by mskim23
Sat Jun 18, 2011 8:26 pm
I had been coresponding for 2 months with a man who calls himself Lt. Colonel Chris Terry. He found me on facebook. He uses a handsome picture(with Military insignia)and uses a script to tell his story; single dad, in the army, wife left him and took everything-cheated on him with best friend; you know, including violins with this sob story. If you initially read his story, you would get wrapped in(I know I did); very charming and smooth. He also extends the invitation to speak with him @[email protected]. But early on, I started to notice something strange. When he was wooing me, his words flowed like water; but just idle chit-chat, the language changed. It was broken and spoken improperly; now, for a high ranking officer, something clearly was wrong. Plus, the language wasn't English(Americans don't refer to their moms as"mums"), he couldn't keep up with his own story with me. He was speaking with someone else and comment on a topic we didn't discuss and bring that to our conversation. I still continued to email him inspite of these oddities. Well, another oddity that surfaced was how fast he fell in love with me-we never spoke only emailed each other. After he dropped the love bomb, he started to talk about how broke he was and needed money....and wanted to hear my voice. He sent me a document about a special phone to purchase and the service plans to chose from, ranging from 600 dollarsto 940 dollars; oh yes, and to send all payments through Western Union. Why would I finance a phone, when I could contact you by cell phone, How could you complain of being broke when a man in your position makes approx. 8400 per month(I looked it up)and all services rendered to you was courtesy of US Army and you are on the base. I smelled a rat; so I spoke with someone in the service who denounced the letter and the walls of deception fell down. Thanks to me and my sisters' suspicions, I didn't lose a dime. So I'm sending notice to those who feel the same way but not sure if their feelings are playing tricks on them....DON'T SECOND GUESS YOUR FEEELINGS OR YOUR INSTINCTS!!!! Don't feel bad if your instincts don't serve you immediately(mine were ringing but I wasn't sure;thank God for my sisters'!!)run this information past someone you trust-they will always tell you the truth.
He's still at it!!!BE CAREFUL!!!
He's still at it!!!BE CAREFUL!!!