by nannygirl11
Sun Feb 20, 2011 12:53 pm
So met this guy online through a site called Militarycupid.com ... while I have met some very nice, real people on the site, I have also met my true "shining star". I say this because this creep thinks he has found the woman of his dreams, the love of his life, but what he doesn't realize is that I have been stringing him along just to get enough information out of him long enough so that I can report him. I must say it has been pretty interesting and quite humorous of a somewhat lengthy road as well. He uses the name George and from his email address, gather his last name is Wilson. He claims to be divorced for ten years, have a daughter aged 21 named Lisa (still can not figure out exactly where this girl lives besides all over), just turned 37 years old on January 19th this year, and has no parents. He uses the email addresses of [email protected] and [email protected]. HOWEVER he has no idea that I know he has an additional active email addresses.
I started talking to this person at the end of November and can't even begin to tell you the web of BS that he has created. I am an ex Army wife and know the ropes a little better than he thinks I do or gives me credit for. I find his antics disturbing but humorous. He claims to be a Captain in the Army, deployed to Kabul, Afghanistan. He has asked me for money ($500 this time)to be western union over to a Lisa Raley in Burnsville, Minnesota and to a Hanyun Li of Beijing, China ($190 this time). Money for him to have internet connection availability in his room so they did not have to drive to use the internet or use a friend's blackberry to access his emails. The military does not charge them for internet use and they do not need to drive through dangerous places in order to be able to get online either.
His latest scam he has thrown my way is that his CO and LT, are granting him a twelve week leave....TWELVE WEEKS??!! Since when?? No leave is longer than two weeks long and you lose a day coming and going. This is a special leave he claims...UH>>>OHH YEAH..it's special alright!! LOL. Because it doesn't exist. I have copied and pasted some of our discussions and emails below. You will find them pretty interesting. However I sent him an email requesting some additional information but little does he know, I have been stringing him along all this time as well, when the red flags went up as a "Captain" (who makes very good money) asked for money to be sent to him. I wanted enough info on him and his BS to report him, and boy is it mounting...
The pictures he has sent me (only two) are of a young, handsome gentleman resembling Galen Gering from Days of Our Lives, in his dress blues and one playing rugby but wearing an Army jersey with the Army insignia in the upper left hand corner of the picture. He is suppose to send me a picture of himself in his Camo...LOL can't wait!! I truly feel bad for the victim, which isn't me because I have never exchanged anything or sent money to this idiot, but the true soldier who has no idea he is being portrayed as a charmer or scammer across the internet. There is no George Wilson listed in the U.S Army as a Captain, however there is a Captain of the rugby team of Baylor University named George Wilson from 1996. HA!! Go figure...but I just let him go on with the "oh baby, baby I love you and miss you" garbage...he is quite the charmer and the poems..WHOA...kudos to the real author for sure, lol...
Here is one of the emails exchanged. I confronted him on something I came across since I have saved every single IM chat and every single email received and sent.( I do my homework well)....
Okay, now I'm confused....
So I was going back and reading through my emails and found one of the first one's you wrote me...This is why I thought you were living in NJ...(plus I know it said Clifton NJ on the website) until you said you lived in New Mexico...You said you "thought" that website had you down as living in NJ for some reason.. (?) but you put in the information...am I right?
This is from your email back in November...
"We are presently stationed here in Kabul,Afghanistan and its pretty sordid but i know you must have heard much about that on CNN.Grew up In PA but presently have my home in New Jersey though I dont stay home much due to my work"
(And this is from one of our recent talks in January)
Me:
you live in jersey right?
George W:
Have my home in Las Cruces,NM baby
Me:
wow really? I thought you lived in northern Jersey?
why did i think i saw that you grew up in PA but lived in NJ?
George W:
But I think that site got me down as from NJ
Me:
yes it did
it said Clifton NJ
So have you ever lived in NJ? What is the story behind all this?
Is it NJ or NM?
I'm sure you can understand, after reading this, why I would question you on this...I just feel sort of awkward right now and hope that you would understand why...I mean maybe it is nothing but again, I would expect you to do the same to me, if you were curious about something I said that went in two different directions...In less than two months time, the email changes from the end of November as opposed to the IM in January as to where you live...so yeah, my concern has me
HIS EMAIL REPLY TO THIS QUESTION IS AS FOLLOWS:
Hey Baby,
I am sorry I couldn't make it online last night and dont know when I will be able to get on so I wanna send you an email to explain about the NJ address,this is something I really wanna forget but will try to explain it the best I can and explain more when I am able to chat with you online.
Remember I told you I have been divorced for 10 year,well the main reason was because she cheated on me while I was deployed out of the country despite everything I did to make her comfortable,but before then we had our home in PA but she was raised in NJ and in 1998 she convinced me we should move back NJ cause she would love to be close to her parents and I agreed,we bought a home in Clifton NJ while I was still out and we planned to move there when I get back stateside but then I got back to realize she was having an affair with a colleague from work.
After the divorce was finalized,we placed the home on the market and she moved with him to Canada and then I was stationed in New Mexico but planned to move back to NJ because of my daughter so she could be near her grand parents and have some sense of family cause I am always away,Hence my profile reading Clifton NJ,4 days after I met you,she sent me a letter telling me she wants to move back to the states and to NJ and she would be paying for the home so I changed my mind about NJ.
I should have told you this then,but It seems so irrelevant but now its out...........I am sorry honey,I am not hiding anything important from you and you will get to know everything about me when i am home with you(please refer to my last email)
How was your night honey,its pretty cold here too and I do miss you loads,mostly when I am going to bed cause I am always imagining you lying beside me,holding me and telling me how I mean to you.
We cant make it back to base today cause something just came up,I just want to you know that when I was a little boy, I dreamed of that one person that I would share my dreams, happiness and energy with ... I could not see her face but she was there. I always felt like she was out there, I just needed to feel her. I visualized the bond we would have and the courage she would give me to endure life's obstacles. All these years I was with others, and feeling my way through life, learning lessons that later on would prepare me to become the person that I am now. I have felt alone and sad. Then one day my eyes opened and I became that little boy again ... realizing that she is here now. Here in my world was the woman that I had dreamed of and I'd hoped would not miss our meeting in life ... that woman is you and I am glad I found you.
Thanks for been you honey.........Will write you tomorrow or sunday
Love always
George
NOW HERE IS THE LATEST EMAIL I CONFRONTED HIM ON REGARDING A LEAVE BONUS AND HIS LEAVE: SORRY TO WRITE IN CAPS BUT WANT TO BE ABLE TO SEPARATE THE EMAILS AND INFO BETWEEN THE TWO.
My Love,
I know I dont have to tell you again how wonderful it was to read from you again today cause I really enjoy every bit of it as usual but right now I think it will be more interesting to be beside you,looking into your eyes while we just talk into the night.......
Leave bonus is leave allowance baby and I already got paid,the army even surprised me with how much they were willing to pay,now all we need to do is find a way to get me to London cause I am sure I should be able to cash some of the money orders on me at the airport in Heathrow so just help me look up flights from Kabul to Beijing or London dear,I hope it wont be much but not to worry cause I will give all those back to you as soon as I am home with you.
I would rather come home now rather than wait till october or november cause its getting crazier and more dangerous by the day and I dont want to be here no more.......I need to be with you soonest honey in order to keep my sanity.......lol
Yeah I know we are destined to be together,everything I have been through in the past couple of years has prepared me for you and I know you were sent my way for a reason.I promise never to ever leave your side ever honey.
I wonder what would have become of me if I had not found you. Your love is the sunshine that shines every day of my life; you are the rain that showers in my soul ... love is a magic; it works like a miracle. Your love is magic, I am so glad to be with you.You have shown me that love can be true, pure and genuine.
I knew from the beginning when we started communicating that you were special and that it was only a matter of time before I fell helplessly in love with you. You make me so happy and fulfill me so completely. I thank God each and every day for bringing you into my life. When I think about us I see a future of endless possibilities and everlasting love. Baby, you are my forever
Love always
George
The rock I was born under last night must be really heavy it seems according this guy and his Don Juan ways. My heart goes out to the innocent women and men who are taken advantage of through the kindness of their hearts and own being. Please never give any kind of personal information or even your real name to them for that matter no matter how convincing they may seem. Our military is taken care of by our government and any military person asking or requesting any kind of money be sent to them, is illegal and should be reported. My advise is to save (copy and paste in an email to yourself and make a folder to save them in) any conversations and IM's you share with anyone you meet on these sites just in case of incidents as such. Always great to go back and reference to and to send info to such people as CID should they request any kind of information.
I started talking to this person at the end of November and can't even begin to tell you the web of BS that he has created. I am an ex Army wife and know the ropes a little better than he thinks I do or gives me credit for. I find his antics disturbing but humorous. He claims to be a Captain in the Army, deployed to Kabul, Afghanistan. He has asked me for money ($500 this time)to be western union over to a Lisa Raley in Burnsville, Minnesota and to a Hanyun Li of Beijing, China ($190 this time). Money for him to have internet connection availability in his room so they did not have to drive to use the internet or use a friend's blackberry to access his emails. The military does not charge them for internet use and they do not need to drive through dangerous places in order to be able to get online either.
His latest scam he has thrown my way is that his CO and LT, are granting him a twelve week leave....TWELVE WEEKS??!! Since when?? No leave is longer than two weeks long and you lose a day coming and going. This is a special leave he claims...UH>>>OHH YEAH..it's special alright!! LOL. Because it doesn't exist. I have copied and pasted some of our discussions and emails below. You will find them pretty interesting. However I sent him an email requesting some additional information but little does he know, I have been stringing him along all this time as well, when the red flags went up as a "Captain" (who makes very good money) asked for money to be sent to him. I wanted enough info on him and his BS to report him, and boy is it mounting...
The pictures he has sent me (only two) are of a young, handsome gentleman resembling Galen Gering from Days of Our Lives, in his dress blues and one playing rugby but wearing an Army jersey with the Army insignia in the upper left hand corner of the picture. He is suppose to send me a picture of himself in his Camo...LOL can't wait!! I truly feel bad for the victim, which isn't me because I have never exchanged anything or sent money to this idiot, but the true soldier who has no idea he is being portrayed as a charmer or scammer across the internet. There is no George Wilson listed in the U.S Army as a Captain, however there is a Captain of the rugby team of Baylor University named George Wilson from 1996. HA!! Go figure...but I just let him go on with the "oh baby, baby I love you and miss you" garbage...he is quite the charmer and the poems..WHOA...kudos to the real author for sure, lol...
Here is one of the emails exchanged. I confronted him on something I came across since I have saved every single IM chat and every single email received and sent.( I do my homework well)....
Okay, now I'm confused....
So I was going back and reading through my emails and found one of the first one's you wrote me...This is why I thought you were living in NJ...(plus I know it said Clifton NJ on the website) until you said you lived in New Mexico...You said you "thought" that website had you down as living in NJ for some reason.. (?) but you put in the information...am I right?
This is from your email back in November...
"We are presently stationed here in Kabul,Afghanistan and its pretty sordid but i know you must have heard much about that on CNN.Grew up In PA but presently have my home in New Jersey though I dont stay home much due to my work"
(And this is from one of our recent talks in January)
Me:
you live in jersey right?
George W:
Have my home in Las Cruces,NM baby
Me:
wow really? I thought you lived in northern Jersey?
why did i think i saw that you grew up in PA but lived in NJ?
George W:
But I think that site got me down as from NJ
Me:
yes it did
it said Clifton NJ
So have you ever lived in NJ? What is the story behind all this?
Is it NJ or NM?
I'm sure you can understand, after reading this, why I would question you on this...I just feel sort of awkward right now and hope that you would understand why...I mean maybe it is nothing but again, I would expect you to do the same to me, if you were curious about something I said that went in two different directions...In less than two months time, the email changes from the end of November as opposed to the IM in January as to where you live...so yeah, my concern has me
HIS EMAIL REPLY TO THIS QUESTION IS AS FOLLOWS:
Hey Baby,
I am sorry I couldn't make it online last night and dont know when I will be able to get on so I wanna send you an email to explain about the NJ address,this is something I really wanna forget but will try to explain it the best I can and explain more when I am able to chat with you online.
Remember I told you I have been divorced for 10 year,well the main reason was because she cheated on me while I was deployed out of the country despite everything I did to make her comfortable,but before then we had our home in PA but she was raised in NJ and in 1998 she convinced me we should move back NJ cause she would love to be close to her parents and I agreed,we bought a home in Clifton NJ while I was still out and we planned to move there when I get back stateside but then I got back to realize she was having an affair with a colleague from work.
After the divorce was finalized,we placed the home on the market and she moved with him to Canada and then I was stationed in New Mexico but planned to move back to NJ because of my daughter so she could be near her grand parents and have some sense of family cause I am always away,Hence my profile reading Clifton NJ,4 days after I met you,she sent me a letter telling me she wants to move back to the states and to NJ and she would be paying for the home so I changed my mind about NJ.
I should have told you this then,but It seems so irrelevant but now its out...........I am sorry honey,I am not hiding anything important from you and you will get to know everything about me when i am home with you(please refer to my last email)
How was your night honey,its pretty cold here too and I do miss you loads,mostly when I am going to bed cause I am always imagining you lying beside me,holding me and telling me how I mean to you.
We cant make it back to base today cause something just came up,I just want to you know that when I was a little boy, I dreamed of that one person that I would share my dreams, happiness and energy with ... I could not see her face but she was there. I always felt like she was out there, I just needed to feel her. I visualized the bond we would have and the courage she would give me to endure life's obstacles. All these years I was with others, and feeling my way through life, learning lessons that later on would prepare me to become the person that I am now. I have felt alone and sad. Then one day my eyes opened and I became that little boy again ... realizing that she is here now. Here in my world was the woman that I had dreamed of and I'd hoped would not miss our meeting in life ... that woman is you and I am glad I found you.
Thanks for been you honey.........Will write you tomorrow or sunday
Love always
George
NOW HERE IS THE LATEST EMAIL I CONFRONTED HIM ON REGARDING A LEAVE BONUS AND HIS LEAVE: SORRY TO WRITE IN CAPS BUT WANT TO BE ABLE TO SEPARATE THE EMAILS AND INFO BETWEEN THE TWO.
My Love,
I know I dont have to tell you again how wonderful it was to read from you again today cause I really enjoy every bit of it as usual but right now I think it will be more interesting to be beside you,looking into your eyes while we just talk into the night.......
Leave bonus is leave allowance baby and I already got paid,the army even surprised me with how much they were willing to pay,now all we need to do is find a way to get me to London cause I am sure I should be able to cash some of the money orders on me at the airport in Heathrow so just help me look up flights from Kabul to Beijing or London dear,I hope it wont be much but not to worry cause I will give all those back to you as soon as I am home with you.
I would rather come home now rather than wait till october or november cause its getting crazier and more dangerous by the day and I dont want to be here no more.......I need to be with you soonest honey in order to keep my sanity.......lol
Yeah I know we are destined to be together,everything I have been through in the past couple of years has prepared me for you and I know you were sent my way for a reason.I promise never to ever leave your side ever honey.
I wonder what would have become of me if I had not found you. Your love is the sunshine that shines every day of my life; you are the rain that showers in my soul ... love is a magic; it works like a miracle. Your love is magic, I am so glad to be with you.You have shown me that love can be true, pure and genuine.
I knew from the beginning when we started communicating that you were special and that it was only a matter of time before I fell helplessly in love with you. You make me so happy and fulfill me so completely. I thank God each and every day for bringing you into my life. When I think about us I see a future of endless possibilities and everlasting love. Baby, you are my forever
Love always
George
The rock I was born under last night must be really heavy it seems according this guy and his Don Juan ways. My heart goes out to the innocent women and men who are taken advantage of through the kindness of their hearts and own being. Please never give any kind of personal information or even your real name to them for that matter no matter how convincing they may seem. Our military is taken care of by our government and any military person asking or requesting any kind of money be sent to them, is illegal and should be reported. My advise is to save (copy and paste in an email to yourself and make a folder to save them in) any conversations and IM's you share with anyone you meet on these sites just in case of incidents as such. Always great to go back and reference to and to send info to such people as CID should they request any kind of information.