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[email protected] a Nigerian scammer, through private investigation I found out the truth....
he got me for a sum of cash, with advance payment fraud. said he had a daughter, not true, said he owned a construction company in Greater England, & worked through the english government, nope not true again, said he was an only child, & wideowed. he's used physical threats when I refused to send more cash for his sick daughter. My case is with The federal police.. since telling him to not contact me again, his threats continued for about a 1week... he now leaves me alone, I have changed everything that he had contact with me.
These people certainly do know how to destroy a person, but Ive learnt the hard way that if I continue to think about what has happened to me, He wins, & NO way will I let that happen
helzie

Welcome to Scamwarners, helzie!

I'm really sorry to hear that you lost money to this scammer. It sounds like you have a very positive attitude which will help you to heal a lot quicker.

Would you please post an email or two that you received, including the headers? This will help to warn other potential victims using google. Instructions on finding the headers are in my sig below.

here's some of his emails....be careful !!! he so smooth..
This is 1 of his 1st emails

Thanks for the letter back to me, what a wonderful, interesting and long mail, i thought i was the only one that could write long, after reading your letter, i had to read all over again and again, just to make sure i dont miss anything when replying, hahaha... you must really be a proud mother of all this kids, Damian 22, Jess 21 and Troy 8, i think i will support Troy being a Police man, so he can also book me too for speeding, haha, Jacklin said to me one day, Dad you speed a lot, and i said, hey girl, i wanna meet up with something on time, and she said are you always meeting up with something, then i laughed, she also said, if i was a policewoman i will book you for speeding, so whenever she is with me in the car, i drive slowly...haha, you can imagine kids.
You must have really enjoyed staying in Australia, and how is life over there? interesting right? Kangaroo Valley, Australia Most beautiful Valley, Perfect for a nature escape, holiday destination or romantic country wedding, such a nice place to stay anyways, you rented an apartment there or you bought a house?
I also feel so comfortable talking to you too, its something that is so surprising and i think its going to be good and great getting along together, knowing more about ourselves and getting to create room for self-discovery, so you said you were on Eharmony a few years back, so you must have had some very nice experience, and what do you mean by you got burnt big time? please explain, this is my first time of trying this online dating, but i wanna meet someone that we are both compatible, no lies, honesty should be included and Trust as well.
Well, i am not on Facebook, would have love to see you there, but i dont have time to start checking on things like facebook and all that, i am only trying to be on this site because i need someone in my life, not for fun, but seriously i need someone to trust, love and care for and vice versa.
So lets say you have been married to 2 men, wonderful!!! maybe you have not met the right man, thats why you have not been lucky in the relationship department, dont worry everything will be fine as soon as you meet the right man, let me be that person to tell you everything's going to be OK
Yes i am relocating to Devonport in Tasmania... and you have not scared me at all, its so nice that we are talking and exchanging mails like this, this is so beautiful, its so nice that we are getting to know more about ourselves, and the emails are so nice and i enjoy them.
Jacklin is OK about moving to Australia, and she cant wait to be there soonest, its great to read from you, and i will be here to always read from you again and again, please let us continue with the communication, hope to read from you once again.
Much care and have a lovely day.
Vico...

then comes all this, this quote is what he said on the card when he sent me flowers,
From: [email protected]
Subject: Re: miss you !!!

Hey baby,
It was beautiful waking up and speaking to the most important person that matters in my life. So sorry I missed your call earlier. I just want to say "LOVING YOU IS LIKE FOOD TO MY SOUL".

Love you honey and have a lovely outting with your girlfriend. Wish I could be with you right now.

theres more, (sending my kids & family picture's is the dumbest thing I could have done)

Honey, you just did the best thing. I have download each picture and tagged them with their names on my handheld. The connection tripped off and refused to come back up in a while so decided to step out to do some banking work. Had to increase the limit on my card to $35,000 each then went to the shipment company for the equipment to be cargo out through air cargo so it gets to Cameroon by Wednesday.
I decided to come early because they would be coming for inspection on the 22nd of April so work have to get to a certain limit before I can get half payment from the government which is part of the agreement. I also don't want Jenny staying long in Africa because we haven't been there before and this would be our first time and most importantly, I am getting too excited to bear the timing anymore..hahahaha
I called up my service provider to put my line on roaming so hopefully, my phone should be working if not I would have to get a local line.

I love you baby.


From: [email protected]
Subject: RE: Love of my life
Hey baby, It was nice hearing your sleepy voice. Would always do that if you don't mind. I have sent you a youtube link for one of my favourite song and I hope you love it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiNmI5xRlBA

The song is dedicated to the one and only woman I have fallen in love with and have made me a different person.

Sweet dreams honey and love you.