My friend doesn't believe this is a scam? Help

Emails are below. I think this is a classic Nigerian scam. He has a picture iof him and his "grand mom" as well on FB. Am I cynical or right?


How are you and how was your day? Thanks for writing me, it was really nice reading your email and getting to know you well. Let me tell you more about myself before we go too far in this relationship which I see as something that will last forever and will lead us to the road of marriage and grow old together. Writing to someone you have never met before I think is extremely difficult. Take this e-mail for instance, I had all the words in my head but could not seem to put a coherent sentence together, was going to start with hello or how are you today?! Anyway I will get to the pulse of it all, and I hope that everything is moving fine with you also that this letter finds you in good health and spirit. I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today.

The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send an e-mail message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality relationship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions. I believe that our faith is the very foundation of our lives, and also of a great relationship that will endure the test of time, I am looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me and I will listen to her too because Love is 50/50.

First of all,let me introduce myself in brief. I am Engineer. Kelly Benjamin, I am 5ft in 8, brown eyes, 78kg weight. I'm an independent contractor that deals on oil profile, crude oil locations, oil spillage and chemical supply for crude oil pipes etc. I work for different companies which is always on contracts and they do invite me for contract work which always take me out of the country; it’s all has to do with the oil field. Anyway, my work is a great place to be because it’s always on contract. I’m sorry to let you know that I am currently in Scotland, UK on a business trip but am not going to spend much time, it was a contract that I was suppose to handle last month but I fell sick and couldn't make it, but the company called me back to handle the contract again. Though I want to quit after this job, I don’t like traveling for work especially out of the country. I will like to set up a family business that will always keep me home. Something that I will like to partner with my wife. I am also looking unto the Real Estate thing, though it’s not a good business now with the economy, but one can buy and keep until the economy get balanced. Grand mom introduces me to the Chevron oil company before she passed away 3yrs ago. Humm I miss her so much because she was the one that assisted me of putting myself through graduate school and also of my career accomplishments to date.

Oh I must tell you that she is my hero.

I joined POF few days back to look for my Miss right until I came across your profile which really caught my sight. My last relationship was 2yrs back, I have a girl I propose to but along the line, she had a cancer of the breast and pass away. My past has not been easy, I gonna stop here because I hate remembering her, She was so nice to me and it is painful that I lost her. My past has not been good but I keep the faith moving I really do have to move on with my life. Life is too short and the past is the past too. Everyone probably had a bad thing in their life and I have to go on because I have faith and I believe there a special someone out there waiting to be found to help me get over all this. My Ex is gone and forever, so I have to open my heart to welcome new things and look for a true love. She does not exist anymore. I try keeping the good memories within myself, in my heart. I think of her as someone precious that came to make me happy and now I want to give myself a fresh start. I don't keep friends because of the way I grew up, so I came to describe life in this form, Life is too short to wake up with regrets. I hope I will start making friends soon because I need them around me.
 
I will vibrationally tell you more about my kind of person below. I don't think I need to deceive anyone just for me to have a woman. I believe that if you could not accept me of who I am, Then we are just might be wasting each others time. I believe that faith can lead us to a very beautiful direction. That eventually we might end up with each other if we are really meant for each other. I believe that we are going to have a good chemistry for each other, as far as We both will be honest of what we really are. Laying all the cards of what we should expect from each other. I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. My heart is free and open also I will be happy, if I find the same heart and it will be mutual.
 
The reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise.

Do you believe love after love?... Yes I do, and if love is a crime, am ready to be wanted. Take a very good care of yourself for me OK!.. To tell you the truth I will end here for now, because I am very curious about your reply back. And if you write back indeed we can talk later other details if you are willing to know each other better in the future even if we live far away.

Warmest Regards,
Kelly.

How are you and how is your day going? Thank you for communicating and talking with me from POF and also letting me to know more about yourself. Taking out time to read my boring life stories. I would start by saying, I am Petroleum Engineering by profession, and I have many of the personality traits that you might expect to go along with the profession, and work with all kind of Exploration Equipment. I specialize on Crude Oil and Gas Engineer, because I still did my master on petroleum Engineering too.
 
Some of my favorite things are the salty taste of lobster simmering in a beurre blanc sauce, the smell of the ocean mixed with suntan lotion on a summer day, the cool, velvety softness of well-worn cotton sheets on a hot summer night, the gentle touch of a lover, the beauty of a home which has been designed to be inviting and welcoming, the sound of leaves rustling beneath your feet in the Fall.
 
I am a loving and caring person with good sense of humor, and am looking for serious relationship that I will last forever with love caring and happiness, I want a partner to be honest loving and caring, I am looking for my soul mate and my best friend. I am here to look for the real woman who can bring out the best in me. A woman that will share the solid foundation of relationship with me, which is, trust, love, relationship, companion, compromise, understanding, friendship, sincere of, who has the spirit of given. A woman that knows what is in my mind when she looks at my face. One that will share my sorrows and happiness with me and one that will be there for me in time of good and bad. Someone who is kind.
 
I am passionate about kids, I love kids and I love to help people who are less privileged.
 
And please if you are for games, I don't think we are meant to be and don't bother yourself to contact me because am a one man woman, am looking for the love of my life not one night stand. I think I have to stop here, I will tell you more about me when we get to know each other. My family is not what I will discuss with you now not until I grow to know more about yourself. I live in Arlington Heights, IL.

Though I will appreciate it with the yahoo chat so that we can grow to know each other daily. I have to continue with my work now; I have a paper work dealing with in respect a contract.
 
I am honored that you have chosen to communicate with me.
 
I have not been with this site very long. So to see that I initiated this match was very nice. How long have you been with the site what the experience is like?
 
Me,Kelly

It's definitely a scammer. His English come across as West African.

If you were to google the phrase "I will vibrationally tell you more about my kind of person below", which is taken from this person's text above, you will find a number of different names using the same text.

For example,

i will vibrationally tell you more about my kind of person below.
I don't think I need to deceive anyone just for me to have a woman. I believe that if you could not accept me of who I am, Then we are just might be wasting each others time.I believe that faith can lead us to a very beautiful direction. That eventually we might end up with each other if we are really meant for each other. I believe that we are going to have a good chemistry for each other, as far as We both will be honest of what we really are. Laying all the cards of what we should expect from each other. My heart is free and open also I will be happy, if I find the same heart and it will be mutual.take a very good care of yourself for me OK
Max

That can be found on this page: http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&p=164525

Do you have the email address that the scammer is using? If so, please post it here.
Also, if you can get the email "headers", that would be a big help in convincing your friend.

Thanks. The email is [email protected]. Name Kelly Benjamin. I don't have the header. Just forwarded emails my friend sent to me to get my opinion. She's too trusting. If I were single and received and email like this I would just delete it after reading the first paragraph.

Thanks for the info, AdrianS.
Hopefully, your friend will see sense and drop all contact with him.

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003332480743

Kelly Benjamin
worked at British Petroleum (BP)
studied at University of Madrid, Spain

About Kelly
I'm originally from Azores Portugal, but I almost grew up in Spain where I had my formal education. I was 33yrs when I came to Arlington Heights, Illinois from Madrid in Spain to live with grand Mom. Mom and Dad got divorced and separated when I was 3yrs old, since then I have been lacking the love and caring of my parents because they are nowhere to be found. Mom is from Hanford, CA while Dad is a Portuguese. Both of them decide to take me to grand mom whom I grew up with and I am always proud of her because she taugth me alot before she passed away. I am passionate about kids, I love kids. I also wish to let you know that I have a Portuguese accent, hope you wouldn't mind about it? I will be willing to relocate it for love if it calls for

so called mix race and having an accent in English, always suspicious
Arlington Heights, IL with the zip code 6000x (ranging from 4 to 6) is scammers' favorite
population of approximately 80,000
and thousands of lonely males are looking for a wife!

Googling the phrase about lobster is also very revealing.
http://www.matchdoctor.com/profile_davlovesyou.html

And, this from http://www.scamvictimsunited.com/phpBB2 ... =21&t=2804

Post subject: Re: Andrew Dino Newell aka Chris Perkins - Avian Pathologist
PostPosted: Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:49 am

Chris Perkins aka Dr Chris Perkins

Yes he is also Andrew Dino Newell and various others sometimes female
Chris contacted me within 2 days of my going onto the perfectmatch website, I did a search on his charming paragraph a little too late "Sensuality is important to me, some of my favorite things are the salty taste of lobster simmering in a beurre blanc sauce, the smell of the ocean mixed with suntan lotion on a summer day" and found them on many dating webistes - given a list below

Sometimes scammers will claim that they are real and all the scammers copied their information (which is just another typical scammer lie). But, since the love of his life supposedly died 2 years ago, and these words were already in use by many scammers in 2009, it is clear that if his story were true, he wouldn't have written them.

To [email protected]
Opened 2012/01/25
Location Attleborough, England, United Kingdom (86% likelihood)
Opened on ip174.50-31-29.static.steadfastdns.net (50.31.29.174:60405)

IP: 50.31.29.174
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Hello xxx,
How are you and how is your day going? Thank you for communicating and talking with me from POF. Taking out time to read my boring life stories. I would start by saying, I am Petroleum Engineering by profession, and I have many of the personality traits that you might expect to go along with the profession, and work with all kind of Exploration Equipment. I specialize on Crude Oil and Gas Engineer, because I still did my master on petroleum Engineering too.
Some of my favorite things are the salty taste of lobster simmering in a beurre blanc sauce, the smell of the ocean mixed with suntan lotion on a summer day, the cool, velvety softness of well-worn cotton sheets on a hot summer night, the gentle touch of a lover, the beauty of a home which has been designed to be inviting and welcoming, the sound of leaves rustling beneath your feet in the Fall.
I am a loving and caring person with good sense of humor, and am looking for serious relationship that I will last forever with love caring and happiness, I want a partner to be honest loving and caring, I am looking for my soul mate and my best friend. I am here to look for the real woman who can bring out the best in me. A woman that will share the solid foundation of relationship with me, which is, trust, love, relationship, companion, compromise, understanding, friendship, sincere of, who has the spirit of given. A woman that knows what is in my mind when she looks at my face. One that will share my sorrows and happiness with me and one that will be there for me in time of good and bad. Someone who is kind.
I am passionate about kids, I love kids and I love to help people who are less privileged.
And please if you are for games, I don't think we are meant to be and don't bother yourself to contact me because am a one man woman, am looking for the love of my life not one night stand. I think I have to stop here, I will tell you more about me when we get to know each other. My family is not what I will discuss with you now not until I grow to know more about yourself. I live in Arlington Heights, IL.
Though I will appreciate it with the yahoo chat so that we can grow to know each other daily. I have to continue with my work now; I have a paper work dealing with in respect a contract.
I am honored that you have chosen to communicate with me.
I have not been with this site very long. So to see that I initiated this match was very nice. How long have you been with the site what the experience is like?
Me,
Kelly.

Received: from [50.31.29.174]
Date: Wed, 25 Jan 2012
From: Kelly Benjamin <[email protected]>

Hi. A few days ago he wrote me through a page in which I'm enrolled, and is the same as wrote you|. I had no idea any of this, but as we are always cautious Colombian good. he was lost for several days and I did my strange. I had my suspicions that something was wrong and was not good. I asked by photos, and He evaded me, I asked him as He could tell me that he loved me in a few days, that it was impossible, and their messages were not consistent with what was said, that horror!!!
He responded automatically, he had no logic to what he said.
I find out I started him on the internet and I find this, that horror.
Luckily I snapped data not about me but if I sent photos and more women do not want to fall in your network.
I soon lost contact with him, but fear.
Please do not fall into the trap of this man.
Besides this I have written two men most closely resemble your profile, and I have followed the rope and I'm pretty sure they are the same as this class of men.
Please do not fall into these traps.
It'll let you know what happened.
First of all always seek out Ip.
This Kelly, write me from Malasya when He says that He was in America.
Can anyone help me with a question I have?
The second man who writes me, sometimes it does from Nigeria and the next day from the U.S., I do not understand, they're two different people using the same name? or changes your IP, or as l thing?
Thanks, I hope some answers.
Excuse me my English, but I wite and Speak other language.
Bye

Welcome to Scamwarners, Liliana!

I'm happy to read that you didn't lose any money to these scammers.
To answer your question about the IP. It's possible that there are two different people pretending to be the same person, but it's more likely that the scammer is using a trick (proxy) to hide his true location. Would you please post the email addresses and full names of the scammers that you have encountered? This will help to warn other woman using google.

This is what he wrote:

* First Message:

X-SID-PRA: Kelly Benjamin <[email protected]>
Received: from [60.53.109.47] by web29901.mail.ird.yahoo.com via HTTP; Sat, 03 Mar 2012 20:23:50 GMT
MALASYA, WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN, KUALA LUMPUR

Hello,
How are you and how is your weekend going? Thank you for communicating and talking with me from Militarycupid. Taking out time to read my boring life stories. I would start by saying, I am Petroleum Engineering by profession, and I have many of the personality traits that you might expect to go along with the profession, and work with all kind of Exploration Equipment. I specialize on Crude Oil and Gas Engineer, because I still did my master on petroleum Engineering too.
Some of my favorite things are the salty taste of lobster simmering in a beurre blanc sauce, the smell of the ocean mixed with suntan lotion on a summer day, the cool, velvety softness of well-worn cotton sheets on a hot summer night, the gentle touch of a lover, the beauty of a home which has been designed to be inviting and welcoming, the sound of leaves rustling beneath your feet in the Fall.
I am a loving and caring person with good sense of humor, and am looking for serious relationship that I will last forever with love caring and happiness, I want a partner to be honest loving and caring, I am looking for my soul mate and my best friend. I am here to look for the real woman who can bring out the best in me. A woman that will share the solid foundation of relationship with me, which is, trust, love, relationship, companion, compromise, understanding, friendship, sincere of, who has the spirit of given. A woman that knows what is in my mind when she looks at my face. One that will share my sorrows and happiness with me and one that will be there for me in time of good and bad. Someone who is kind.
I am passionate about kids, I love kids and I love to help people who are less privileged.
And please if you are for games, I don't think we are meant to be and don't bother yourself to contact me because am a one man woman, am looking for the love of my life not one night stand. I think I have to stop here, I will tell you more about me when we get to know each other. My family is not what I will discuss with you now not until I grow to know more about yourself. I live in Arlington Heights, IL.
Though I just added you to yahoo chat so that we can grow to know each other daily. I am honored that you have chosen to communicate with me.
I have not been with this site very long. So to see that I initiated this match was very nice. How long have you been with the site what the experience is like?
Me,
Kelly.

* SECOND MESSAGE:

X-SID-PRA: Kelly Benjamin <[email protected]>
Received: from [60.53.109.47] by web29901.mail.ird.yahoo.com via HTTP; Sun, 04 Mar 2012 13:44:08 GMT
MALAYSIA, WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN, KUALA LUMPUR

Hello,
How are you and how was your night? Thanks for talking with me online, it was really nice talking with you. Let me tell you more about myself before we go too far in this relationship which I see as something that will last forever and will lead us to the road of marriage and grow old together.Writing to someone you have never met before I think is extremely difficult. Take this e-mail for instance, I had all the words in my head but could not seem to put a coherent sentence together, was going to start with hello or how are you today?! Anyway I will get to the pulse of it all, and I hope that everything is moving fine with you also that this letter finds you in good health and spirit. I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today.
The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send an e-mail message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality relationship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions. I believe that our faith is the very foundation of our lives, and also of a great relationship that will endure the test of time, I am looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me and I will listen to her too because Love is 50/50.
First of all,let me introduce myself in brief. I am Engineer. Kelly Benjamin, I am 5ft in 8, brown eyes, 78kg weight. I'm an independent contractor that deals on oil profile, crude oil locations, oil spillage and chemical supply for crude oil pipes etc. I work for different companies which is always on contracts and they do invite me for contract work which always take me out of the country; it’s all has to do with the oil feild. Anyway, my work is a great place to be because it’s always on contract. I’m sorry to let you know that I am currently in Scotland, UK on a business trip but am not going to spend much time, it was a contract that I was suppose to handle last month but I fell sick and couldn't make it, but the company called me back to handle the contract again. Though I want to quit after this job, I don’t like traveling for work especially out of the country. I will like to set up a family business that will always keep me home. Something that I will like to partner with my wife. I am also looking unto the Real Estate thing, though it’s not a good business now with the economy, but one can buy and keep until the economy get balanced. Grand mom introduces me to the Chevron oil company before she passed away 3yrs ago. Humm I miss her so much because she was the one that assisted me of putting myself through graduate school and also of my career accomplishments to date.
Oh I must tell you that she is my hero.
I joined Cupid few days back to look for my Miss right until I came across your profile which really caught my sight. My last relationship was 2yrs back, I have a girl I propose to but along the line, she had a cancer of the breast and pass away. My past has not been easy, I gonna stop here because I hate remembering her, She was so nice to me and it is painful that I lost her. My past has not been good but I keep the faith moving I really do have to move on with my life. Life is too short and the past is the past too. Everyone probably had a bad thing in their life and I have to go on because I have faith and I believe there a special someone out there waiting to be found to help me get over all this. My Ex is gone and forever, so I have to open my heart to welcome new things and look for a true love. She does not exist anymore. I try keeping the good memories within myself, in my heart. I think of her as someone precious that came to make me happy and now I want to give myself a fresh start. I don't keep friends because of the way I grew up, so I came to describe life in this form, Life is too short to wake up with regrets. I hope I will start making friends soon because I need them around me.
I will vibrationally tell you more about my kind of person below. I don't think I need to deceive anyone just for me to have a woman. I believe that if you could not accept me of who I am, Then we are just might be wasting each others time. I believe that faith can lead us to a very beautiful direction. That eventually we might end up with each other if we are really meant for each other. I believe that we are going to have a good chemistry for each other, as far as We both will be honest of what we really are. Laying all the cards of what we should expect from each other. I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. My heart is free and open also I will be happy, if I find the same heart and it will be mutual.
The reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise.
Do you believe love after love?... Yes I do, and if love is a crime, am ready to be wanted. Take a very good care of yourself for me OK!.. To tell you the truth I will end here for now, because I am very curious about your reply back. And if you write back indeed we can talk later other details if you are willing to know each other better in the future even if we live far away.
Warmest Regards,
Kelly.


* THIRD MESSAGE: The same IP, Malasya

How are you doing? I'm hoping that you are in good sorts. There are lot of things we need to know about each other and i am not the kind of man that rush into relationship or marriage. I got all you want in a man and you are the kind of woman am looking for, i believe we can work it together it's just a matter of time. Time will tell and we have to wait for the lord timing, We have to be so sure and certain of our self about making sure that this relationship is what we want out in life, We have to be sure and certain of our self that this relationship is our future and everything. We don't just jump or rush into things anyhow. Everything in life has its own reason and purpose to happen, my being lonely for a very long time makes me want a companion and a woman to share my feelings and heart desires, a woman to spend the rest of our life's together. No one is perfect and we could only give it a trial.
Though it is right for us to learn from our past mistakes. Which makes you resisting and having hard time trusting someone again in your life..I see you have already tried to imagine the type of person i am, well i have been told that i am a unique individual, my view and opinions on life are quite different from most. I believe that i cannot change the past, but i most definitely can make the future My past relationship is a hell night mere with that word "Cancer" wish makes us to know how short this world is. Now, I am blessed with a second chance to life which has shown me that life is a gift and i must cherish every moment of it, good, bad and indifferent. I believe in fate and destiny and have always been in search of something that I'm quite not sure exists.. then came you. It is so amazing how i feel about you. I feel like i could never get enough of you.
The understanding of speechlessness is oh so real to me, for you have been able to knock the wind from my chest through your email. The thought of you has consumed my every waking hour.
I have longed for so long for that someone who cares to take the time to know me for who i am. A person who enjoys the company of another. One who is satisfied with sitting in the sand and holding me while the sun sets. One who can look into my eyes and know that my heart belongs to her. My emotions are true and when i FALL i fall hard. My intentions are pure and wish for the same in return. I am not looking for a one night stand or a roll in the hay but a i am looking for a life time of Love. I am looking for someone who makes my tummy flutter by every time i see or think of her.
Do you like playing music? For me I do. If I listen to music, I tend to listen to Indian (Hindi) or Middle Eastern, Italian or Spanish music. I listen to a lot of talk radio, National Public Radio. I sometimes listen to Enya or Andrea Bocelli when I want to relax. lol. I'm a catholic, and was raised a catholic.
Let me tell you more about the kind of woman that I want, I am looking for is Someone who is kind. Someone who appreciates the humor in things. Someone who is patient. Who follows current events? Someone who is curious about the world around her. Someone who is thoughtful. That about sums it up. I am looking for someone I can trust and who will trust me.......... Someone who will be around through the good and bad times. I want a partner to be honest, loving and caring. I am looking for my best friend.. One who is Straightforward, truthful, honest, sincerity, strong character and morals, someone that can handle a good intelligent conversation and agree to disagree. A woman that loves me inside as well as outside.
Well, I believe a man should be treated like the king of the castle, honored, admired, looked up to etc. BUT, he should treat his wife like a jewel, cherish her and respects her wishes as well. The man should also treat her like the princess that she is. I do not have any kid and my late Ex was my Fiance when she was alive. I so much believe that this will tell much about me.
Honey, I'm still not sure where this is going to go but i am more than willing to take this Journey. My feelings are mutual as far as desire, but we also hold a need to hear each others voice. I have never tried a long distance anything, so patience is what i will need to practice.I will wait for your response and practice perfection in patience and understanding Until then..
Fondly,
Kelly.


* 4 MESSAGE:

Received: from [60.53.109.47] by web29903.mail.ird.yahoo.com via HTTP; Thu, 08 Mar 2012 14:01:52 GMT
MALAYSIA, WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN, KUALA LUMPUR

My Heart Believes In You
I kept my head up high,
and then you came my way.
I have been hurt so many times.
My heart filled with so much pain.
but now that pain has gone away.
For I have found a place I want to be.
This place I see is with thee.
For in your arms I have felt and seen,
a wonderful feeling that I cannot believe.
A safe haven in your arms just for me.
Now I give my heart to thee.
For my heart believes in you.
Thinking about You....


* 5 MESSAGE:

Received: from [60.53.109.47] by web29906.mail.ird.yahoo.com via HTTP; Thu, 08 Mar 2012 14:04:21 GMT
MALAYSIA, WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN, KUALA LUMPUR

Dearest,
How are you doing and how was your night? Thanks for the email with you so far and also taking it slowly. I'm writing to let you know how I feel about you today. I don't know how to tell you face to face when we meet, so I am going to put my feelings in words, on this page. Since the day I met you online here, I haven't been the same. My feelings I just can't seem to tame. I am starting to care and think about you in a different way. I think of you every day! I love everything about you just like you have mentioned in your email! I just wish you could send me more pic so that I can have more glance of your eyes... I am pretty sure that soonest you will get to the point where I am now about the emotional thing. I can't get you off my mind, damn, Baby girl, you got my feelings stupid, because I know you may not feel the same yet, but my feelings just keep growing each and every day. Well, what I am trying to tell you is I am SPRUNG, and I am falling for you and yes, this is true! But I understand if you don't feel the same. Damn, I know this sound lame, but I have to let you know how I really feel. And this is no lie, I am for real. I hope I am not being naughty. lol.
Have a wonderful day until we talk again,
Kelly.


* 6 MESSAGE:

Other IP, the same Country
Received: from [60.53.111.83] by web29905.mail.ird.yahoo.com via HTTP; Sun, 11 Mar 2012 05:56:22 GMT
MALAYSIA, WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN, KUALA LUMPUR

Hello Sweetie,
How are you doing and how was your night? Thanks for sharing few things about yourself with me and also thanks for the conversation so far with you and the pictures. I just want you to know that a letter is more eloquent than words. That is why this will definitely speak for itself. I am a little bit confused on how and what to do just to eradicate from my vivid mind your kind of person. I like everything about you and this is the reason I want to find out all about you - how you think, how you feel, what your dreams are and everything nice from you. If I could only do something just to persuade you. I know you will be wondering why I won't be able to express all these when we meet, I said so because of the way we meet and also haven't meet you in person and just wondering what it will look like on our first meeting.
My dearly , you became so honorable in my mind, like a precious gem, counted with extremely good intellectual reasoning makes me emotionally struck and speechless after reading your email.
I went to sleep last night with a smile because I knew I'd be dreaming of you ... but I woke up this morning with a smile because you weren't a dream. "I'm talking about fate here - when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams
Here I go allowing all to know that I have a desire and want to be closer to you. I appreciate and thank you dearly for allowing me to know you. I'm here and always will be. All you have to do is e-mail me or you can text me at my cell because I have unlimited text access 224-764-1086 or call me at 011447035964117. wow! After reading your email, my heart tells me a little about who you are and also you've showed me something in a woman that I've been searching for, I am looking forward to hear from you.
Love Always,
Kelly.


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Here I was crazy, and changed the country, why???? anyone can tell me what happened??? Now He wrote de USA.
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Dearest,
How are you doing today and how was your night? I just wake up now to find myself thinking about you. Thanks for this email conversations with you honey, they really make me happy and I do have a smile on my face whenever I remembered someone like you and I don't think what you said are bombs because if you ought to like someone you must like everything about the person. What a divine gift from God!!!. Actually I am on my knees this morning begging for love, not to a stranger but to one I know ... you honey. You’ve been in love and know it’s fun. After our conversations here, I went and prayed that you'll be mine forever more. I know it's hard to trust a man - giving your heart, body and soul, but know it's me that's on my knees swallowing my pride, begging you, please ... once again I say please honey; be mine and I want you to be the one to take good care of my heart. I don't want you to see it that our feelings are moving so fast, things can happen for it self. Here is a little story I want you to know.......
When I was a little boy, I dreamed of that one person that I would share my dreams, happiness and energy with ... I could not see her face but she was there. I always felt like she was out there, I just needed to feel her. I visualized the bond we would have and the courage she would give me to endure life's obstacles. All these years I was widowed, and feeling my way through life, learning lessons that later on would prepare me to become the person that I am now.
I have felt alone and sad. I have spent my life waiting after all those lessons... not living, nor loving, but waiting. Waiting for the one that would inspire me to be all I can be, to live up to every expectation, to reach every goal, to know that I may fail sometimes but I will never be alone or waiting again. You brought to my cold empty heart the reason to live and to love with a passion only you could bring. Your words of acceptance and love have soothed the aching in my empty heart and now I am at peace with myself and the world around me.
I've fallen in love with you without meeting you in person yet and I'll never let you go. I like you more than anyone; I just had to let you know. And if you ever wonder why, I don't know what I'll say, but I'll never stop liking you, each and every day, I know that one day I will come to you never to wait anymore. I like you with every ounce of my being ... "Yours is the first name I call and the last name I will ever whisper for love from this minute henceforth." Tell me more about your free time what you like doing and have you ever traveled out of the Country? I think we still have more to know about each other.
Love Always,
Kelly.


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MALAYSIA, WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN, KUALA LUMPUR

Hey Sexy,
How are you doing today? I just came up from the sea to have my lunch and I know you will still be on bed now. Honey I did not tell you in my last email about my dream, but I will tell you next time when I email you. Though during this very dream, you were sleeping behind me on the bed, I woke up and couldn't find you. Just feel a little sad when I noticed it was a dream but I know it will soon come to a reality. Glad to find your email waiting for me to read, so I decided that I will write you something that you will wake to read when you are up and I do not know why you cannot connect to my phone but I decided to get a new line 00447035964117 because I told you that I am currently in Scotland UK now for a contract.
Babe, it should be emphasized that the kind of love existing in our relationship is void of fantasy or a whirlwind romance. If you don't know, my love for you isn't the comparative analysis of "M&B" stories or any other fictional romance. But this is the love that is enveloped with the seal of reality without any shadow of doubt. You said that you will like to know more about me and get to know me very well, but I don't know what I will tell you but I will just tell you about Mr. Richard who has been a mentor to my life. He stays in Houston, TX with his family. He is a friend with grandma and that is how he became our family friend. He use to visit us alot and he was the one whom advice me to go into the oil industry as an Independent contractor that I will be working on contracts after bargaining the price with any of the companies that will need my services. I have been doing these for some couple of years now, when I lost my Ex in a cancer problem, Mr. Richard made it clear to me that it is God that give and he takes whenever he wants because he is the supper natural being. But I asked him why must him take mine? And he answered me that he Loves me and wants to give me a cross to carry and that I should believe that I will meet someone good in future whom I will call my Soul mate. Humm Now when I meet you I went and remembered what he told me during the death of my Late Ex. Anyway, this life has alot of meaning which we keep learning everyday. Early Lately last year, Mr. Richard was driving with the wife to attend a friends wedding, on their way, he had accident that took away his life and the sight of the wife. I am the one taking care of the family now and also the wife family is also supporting her too. I use to visit his family when I am less busy and I go there during my vacations. He has two kids, Shanna 5yrs and Mark 3yrs old. They are fun to be with, that is why I stated in my profile that I love kids because they are fun to be with and I love staying with kids because they will keep asking alot of questions.
I want you to know that not that there are no other fish in the ocean upon whom I can sling my hook, but who can be like you with all the conversation I have had with you? And who can be like you that have a good feelings for me with such generosity of heart? I love a hand that meets my own with a grasp that causes some sensation and which only yours can do. I like you not only because of beauty or the way you look in your pic but for your sense of decency, delicacy, kindness and other complementary qualities. I can't help doting on you. Therefore all my gestures of love towards you come straight from the bottom of my heart, I swear! Thanks for the smile you gave me at the pic in your profile. I really felt so lightened inside that I melted. I could say nothing but to just stare at your natural beauty.
I like you with all my heart. You are a special woman with unique and intriguing qualities that drive my desire for you far beyond any imagination. This is really passionate, pretty ending between two people that are deeply in love with each other. I wish life could be this way between both of us. I wish to call you Mrs. Benjamin soon.
Take Care and do have a lovely Day,
Kelly


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MALAYSIA, WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN, KUALA LUMPUR

My Angel,
How are you doing and how was your night? I just woke up to find myself thinking about you and missing you so much. You either did not know how you make me feel when I read your email. Honestly, I am 100% fond of you now, I cannot imagine what my life would be without thinking of you.
I am so completely in love with you now. I wake to think of you and I sleep to see you in my dreams. Your presence has made me love my life. Everyday seems like a blessing since I've met you. I feel so lucky and honored to be in love with such a talented, pretty, intelligent and hardworking woman. I like you with all of my heart. Thank you for sharing your love with me. It is a truly wonderful gift.
I have to admit that I love you. It's hard for me to accept that. I've never met you. I don't know you but your words take me to a place I've never been before. Can I live by words alone? Should I believe you? You are beyond what I can comprehend. Really you are. I have to tell you that I've dreamed of someone to express themselves to me the way you do. It's like a book. Like a poem. I read and reread your emails and our online conversation which took me to a place I’ve only dreamed of. I can't even begin to tell you how they make me feel. It's too much but in a good way. You must be fun to always be with.
Missed you so much,
Kelly

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I didn't write him, he sent me 4 photos one of which is his supposed grandmother, another is on a motorcycle, another is his dog, and another of his room, that man impudence.
Please do not fall in this class of men, can be dangerous.
Remember that he probably already changed and user name. He is a rat!!!!!!!!
Thanks

CUIDADO! Este señor es un estafador! Tengo la platica que por "facebook" tubo con un familiar muy cercano. Este señor (Kelly Benjamin) tiene dos cuentas de "facebook":

http://www.facebook.com/kelly.benjamin.5623
http://www.facebook.com/kelly.benjamin.39?fref=ts


AQUÍ DEJO LA PLATICA QUE SOSTUVE CON ÉL:
• Kelly Benjamin
¿Cómo te va? Espero que estés bien. Querida, quiero que sepas que algo salió hoy de la empresa y voy a tener que volar a Canadá para un trabajo en alta mar donde voy a estar dentro del mar durante 14 días. Estoy escribiendo esto para hacerle saber mi intención y la decisión de que vamos a exponer a lograr un objetivo mejor y un medio de cómo vamos a lidiar con la distancia y la comunicación en nuestra relación.
Lo he pensado detenidamente y quiero demostrar a usted que realmente soy serio sincero y agradecido por conocer usted y envejecer contigo en la vida porque nunca me he sentido tan conectado en la vida con nadie desde que los conocí hasta que te conocí.
Así que decido hacerle una pregunta, ¿Quieres casarte conmigo? Quiero venir a su país y encontrarse con usted y pasar tiempo con usted para que por lo menos podemos llegar a conocer el uno al otro más si cabe comprar una casa e invertir para que podamos empezar nuestra vida juntos si podemos entender nosotros mismos.
Por lo tanto, he dicho ya que soy planeando en venir a conocerte te voy a enviar un regalo sorpresa que compré para ti y algunas de mis cosas y equipaje (por favor, no digas que no si verdaderamente me amas) voy a utilizar cuando vengo porque voy a alta mar en Canadá no puedo ir con ellos y también voy a invertir en su país después de ir al trabajo de perforación que tengo en Canadá, también he compras algunas cosas por ti que quiero enviar a usted, Por favor, dé su nombre completo y dirección completa con el nombre de su país, y número de teléfono para que voy a enviar el paquete antes de salir de Londres en cualquier momento a partir de ahora, incluso si usted no está seguro de que el matrimonio me da la información que pide por lo que voy a enviar a usted estas cosas cuando llegué a su país en el que se asentarán sobre el matrimonio cara a cara, creo que es preferible.
Esta es mi idea de cómo vamos a cumplir por favor leer y responder mi correo electrónico.
Te quiero y te extraño mucho. Te extraño tanta miel.
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13:50I
Hola
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13:54
Kelly Benjamin
I don't know how to approach this with you in person, every day I fight a battle with myself my heart says I should tell you how I feel, but my head tells me not to be stupid that it would just cause damage to our relationship and that you wouldn't be interested.
I know that there is probably very little I can say to change your mind either way; I am not totally discounting the possibility that the way I feel about you could be reciprocated, but as I have very little luck in this area in the past my hopes are fairly small.
I wanted to put into words my feelings in the hopes that although you may never see the words in writing or even hear them from my lips that you would still know that I care deeply for you, I feel that given the chance this could turn into more, but I guess that will depend on you and how you feel about me.
I've kept my feelings for you contained for as long as I could. I am in love with you though, and true, honest love shouldn't be contained and kept quiet for this long. There is so much about you that triggers me to you.
My feelings for you grow more and more every day whenever i read your emails, and my love for you grows deeper and more everlasting with every passing minute. I mean just seeing your pictures and reading your emails just brightens up my worst days and makes them so much better. you're all that's ever on my mind now and that is how i know that i have fallen in love with you.
Even though am scared of so many things but i am still willing to take this chances because nothing works expect you work on them.
I know the next question you are going to ask me is why am scared... there are so many reasons why am scared... Am scared because you might say that i
am moving so fast and you might change your mind about me...I am scared you might not be feeling what am feeling and it might push you back a little bit but please always be sincere with me and tell me your mind.
My fears are many but just like i said i do not want to lose you even if you don't want a relationship we can still be friends and it still doesn't have to stop me from sharing what i feel for you.
Finally,My heart has already found it's way to you. I want you and no one else. You mean everything to me. I think we should try and make this work. We both have been hurt in the past but maybe in our future we can be the ones who are faithful to each other. We are the lucky ones because we found each other and you have to know you're the one, and only one I want.
Not only that you're perfect for me, you're the perfect friend and I hope we can and will be more. I could never ask for better then what we are sharing now. I am hoping you're feeling the same way because my heart is set on you, and only you, baby
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13:54
Kelly Benjamin
Miel ¿cómo estás hoy? te di mi correo electrónico?
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13:55
Mirthita
hola, mi amor... un favor lo que pasa es que elimine nuestras conversaciones por error. tu crees que puedas adjuntarmelo por aqui de nuevo??
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13:56
Kelly Benjamin
La miel no entiendo lo que quieres decir
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13:57
Mirthita
que copies y pegues, las conversaciones que estan arriba puess
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13:58
Kelly Benjamin
Sí .... lo sé. Miel has leído mi último correo electrónico? I wil ser leavig mañana y quiero enviar mis cosas antes de venir a usted porque no puedo tomarlo dentro del mar
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DomTienes una llamada perdida de Kelly.
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14:13
Kelly Benjamin
Por favor, habla conmigo. Estoy a la espera
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14:18
Mirthita
nuestra relación?
Yo siempre te he dicho que soy una mujer casada
acaso tenemos alguna relación?
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14:21
Kelly Benjamin
Sí tiene usted razón.
Pero yo quiero ir a vosotros
Por favor envíeme su dirección para que yo pueda enviar el regalo
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FIL DE LA CONVERSACIÓN.

Nótese que en todo momento pide dirección, número telefónico, nombres completos. ¡Cuidado! Este señor (Kelly Benjamin) es un estafador que solo quiere fotos y videos para luego utilizarlos y chantajearte.

Aquí en esta página web dice que fue detenido el 24 de Marzo del 2012. No indica los motivos, pero es él.

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