He approached me on Oasis.com a singles dating site, His Profile name was someothertime. Within the first hour of chatting he asked if we could go onto MSN Messenger, We did and spoke on there, he asked me if I could Take my Oasis profile down also. He sent me an e-mail with 4 photos of himself and his e-mail said exactly what his Oasis Profile said, just like it was a script. That was my first alert. He had said he was in the Millitary and based in Kabul, although he is an American from, San Francisco, Californina, he was on A mission working with the UN, he also said his wife and he had split due to her leaving him while he was away on his first 'millitary deployment', He then went on to tell me he has A daughter named Mavis and send me a photo of a little coloured girl, he said she was living with a friend of his in Africa and her mother wants nothing to do with her. He can not webcam with me nor has a facebook page because of the strict security and someone had stolen photos off of his old facebook page which he has yet to remove. He is a Captain/ Sargeant in the millitary and has his own tent with his laptop and an armed guard also BTW...
By the second day he told me he is in love with me. Second Alert, He had also asked me to put my webcam on but it was not working so I told him he would have to wait, He sent me perfectly typed and worded e-mails, yet his spelling and grammar on MSN was fairly bad, Alert 3, so I googled his name and a whole heap of profiles came up from different dating sites, some with the same pictures, some with the same "scripted' story, as well as one from This site. The guy in the pictures looked the same, Still in Army attire, yet I was sent different pictures, the stories on this site were different also.... I didn't know what to think so I confronted him on it, 2 days later I got a reply telling me that he had mentioned his photos were stolen already when we first started chatting and that yes, he was on other dating sites.
So once again I fell for his charms, He had nothing to live for in America, is coming home in either December 2012 or January 2013, is going to get a flight from Afghanistan and fly here to Australia to meet me and propose, while he is here he is going to make sure I am stable, protected and Happy and help him to set up a home for my kids, myself, himself and Mavis which he will fly over, he will have to go over to America though and get his medals as he is retiring, so we will go with him and he will sell all of his assets over there and set up over here with us..... Alert again
His e-mails kept coming through and they were so sweet and so perfectly typed, I became very curious due to his bad spelling, EG: Dough instead of Though, and I decided to copy and Paste and found every e-mail he sent me, the site was.... lovingyou.com.
I inquired with him about the e-mails and asked him if those words came from him, his answer was a 'Yes of course they do Babe, My love for you is so true and I had to type what I was feeling' so I told him that it was funny that I had seen the same words spoken on lovingyou.com.... he told me he was a poet.... I then got angry with him and all of a sudden I was the worst person in the world, un-trustworthy, I don't know true Love, I am not faithful and go behind his back.... yet he is not angry.....
I have not spoken to him today as that all went down yesterday, I found this site very helpful. His newest IM and E-Mail address is
[email protected]. I had previously asked him for proof as to who he is and that I wanted solid proof, he told me he could go to the 'diplomat house in Kabul and ring me, He has asked me for my phone number so he can prove it is him, but I told him that he could be anyone calling me from anywhere so that was not proof of who he is, he did seem a bit angry/confused by this. BUT he has not asked me in the 2 weeks we were or have been chatting for anything else. Maybe he is just a sad and Lonely guy who lives in a world of possible make believe.... That is not MY world though so good luck to him and all I can hope is that anyone else who falls for this guys fakery googles his name!!!
just make sure u type you experience here so it doesn't get lost on the WWW, and it will be one of the first websites to come up when, like I did, other ladies get curious and google names xoxoxo Don't give up on love thou, just be aware <3