Military romance Scam

I just realise the one it sopose to be my future husband is a scamer. I had my doubds but last mail , in witch they ask me money for him to visit me convinced me. He was a inetresting talker and a inteligent english talker.

[AlanJones]

Please help his other victims by posting his details - name, email address, telephone numbers, plus a copy of the actual email asking you to pay the money.

Carter Pabon is his name. I don't have only his name and his instagram profile. Stupid, no?
I found the real person behind the picture, he cange only one name. I tray to warn him but he still regecting my try! How to warn him if he does not want.
And is dificult for me. Those eyes from his picture.....

[AlanJones]

tray to warn him but he still regecting my try! How to warn him if he does not want.

Stop trying to warn him - there is nothing that he can do about his photos being used, they're out there now, he can't get them back. He may have already had hundreds of people trying to warn him and is sick of it. That's if you actually found the real person and not another scammer.

Thank u for your advice. I will let him.

How i can put the picture i have, in here?

tray to warn him but he still regecting my try! How to warn him if he does not want.

Stop trying to warn him - there is nothing that he can do about his photos being used, they're out there now, he can't get them back. He may have already had hundreds of people trying to warn him and is sick of it. That's if you actually found the real person and not another scammer.

You were so right.
I blocked the scamer.
And the real bloked me.
Now I have a picture to wach until my broken heart will heal.
Sorry I dont have more.
CARTER PABON - INSTAGRAM and Facebook
I am shure he is prepered for the next victim.

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What about the real person in the photos? I really feel like I need to know who the real person is and speak to him/her.

The real person is very possibly married, involved, unavailable or simply uninterested. He or she may not welcome contact from a stranger who has been scammed by someone using his/her photos, and may see it as an intrusion into his/her personal life. In some cases, victims have located and contacted the real person, only to be hurt more when the real person responded poorly to the contact. Even if you find the real person in the photos and make him/her aware the photos are being used, there is nothing that person can do. The scammer has saved those photos, and there is no way to get them back. By contacting this person, you may very well be causing him or her stress since he/she can’t control the situation at this point. As a general rule, trying to locate and contact the real person is NOT recommended.

To late now!! Thank any way!

He just write me on email. After I block him everywere.
[email protected]
Any help to find this piece of sh...t.?

Welcome to Scamwarners,

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Welcome to Scamwarners,

Please post the emails/messages sent to you with the email address.

Do not post the emails you sent.

Remove your personal information from the email/messages prior to submitting.

I did not answerd to this email. Is the same scammer, he used this adress, mine took it from the mail I sand to [email protected].
He wrote : my love what happend I cant reach you.

His profile on Facebook was deleted but the one on Instagram is active.
I need to talk to someone. I am loosing my mind.!!!!

If you are in crisis can seek anonymous assistance at the following resources .

http://www.connectsafely.org/faq-on-sex ... extortion/

What are my options for getting help?

* Contacting a crisis hotline or chat service, online or via phone. These can be found all over the US and in many other countries. This is a good option if you prefer to remain anonymous while exploring how to proceed, and crisis lines can often refer you to a victim advocate or other legal adviser near you. [In the US, you can search for one by zip code here or visit CrisisChat.org.]

* Talking with a victim advocate or social worker in your town or city. In the US, there are victim advocates in county offices, police stations, domestic violence prevention centers, rape crisis centers, sheriff’s offices, and offices of state attorneys general. Victim advocates can help you gather evidence, put together a safety plan (figure out how to keep you safe from what’s being threatened), and/or get a civil protection or anti-stalking order against the person threatening you. [You can do a Web search for “victim advocate” in your location or, in the US, call the National Organization for Victim Assistance in the Washington, D.C., area – 1-800-TRY-NOVA/800-879-6682 or go to tryNOVA.org.]

Lifeline Crisis Chat
Toll Free
1-800-273-8255
http://www.crisischat.org/

https://www.hopeline-nc.org/

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/t ... meone-now/

National Organization for Victim Assistance

http://www.trynova.org/

Thank you. I am not from US. I don't need legal advice. I have my heart in 1000 pieces .