Information on romance scams and scammers.
by Fine Mon Aug 22, 2011 5:51 pm
This person has a profile on OkCupid. User name is holidaymakermvp.
This is almost the same letter that is posted in this forum under other names.
His scam romance letter I received on 18 August 2011 is as follows:

"How are you doing today, if you are working and preparing to leave for home or already at home?I'm pretty much a trusting person, for the most part.. However, I believe each person deserves their own chance and don't judge anyone.. In fact, I try to keep an open mind with everyone.. At least as much as a human being can.. I believe in ROMANCE! I love romance and being romantic, I enjoy pampering my woman (when I have one)..I am naturally an early bird and sometimes night owl when I have so much work to be done.You can call me on 360-524-9591 or text me on 240-391-7390 and would reply.

I am constantly told that I'm good looking, look and act far younger than my age (while still being responsible for the most part).. I am considered intelligent, honest, capable of carrying on conversations on a variety of topics, kind, caring, giving, passionate, compassionate, a leader with a commanding presence, possessing a dry sense of humor and so much more! You will find me a contradiction in terms.. I can be intense yet laid back, intelligent yet do some of the most stupid things, yet shy, a leader yet not afraid to take directions and be a role player, funny yet serious, etc..

I do not seek a replacement mother for my children rather, I seek one amazing woman who not only accepts my relationship with my children but won't feel threatened nor jealous of this relationship and who can blend seamlessly into our family unit..

I guess I'm looking for a woman who can love me as I am (good, bad and ugly).. Someone who can relate about life and it's ups and downs and will want to share them.. I want my match to be able to work together to obtain goals that we've both set.. I'd like us to be able to grow as individuals as well as a couple.. I'd want our relationship to be secure so that we can feel comfortable and trust each other completely without questions!..

I would want her to be everything and she mine... A friendship that grows into the ultimate loving,caring,passionate relationship that one only dreams of. I don't want to just live with someone, I want someone I can't imagine living without.I hope that makes sense. I guess I'm searching for my missing piece to my puzzle..

I am at a great place in my life now and want to share it with a partner on all levels.. I always say that it's what on the inside that counts and that always makes a person attractive on the outside as well.. I want to be with someone that I miss when we are not together and I can feel the electricity running through my body when we touch.. Someone who likes to cuddle(I know this probably sounds corny), hold hands, hug, kiss for no reason, I want to be the couple who were 85 walking down the street and holding hands.. I just love that when I see it.. Like you I just won't settle..

I do not have a particular physical "type" that appeals to me.I am not the jealous type by any means.I believe that in a relationship you have to be a family regardless if the children are not biologically yours a family is a family no matter what! I would never try to be a replacement father it just can't be done, but to be there for the children and support them and be a part of their life is an important thing!..

I hope that I didn't bore you with all this information. I did not date for close to 12 years after the death of my wife all because I wanted to make sure that I knew what I want and that I was in a good place in my life and ready to share it with a partner.I am at that place now!..

I am willing to relocate provided that the relationship is moving in a long term,serious direction. I am not interested in bopping around "trying women out".. LOL... on a more serious side, I am not about having sex with just anyone. I must have feelings for the person and she for me.There must be that deep seeded trust before it would move to the sexual phase.There's just too many diseases out there and to be honest, I've seen what they can do to a life if you're careless sexually. I wouldn't want that for anyone I know or care about.Don't get me wrong though, if the relationship were to get to that phase, I am completely into pleasing my woman.... COMPLETELY!

Hopefully I have intrigued you to some extent.. And I do hope to hear from you soon! Take care.. Please feel free to ask me anything you would want to know, I will be more than happy to answer your questions.. Tell me a lot more about you and what you looking for.Well, I will sign out now..Have a wonderful evening and I hope none of this scared you off.


God Bless You...
Gabriel"

OkCupid Profile Description:: HOLIDAYMAKERMVP: Single, Age 54, Washington, DC area, 6 ft., Christian

"I'm a pretty open book. I think communication is very important and I try very hard to do that as well as making it as easy as possible for everyone to communicate with me.I'd love a partner i can share adventures with - It might be the kind of adventure that's simply riding our bikes on Saturday morning for crepes and fresh peaches or picking a direction on the map and just going for a drive or climbing Mountains.Out and about stuff aside, I can be just as content to hang out at home relaxing together and talking, watching movies or just sharing space and reading together.My believe is that a man and a woman should contact on a level of maturity and honesty. That is what brings true love and passion in a friendship first and then as lovers. In a society we will both wear different hats during the day, but at the end of the day all hats are off. At the end of the day we are enjoying life, love, anger, and sometimes pain. Love is not always a sweet melody. But the thought of having someone there to share these different waves of emotions,calms even the most unpleasant beast.Loving to love and loving to be loved. Is one of the greatest gifts God has blessed us to behold.A man of love,I have a Big heart with a wide soul and am looking for a one man's woman to share my ups and downs with."

Thanks to this website, I found out, because I entered this sentence into google: I am not interested in bopping around "trying women out". Scamwarners came up directly. THANK YOU!
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by Bubbles Mon Aug 22, 2011 11:57 pm
We are pleased you found us Fine and realized you were communicating with a scammer. Thank you for your kind words and for posting this information for others to find.

Bubbles, former Scamwarners moderator.

Rest in Peace 24 June 2015.

Gone, but never forgotten.
by Fine Wed Aug 24, 2011 10:39 am
Gabriel Cortez: HURRICANE IRENE LETTER: 24 August 2011

Hello Everyone,

As you all have probably heard Hurricane Irene is headed towards the Bahamas. At this time we are all fine. We tried to get a flight out of the Bahamas but they do not have any more available flights so we have no other option than to stay here until Saturday. We hope that the airports will remain open after the hurricane passes and that there will not be much damage. They have informed us that we may have to prepare to stay several days longer if flights are cancelled and that they will work with us to try to do their best to get us home as soon as they can. Unfortunately at this time it is a waiting game to see what happens. If there is a lot of damage most likely the airport will remain closed. They have flown the planes to somewhere else to prepare for the hurricane and will return once over. The locals we find to have mixed feelings about the hurricane. Many are not worried while others are because usually Atlantis is protected by the surrounding islands and have never been threatened to be hit with a hurricane of this magnitude. I will do my best to keep you all updated since I know this affects you all. As of right now they have placed a state of emergency here to the residents and guests of the Bahamas and starting tomorrow they will be closing everything in the afternoon. They plan to move us into the ballroom of the Royal Towers most likely by tomorrow afternoon where there is no windows or glass and we will be told to remain there until they give us the clear. The staff at our resort have been trying to keep up us all informed of the plan and notify us of any changes. We unfortunately do not have internet in our room. And the way I am sending this out to you all is that we paid to use the internet for 24 hours so that we can notify everyone of our situation. They have informed us that they have back up generators and plenty of drinking water so we should be fine if we have to remain in the ballroom for multiple days. Like I said earlier I will try to keep you all updated as I know information and if I am able to. The buildings here are built very well so I am not worried for our safety and the staff seem to be very prepared and capable to handle this situation. Hope to be home as planned on Saturday but will let you all know if I am not.

Sincerely and all my love,
Renee

I am so happiest to have finally read from my daughter who was a vacation with the fiancee to the Bahamas...Why am I having difficulties in reaching you?You don't call me back.I am wondering if I have the wrong number.The phone rings but no response.Wishing a nice and wonderful day.

Good Morning,
Gabriel
by Bubbles Wed Aug 24, 2011 11:56 pm
Scammers are persistent and will keep trying to draw you back into the story they have made up. I am sure if you take some key phrases from the story about the hurricane, you will find they have taken that from someone else. They are like that. :evil:

Bubbles, former Scamwarners moderator.

Rest in Peace 24 June 2015.

Gone, but never forgotten.

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