Information on romance scams and scammers.
by sickofscams Thu Jan 19, 2012 1:43 am
Hi There

I have been talking to a soldier (reportedly) who is deployed in Afghanistan. Initially his grammar was great (and I have read all the reports about this) its not terrible and not at US education standards. Sad story - Mother died in childbirth in 1975 and Dad adopted him. Both adoptive parents died over the years and they had their own child who is his sister who is just 16. Such bad luck in one family - I find it amazing they think we believe all of this.

It took 3 weeks before he asked me to help him with money to pay another soldier to go on a deadly mission for him. This other soldier has cancer and not many people know about his sickness (supposedly) and he will do what he can to make money for his family before he dies. And in turn by giving 50% of what was asked for it would guarantee that the soldier I am speaking to would not have to risk his life on the mission. The asking amount was $70,000 USD so 50% is $35,000. To be deposited in the sick soldiers wifes account before he would agree to take the his place.

Needless to say I did not part with any or my money at all. He claims he is retiring on the 26th of this month and coming straight to me after 2 days in the states to sort out his money and pension. He also told me the US Army is giving him a house as part of his package and where did I want this to be - I said Hawaii (holiday house lol).

I was then asked for $1000 US to pay for lawyer who has a bill due for an inheritance he is working on - again I said no and he said he was sorry for asking me for money and agreed not to do it again. Please note that he started asking for money when his gmail chat would not work and he opened a yahoo account for us to chat on and asked me to do the same.

A week later he is giving me his sister email address (and I sent her an email) and she responded on chat to me. Her English for a 17 year old native american attending boarding school is also pretty bad.

In the last 2-3 days he has been talking to me on gmail chat but with his status as invisible and I cant seem to recall the messages after we have stopped chatting, I will try to copy and paste them tonight when he is talking to me.

He has told me last night that he has a box of money his General gave him that they found when fighting the Taliban. They gave it to the government who gave them back some of it. In his box he has $500,000. Mind you I asked him why he didnt give cash to the other soldier and he said he cant do that as they are not allowed to have cash and it would have raised suspicion. He is going on a deadly mission in 2 days and has dug up his box (yes it was buried) and passed it to The Red Cross who are taking it to a security detail for him who will courier to to me. I have told him I am not comfortable with this, that the money needs to be declared and I am not declaring it. He told me he will send me the combination which I said I did not want several time and then he said he put a surprise in the box for me so I would need the combination. I said I would speak with the security company as things are very strict where money is concerned and I am not at all comfortable with it.

Today I am expecting to get the details of the security company and his little sister telephone number (its her bday on Sat and he wont be able to call her as he is on mission so he wants me to do this).

I have really started to get suspicious in the last 2 weeks. So have played along to this point. I did do a search on his name and email addresses when he first contacted me and found nothing, I did this again just a day ago and found that he had joined another dating site just 4 days ago and logged in on the one day that he did not speak with me. I screenshot this and sent it to him and he said his friend did it not him, that the birth date etc was wrong and his music taste etc. Anyway - he has since taken this down as I have looked for it again today and its not there. I asked him to take it down.

I would like to send you his ip email details and name to check them our but I dont want to post it online until you check them and can confirm if you think it all adds up to DODGY! Then I am happy to post. Can you please let me know where I can send this information to you?

Thanks so much. I have actually had to use this site before and it was a scammer, who even though I stopped talking to has since sent me msg 6 weeks later telling me he still loves me. Seems I am the one who is not having much luck.

Thanks for your help this is such a great resource.
Last edited by sickofscams on Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:40 am, edited 1 time in total.
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by AlanJones Thu Jan 19, 2012 1:53 am
I don't need to see the IP address or the emails to tell you that this is 100% a scam. The scammer is trying nearly every scam in the book on you - fees for a colleague to do a mission for him, fees for an inheritance and now a trunk box with lots of money in it.

It also looks like when he realised he wasn't getting anywhere with you, he posted a new profile to look for new victims and then had to make an excuse when you found it.

Please post his emails and the headers (minus your details) so that it will help others avoid being scammed by him. Note, it is the headers of the yahoo mails we would need to see, not the gmail.

Please do not tell scammers that they are listed here - it will take them seconds to change their fake details and their new details will not be listed for any future victims to find.
by jolly_roger Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:10 am
I can tell you it is very DODGY... no doubt whatsoever.
Reading the first paragraph was enough.
Alan summarised the situation very well for you. I would also suggest to stop all dialogue with the scamming trickster with immediate effect.
The scammer does not love you, nor like you and would have no warm feelings at all.
It is all about getting his grubby hands inside your purse and taking your money with some stupid concocted fairy-tale of a story. May I suggest you scroll to the top of this page and type military scams into the site search function. You will be amazed at the results that show on the screen.
by sickofscams Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:20 am
Thanks Alan and Jolly_Roger.

He does not email me from Yahoo only talks to me on the chat when his gmail was not working and that only lasted for a couple of days. Now its back to gmail chat but he is invisible when he talks to me on it again only in the last few days.

He uses the name Roland Nervig OR Nervig Roland OR Nervig Rock (rock is his nickname as he is head of the bomb squad). Sisters name Cecelia Nervig.

emails are: [email protected]
or [email protected]

And I am pleased to hear that he is trying every scam in the book with me, at least he has to try hard to get anywhere with me and I am glad I busted him on another site that he took down.

Thanks again guys.
by ratt84 Thu Jan 19, 2012 4:43 am
email address leads to
http://www.asianmatch.com/memberprofile/1459
nervigrock / 38 / Male / El Indio , California , United States

love can never be broken
Member Overview
i am a kind and loving person who is humble and looking for the right match and easygoing to be with
Gender : Male
Age : 38
Marital Status : Single
Has Children : No
Lives in : United States
Languages spoken : English
Nationality : United States us
Appearance : Attractive
Height : 180 cm (5 ft 11 in)
Weight : 75 Kg (165 lb)
Hair Color : Black
Eye Color : Black
Ethnicity : Other
Religion : Christian - Other
Education : Bachelors degree
Occupation : government military
Languages spoken : English
English Ability : Fluent

Seeking
a woman who is loving and caring, and have a lot of patient to be in a serious relationship with that can lead to marriage
Gender : Female
Aged : 35 - 80 :lol:
For : Penpal,Marriage,Friendship,Romance / dating
by okadayi Thu Jan 19, 2012 11:42 am
Hi there

Recently I also met this liar on the dating site.His story is just not the same as using.This time he says his father needs a kindney transplant now.He can not afford existing medical cost.He want me help him.He claims he is retiring on the 26th of this month and coming straight to me after 2 days in the states to sort out his money and pension.I have really started to get suspicious.Today i happy to had to use this site and it was a scammer, who even though I stopped talking now!!Seems I am the one who is having Good luck. Thanks for your help this is such a great resource.
by lammy Thu Jan 26, 2012 3:37 am
This liar told me the same story that his dad needs a kidney transplant and have asked me to remit USD$2,000 to his cousin by the name of Cecilia Anderson in London, UK. Now he is telling me he will retire by 26th next month however he is still on list to go for a mission in Afghanistan before his retirement. His story is getting way off hand and I am glad to see this here. He won't be getting any money from me! It's a pity we can't upload pictures here as he has send me plenty of his pictures and I wonder when did he get those pictures from.
by sickofscams Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:32 am
HI Guys

Yep the same guy as the photos that I got, thanks for posting, I didnt get around to doing it.

Shame as he seemed like a great guy.
by lammy Wed Feb 01, 2012 10:35 pm
Hi sickofscams

Don't be shamed as the real guy in the picture is innocent. Anyway I managed to find the real nervig (he doesn't go by the first name Roland or Rock) on facebook and have informed him about it. The real nervig is just a 26yo guy certainly not 36yo or 38yo as claimed by the scammer. I have more fake photos used by him to load up soon.
by lammy Thu Feb 02, 2012 12:06 am
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He gave me some photos of another guy (obviously they are two different people) and telling me it it also him. I nearly fell off my chair laughing and knew immediately this guy is a fraud. We communicated mostly on skype (his skype id is nervig8) and as his story gets way off hand I just played along with him. From what I have gathered, I am pretty sure he is someone from Ghana as he gave me a contact number which is +233249289205 so to everyone who is reading this please beware.
by sickofscams Thu Feb 02, 2012 3:04 am
Dear Lammy

I am by no way shamed - I mean shame as in 'unfortunate'.

And I am happy to hear the real Nervig knows that his image is being used.

And yeah those other photos are hilarious.

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