e moment, he will tell you that he has a daughter, the next minute he has two!

Within minutes of starting a chat online, he will disappear suddenly, sometimes for hours. His excuse is that he lost the connection, or that he was called for an emergency, but it always happens after you ask him an awkward question that he does not want to answer.

I have no idea what his scam is. Quite by accident, I discovered that he had posted a new profile with a new name, but using the same photo. I asked him if he knew about it and he said that "Stanley" had stolen his identity, and asked that I report Stanley to the dating site administrators.

Here are some of his emails to me.

From: Hav Rudduck <[email protected]>
To:
Subject: Hi
Date:
Dear

I wish I didn't have to miss you. If only you could be with me always. I know I could never be any happier. But then again, I know that the day will come when I will be able to spend my every waking moment with you. I even miss you when I am sleeping!, babe. You are my first and soon I won't have to hate missing you.I'm sorry the connection was going crazy and i know you having enough rest
Check on me later if the connection is stable ...


Love Always,





Hey, Honey ... I miss you. I'm just here thinking about you, like I always do. I hope you're as happy as me; Sunday is almost here again. The thought of you in my arms right now sounds so good to me. I just want you to know how much I think of you .I miss you every second of my life. I knew I found someone special And is you .




How are you doing there baby,You need not to upset with me my darling I have been online all the time to make you come so that we chat.I even went to the site to send you email but no respond Baby, I am sorry that I was an ass to you in the last days that I was with you it was not my fault darling my duty is change and i have not enough time to sit at the computer that's why . I am sorry for that and I hope that you will forgive me. I will write you and let you you whenever I have enough time to enjoy talking with you, your feelings.I am very sorry for that but right now I can't stop thinking about how much I actually love you. I don't know if you have been thinking about it or not, my guess is that you probably have and you might have even cried about it, to tell you the truth if I could cry about it I probable would because I get watery eyes just thinking about how beautiful you are and how happy
I love you, xxxxx, with all of my heart and much, much more. I love you so damn much. Please come online and lets continue what were were buiding darling i promise this time no disappointment darling....I love you so much...Come to me online please...

How are you doing there sweetheart,I hope the family and yourself are going on great there..
I just want to let you know that i want you in my life and i have been thinking of you for so long ever since we met on here i have different life all together and i believe in you..Some people won't believe in you;they won't encourage you to follow your dreams,but you must always believe in you,no matter how long the journey ahead seems.Some people will be jealous of you;their words will be sharp and unkind,but you must close your ears to such words,and never allow them to change your direction or your mind.I want you to know that we are going to be together and i would treat you more than anything in this life believe me that my love that i have for you is a special one...I've felt in love with you in a short while and i love that so much...Have a nice day and thanks for you care and love..Sorry the connection was bad and it got us interrupted .I guess you're having a wonderful moment there...xxxxx ...I love you so much and is from the buttom of my heart.I would be waiting for you to chat to you when you close from work...

I love you so much.

Hav

This would most likely evolve into a typical military scam in which he would need you to pay for (a) satellite phone; (b) a leave or discharge request. Occasionally the scammer will just go the "my child has an emergency but I can't access my money here so can you send money to pay her hospital bill/tuition/food costs" route

I now know all about his scam - here is our latest chat !!!!

Hav (9:01): Good Morning sweetheart
xxx (9:03): hi babe
Hav (9:03): How are you doing there my love.....
xxx (9:04): am fine...........how are you my love
Hav (9:05): doing wonderful my love sorry for my behaviour yersterday was having an emergency here that;s why
xxx (9:06): thats ok....................am used to it now lol!
xxx (9:06): you disappear all the time
Hav (9:07): Ohhh i would change and be a good boy lol
Hav (9:07): Anyway l'm sorry about that sweetheart
xxx (9:08): how are you?
Hav (9:07): Doing better now that you're here with meee..
Hav (9:09): Miss you also darling all the time....
Hav (9:12): There is something i would love to share with you if only you can keep it to yourself
xxx (9:13): whats that - you should know that you can trust me completely
Hav (9:13): Good...
Hav (9:13): I have some things that i want to send it for you to keep it for me...
xxx (9:14): what kind of things?
Hav (9:14): Box of money.....
xxx (9:15): what?
Hav (9:15): Is a box of money my love...
xxx (9:16): I'm struggling to understand this - how, where when?
Hav (9:17): I'm sending it through a Diplomats to bring it to you in your home...
Hav (9:17): Right now ....
Hav (9:17): Is a box i came accross full of money over here....
xxx (9:18): but why? I don't understand?
Hav (9:17): Because i trust you that's why ....
Hav (9:18): You're the only woman i can trust for now ....
xxx (9:19): should you not hand this money into the authorities - you do not need it yourself?
Hav (9:19): We are th authorities here darling this is not for me only okay we shared it about the authorities..
xxx (9:21): this sounds dodgy to me
Hav (9:21): Nothing to worry about all you have to do is to keep it to yourself my love...
Hav (9:21): Everything is under control....
xxx (9:22): I am totally shocked and stunned. I will need to think about this
Hav (9:22): Think?
Hav (9:22): Are you scared my love
xxx (9:23): what am I supposed to do with this box?
xxx (9:23): yes I'm scared
Hav (9:23): Don't be scared you should be happy my love
Hav (9:23): Do you have a safe deposite in your bank or you can keep it safe in your house
xxx (9:25): it seems like a huge responsibility
xxx (9:25): how did yo come by this money?
Hav (9:25): Is a long story my love would you mind when i come to you i explain everything to you
Hav (9:25): Just know that everything is under control...
Hav (9:26): That's all darling is very confidential..
Hav (9:26): The Diplomats would be bringing it to you to your house personally
Hav (9:28): I need to send this to someone i trust very much...
xxx (9:30): I will give you my response later today
Hav (9:32): You mean you're going to think of it darling?
Hav (9:34): I trust you and believe that's why i have told you all about this my love...
Hav (9:34): Make sure nobody know about this my queen
xxx 9:35): I promise I will tell no one
Hav (9:36): I would be here all day
Hav (9:36): talk to me when you're alright darling
xxx (9:38): you have to understand that I am a woman of great integrity
xxx (9:39): I just need to think this through before agreeing to your request
Hav (9:39): that's okay darling
xxx (9:40): I will talk to you again about this later, ok?






Needless to say, I will now cease all contact with this scammer

Yes, that's another scam technique. You'd be told that the "diplomats" have been detained at an airport en-route, and that you have to send money by Western Union for their release.

Here are some of the photos he sent me - he's the youngest 58 yr old I've seen for many years




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Although I had ceased all contact with this scammer, he contacted me again to wreak some kind of vengeance. He tried tried to send me a pc virus with this message:-

"is true that someday your love one would turn to be your enemy"

I don't believe this!!
My Mum met this man on a dating site a few months ago. Her marriage had just ended and she was ready to move on. Along comes this man calling himself 'Andrewz Rudduck' and needless to say he knew all the right things to say to charm her. He said all the things she wanted to hear, for example:

" I want to look after you forever"
"I care for you so much Honey, I'm so happy I found you"

Etc Etc. Most of the emails were full of stuff like that and were exchanged on a daily basis.
He claimed he was a 55yr old male, with 2 daughters and that he lived in Fulham but was currently serving in the Army in Iraq. While he was there his daughters went to boarding school.
In August the news broke out that the war was over and troups were coming home. He said he would be home within a month or so. In the mean time he had arranged for two bags to be sent to her that were to be delivered to her house by a 'Diplomat Christopher Amey'. He said one bag contained his army uniform and the other £250,000 and a 'little surprise' for my Mum. He said the money was what he had recieved for his service in the Army and that he trusted my Mum to look afer it until he returned home. Of course, my Mum was a little suspicious and asked him if this was all legal. He then replied with a nasty email, saying she didn't trust him and that he is good man and would never cause her harm etc etc. This then made my Mum feel guilty for questioning him and she agreed she would look after the bags.
She then recieved a few emails from 'Diplomat Christopher Amey' with his updates on his journey home from Iraq to the UK with these two bags for my Mum.
We then recieved an email froom him saying the bags were being held in Customs at an airport and to get them released he asked for her to pay £6,800.
Luckily my Mum had come to her senses and said she would not send the money. And as you can probably guess she has not heard from him since.
Jan and Kayleigh London,UK

It is a bizarre feature of West African scams that the role of diplomats has assumed the folklore role of a pantomime character. Diplomats don't deliver people's bags around the world and it would actually be illegal for them to do so. Their function is the delivery of diplomatic papers between goverments and their embassies, so any hint at them sauntering off on trips to deliver boxes or bags stuffed full of cash (or army uniforms ) to private individuals is laughable, but it seems to be the standard silly story most scammers learn.

Diplomatic baggage has to be clearly marked as such and it must be the most closely scrutinised and monitored luggage on the planet. Any diplomat attempting to divert a diplomatic bag to anywhere other than his Embassy would end up with a long tail of Secret Service agents following him - but scammers tell fairy tales, and not very good ones. I mean - if the bag were diplomatic luggage why would Customs hold it up at all ?

He's just a scammer who wants money.

going through simulare over last few days... lol.. look at my post... my "marine" was very persistant with the please think about the money to speak to me thing..... luckily i sussed him out as i got alarm bells ringing when emails didnt seem right from this ts2 service... i emailed them... and if you look on the web site they dont deal with western union...lol......
he still trying to convince me.. thats the bit i find soooo funny.... lol... sad thing is some poor woman will fall for this.....

He called me by skype talling me that he was talled to conntact military fortions of the us army in afghanistand, I should be a "sorry i dnt want to disturb you" one. He didn't ask now for money or something, but he is going on to contact me as general rudduck. Can someone tell me whats going on here? And i talled him afterfining him on this side not to contact me anymore, but he tries.... I also told him that i'm married etc., but this doesnt interrest him!

I m sue he is the scam because the prictures he end me are the same he send other oerson by rudduck!
Please help us to ge rid of him!
Elke