Here are all the messages between us since we started chatting on Skype. I feel like a real idiot.
08/01/2017, 21:06:14 vincent norlan: i'm fine and you
08/01/2017, 21:09:05 vincent norlan: are you busy?
08/01/2017, 21:11:43 XXXXXX
08/01/2017, 21:11:57 vincent norman: oh yeah
08/01/2017, 21:12:02 vincent norlan: that's alright
08/01/2017, 21:12:23 XXXX What time is it in Canada right now?
08/01/2017, 21:12:50 vincent norlan: i''m not in Canada presently
08/01/2017, 21:12:59 XXXOh… where are you?
08/01/2017, 21:13:21 vincent norlan: I'm in Libya for a work contract
08/01/2017, 21:13:47 XXX Oh wow. What’s the time there?
08/01/2017, 21:14:06 vincent norlan: its just 3:13pm
08/01/2017, 21:14:42 XXX So you are 6 hours behind. The same time as SA.
08/01/2017, 21:14:56 vincent norlan: yes
08/01/2017, 21:15:11 XXXHow long have you been in Libya?
08/01/2017, 21:15:47 vincent norlan: two years now but i always go home whenever i'm on leave
08/01/2017, 21:16:10 XXX What’s it like over there?
08/01/2017, 21:16:14 vincent norlan: i'm on a contract here
08/01/2017, 21:16:30 vincent norlan: its really challenging to work here
08/01/2017, 21:16:43 XXX Im also on contract here in China. It can be a challenge working overseas.
08/01/2017, 21:17:14 vincent norlan: oh reall you too?
08/01/2017, 21:18:11 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:18:33 vincent norlan: oh yeah
08/01/2017, 21:18:41 vincent norlan: i can uderstand
08/01/2017, 21:19:07 vincent norlan: what country do you come from
08/01/2017, 21:19:54 xxxx
08/01/2017, 21:20:17 vincent norlan: okay
08/01/2017, 21:20:43 XXX So you are a doctor? Are you doing Doctors without Borders?
08/01/2017, 21:21:02 vincent norlan: yes i'm a doctor dear
08/01/2017, 21:21:40 vincent norlan: and i work for doctors withoout borders here in Libya as a surgeon
08/01/2017, 21:22:02 XXX Do you have any children?
08/01/2017, 21:22:33 vincent norlan: yes i have a boy
08/01/2017, 21:22:38 vincent norlan: he's 14
08/01/2017, 21:22:58 vincent norlan: and he's in a boarding school in Canada
08/01/2017, 21:24:53 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:25:14 vincent norlan: wow
08/01/2017, 21:25:28 vincent norlan: you have a big family
08/01/2017, 21:25:32 vincent norlan: thhat's nice
08/01/2017, 21:26:10 vincent norlan: how long will your contract last in China
08/01/2017, 21:26:34 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:30:30 vincent norlan: its okat Tania
08/01/2017, 21:30:36 vincent norlan: see you later
08/01/2017, 21:30:56 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:31:08 vincent norlan: yeah Good night
08/01/2017, 21:31:50 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:32:24 vincent norlan: mine will end in 2020
08/01/2017, 21:32:57 vincent norlan: you can continue with your film okay
08/01/2017, 21:33:01 XXX Wow that’s a long contract. How often do you get to go home?
08/01/2017, 21:33:22 vincent norlan: i go home once in a year
08/01/2017, 21:33:37 vincent norlan: my leave is usually a long one
08/01/2017, 21:35:33 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:36:57 vincent norlan: okay i understand what you mean bot my leave is longer
08/01/2017, 21:37:22 vincent norlan: i can go for leave for 2 months
08/01/2017, 21:37:54 vincent norlan: and if i want i can extend it to 2 and a half months
08/01/2017, 21:38:23 vincent norlan: depending on my choice
08/01/2017, 21:38:52 vincent norlan: you work in a super market i guess?
08/01/2017, 21:39:28 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:39:44 vincent norlan: oh yeah
08/01/2017, 21:39:58 vincent norlan: you have a good profession
08/01/2017, 21:41:04 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:41:38 vincent norlan: cool
08/01/2017, 21:41:59 vincent norlan: i'm happy to hear you say that
08/01/2017, 21:42:18 vincent norlan: where is the father of your kids
08/01/2017, 21:45:13 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:45:42 vincent norlan: Its okay just asking
08/01/2017, 21:45:52 vincent norlan: i'm a widower
08/01/2017, 21:46:22 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:46:30 vincent norlan: for 4 years i have been living alone with my son since i lost her
08/01/2017, 21:46:38 vincent norlan: thanks
08/01/2017, 21:46:59 vincent norlan: yes but i have moved on with life
08/01/2017, 21:47:10 vincent norlan: you are now here
08/01/2017, 21:47:36 vincent norlan: and i will never have to regret what happened to me
08/01/2017, 21:47:57 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:48:33 vincent norlan: yes sure with time we'll know more about each other
08/01/2017, 21:51:38 vincent norlan: here is my email add just in case you don't have the time to come up here
08/01/2017, 21:52:00 vincent norlan:
[email protected]08/01/2017, 21:52:15 vincent norlan: you can send me yours as well
08/01/2017, 21:52:50 XXX
08/01/2017, 21:53:33 vincent norlan: okay
08/01/2017, 21:55:09 XXX Goodnight
08/01/2017, 21:55:24 vincent norlan: Good night dear
08/01/2017, 21:55:33 vincent norlan: sweet dreams
09/01/2017, 07:15:20 vincent norlan: Good morning Tania
09/01/2017, 07:21:50 XXX Good morning Vincent
09/01/2017, 07:22:04 XXX You are up late
09/01/2017, 07:22:14 vincent norlan: yes
09/01/2017, 07:22:33 vincent norlan: i was about to go to bed but decided to say hi
09/01/2017, 07:22:56 vincent norlan: how are you this morning
09/01/2017, 07:23:18 XXX: I am great thanks.
09/01/2017, 07:23:31 vincent norlan: you are welcome
09/01/2017, 07:23:43 XXXYou must be tired.
09/01/2017, 07:24:01 XXX Do you work shifts?
09/01/2017, 07:24:06 vincent norlan: yeah i'm tired
09/01/2017, 07:24:14 vincent norlan: no i don't
09/01/2017, 07:24:44 vincent norlan: my work is from 8am to 8pm
09/01/2017, 07:24:58 vincent norlan: but sometimes work late
09/01/2017, 07:25:27 XXX Do you live close to where you work?
09/01/2017, 07:25:44 vincent norlan: yes i live close to my work place
09/01/2017, 07:26:50 XXX Sorry I haven't been watching the news for a while so excuse my ignorance but is it dangerous still in Libya?
09/01/2017, 07:28:26 vincent norlan: yes its dangerous here but God has been protecting me
09/01/2017, 07:29:01 XXXI better let you get some sleep. Goodnight. Keep Safe.
09/01/2017, 07:29:23 vincent norlan: okay dear
09/01/2017, 07:29:59 vincent norlan: Its Good night for me
09/01/2017, 07:32:54 XXXGoodnight
09/01/2017, 07:33:41 vincent norlan: See you later in the day
09/01/2017, 14:16:18 XXX Good morning Vincent. Have a great day.
09/01/2017, 19:01:59 vincent norlan: How are you Tania
09/01/2017, 19:02:59 XXX: Hi I am a little tired but otherwise ok. How's your day been so far?
09/01/2017, 19:03:32 vincent norlan: my day has been good
09/01/2017, 19:04:01 vincent norlan: did you go to work today?
09/01/2017, 19:04:58 XXX.
09/01/2017, 19:05:22 vincent norlan: okay
09/01/2017, 19:05:35 vincent norlan: you must be very tired now
09/01/2017, 19:06:20 XXX A little.
09/01/2017, 19:06:35 vincent norlan: i can understand
09/01/2017, 19:06:54 vincent norlan: you need to take a rest a little
09/01/2017, 19:07:27 vincent norlan: we can always chat when you regain your strenght
09/01/2017, 19:07:56 XXX
09/01/2017, 19:08:09 XXX: Are you at work?
09/01/2017, 19:08:47 vincent norlan: yes dear
09/01/2017, 19:08:55 vincent norlan: but we can chat
09/01/2017, 19:09:06 vincent norlan: cause i'm less busy now
09/01/2017, 19:09:36 XXXWhat do you do in your spare time?
09/01/2017, 19:10:19 vincent norlan: i like spending time going out with my family
09/01/2017, 19:10:39 vincent norman: i like visiting the cinema
09/01/2017, 19:11:06 XXX What movies do you like?
09/01/2017, 19:11:33 vincent norman: i love watching action movies
09/01/2017, 19:11:40 vincent norlan: the 007 series
09/01/2017, 19:12:10 vincent norlan: and sometime romantic and comedy movies too
09/01/2017, 19:12:51 XXXSo you enjoy the Jason Bourne movies and Jack Reacher?
09/01/2017, 19:13:12 XXX: Do you like reading?
09/01/2017, 19:13:17 vincent norlan: yes dear
09/01/2017, 19:13:31 vincent norlan: i read but not always
09/01/2017, 19:14:02 vincent norlan: you know the James bond movies
09/01/2017, 19:14:27 XXX: Yes. But I haven't watched the recent one's.
09/01/2017, 19:14:49 vincent norlan: okay
09/01/2017, 19:15:03 vincent norlan: i like watching his movies
09/01/2017, 19:15:17 vincent norlan: what about you
09/01/2017, 19:17:50 vincent norlan: cool
09/01/2017, 19:18:15 vincent norlan: just that i hardly have time to relax
09/01/2017, 19:18:28 vincent norlan: my off day is just Sundays alone
09/01/2017, 19:18:50 vincent norlan: except when i am on leave
09/01/2017, 19:19:31 XXX: Wow that's a long work week.
09/01/2017, 19:19:52 vincent norlan: yeah
09/01/2017, 19:20:03 XXX: You do very important work though.
09/01/2017, 19:20:42 vincent norlan: but its okay cause my leave is always a long one
09/01/2017, 19:20:57 vincent norlan: do you like travelling?
09/01/2017, 19:21:26XXX: I do but it's difficult with my youngest son.
09/01/2017, 19:21:49 XXX: Do you?
09/01/2017, 19:21:56 vincent norlan: yes
09/01/2017, 19:22:07 vincent norlan: i like travelling alot
09/01/2017, 19:23:06 vincent norlan: and the nature of my job permits me to do so
09/01/2017, 19:23:45 XXX: What other countries have you visited?
09/01/2017, 19:24:21 vincent norlan: so far i've been to 7different countries
09/01/2017, 19:24:36 vincent norlan: and Libya is the worst of them all
09/01/2017, 19:24:46 vincent norlan: because of the war here
09/01/2017, 19:24:50 XXX: Wow. Which is your favourite?
09/01/2017, 19:25:09 vincent norlan: Australia
09/01/2017, 19:25:32 vincent norlan: Its a very beautiful country
09/01/2017, 19:25:36 vincent norlan: you've really spent some good years in China
09/01/2017, 19:27:15 XXX: Have you ever been to China?
09/01/2017, 19:27:40 vincent norlan: no but i hear its a good country
09/01/2017, 19:28:09 vincent norlan: and i will like to visit it on my next holiday
09/01/2017, 19:28:53 XXX It's ok. I love my own country though. Lots of open spaces and beautiful countryside.
09/01/2017, 19:29:09 XXX: When is your next holiday?
09/01/2017, 19:29:31 vincent norlan: It can be anytime
09/01/2017, 19:29:43 vincent norman: its just for me to pick a date
09/01/2017, 19:29:57 vincent norlan: and inform my organization about it
09/01/2017, 19:30:25 vincent norlan: but seriously i will like ti come to you in China
09/01/2017, 19:30:55 XXX: Really? But we have just met.
09/01/2017, 19:31:13 vincent norlan: yes i know that
09/01/2017, 19:31:30 vincent norlan: with time we'll get used to each other
09/01/2017, 19:31:55 vincent norlan: i'm not comintg to you now its will be later on
09/01/2017, 19:33:08 XXX
09/01/2017, 19:35:18 vincent norlan: how lonng will your holiday last
09/01/2017, 19:46:21 XXX
09/01/2017, 19:46:57 vincent norlan: okay
[09/01/2017, 19:47:44] vincent norlan: do you have any other holiday aside from the one of June
[09/01/2017, 19:50:57] XXX
[09/01/2017, 19:51:42] vincent norlan: oh yeah
[09/01/2017, 19:52:28] vincent norlan: what new year? do they have a different calender
[09/01/2017, 19:53:02] XXX Yes it's based on the lunar calendar.
[09/01/2017, 19:53:30] vincent norlan: really?
[09/01/2017, 19:54:01] vincent norlan: its okay
[09/01/2017, 19:55:37] XXXCurrently it's the year of the monkey after 20 January it's the year of the rooster.
[09/01/2017, 19:56:34] XXX
[09/01/2017, 19:57:35] vincent norlan: wow that's interesting
[09/01/2017, 19:58:18] XXX It's a country with many traditions and festivals.
[09/01/2017, 19:59:04] vincent norlan: i will like to witness one of those festivals
[09/01/2017, 20:03:12] XXX
[09/01/2017, 20:04:14] vincent norlan: hmm i can imagine what it looks like
[09/01/2017, 20:06:05] vincent norlan: what's the best time you think i can come
[09/01/2017, 20:07:21] XXX
[09/01/2017, 20:08:24] vincent norlan: okay
[09/01/2017, 20:08:47] vincent norlan: I will keep you informed when i'm ready
[09/01/2017, 20:09:03] XXX: Do you have to take your all your leave at the same time
[09/01/2017, 20:09:31] vincent norlan: yes
[09/01/2017, 20:09:57] vincent norlan: i can only take a leave just once in a year
[09/01/2017, 20:10:13] XXX Have you ever been to south Africa?
[09/01/2017, 20:10:36] vincent norlan: no dear
[09/01/2017, 20:11:09] vincent norlan: would you like me to go with you to SA
[09/01/2017, 20:12:05] XXX: That would be nice
[09/01/2017, 20:12:35] vincent norlan: okay i will like that too
[09/01/2017, 20:14:01] XXX Great:')
[09/01/2017, 20:15:06] vincent norlan: so i will put that in my diary
[09/01/2017, 20:15:33] vincent norlan: what about your kids
[09/01/2017, 20:16:06] XXX: What do you mean?
[09/01/2017, 20:17:23] vincent norlan: i will note that down in my diary so i will always remember i'm going with you to SA
[09/01/2017, 20:18:14]XXX Lol. I meant the part about my kids?
[09/01/2017, 20:18:42] vincent norlan: haha, just want to know how they are doing
[09/01/2017, 20:19:08] Tania Courtis: Oh. They are all doing well thanks
[09/01/2017, 20:19:40] vincent norlan: okay
[09/01/2017, 20:20:26] XXX Do you speak to your son often? Would he like to come to SA as well?
[09/01/2017, 20:20:57] vincent norlan: yes we always communicate
[09/01/2017, 20:21:43] vincent norlan: i don't know if he will be available on that day because he's still in school
[09/01/2017, 20:22:03] vincent norlan: i will have to discuss that with him
[09/01/2017, 20:27:35] XXX Great.
[09/01/2017, 20:29:36] vincent norlan: okay
[09/01/2017, 20:34:21] XXX Have you ever seen the Northern Lights?
[09/01/2017, 20:35:54] vincent norlan: Nothern Lights? what's that
[09/01/2017, 20:46:36] XXX: It's a bright dancing lights. Sometimes called Auora borealis. Seen in Alaska, Norway and some other countries. I really want to see it in my lifetime.
[09/01/2017, 20:47:20] vincent norlan: oh yeah
[09/01/2017, 20:47:34] vincent norlan: i want to see it too
[09/01/2017, 20:48:25] vincent norlan: can we visit Norway before we go to SA
[09/01/2017, 20:51:08] XXX Maybe? I will look into it.
[09/01/2017, 20:51:26] vincent norlan: please do
[09/01/2017, 20:52:02] vincent norlan: we can go and spend two weeks there
[09/01/2017, 20:52:06]XXX Will you come here to China 1st
[09/01/2017, 20:52:18] vincent norlan: yes sure
[09/01/2017, 20:53:01] vincent norlan: it will be fun if we go to Norway together
[09/01/2017, 20:53:46] XXX: It would be fantastic
[09/01/2017, 20:54:23] vincent norlan: what are you doing right now
[09/01/2017, 20:56:31] XXX: Watching a tv series. What you doing?
[09/01/2017, 20:57:03] vincent norlan: i will resume work now
[09/01/2017, 20:57:58] XXX: Ok. Stay safe and have a good day. Im going to sleep in an hour
[09/01/2017, 20:58:24] vincent norlan: enjoy yourself and have a lovely night rest
[09/01/2017, 20:59:10] XXX: Thank you for spending your break chatting to me.
[09/01/2017, 21:00:23] vincent norlan: you are welcome
[09/01/2017, 21:00:34] vincent norlan: Good night Tania
[09/01/2017, 21:00:55] XXX: Goodnight
[10/01/2017, 08:09:00] vincent norlan: Good morning Tania
[10/01/2017, 10:05:05] XXX: Sorry I just saw your message.
[10/01/2017, 10:05:34] vincent norlan: how are you this morning
[10/01/2017, 10:07:02] XXX: Very busy :-) you should be sleeping
[10/01/2017, 10:07:44] vincent norlan: i was just going to bed but i decided to say Good morning to you
[10/01/2017, 10:07:59] vincent norlan: we'll chat later okay
[10/01/2017, 10:08:12] vincent norlan: have a lovely day ahead
[10/01/2017, 10:08:22] XXX: Ok
Sleep well
[10/01/2017, 10:08:47] vincent norlan: thank you dear
[10/01/2017, 23:04:37] vincent norlan: Hello Tania
[11/01/2017, 06:51:29] XXX: Hi Vincent
[11/01/2017, 06:52:02] vincent norlan: Good morning Tania
[11/01/2017, 06:53:23] vincent norlan: how was your night
[11/01/2017, 06:56:06] XXX: My evening was good thanks. Can't chat now though busy getting ready for work. Have a good night.
[11/01/2017, 06:58:04] vincent norlan: Its okay baby i can understand
[11/01/2017, 06:58:20] vincent norlan: always take good care of yourself
[11/01/2017, 17:36:55] XXX: Hi Vincent how has your day been?
[11/01/2017, 17:37:32] vincent norlan: Hi
[11/01/2017, 17:37:42] vincent norlan: Good day baby
[11/01/2017, 17:37:57] vincent norlan: my day is cool
[11/01/2017, 17:38:14] vincent norlan: althought its sunny and hot here
[11/01/2017, 17:39:30] XXX: It is cool and rainy here today. We are on our way out for the evening.
[11/01/2017, 17:40:32] vincent norlan: oh really its raining over there
[11/01/2017, 17:40:51] vincent norlan: that's nice
[11/01/2017, 17:41:03] XXX: Just a light drizzle.
[11/01/2017, 17:41:21] vincent norlan: okay
[11/01/2017, 17:41:44] vincent norlan: how was work today
[11/01/2017, 17:43:10] XXX: It was busy. We go on a 2 week break from 20th January
[11/01/2017, 17:44:04] vincent norlan: yeah i thought as well
[11/01/2017, 17:44:53] vincent norlan: how long will the break last
[12/01/2017, 03:06:14] vincent norlan: I wish to share my life with you. My morning and night, giving it all to you. If you ask why, I'll say it's because you deserve more than enough.
[12/01/2017, 12:13:06] XXX: Good morning Vincent. That is very sweet but let's not rush we are just getting to know each other. I hope you have a brilliant day.
[12/01/2017, 16:43:06] vincent norlan: Hello Beautiful
[12/01/2017, 16:43:26] vincent norlan: how are you doing today
[12/01/2017, 16:51:36] XXX: Hi there. I am doing well thanks. Just very busy doing assessments and mid year reports. How is your day so far?
[12/01/2017, 16:52:07] vincent norlan: Yeah i can understand
[12/01/2017, 16:52:23] vincent norlan: i'm fine dear
[12/01/2017, 16:52:36] vincent norlan: take you time
[12/01/2017, 16:52:59] vincent norlan: we cam always chat when you are done with work
[12/01/2017, 16:54:38] XXX Thanks for understanding.
[12/01/2017, 16:54:56] vincent norlan: its okay love
[14/01/2017, 16:26:05] vincent norlan: Hello beautiful
[14/01/2017, 18:13:15] XXX Hi there. How are you? Sorry it's been a busy week.
[14/01/2017, 18:13:55] vincent norlan: i',m fine Tania
[14/01/2017, 18:14:05] vincent norlan: yes i understand
[14/01/2017, 18:14:15] vincent norlan: how are you today
[14/01/2017, 18:14:56] XXX: I am well today thanks.
[14/01/2017, 18:15:11] vincent norlan: okay
[14/01/2017, 18:16:18] vincent norlan: just want to know the situation of things with you
[14/01/2017, 18:16:31] vincent norlan: what about your kids
[14/01/2017, 18:17:58] XXX
[14/01/2017, 18:18:44] vincent norlan: please take good care of your little boy
[14/01/2017, 18:18:50] vincent norlan: my son is fine
[14/01/2017, 18:19:42] vincent norlan: and he like you xxx
[14/01/2017, 18:19:47] vincent norlan: likes
[14/01/2017, 18:20:39] vincent norlan: i told him few things about you
[14/01/2017, 18:21:49] vincent norlan: 746933_2907898.jpg
[14/01/2017, 18:22:04] vincent norlan: that's my son
[14/01/2017, 18:22:13] vincent norlan: he's name is Kelly
[14/01/2017, 18:25:08] XXX
[14/01/2017, 18:25:30] vincent norlan: yes dear, i miss him so much
[14/01/2017, 18:26:30] vincent norlan: we always communicate but its not enough, i wish i could bring him down here in Libya but i can't because its too dangerous here
[14/01/2017, 18:27:20] XXX: What about moving to a safer country?
[14/01/2017, 18:28:04] vincent norlan: I want to but, presently i have a contract to complete here in Libya
[14/01/2017, 18:29:07] XXX: How many years have you got left on your contract?
[14/01/2017, 18:29:35] vincent norlan: i have 2 more years to go
[14/01/2017, 18:30:24] vincent norlan: the only time i can leave here is when i get transferred to another country or when i'm on leave
[14/01/2017, 18:31:31] XXX Most of the countries Doctors without borders work in are dangerous.
[14/01/2017, 18:31:52] XXX Have you always worked for them?
[14/01/2017, 18:33:14] vincent norlan: I use to work in a private hospital before i signed a contract with them
[14/01/2017, 18:34:10] vincent norlan: and when i complete my contract , i have a plan to set up a private hospital and work for myself XXX
[14/01/2017, 18:34:49] XXX: Where would you set it up?
[14/01/2017, 18:35:47] vincent norlan: still contemplating dear
[14/01/2017, 18:36:23] vincent norlan: where would you stay when you retire from your job
[14/01/2017, 18:38:06] XXX
[14/01/2017, 18:38:32] vincent norlan: oh yeah
[14/01/2017, 18:40:21] vincent norlan: I believe there is still time for we to decide on where to live because i want to have the hospital close to where we live
[14/01/2017, 18:40:32] XXX On a different topic what's your favourite meal?
[14/01/2017, 18:41:06] vincent norlan: I like sea foods alot
[14/01/2017, 18:41:24] XXX: Oh... if you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?
[14/01/2017, 18:41:36] XXX: I also enjoy seafood.
[14/01/2017, 18:42:01] vincent norlan: I would prefer to live the States
[14/01/2017, 18:42:38] vincent norlan: Washington to be precise
[14/01/2017, 18:43:45] vincent norlan: oh really you like seafood too
[14/01/2017, 18:44:29] XXX: I am not sure I could live in the states.
[14/01/2017, 18:44:44] XXX: I love prawns and calamari
[14/01/2017, 18:45:03] XXX: What about Australia?
[14/01/2017, 18:45:31] vincent norlan: Yeah Australia woud be nice
[14/01/2017, 18:45:48] vincent norlan: you don't like the States?
[14/01/2017, 18:47:15] XXX: I have never been to the states but I don't think I would be allowed to live there.
[14/01/2017, 18:47:47] vincent norlan: okay
[14/01/2017, 18:48:32] vincent norlan: if you want us to live in Australia its okay with me
[14/01/2017, 18:48:47] vincent norlan: Australia is a good country
[14/01/2017, 18:51:14] XXX: Let see how things go before we decide which country to live in. XXX
[14/01/2017, 18:52:49] vincent norlan: okay dear, that's a good idea, we need time to decide where to spend the rest of our life together
[14/01/2017, 18:52:59] vincent norlan: have you been to Australia before?
[14/01/2017, 18:53:59] XXX
[14/01/2017, 18:55:18] vincent norlan: I'm thinking we visit Australia someday when i come to you for a vacation
[14/01/2017, 18:56:17] XXX: That sounds like a good idea.
[14/01/2017, 18:56:44] XXX: It will have to be next July though.
[14/01/2017, 18:57:57] vincent norlan: its okay, i will have to shift my leave to July then
[14/01/2017, 19:00:01] vincent norlan: XXX i don't want to stop chatting with you but i'm a bit busy with work now, can we chat later at night your time?
[14/01/2017, 19:03:14] XXX: Sure. Stay safe.
[14/01/2017, 19:03:42] vincent norlan: okay
[14/01/2017, 19:03:50] vincent norlan: see you later at night
[14/01/2017, 19:18:20] XXX: Could you send me a picture of you in Libya?
[14/01/2017, 19:19:41] vincent norlan: We are not allowed to take pictures outside by the government, only the press can, but i will send you a picture of me
[14/01/2017, 19:20:08] vincent norlan: 666.jpg
[14/01/2017, 19:21:39] XXX Thanks :)
[14/01/2017, 19:22:01] vincent norlan: you are always welcome dear
[14/01/2017, 23:42:47] XXX
[14/01/2017, 23:43:33] vincent norlan: Good night my love
[14/01/2017, 23:44:11] vincent norlan: i'm so sorry to have kept you up till this late, i hope you understand
[14/01/2017, 23:46:18] XXX
[14/01/2017, 23:47:59] vincent norlan: okay we'll chat tomorrow
[14/01/2017, 23:48:25] vincent norlan: and please take good care of Joshua okay
[14/01/2017, 23:49:04] XXX: I will. Thanks for your care. Good night
[16/01/2017, 17:12:57] vincent norlan: Hello beautiful Tania
[16/01/2017, 17:16:32] XXX
[16/01/2017, 17:17:10] vincent norlan: I'm perfectly okay dear
[16/01/2017, 17:17:19] vincent norlan: what about you
[16/01/2017, 17:19:22] XXX: I am well thanks
[16/01/2017, 17:21:40] vincent norlan: that's nice
[16/01/2017, 17:21:55] vincent norlan: good to hear from you this evening
[16/01/2017, 17:22:07] vincent norlan: how was work today?
[16/01/2017, 17:24:37] XXX: It was busy as usual. How is day going?
[16/01/2017, 17:24:55] vincent norlan: okay
[16/01/2017, 17:25:15] vincent norlan: i'm at working now
[16/01/2017, 17:25:32] vincent norlan: and just want to hi to you
[16/01/2017, 17:25:44] vincent norlan: How is Joshua today
[16/01/2017, 17:26:48] XXX
[16/01/2017, 17:27:00] XXX: How was your day off yesterday?
[16/01/2017, 17:27:19] vincent norlan: its nice to know he's okay now
[16/01/2017, 17:27:28] vincent norlan: my off was cool
[16/01/2017, 17:27:51] vincent norlan: although i did not go anywhere
[16/01/2017, 17:28:13] vincent norlan: I was indoors after i returned from church
[16/01/2017, 17:28:57] vincent norlan: what are you doing now
[16/01/2017, 17:29:36] XXX: I am going to the shops to get a few things.
[16/01/2017, 17:30:10] vincent norlan: alright
[16/01/2017, 17:30:24] vincent norlan: take your time
[16/01/2017, 17:30:45] vincent norlan: I'm working now dear
[16/01/2017, 17:32:04] XXX:
[16/01/2017, 17:33:30] vincent norlan: okay baby
[16/01/2017, 17:33:41] vincent norlan: please always stay warm
[16/01/2017, 17:34:01] vincent norlan: i don't want you to get a flu
[16/01/2017, 17:36:53] vincent norlan: tex me when you get homw okay
[16/01/2017, 21:35:24] XXX
[16/01/2017, 21:40:11] vincent norlan: Good night baby
[16/01/2017, 21:40:25] vincent norlan: sweet dreams
[16/01/2017, 21:46:27] XXX: Thank you. You too
[18/01/2017, 16:11:16] vincent norlan: Good afternoon beautiful
[18/01/2017, 16:29:38] XXX Hello. How are you?
[18/01/2017, 16:34:11] vincent norlan: I'm okay dear
[18/01/2017, 16:34:24] vincent norlan: I just woke up from sleep
[18/01/2017, 16:34:37] vincent norlan: how are you doing
[18/01/2017, 16:36:35] XXX
[18/01/2017, 16:37:10] vincent norlan: oh that's nice
[18/01/2017, 16:37:21] vincent norlan: yeah i'm preparing to go to work dear
[18/01/2017, 16:37:47] vincent norlan: i will be done in 20 minutes time
[18/01/2017, 16:37:55] vincent norlan: how was work today
[18/01/2017, 16:39:30] XXX
[18/01/2017, 16:40:00] vincent norlan: oh i'm so sorry
[18/01/2017, 16:40:19] vincent norlan: what happened?
[18/01/2017, 16:41:18] XXX
[18/01/2017, 16:42:17] vincent norlan: its okay dear
[18/01/2017, 16:42:49] vincent norlan: that's life for you, we are different and we can never be the same
[18/01/2017, 16:43:33] vincent norlan: your ability to co exist with those teachers is what makes you a better person
[18/01/2017, 16:44:36] vincent norlan: you know the are not good teachers but you still manage to get the job done and that's the most important thing
[18/01/2017, 16:59:00] XXX
[18/01/2017, 16:59:22] vincent norlan: okay dear
[18/01/2017, 16:59:33] vincent norlan: enjoy your dinner
[18/01/2017, 17:21:40] XXX Thanks.
[19/01/2017, 07:21:10] vincent norlan: Wake up, sweetheart! It’s time to open your arms and embrace the new day. Welcome happiness and success, Good morning!
[19/01/2017, 07:31:51] XXX: Good morning. Thank you for the lovely message. Have a good night's rest I will chat to you later.
[19/01/2017, 07:32:37] vincent norlan: Good night dear and have a wonderful day
[19/01/2017, 19:08:44] XXX: Hi there. How's your day been?
[19/01/2017, 19:32:03] vincent norlan: yeah i'm okay
[19/01/2017, 19:32:14] vincent norlan: what about you
[19/01/2017, 19:33:41] XXX: I doing well thanks.
[19/01/2017, 19:35:30] vincent norlan: okay
[19/01/2017, 19:35:51] vincent norlan: good to hear fro m you again
[19/01/2017, 19:35:59] vincent norlan: where are you now
[19/01/2017, 19:36:35] XXX: I am at home. Where are you?
[19/01/2017, 19:36:45] vincent norlan: okay
[19/01/2017, 19:36:52] vincent norlan: i'm at work
[19/01/2017, 19:37:18] vincent norlan: i hope you had a good time at work
[19/01/2017, 19:37:58] XXXI had a much better day today thanks
[19/01/2017, 19:38:12] vincent norlan: good
[19/01/2017, 19:39:03] vincent norlan: just take things easy and you will enjoy working with your colleagues
[19/01/2017, 19:39:55] XXX
[19/01/2017, 19:40:11] XXX
[19/01/2017, 19:40:28] vincent norlan: yeah i can understand
[19/01/2017, 19:40:49] vincent norlan: i get such sometimes
[19/01/2017, 19:41:25] XXX
[19/01/2017, 19:42:42] vincent norlan: cool, yes we all do, so we just need patience and tolerance
[19/01/2017, 19:43:08] vincent norlan: i will let you know when i have free time so we can chat
[19/01/2017, 19:43:26] vincent norlan: i'm a little bit occupied right now
[19/01/2017, 19:44:14] vincent norlan: say hi to Joshua for me
[19/01/2017, 19:44:48] XXXOk. Have a good day
[20/01/2017, 20:39:42] XXX Hi hope you having a great day
[20/01/2017, 21:59:50] vincent norlan: Hello XXX
[20/01/2017, 22:00:52] vincent norlan: I'm still at work
[20/01/2017, 22:01:09] vincent norlan: how was work today?
[20/01/2017, 22:20:36] XXX It was great thanks.
[21/01/2017, 01:16:01] vincent norlan: sorry was busy
[21/01/2017, 01:16:27] vincent norlan: i guess you are already asleep
[21/01/2017, 01:36:12] vincent norlan: Sweet dreams beautiful Tania
[21/01/2017, 16:37:14] vincent norlan: Hello baby
[21/01/2017, 16:54:58] XXX Hi there.
[21/01/2017, 16:55:12] vincent norlan: i;m fine
[21/01/2017, 16:55:18] vincent norlan: what about you
[21/01/2017, 16:55:48] XXX: I am doing well thanks. Having a lazy day.
[21/01/2017, 16:56:18] vincent norlan: i can understand, you just need to rest
[21/01/2017, 16:57:41] XXX.
[21/01/2017, 16:58:10] vincent norlan: oh really, you have exams to write
[21/01/2017, 16:58:36] vincent norlan: what exam is that
[21/01/2017, 17:06:05] XXX
[21/01/2017, 17:06:24] vincent norlan: that's cool
[21/01/2017, 17:06:47] vincent norlan: i like that
[21/01/2017, 17:06:57] vincent norlan: i wish you all the best
[21/01/2017, 17:07:25] XXX: Thanks
[21/01/2017, 17:07:42] vincent norlan: you are always welcome
[21/01/2017, 17:07:56] vincent norlan: what about your kids
[21/01/2017, 17:10:16] XXX: They are well thanks.
[21/01/2017, 17:11:54] vincent norlan: oh that's cool, Joshua walked with you? he must be a strong boy
[21/01/2017, 17:13:17] XXX: Lol, yes he is. Also very strong minded. :)
[21/01/2017, 17:14:30] vincent norlan: that's interesting
[21/01/2017, 17:14:39] vincent norlan: he reminds me of my son
[21/01/2017, 17:15:03] XXX: How is Kelly?
[21/01/2017, 17:15:34] vincent norlan: he's fine and healthy
[21/01/2017, 17:15:55] vincent norlan: he mailed me yesterday
[21/01/2017, 17:16:12] vincent norlan: he wants to hear from you XXX
[21/01/2017, 17:16:18] vincent norlan: XXX
[21/01/2017, 17:16:40] vincent norlan: He likes you
[21/01/2017, 17:17:33] XXX: Really? What did you tell him about me?
[21/01/2017, 17:18:33] vincent norlan: I told him interesting things about you and i
[21/01/2017, 17:19:02] vincent norlan: that we will get married someday and you will be his mother
[21/01/2017, 17:20:31] XXX Oh my gosh ... but we haven't even met in person yet.
[21/01/2017, 17:22:45] vincent norlan: yes i know
[21/01/2017, 17:23:23] vincent norlan: and soon we'll meet and share some good times together
[21/01/2017, 17:23:48] XXX: That will be great.
[21/01/2017, 17:24:13] vincent norlan: and fun too
[21/01/2017, 17:24:51] vincent norlan: you will like him when you meet him because he's a very good boy
[21/01/2017, 17:27:32] XXX I am sure I will :)
[21/01/2017, 17:29:26] vincent norlan: cool
[21/01/2017, 17:30:32] XXX
[21/01/2017, 17:31:11] vincent norlan: that's okay, i can handle that
[21/01/2017, 17:31:29] vincent norlan: kids are usually like that
[21/01/2017, 17:32:03] vincent norlan: I like brilliant and smart kids
[21/01/2017, 17:32:52] vincent norlan: I will send you Kelly's email add so you can email him, he will be very happy to hear from you
[21/01/2017, 17:33:44] XXXI am nervous talking to your son when I haven't met you in person.
[21/01/2017, 17:34:36] vincent norlan: wow, don't get nervous dear, he's just a boy, he's 14 year old
[21/01/2017, 17:34:57] XXX: Ok
[21/01/2017, 17:35:44] vincent norlan: here is his email add
[21/01/2017, 17:35:47] XXX: Tell him to email me and I will happily reply :)
[21/01/2017, 17:35:52] vincent norlan:
[email protected][21/01/2017, 17:36:45] vincent norlan: he's a very shy boy
[21/01/2017, 17:37:51] vincent norlan: he won't be bold enough to email you unless he receive you email
[21/01/2017, 17:38:55] XXX: Ok, shall I cc you?
[21/01/2017, 17:39:51] vincent norlan: i don't understand dear
[21/01/2017, 17:40:32] XXX: When I email him you will also get a copy
[21/01/2017, 17:40:59] vincent norlan: okay if you want
[21/01/2017, 17:41:55] vincent norlan: i know if he gets your email he will inform me
[21/01/2017, 17:46:14] XXX: Where in Libya are you? I worry that you are in danger?
[21/01/2017, 17:46:52] vincent norlan: I'm in Tripoli right now
[21/01/2017, 17:47:30] vincent norlan: its quite dangerous here because of the war
[21/01/2017, 17:47:40] vincent norlan: God has been good to us
[21/01/2017, 17:48:44] XXX: I will pray God keeps you safe.
[21/01/2017, 17:49:13] vincent norlan: thank you baby
[21/01/2017, 17:49:36] vincent norlan: enjoy the rest of your day
[21/01/2017, 17:50:02] vincent norlan: I'm kind of busy with work now, can we chat later at night?
[21/01/2017, 17:52:20] XXX: Sure. I understand
[21/01/2017, 17:52:33] vincent norlan: okay
[21/01/2017, 17:52:47] vincent norlan: chat you later and take care
[21/01/2017, 22:22:05] vincent norlan: Good evening Tania
[22/01/2017, 12:12:04] XXX: Good morning Vincent. Sorry I fell asleep last night. Hope you having a good night's sleep.
[22/01/2017, 16:23:03] vincent norlan: Its alright i understand
[22/01/2017, 16:23:31] vincent norlan: yes my night was good
[22/01/2017, 16:23:45] vincent norlan: how are you today
[22/01/2017, 16:24:23] XXX I am ok thanks. How are you?
[22/01/2017, 16:24:52] vincent norlan: i'm fine
[22/01/2017, 16:24:55] vincent norlan: thanks
[22/01/2017, 16:25:22] vincent norlan: did you go to church today?
[22/01/2017, 16:26:00] XXX: No I don't go to church here.
[22/01/2017, 16:26:22] vincent norlan: oh really
[22/01/2017, 16:27:00] vincent norlan: is there no church in China
[22/01/2017, 16:27:57] XXX
[22/01/2017, 16:28:23] vincent norlan: okay
[22/01/2017, 16:28:51] XXX: Can you send me a photo with you in your MSF t shirt?
[22/01/2017, 16:31:48] vincent norlan: I don't have that because we are not allowed to take ohotos here in Libya
[22/01/2017, 16:32:19] XXX: Oh ok
[22/01/2017, 16:33:22] vincent norlan: how is XXX today
[22/01/2017, 16:34:21] XXX: Very energetic :)
[22/01/2017, 16:35:00] vincent norlan: that's good
[22/01/2017, 16:35:18] vincent norlan: please take care of him for me
[22/01/2017, 16:35:48] vincent norlan: i will soon be on my way to church
[22/01/2017, 16:37:25] vincent norlan: what are you doing right now
[22/01/2017, 16:38:12] XXX
[22/01/2017, 16:38:42] XXX: Aren't you nervous going to church in Libya?
[22/01/2017, 16:40:58] vincent norlan: Libya is dangerous but i'm always careful here
[22/01/2017, 16:41:48] XXX: Good. Stay safe
[22/01/2017, 16:42:10] vincent norlan: sure i always do
[22/01/2017, 16:42:36] vincent norlan: you are not going out today?
[22/01/2017, 16:44:20] XXX
[22/01/2017, 16:45:03] vincent norlan: oh really
[22/01/2017, 16:46:10] vincent norlan: you want to visit a dentist? you have tooth problem
[22/01/2017, 16:46:19] XXX
[22/01/2017, 16:46:38] vincent norlan: wow that's interesting
[22/01/2017, 16:48:48] XXX Do you play any musical instruments?
[22/01/2017, 16:49:14] vincent norlan: yeah
[22/01/2017, 16:49:40] vincent norlan: i play the Guiter
[22/01/2017, 16:51:11] XXX: Great... I love the guitar. I have always wanted to play. I have one and a friend from school said he would teach me. I'm quite excited.
[22/01/2017, 16:52:28] XXX: Have you met lots of people on the dating site?
[22/01/2017, 16:52:38] vincent norlan: wow that's good, i'm happy you love to play the guitar, i might teach you to play it when i come to you
[22/01/2017, 16:52:57] vincent norlan: No
[22/01/2017, 16:53:14] vincent norlan: i was only 3days there when i met you
[22/01/2017, 16:53:27] vincent norlan: and i don't go there anymore'
[22/01/2017, 16:53:34] XXX: Have you tried any other sites?
[22/01/2017, 16:53:47] vincent norlan: no
[22/01/2017, 16:54:30] vincent norlan: i don't need another site, i barely have time for that
[22/01/2017, 16:55:05] vincent norlan: are you still on the dating site?
[22/01/2017, 16:58:21] XXX I still get messages but I haven't checked for a while. I dont really like meeting peole like that. Too many scammers. The first guy I met there was very smooth and after a month asked me for money! Silly fool...XXX
[22/01/2017, 16:59:20] vincent norlan: wow that's weired
[22/01/2017, 16:59:52] vincent norlan: its better you stop going there
[22/01/2017, 17:00:56] XXX: I only tried it because there is no place here to meet people other than those I work with.
[22/01/2017, 17:02:40] vincent norlan: yeah i can understand, you just have to stop going there, i don't want you to meet those scammers anymore, you already have me
[22/01/2017, 17:03:33] XXX: I think it's sad that there are people out there using "LOVE " to get rich.
[22/01/2017, 17:04:03] XXX: Thanks Vincent (like)
[22/01/2017, 17:04:22] vincent norlan: How much did the scammer ask from you
[22/01/2017, 17:05:27] XXX: Usd1200
[22/01/2017, 17:05:41] vincent norlan: okay
[22/01/2017, 17:06:06] vincent norlan: i don't want you to go ther anymore okay
[22/01/2017, 17:06:28] vincent norlan: I have also stop going there
[22/01/2017, 17:08:33] vincent norlan: Kelly sent me an email last night, he told me he got your email
[22/01/2017, 17:08:55] XXX: He seems very sweet
[22/01/2017, 17:08:57] vincent norlan: i also received your email to him
[22/01/2017, 17:09:14] vincent norlan: yes he;s a very good boy
[22/01/2017, 17:09:49] XXX: He replied. I do worry though with him calling me mommy so soon.
[22/01/2017, 17:10:07] vincent norlan: common XXX
[22/01/2017, 17:10:15] vincent norlan: he's just a kid
[22/01/2017, 17:10:26] vincent norlan: you know how kids are
[22/01/2017, 17:10:47] vincent norlan: Its obvious he likes you
[22/01/2017, 17:11:37] XXX: I know. :)
[22/01/2017, 17:12:28] vincent norlan: don't let that bother you, i don't blame him, he misses his mom
[22/01/2017, 17:12:29] XXXs: Sorry I am taking a while to reply. Im about to start making dinner
[22/01/2017, 17:12:55] vincent norlan: its alright XXX
[22/01/2017, 17:13:09] vincent norlan: just take your time
[22/01/2017, 17:13:27] vincent norlan: i'm also getting ready to go to church
[22/01/2017, 17:13:43] vincent norlan: we can always chat later
[22/01/2017, 17:19:59] vincent norlan: I will text you when i return from church
[22/01/2017, 18:54:49] XXXbe we can chat in person instead of te texting (like)
[22/01/2017, 23:27:21] vincent norlan: Hello baby
[23/01/2017, 18:43:00] vincent norlan: Your sweetness blows my mind
My love for you aint blind. Good evening XXX
[23/01/2017, 20:39:37] XXX: Hi Vincent. Thanks for your kind words. Sorry I have been quiet. I'm in study mode so very focused on preparing for my upcoming exams in between entertaining Joshua. Hope you having a good day.
[23/01/2017, 20:47:00] vincent norlan: its okay baby, i can understand. Take your time
[23/01/2017, 20:47:05] vincent norman: I love you
Thank you for your assistance. I guess I am way too naive to do the online dating thing.
