by RockyMtnGuy
Thu Mar 30, 2017 11:31 pm
Hello all,
My father is in his 60's and recently broke up with his on/off again girlfriend of several years.
I didn't think much of it until one day he came home from work and had a new webcam in a box. Curious about this (he's never used a webcam, ever) I asked and he immediately said "I need it for work"
He has a home office so the next day I went downstairs to print some pages for my own work, and his gmail account was up on screen. Lots of emails from a website "colombiancupid.com" and I had also noticed he has booked a hotel room for Colombia for this summer. I am not sure he's ever even been abroad aside from a cruise, and this all seems a little out of character for him.
He speaks no Spanish, and I can't for the life of me figure out why some random woman in Colombia has any real romantic interest in him. I'm becoming more worried as I research into foreign dating scams, and also some of the reviews of this website I've seen on sitejabber.
Does anyone else have some experience with this? What can you say to a parent / loved one who is getting involved in something like this? It seems that his skyping sessions with this woman are becoming more frequent and probably more sexually oriented. He is speaking into a translator on his phone in order to communicate with this woman. I live with him so I have overheard some of the things he's "translating"
Is he walking into a trap? Am I just being paranoid?
Thanks in advance.
My father is in his 60's and recently broke up with his on/off again girlfriend of several years.
I didn't think much of it until one day he came home from work and had a new webcam in a box. Curious about this (he's never used a webcam, ever) I asked and he immediately said "I need it for work"
He has a home office so the next day I went downstairs to print some pages for my own work, and his gmail account was up on screen. Lots of emails from a website "colombiancupid.com" and I had also noticed he has booked a hotel room for Colombia for this summer. I am not sure he's ever even been abroad aside from a cruise, and this all seems a little out of character for him.
He speaks no Spanish, and I can't for the life of me figure out why some random woman in Colombia has any real romantic interest in him. I'm becoming more worried as I research into foreign dating scams, and also some of the reviews of this website I've seen on sitejabber.
Does anyone else have some experience with this? What can you say to a parent / loved one who is getting involved in something like this? It seems that his skyping sessions with this woman are becoming more frequent and probably more sexually oriented. He is speaking into a translator on his phone in order to communicate with this woman. I live with him so I have overheard some of the things he's "translating"
Is he walking into a trap? Am I just being paranoid?
Thanks in advance.