I WAS GOING to meet this lovely soldier :((((

I feel so devastated, that I do not know where to start! excuse me my english, I met this'' lovely '' soldier on a dating site, we chat for a few weeks, I even paid for his leave request!!!!! now I know but too late , I do not care about the oney I spent...I care about being hurted by this ''thing '' because one can not call him a person is using photos of soldiers that are married or even I DO NOT EVEN want to say the word:((((((( .I was going to met him untill I start to find out that somethings weren't right! So I come to investigate on the neet... sixth sense! I feel soooooooo devastaded, help me please because I love a ''scam'' I found your site beause I read soldier would not need to pay for leave request......I feel so bad right now , I wish I could know if '' the thing'' has used this photos before so I can try to forget this lovely person....that only exists on my mind......and hopefuly still exists in the world, I can not stop looking at his photos and cry .....Thank you ........I can not write anymore tears do not allow me.....I'm still hoping him to come to me .....the sadness speaking......can I SEND U HIS PHOTOS and emails to prevent other ladies to suffer like me. Regards from a broken heart......

He has my address of course, emails , phone mumber, do u advice me to go to the police, surely? I try to see if I can see this soldier photos on the net, so I can help myself to work out this pain I'm feling, so unfair, so unfair.......beaware ladies, I found out too late, I wished I had found your site sooner, I feel ignorant now.......but God is HUGE......OH HE IS.......I wonder who is this soldier,.....I HOPE the '' guy thing'' who pretend to be this '' soldier'' does not mail me anymore, or call me , what do I do ? I pretend? Or should I write me a email saying I know he is a scam and I sent him to the police, please help me , thank you..... he was a very good talker oh he was, but not in the beginning...... when one falls in love is so fragile...love is blind now I understand what the word means...but now this pain of mine needs to go away..but how...soooooo painfull ..meeting a real soldier....HOW can I be sure after this....God will help me and u here as well. GOD BLESS U ALL REAL SOLDIERS.....unhappy me who met a fake one, but the photo one the REAL one is gorgeous, surely a wonderful person hope is well , alive and happy.......I JUST WISH HE WAS NOT A DREAM......SORRY for my emotions.....but I need to talk in here , even if it is alone

Sorry to hear you were scammed. Please post the emails; this will help potential victims to avoid being scammed.

You can tell the police so that they'll have an idea how big the scam problem is, but it's unlikely they'll be able to do anything, as the scammers are in faraway countries with corrupt polices.

Sorry to hear you were scammed. Please post the emails; this will help potential victims to avoid being scammed.

You can tell the police so that they'll have an idea how big the scam problem is, but it's unlikely they'll be able to do anything, as the scammers are in faraway countries with corrupt polices.

Thank you and now he is on line asking me more money, reading all the mails I have sent him while he was away. I can only see the photo of the soldier in my head......I NEED TO DELETE HIS EMAIL , NOW RIGHT? HORRIBLE TXS FOR YOUR SUPPORT I feel .....empty.....Yes they do need to do something URGENT to this''scams''....

Should I IGNORE him or tell him I know he is FAKE ?! I'M CONFUSED! TXS I feel like saying to him, I have police connections so I use this against him ......Is like I'm ''killing'' the person on the photo... AND KILLING MYSELF.....the person I felt so deeply in love......terrible sad

don't worry about him having your information, as long as it's just name, address, email, phone number - there's not much he can do with it. if he has your bank acct# or anything else of that sort - then you have to close those accts.

the best thing you can do is stop replying to him. don't tell him that you know he's a scammer: he will only try to convince you that you're wrong or "tell you the truth" and come up with some other sob story to get more money (like he's scamming to feed his sick mother, i don't know).

don't reply to emails, block him from messenger, don't pick up his phone calls. if you pick up the phone by accident - just hang up without saying anything.

one more thing, be very careful now, you're now on his "sucker" list and he will either try to contact you again himself posing as FBI/police/investigator/etc and say that he can get your money back as long as you pay a fee or he will sell your info to other scammers or he will try contacting you as a different person wanting to date you.

bottom line is, from now on you have to be double careful about anyone that approaches you with ANY story where you have to send money.


i know you feel horrible now, i think almost everyone has been through a broken heart stage and just remember that it does get better.

Should I IGNORE him or tell him I know he is FAKE ?! I'M CONFUSED! TXS I feel like saying to him, I have police connections so I use this against him ......Is like I'm ''killing'' the person on the photo... AND KILLING MYSELF.....the person I felt so deeply in love......terrible sad

i replied before i saw your messages, but again, IGNORE HIM, don't reply, block him, don't tell him anything, it's all useless and you're only giving him an opportunity to reassure you that you're wrong. these people are very good, if they weren't - so many people wouldn't get scammed. they know how to play the roles and what to say and what buttons to push.

ignore.


ETA omg, don't think about killing yourself, this is not the end of the world though it may feel like it at the moment. it will get better, this too shall pass (c)

I JUST DELETE HIM........And now comes the truth above, any foruns here where I can talk to ladies who were unfortunately scammed..like me.I need to ask how they manage, if we get unite pain goes faster. Thank you. I' m alive but I feel .....dead inside. ......I know police is corrupt in those countries, I want to post what he wrote to me, but the foto I' m not capable .....it hurts sooooooo much, I WISH I HAD NO HEART RIGHT NOW......SORRY

Should I IGNORE him or tell him I know he is FAKE ?! I'M CONFUSED! TXS I feel like saying to him, I have police connections so I use this against him ......Is like I'm ''killing'' the person on the photo... AND KILLING MYSELF.....the person I felt so deeply in love......terrible sad

i replied before i saw your messages, but again, IGNORE HIM, don't reply, block him, don't tell him anything, it's all useless and you're only giving him an opportunity to reassure you that you're wrong. these people are very good, if they weren't - so many people wouldn't get scammed. they know how to play the roles and what to say and what buttons to push.

ignore.


ETA omg, don't think about killing yourself, this is not the end of the world though it may feel like it at the moment. it will get better, this too shall pass (c)

Thank you for your reply , I did not ment to kill myself, is my english and my tears that do not help me, u kind thanks from my heart......I VERY MUCH APPRECIATED, BUT IT HURTS SOOOOO MUCH THIS TRUTH....

no problem, i wish i can say something to make you feel better but this is something you just have to wait out.

also, you did say that you wanted to tell him you have police connections and stuff and i know how bad you want to get revenge on him and at least scare him a little but don't do it. he know that there's nothing you can do to him and any time you reply to him saying ANYTHING you're just giving him an opportunity to hook you back in. some of these people are very good.


ETA can you please post his emails and the headers? the scammers usually use the same letters over and over and by posting it you might save someone else.

Thanks from my heart for your help and supporting.... LALACKA..hope your name is correct..NO he has no bank account was via an agency I do not want to say name here, I'm so new in here that I still don't know how to use this......where can I see scammed photos here ? Maybe the lovely soldier is there , then I put it to help others.....

omg i'm in ur situation too. hug* I wish that she is not lying to me

Hello VERY_Sad,

I am sorry to hear you were a victim to a romance scam. I am not a female but I can understand your pain and hurt. Please know this happens frequently and you are not the only person that was tricked.

Keep in mind the scammer is a thief and will do anything to steal your money. He will say and tell you anything that will gain your trust. His goal is your money.

You have already been given some good information.

Please post the emails he sent you. Please remove your information. Posting his email address and chat Id will help possible victims locate him here. Do not tell him that he is posted here.

Please take a look at this link posted by Dotti: viewtopic.php?f=13&t=18484


To post photos go here and scamwarners. Mark as fake or used by scammer: viewtopic.php?f=28&t=3219


Please ask if you need any help in posting the photos.

Bryon

Sorry to hear you were scammed. Please post the emails; this will help potential victims to avoid being scammed.

You can tell the police so that they'll have an idea how big the scam problem is, but it's unlikely they'll be able to do anything, as the scammers are in faraway countries with corrupt polices.

txs for your support....from my broken heart , but he is huge and will be fine one day....is just the soldier photo does not come out of my mind.......and it will take a while I KNOW......this people who do this...should be battle fields.....should NOT even exist!!!!! where can I see photos here so I can try to see if the one ....shi hurts saying this......if my imaginating beloved is in there.....cruel truth......

no problem, i wish i can say something to make you feel better but this is something you just have to wait out.

also, you did say that you wanted to tell him you have police connections and stuff and i know how bad you want to get revenge on him and at least scare him a little but don't do it. he know that there's nothing you can do to him and any time you reply to him saying ANYTHING you're just giving him an opportunity to hook you back in. some of these people are very good.


ETA can you please post his emails and the headers? the scammers usually use the same letters over and over and by posting it you might save someone else.

U make me feel better already for listening to me, txs. I can post but need to take some info that is personal, can I post here? or maybe better somewhere else ...I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO GO TO FORUNS i SAW a few I would like to see ....can anyone help me how to get there, txs from my heart?