New scammer - Jeff Anthony

ficklejeff has no primary photo Let him know you'd like to know more about him and ask him to upload a photo. Email him now »

ficklejeff
love is the best gift of life
Active within 24 hours
• 56-year-old man
• Aberdeen, Washington, United States
• seeking women 38-65
• in United States
Relationships: Widow / Widower
Have kids: Yes, and they live away from home (1)
Want kids: Definitely
Ethnicity: • White / Caucasian
Body type: About average
Height: 5'10" (178cms)
Religion: Christian / Catholic
Smoke: No Way
Drink: No Answer
More of My Photos
•
•
In my own words
for fun:
I love to do all kinds of outdoor activities. Sports is a HUGE part of my life. I enjoy exercising, movies, concerts, traveling, family and friends. I am a Christian and I definitely try to make God number one in my life.
favorite things:
it's usually FoodTV or something I picked up at RedBox. I am rarely idle and always seem to have a million things on my to do list, none of which I take too seriously. Can never find my keys, but they are usually in the door right where I left them.
About my life and what I'm looking for
I am a friendly, generous, creative and passionate person and appreciate the same qualities in others. I love spending time with people that crack me up, I mean can’t breath, tears running down my face kind of laughter. I’m not quick to judge, but don’t mind being judged (constructively of course). I’ll talk to anyone, enjoy the company of many but prefer deeper relationships with a few people I respect and admire, that inspire me and want to be inspired.
together with the intention of getting to know each other better on a potentially romantic and trustworthy level.
What i want from here is a companion, i want a friend for life
About me
Hair: Black
Eyes: Black
Sports and exercise: • Auto racing / Motorcross
• Basketball
• Cycling
• Dancing
• Football
• Golf
• Hockey
• In-line skating
• Martial arts
• Running
• Soccer
• Swimming
• VolleyBall
• Walking / Hiking
• Yoga
Exercise habits: Exercise 3-4 times per week
Interests: • Alumni connections
• Book club/Discussion
• Camping
• Coffee and conversation
• Dining out
• Exploring new areas
• Movies/Videos
• Music and concerts
• Performing arts
• Playing sports
• Political
• Religion/Spiritual
• Travel/Sightseeing
• Video games
• Watching sports
• Wine tasting
Education: Graduate degree
Occupation: Financial / Accounting / Real Estate
Income: $100,001 to $150,000
Languages: • English
Politics: Very Liberal
Sign: Don't display my sign
Pets I have: • Dogs
Pets I like: No Answer
About my date
Hair: No Answer
Eyes: No Answer
Height: 3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (272cms)
Body type: No Answer
Languages: • English
Ethnicity: No Answer
Faith: No Answer
Education: No Answer
Job: No Answer
Income: No Answer
Smoke: No Answer
Drink: No Answer
Relationships: No Answer
Have kids: No Answer
Want kids: No Answer
he Winked at you

He IMed me on Match.com then of course pushed me over to Yahoo Messenger. Here's the first chat --

Removed (2:14 PM): Hi
Jeff Anthony (2:14 PM): Thank you dear
Jeff Anthony (2:14 PM): Am happy you came on time
Jeff Anthony (2:14 PM): I will love to share some of my interest with you
Removed (2:15 PM): So tell me a little about yourself
Jeff Anthony (2:16 PM): Well my dear,am a little bit shy when it come to this, but am now bold after reading through your profile on match
Jeff Anthony (2:16 PM): Am 57yrs old,widower and a single father of one
Jeff Anthony (2:17 PM): I live at Aberdeen,Washing ton state and have been alone ever since the death of my wife
Jeff Anthony (2:18 PM): I was advised by a friend to join this dating network and have decide to give a trial when i suddenly storm on your profile on matchNOTE WE HAVE NOTHING COMMON
Jeff Anthony (2:19 PM): We have so much in common and i will love to learn about you
Removed(2:19 PM): How long ago was that? I'm sorry for your loss...do you have a son or a daughter?
Removed (2:20 PM): As I said before, I have a grown son and a granddaughter.
Jeff Anthony (2:20 PM): Thanks for been so concerned,and yes i have a son,he's my everything in life and i love him so much
Removed(2:20 PM): How old is he?
Jeff Anthony (2:20 PM): Wow, you must be a good and caring mother i quess
Jeff Anthony (2:22 PM): He's just 14yrs old and still in high school in the UK
Jeff Anthony (2:22 PM): I lost his mom just when he was 2yrs old
Removed(2:22 PM): He's in the UK? Not at home with you in Washington?
Jeff Anthony (2:23 PM): Yes my dear,he's in the UK for studies and was living with my uncle before he died
Removed(2:23 PM): I understand how hard it is to raise a child on your own...my husband and I divorced when my son was only 14 months old.
Jeff Anthony (2:24 PM): Wow
Jeff Anthony (2:24 PM): Why did he do that ?
Jeff Anthony (2:24 PM): I mean why will he reject you and your son just at that stage
Removed(2:25 PM): He was having an affair with another woman- - I was too young and naive to realize what was going on. I had quit college to put him through graduate school singing with a band.
Jeff Anthony (2:26 PM): Oh my goodness,he's been so ruthless and heartless as well,to have leave you alone after all you done for him
Jeff Anthony (2:26 PM): I don't know why some men are so wicked,i don't mean to say this but it's the truth of the matter
Removed (2:27 PM): It was a hard road raising my son alone as a single Mom, but he's turned out to be a great, caring, kind and gentle soul.
Jeff Anthony (2:27 PM): I hate been single,i despise my single status and have try so hard to find a companion for myself
Jeff Anthony (2:27 PM): I know it's hard
Jeff Anthony (2:28 PM): I was in your shoes as well
Removed (2:28 PM): I never remarried....there were several me who wanted me to marry them, but I didn't think they would be a good stepdad for my son
Removed (2:28 PM): Are you from the UK originally?
Jeff Anthony (2:28 PM): Good of you,that's just thesame feeling i had in me earlier on
Jeff Anthony (2:29 PM): No am originally from Washington state and have live in Aberdeen all my life
Jeff Anthony (2:29 PM): Tell me your name pls ?
Removed(2:29 PM): Removed
Jeff Anthony (2:29 PM): Alright dear
Jeff Anthony (2:29 PM): You are welcome
Jeff Anthony (2:29 PM): Am Jeff Anthony
Jeff Anthony (2:30 PM): It's my pleasure to be chatting with you
Removed(2:30 PM): Nice to formally meet you Jeff!
Jeff Anthony (2:30 PM): Thanks so much
Jeff Anthony (2:30 PM): Tell me if you have any likeness for me from onset
Removed (2:30 PM): It must be beautiful where you live...never been there...been to Portland, OR but never anywhere in Washington state/
Removed (2:31 PM): Well it's fascinating talking with you.
Jeff Anthony (2:31 PM): Well, Aberdeen is a very lovely place to be,I love the weather out there,am presently out of state and i hope to meet you on my return if you don't mind the distance for now
Removed (2:32 PM): Where are you now?
Jeff Anthony (2:33 PM): Am presently working at Malaysia,I just cmaer down here some few weeks back
Removed (2:33 PM): What do you do?
Jeff Anthony (2:33 PM): Am a realtor and a general home contractor
Jeff Anthony (2:34 PM): what about you ?
Removed (2:34 PM): I'm A journalist.
Jeff Anthony (2:34 PM): Wow, what a beautiful proffesion,am sure you are in the lime light baby ?
Removed(2:35 PM): What are you doing in Malaysia in real estate & contracting...wh y there?
Jeff Anthony (2:36 PM): Am working with a building engineering outfit down here,i was contacted by a close friend and have come down here on an agreement
Removed (2:37 PM): How long will you be there?
Jeff Anthony (2:38 PM): Am leasing out some housing unit at the moment and will return home immediately am done with that,but in less than two weeks
Removed (2:38 PM): Do you travel out of the country often?
Jeff Anthony (2:39 PM): No my dear,but have been to three countries in my life time
Jeff Anthony (2:39 PM): what about you ?
Jeff Anthony (2:39 PM): Have you ever travell out of state ?
Removed(2:39 PM): Just been to Mexico - - that's all. I've traveled out of state a lot around the U.S.
Jeff Anthony (2:40 PM): Alright my dear
Removed (2:40 PM): Have you ever been to Louisiana?
Jeff Anthony (2:41 PM): Yes of course,have been there on a visit,but haven 't spent much time to look around
Removed(2:42 PM): Did you go to New Orleans?
Jeff Anthony (2:43 PM): Yes dear,so often cause i have a friend there
Jeff Anthony (2:45 PM): Alright, i love the life out there,i've heard so much about the sugar cane festival and i will love to be there someday,but then must be with you
Removed (2:47 PM): I've never been to the s give me a moment someone just called
Jeff Anthony (2:48 PM): Okay dear
Removed2:50 PM): I'm back. Sorry - - it was the cable company, I've been having trouble with my service
Jeff Anthony (2:51 PM): Okay,think that's inevitable by the way
Jeff Anthony (2:51 PM): So tell me why you come to match dating
Jeff Anthony (2:51 PM): How many people have you met on here and tell me about them ?
Jeff Anthony (2:52 PM): I have more interest in you now that we are talking and i hope you will understand that i do
Removed (2:53 PM): I had some minor surgery and was at home. And just decided to give it a try. I seem to be intimidating to the men around here - - I guess because I'm a very independent woman...I've had to learn to be that way. Anyway, I don't want to spend my "twilight years" alone if I can help it.
Removed (2:53 PM): I've only met two other men on Match and they both turned out to be romance scammers
Jeff Anthony (2:54 PM): Good you develope the interest to reach out to someone out here
Jeff Anthony (2:56 PM): I have been looking all around for someone like you to share my little pieces of life with after my lonely years
Jeff Anthony (2:57 PM): I want to have a friend for life,and i hope you will make it up to me if and good enough for you
Removed(2:59 PM): What happened?
Jeff Anthony (2:59 PM): Am sorry, my messenger booted out
Removed (2:59 PM): OK I was saying I'm a bit older than you - - that doesn't bother you?
Jeff Anthony (3:00 PM): Oh my goodness,I have determine to date an older lady for their lot of understanding and care
Jeff Anthony (3:00 PM): and here you are Removed my dear
Removed (3:01 PM): So how did you come across my profile?
Jeff Anthony (3:01 PM): I will appreciate if you agree to a relatiosnhip with me from here
Jeff Anthony (3:02 PM): I was looking at peoples profile on match and have found your's to be very disticntive and interesting as well
Jeff Anthony (3:02 PM): Do you like me Removed ?
Removed (3:02 PM): I think it is something we can explore...but I am very wary since I've been "burned" by two others on Match.
Jeff Anthony (3:02 PM): Please show me some of your pics
Removed (3:02 PM): Yes I like you...
Jeff Anthony (3:02 PM): Oh dear
Jeff Anthony (3:02 PM): Thank you,so tell me what happened ?
Jeff Anthony (3:03 PM): I might just be of a good help ?
Removed (3:03 PM): They turned out to be romance scammers.
Jeff Anthony (3:03 PM): Oh my goodness
Jeff Anthony (3:03 PM): were are they from then ?
Removed(3:03 PM): From Nigeria
Jeff Anthony (3:04 PM): I had a bad experience from some dude from their too
Removed(3:04 PM): Of course, they didn't look like they were from there. One said he was in the U.S. Army in Iraq.
Jeff Anthony (3:04 PM): Fools and their lies
Removed(3:04 PM): In fact, one said he was from Redmond, Washington.
Jeff Anthony (3:04 PM): Please tell me how it all happened
Jeff Anthony (3:05 PM): There is a way to get close to them
Jeff Anthony (3:05 PM): I once worked for a comapny down there and i ended up in a messy scam but then
Jeff Anthony (3:06 PM): There are these people who can help you to get at them
Removed (3:06 PM): They got me to chat on Messenger and then before you know it - - bam- - they are in love with me and want me to be in a relationship with them. then...before you know it - - boom - - they have something happen and need money from me.
Removed(3:06 PM): What kind of scam happened to you?
Jeff Anthony (3:06 PM): Did u send money to them ?
Removed(3:07 PM): Do I sound like a fool?
Removed (3:08 PM): Are you there?
Removed(3:09 PM): What kind of scam happened to you?
Jeff Anthony (3:10 PM): I work with a company and a lady show some interest in me so i believed her since we were talking on a daily basis, I then asked her to pick a check for me and she ran away with my money
Jeff Anthony (3:10 PM): so bad that am so fast to trust
Jeff Anthony (3:11 PM): I learn my lesson but she was made to pay back after when they got her arrested
Removed(3:11 PM): You at least knew who she was. I have no idea who these men are because they stole other people's pictures from the web and used them for their pic on Match.
Removed (3:12 PM): And of course, they were using made up identities.
Removed (3:12 PM): I really think there is a book that needs to be written about all of this that goes on.
Jeff Anthony (3:13 PM): Oh my GOD,it's not over yet,just tell me all i want to ask you know
Jeff Anthony (3:13 PM): Were you talking on phone ?
Jeff Anthony (3:14 PM): Did you eventually send any money to them ?
Removed (3:14 PM): No
Jeff Anthony (3:14 PM): Not any of them ?
Removed (3:14 PM): No
Removed (3:15 PM): I don't have any extra money to send anyone - - I live paycheck to paycheck
Jeff Anthony (3:15 PM): If you did,just give me the cell number and i will introduce you to someone in the Nigeria anti fraud police unit
Removed (3:16 PM): I didn't give any money to them.
Jeff Anthony (3:16 PM): Alright
Jeff Anthony (3:16 PM): So tell me about the scam and all that
Jeff Anthony (3:16 PM): Please be honest with me,i want to be of a good help to you
Removed(3:19 PM): He told me he was robbed and needed money.
Jeff Anthony (3:25 PM): So that was all inbetween you then
Jeff Anthony (3:26 PM): Please let me know everything that have happened to you in the past, You can confide in me,
Jeff Anthony (3:26 PM): I am willing to help you out if there's any problem with the Nigerians scammers
Removed (3:27 PM): The other one is still trying to contact me but I am not responding to his emails after finding his name on a scammer site.
Jeff Anthony (3:27 PM): I have learn about their nefarious activities
Jeff Anthony (3:27 PM): good you know him on time
Removed(3:28 PM): Anyhow...that' s why I'm a bit wary about this dating stuff.
Removed(3:28 PM): No
Jeff Anthony (3:28 PM): Will you give some one another chance ?
Jeff Anthony (3:28 PM): Maybe this last time ?
Jeff Anthony (3:29 PM): Can you trust me from here ?
Jeff Anthony (3:29 PM): even without seeing each other yet ?
Removed (3:29 PM): I'm afraid it may take a while to build my trust completely.
Jeff Anthony (3:29 PM): Yes i know
Jeff Anthony (3:30 PM): Our eyes are the windows to our soul,but i have a possitive feelings that you are real
Removed(3:30 PM): I try to be a real, honest and authentic person.
Jeff Anthony (3:30 PM): Good of you then
Jeff Anthony (3:31 PM): I will so much appreciate if you do
Jeff Anthony (3:31 PM): I love keeping to my words
Jeff Anthony (3:31 PM): Ok
Removed (3:31 PM): OK - - fill me in a little bit about you. Why have you not found someone since your wife passed away?
Jeff Anthony (3:32 PM): Good question from you
Jeff Anthony (3:33 PM): Honestly dear Removed,am a very shy person and doesn't go to pub or club and so wouldn't have time to woo a lady on my way to work or when coming back home
Jeff Anthony (3:34 PM): Am very skeptical about who i want to meet and live with so i opt out of any relationship back then untill now
Removed(3:35 PM): I'm kind of opposite, not that I go to clubs, but I'm a very outgoing personality. I guess that's why I wound up doing what I do.
Removed (3:35 PM): What made you decide now was the time to look for someone?
Jeff Anthony (3:35 PM): good of you
Jeff Anthony (3:36 PM): I have been advised severally by friends and now my son want a companion for dad
Jeff Anthony (3:36 PM): He needs a step mum before the year run out so i take to his words
Removed (3:36 PM): Do you get to see him very often since he's in the UK? Who does he live with now that your uncle died?
Jeff Anthony (3:37 PM): He's in the boarding school and i have been there twice to visit him on short vacations
Removed (3:38 PM): I know you must miss him soo
Jeff Anthony (3:38 PM): Just soo much
Jeff Anthony (3:39 PM): I can't figure out why i leaft him to school abroad in the first place
Removed(3:39 PM): Does he want to move back home with you? Is that why he wants you to find someone to be with?
Jeff Anthony (3:39 PM): I use to regret this some time
Jeff Anthony (3:39 PM): Yes of course
Removed (3:39 PM): How long has he been over there?
Jeff Anthony (3:39 PM): we talk about this p;robably everyday
Jeff Anthony (3:40 PM): 4years now
Removed (3:41 PM): Oh my....you've had to miss so much time with him. I know you must question your decision to send him there. I'm sure when you made the decision, you thought that that was the best thing for him.
Jeff Anthony (3:42 PM): Yes of course,and mostly because of my late uncle,he love him so much and have always wanted to be with him
Removed (3:42 PM): I'm lucky I guess, I've never had to be separated from my son for a long period of time.
Removed(3:43 PM): I take it your Mother or Father must have been from the UK?
Jeff Anthony (3:44 PM): Yes dear,mum is from Southampthon and we rarely go there in her days
Removed(3:44 PM): Is she still alive and living in Washington?
Jeff Anthony (3:45 PM): No
Jeff Anthony (3:45 PM): She died long time ago
Jeff Anthony (3:45 PM): am now an Orphan
Removed (3:45 PM): I'm so sorry! Me too! Lost my Mom over 20 years ago and my Dad just four years after that
Jeff Anthony (3:46 PM): Ohh
Jeff Anthony (3:46 PM): Death is inevitable in life
Jeff Anthony (3:47 PM): Tell me when often you normally come online
Removed (3:48 PM): I usually come on line after work....about 5:30 or 6 p.m. CST.
Jeff Anthony (3:51 PM): hmmmm
Jeff Anthony (3:51 PM): so you have just one child like me ?
Jeff Anthony (3:52 PM): It's 4.51 am here and should be sleeping by now
Removed (3:52 PM): Yes. I never remarried.... so no more children.
Jeff Anthony (3:52 PM): Mee tooo
Removed (3:52 PM): It's 3:52 p.m. here...and I understand. I'm off early today because of Labor Day weekend.
Jeff Anthony (3:52 PM): i will have to go now,but with the hope to chat with you again
Removed (3:53 PM): Go and get some rest. It was nice talking with you.
Jeff Anthony (3:53 PM): Honestly,i so much enjoy the little time i've spent talking with you on here
Jeff Anthony (3:53 PM): i love our chat together
Jeff Anthony (3:53 PM): tell me what you think of me
Jeff Anthony (3:54 PM): be realistic and honest
Jeff Anthony (3:54 PM): ok
Removed (3:54 PM): You seem to be a nice, caring man who is lonely
Jeff Anthony (3:54 PM): Thanks for your compliment
Jeff Anthony (3:54 PM): and yes i am
Jeff Anthony (3:55 PM): I guess you are thesame as like me
Removed(3:55 PM): You are welcome. I couldn't tell a lot about you from your pics on Match. And yes, I am!
Jeff Anthony (3:55 PM): Alright
Jeff Anthony (3:55 PM): Plesae send me some pics before i go
Jeff Anthony (3:55 PM): please
Jeff Anthony (3:55 PM): do you have a cam ?
Removed(3:56 PM): I have some saved on my computer
Jeff Anthony (3:56 PM): think it will be better
Jeff Anthony (3:56 PM): thank you
Removed (3:56 PM): I can send you the ones that were on my match profile
Jeff Anthony (3:56 PM): No dear
Jeff Anthony (3:56 PM): if you have a cam
Jeff Anthony (3:57 PM): let me see your beautiful face thenWHY DOES HE WANT TO SEE ME?
Removed(3:57 PM): I don't have a camera with my computer.
Jeff Anthony (3:57 PM): ok
Jeff Anthony (3:57 PM): see you some other time
Removed(3:57 PM): OK take care and get some rest
Jeff Anthony (3:58 PM): okay my dear
Jeff Anthony (3:58 PM): ,you are such a wonderful and a friendly lady to be with
Jeff Anthony (3:58 PM): thank you so much
Jeff Anthony (3:58 PM): please check on me here tommororw
Removed (3:58 PM): What time?
Jeff Anthony (3:58 PM): i will; be waiting to talk with you again
Jeff Anthony (3:59 PM): just anytime you are free
Jeff Anthony (3:59 PM): maybe this same time
Removed (3:59 PM): Okay...til then sleep well
Jeff Anthony (3:59 PM): I like you so much
Jeff Anthony (3:59 PM): Hope we are friends now
Jeff Anthony (3:59 PM): Hug ank kisses to you
Jeff Anthony (3:59 PM): byeeeeeeeeeeee

Then he sent this the next day via chat -- not email.

Sat, 9/4/10 4:26 AM -----
Jeff Anthony (4:26 AM): Hello dear,how are you doing this morning,i hope you
have a wonderful memory of me the moment we parted ways on here last time,Of
course i do and i have been longing to talk to you again,I will be so happy if
you can feel the way i do,you have been on my mind and i want t talk to you
again, Thank you so much

Then this...

Jeff Anthony (10:59 AM): Happy sunday to you Removed my dear,i just came back from church now,i hope to talk to you today
Removed (11:00 AM): How are you?
Jeff Anthony (11:00 AM): Am fine thank you
Jeff Anthony (11:00 AM): How are you doing too,I miss having a conversation with you yersterday
Removed (11:00 AM): Running late to get to church - - can we talk later?
Jeff Anthony (11:01 AM): Okay baby,
Removed (11:01 AM): Thanks!


So I haven't allowed myself to be shown as available in chat since then. Just a warning to all who are out there...this is a slimeball SCAMMER!!!!