by Grunt
Wed Aug 08, 2012 5:25 pm
okcupid.com
DvFly
47 / M / Straight / Single
New Providence, New Jersey
My self-summary
Please don't judge a book by it's cover. I'm told that I'm totally different in person than the impression people get by looking at my pictures. I've been told by more than one person that based on my pictures they thought I was going to be some type of pompous jerk, but when we actually met I was anything but... I guess I need to get some better pictures. Lol
I'm actually, kind, thoughtful, caring, romantic, trustworthy, honest, chivalries, friendly, funny, hard working, creative and the list goes on and on, but I'm far from perfect. I don't think anyone is. We're all messed up in one way or another. The goal is to find someone that's messed up in the way you can handle.
As for me, I enjoy staying active and working out at Life Time Fitness (Berkeley Heights/Florham Park). I love playing all kinds of games (no I'm not a video game geek) and take part in fun activities. For the most part I'm up for anything. Although I'm not a master at any of them, I do really enjoy golf, bowling, pool, darts, tennis/racquet ball, cards, board games, etc... When the weather permits, I enjoy going for a ride on my motorcycle (looks like a harley, but its bigger) but it would be much nicer to have someone join me. I also like wine tasting, site seeing, comedy shows, karaoke, shopping, going to the movies, trying out new restaurants, romantic B&B's etc...
The woman I'm looking for, besides there being a physical attraction, is honest, trustworthy, kind, caring, thoughtful, romantic, thinks about the team more than herself, tends to be more of a girl next door type than a super model, loves to be treated as a woman and with respect and also has respect for her man. She loves to hold hands, cuddle, kiss, romance, quiet times, but also enjoys having fun. She's not a party animal and isn't a smoker, but does enjoy a couple drinks from time to time. She's interested in me and not my wallet. I hate to have to say that last part, but it's a total deal breaker. I want someone who wants to be part of a team. I feel that if I have your back and you have mine, then we're both covered. Too many relationships end, because one person just thinks of themselves. If you both think about how your actions will effect the team prior to doing something then you're less likely to do something detrimental to the relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Got everything I want except someone to share it with...
I’m really good at
Many talents but master at none...
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. They tend to change color based on my mood.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Bringing down the house.
Movies: Way too many to list, but the shawshank redemption and the princess bride are at the top of the list.
Shows: hmmm... I like a lot of different stuff, but don't watch a ton of tv.
Music: Depends on my mood, but I love most all types of music. Not a big fan of Rap though...
Food: Death row meal: Jumbo shrimp cocktail, Fillet Mignon & fresh Maine lobster tail, sweet potato, spinach, baby white corn, Chocolate lava cake with vanilla ice cream and/or crepe suzette, Crystal or Veuve Clicquot champagne, voss sparkling water, double shot of espresso...
The six things I could never do without
The woman of my dreams the rest doesn't seem to matter much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Currently work, but that would happily change if the right woman came along.
On a typical Friday night I am
Work during the day, then to the gym and then home. I'm not really a guy that hangs out at bars/clubs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't think of anything I wouldn't admit. I'm an open book. Asks anything you want, but be sure you want the answer, because I'm not going to lie.
I’m looking for
Girls who like guys
Ages 30–46
Near me
Who are single
For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like my profile and think we might be a good match.
His Details
Last Online Today – 5:41pm
Ethnicity White
Drinks Socially
Religion Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education Graduated from college/university
Job Computer / Hardware / Software
Offspring Has a kid
Pets Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks English (Fluently)
