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by Dotti Sun Jun 17, 2012 7:02 pm
Typical fake American soldier.

From: Paul Monroy <[email protected]>
To: "
Subject: About Me

A very good friend of mine got me started on the site as a way of finding my soul mate.. You'll need to know that I'm serving t he US Army and currently on deployed here in Afghanistan.. I am also a former US Marine infantry man, having served 8 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Pendleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Lejeune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment) I have been to a bunch of places in the world, some of them hot spots, and continue to do so today. I am privileged to have served with highly professional individuals in the Marines, and the tradition continues now in the Army..I'm fortunate to command a small, very specialized unit and get to interact with many guys on the tip of the spear: US service members of all branches and ranks, Coalition forces, contractors and locals. I feel I've got a perspective not often seen in the media. Seeing as I'm heading back home soon, that also gives me a 'different' perspective.I generally socialize outside of the military community since I'm single and my peers are pretty much all married with children. I am an avid athlete, having played most sports at one time or another - everything from Adventure racing to Wiffle ball! These days I mostly play rugby and lift weights.And someday I'll move back home to and be able to surf, paddle and dive like I love to do.
Due to the kind of job that I've got now, I can't visit the site often, so probably if you don't mine we can get together on instant messenger and get to know each other.
I am not in a hurry to find the love of my life,but i don't want to wait for months and months.Life is too short to spend it alone and the passion,beauty and the excitement of being with the one you love is so wonderful.what i want is to find someone that is right for me and understand me,what bothers me most in this life and what is inside it and how you feel,i want to meet Someone that is romantic, serious and down to earth at the same time. a woman who likes to laugh and enjoy the outdoors, who truly wants to be an wife and believes in the sanctity of marriage, a woman who is honest, loyal, trustworthy and totally devoted to her man Someone who is spiritual and believes in God Someone who likes to be flirted with and will allow me to kiss, hug and hold her hand in public Someone who is willing to try new things.

About my family its a long story to tell and touching that make me share tears whenever i remembered the past.I will keep this short,i came out from a good combination of two,my Mom is from UK while Dad is a native of America.I am the one and only child of my parent, i will count it ,I have a big Family because i dont know much about my Moms family in the UK while my Dads part is very small...Unfortunatly i lost my parent since then i have started to live my life by myself and not depending on my family, although i still miss my Dad because of the courage and advises he use to give to me about life , but i am glad i am whom i am today.

This make me remember when my late parent were alive my Dads Cousin do came to us in Florida for a visit but after the final burial of my parent, they decided to raise me some funds to stand on my own then left me to continue with my life carrier until i come to them with my future wife for a special introduction....I will count my family to be one of the royal family because when my mom and dad where alive they do treat each other in a manner of my King and my Queen , while i am the king.
I can cook pretty good for a woman... I like a good wine. I've been working out more regularily than I had been, and eat healthy food...I don't do drugs, and I like who I am..Although I think a terrific woman would bring out the best in me...I'm a believer in God who pray every blessed day , am a good catholic , i do go to church weekly, and try to do the right things every day...I don't worry about what people think of me.

About my past relationship, I have been into 1 relationships and those are also my only sexual partners I have ever had. 2 of my relationships ended because of my partners betrayal and infidelity (cheating and had an affair with my neigbour) I know this sounds strange to you but as I wrote above I have not been sexually active now for 9 years!!!!. I live my life through the word of God and through my spirituality, and I refuse to have sex with someone if I am not in a relationship with them and my last relationship ended over 5years ago. My reasoning which I understand is very strange in today's world, but my belief is my heart and soul, and the passion that is in it is very unique and special, so I made the decision and made a promise to God that I would not be sexually active for the sake of just wanting sex, or to have sex for someone elses own self gratification. Knowing the passion that is contained in my heart and
soul is very unique, I made the decision to abstain from sex because I want this special gift to be shared with the person I am dedicating the rest of my life to, as his husband and the father of the children.Its not neccessary you have kid for me.. its okay i understand. It is very important for me to build a life of stability, security, and opportunity for the special person I hope to share my thoughts, feelings, experiences, dreams and fantasies with, and to offer the best in opportunities and I also do enjoy my job. Professionally, i have once been an accountant before facing the carier i have always prayed for, So here i am all alone.

In me you are going to find a man that was blessed with an over abundance of passion to give to the ones I share my heart and soul with. For you to really know me you will have to experience me, as the love that makes up my heart is like a waterfall, where the water never stops flowing down. In this case my heart is the waterfall, and the love and passion that flows endlessly is representing the water. I am a very unique person for many reasons, but one of those is the fact that I can never get enough of romancing that special someone.
Thank you again for giving me the opportunity to build this special friendship with you!. You will be rewarded for it through the passionate love that makes up my heart and soul!. I am so excited to be able to do what I do best and that is romance you with all the passion that makes up my heart and soul!. My special friendship with you is something I want to make permanent and eventually build into a family to call our very own!
Directly from my heart to yours!

Paul

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by nilmi7 Sat Aug 11, 2012 10:03 am
I received almost exactly the same letter from David Wells. It is impressive. See below. Could it be the same person?

Hi,
How are you today and hope your day went fine...I saw your profile on speed date and I like it and hope I can get to know you better...ok let me tell you a little about me, i don't really know where to start but i will like to start from my family,i was born as the only child of my family to a father who is an ex military doctor and nurse as my mother,who later remarries after the death of my dad and she is from British origin and i took after her accent,i grew up in with my mom and she later remarries,i had my early years in Minneapolis Minnesota,...I was very close to my parents because of the care they gave to me,like my dad i also had an Uncle in the Army when i was growing up and so much like the profession and the passion pushed me to join the military,I am also a former US Marine infantry man, having served 8 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Pendleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Lejeune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment) I have been to a bunch of places in the world, some of them hot spots, and continue to do so today. I am privileged to have served with highly professional individuals in the Marines, and the tradition continues now in the Army..I'm fortunate to command a small, very specialized unit and get to interact with many guys on the tip of the spear,like the US service members of all branches and ranks, Coalition forces, contractors and locals. I feel I've got a perspective not often seen in the media, that also gives me a 'different' perspective.I generally socialize outside of the military community since I'm a divorcee and my peers are pretty much all married and enjoying marital life. I am an avid athlete, having played most sport at one time or another - everything from Adventure racing to Waffle ball,And someday when i am back home i will be able to surf, paddle and dive like I love to do.
Due to the kind of job that i am doing now, I can't visit the site often and will deleted my profile as soon we get to know each other better, so we can get to mail each other because i have the privilege to send mails because of my position as a team leader who needs to send report sometimes on the activities of his unit..
I am not in a hurry to find the love of my life,but i don't want to wait for months and months.Life is too short to spend it alone and the passion,beauty and the excitement of being with the one you love is so wonderful.what i want is to find someone that is right for me and understand me and should be an independent woman who knows what she wants and can has an independent mind of her own,i want to meet Someone that is romantic, wants a serious relationship that will eventually leads to marriage and down to earth at the same time,a woman who likes to laugh and enjoy the outdoors, who truly wants to be a wife and believes in the sanctity of marriage, a woman who is honest, loyal, trustworthy and totally devoted to her man, Someone who likes to be flirted with and will allow me to kiss, hug and hold her hand in public Someone who is willing to try new things. someone who can make me happy and i can make her happy as well..someone who can love my daughter,someone that can be my heartbeat and i can share my feelings with...
I have been in the military over 20 years and have been deployed to many country for peace keeping over the years,and mostly in the Asian country,was in Iran and later transferred to Afghanistan last year under NATO service...i got married to my ex and we get along fine until i caught her having sex with my friend when i went for military training in Cuba and i got to know about it,the shame was to much for her to bear and she filled for divorce and that is how we got separated and the court ruled in my favor to have custody of my little girl Betty and since that time she as been the only one i have and that has been keeping me going,and since my ex left i have vow not to have anything to do with any woman any more and i was proved wrong by my friend who just got married through the online dating where we met and they are happily married now and he introduce me to this and that is how i registered and we met .i am the type of man that don't like playing games when it comes to relationships and i don't like to be doubted ,it really make me sick,i hate lies and cheating too because my parents live together perfectly without having problems with their marriage and i have learn from them that the only way a marriage can last is that the spouse are truthful to each other and that has been my principle.
I will be expecting a reply from you soon and Maybe some picture of you...i hope you like the pictures of me that i send to you...we are mostly busy here doing patrol and drilling stuffs so i don't have all the time on the internet and I will like us to talk through another medium....
Always take good care of yourself and know that you are always in my though all the the time
With love
Sgt Dave
by nilmi7 Sat Aug 11, 2012 10:07 am
Dave Wells sent me photo of a soldier with Obama. I suppose the photo is real but it might be from a real soldier. I did not answer so I do not know his rel intentions.

Thanks God I found this site!

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