I have been receiving emails from one
[email protected]. He fits a profile of Donald on another blog here. I am wondering if I can do anything about this man. Obviously reporting him doesn't work as he is still at it. I would like to be able to do something besides just ignoring him.
As well, from what I have gathered through the dating site Be2 99% of the men on there are scamming. I am not sure if it is because it is a new site and they are not able to filter or if they are actually part of the problem. I have written to them several times and gotten no reply from them. I have reported those who are scamming and they have not blocked them.
Many of them are so blatant that they use the same picture and open new profiles!
When I first joined the site I must have received about 20 emails from men who were engineers in the field of oil and or gas and were widowers.
Here is his first email:
first thank you for your nice lines on Be2 and I'll tell you more about me.I want you to know that it gladdens my heart hearing from you and reading from you..
Well, I have to give you an insight about me OK... My name is Lawson Cole, I was born and raised in Canada and that's where am originally from ...My mum she from Canada and why my dad from state ..I am 45yrs old, I was married to my lost wife, Jessica for 19yrs before she died in a plane crash in 2006, she was my sister, my mother, my best friend and my wife! She meant the world to me and her death left a very big vacuum in my heart..I miss her so much, but I know I have to go on with my life..She was from Camden, New Jersey in America..I must confess I have not dated or been with any woman since she died!...I have a daughter, Kate, she is 18 years old and currently attending University of California in USA wanting to major in Psychology, but that could change, you know how it goes...smile! I love her so much and we have a wonderful relationship.. I am the first and only child. I have a very small but wonderful family and I love them all very very much and we are really close!.. My father died in 2002, he was a great man and I miss him so so much! He was such an inspiration to me and fun to be with as well, I really miss him! and also my mom who was a very wonderful woman died 3 years after the death of my dad..i think she missed him so much, smile!!
I am an environmental analyst / oil and gas engineer. I earned my degree in the University of Liverpool, in Liverpool UK in 1984, but got my MBA in 2007 at the Oxford university. I have a degree in Environmental Science...I used to work for a company that designs cooling systems for agricultural tractors, but after many years of doing the corporate thing, I decided to be my own boss and now I do a little of everything, mainly involved in the projects surrounding the conversions of gas stations into handling gas with more than 10% ethanol. Something that interests me is good for the environment and of course with anyone paying attention to the price of gas now days, very lucrative as well.....
I am easy going man, still feels very young and strong, God fearing, I love traveling and have traveled to so many places in the course of doing my job. Like I said before, I have not dated or been with any woman since my wife passed in 2006, I have been on my own and its been basically by choice... I have been preparing myself and making myself a better person,and waiting for the woman God is sending to me! I don't know when but am ready and ready to love again...
I have to say this, there is something special about you and you have to let me know it.. I have been single because I want to take my time to find my soul mate, I know she is out there, its only a matter of time before we meet....I don't know what you are looking for, but I have to tell you that I still want to marry again, I have missed the love of a woman for many years now, there is nothing better than to love and being loved back..
I love water! Beach, pool or shower, I just love water, it gives me a sense of calmness! I love cooking and taking a walk in the park holding hands, but I have not done much of that Lately, I am a family oriented person, I was very close to my family and loved them dearly before death took them from me leaving only my daughter who i really cherish...I love to kiss, but haven't kissed any woman for many years, my lips are all dried up! Smile!..My favorite color is blue, I love listening to Jazz music, reggae, pop, blues, gospel and soul, I love country music also....My favorite meals are seafood,Mexican food and home food...i am not a fast food person...I am the old school type of man that believes a man should spoil his woman, like giving her flowers, open the car door for her, wake her up with a cup of tea or coffee depending on what she likes with a kiss on the forehead! I had a wonderful marriage with my wife I must say, and if I have to do it again, I will do it all over again and even better!!
The "must haves" of my dream woman include her being able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life, someone I can count on to always support me, give me space to be my own person, and who can handle life's frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady, demeanor. It would also be nice of her to be someone who is generous with her compassion, attention, sympathies and Love. Someone who is Intimate enough to share their deepest emotional thoughts and desires, someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection. Being Gentle and Kind are also traits that attract me, I also like to have a partner that enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends. And most of all I must feel deeply in love and attracted to her. Am I asking for too much ?
I also enjoy taking cruises with my daughter, going for shopping, hanging out at the park or museum. I also enjoy taking long walks at the beach but its usually always lonely when you don't have someone to share that time with someone to hold hands with & dig our feet into the sand, to Listen to the waves crash on the shore. To feel the sun upon our faces. Someone willing to travel to new exotic places and appreciate the things we've got, Even if it's not a lot. To feel the wind flow through our hair. To feel heaven as if we were there Because that special someone is next to me And there's no other place I would rather be.
Well I have to get back to my paper work now would be looking forward to your next email .. I would like to see you pictures of you in your next mail if you have any. Please have a wonderful time.
Lots Of Hugs and Kisses from a Guardian Angel, and please put a smile on someone's face for me today.
Lawson