by ratt84
Sat Nov 24, 2012 5:10 am
his account on tagged was deleted after I got the screenshot 
John C, from Fleming Island, FL
Age 52
John C, from Fleming Island, FL
Age 52
I hope that you fine and in good health,i'm really glad that we can exchange emails and i hope that soon we both can sit down and have a cup of coffee,i would also love to chat with you,thought am new to this,i feel that i've found all what i want and desire,i did like you to know a little more about me,my life has been filled with heartbreaks and i don't want anymore hurt or pains,I want to find a woman, who wants a relationship based on "Truth, Real Love(not **** love), Compassion, Friendship, Loyalty, and Honesty!!!! I also want to be able to be "Romantic" to her with Love, not her telling me things like "If you love me, you will do "this or that" for me". I want to be able to do anything to make her happy, because "I Love Her", not because she tells me to do it. Know what I mean? I want to feel EXCITED when we Kiss!! When we Hug!! When we Hold hands while we are in public or our home... ,i really don;t have anyone close to me in my life except them and now presently am all alone and it's only the almighty God that's keeping me alive.
I am not "materialistic"!! I would rather have someone to respect, care for, and love from my heart & soul, then money!! Yes, money is nice, but it can't buy you real love.I just want it to be, that anything we were to "own", as "ours", not "mine" or "yours". Yes, I know that there are somethings that will be mine, and she's, but do you know what I mean? I want to be able to "spoil her" by opening a door for her, or carrying things for me, taking her shoes off when she's back from work,for no special reason, but that I care for her. I too, have been hurt by the opposite ****, but I don't hold it against other women, because they have not hurt me yet. I hope that we can get to know each other better, and see how things might go.I can not "promise" that I might say or do something that hurts you, but I can promise that if I do, it won't be on purpose, it will be on accident. See, I don't know everything about your past yet, and I don't know what upsets you right now, but hope to know you better, so I don't say or do anything to upset you, because I hate that when I upset someone special to me.I love going out,taking walks down the park and thinking about my life,i love observing nature and cooking is also one of my hobbies.I'm a really sensitive and attentive man. I'm an observer of people (not a voyeur!). I like to figure people out. I like to notice the small detail about people. I like to know what makes them tick and what excites them. I like to know how to make them happy, how to make them feel special. I can be really romantic. With my woman i like to surprise her by doing special things. Like leave a flower on their car windscreen. Leave a card for them at their favorite shop for the shop worker to give to them. I like to send flowers when she's feeling down. I prefer private dates, with my woman and myself alone. I guess i like the private moments when we can share intimate things. Talk about plans, desires, feelings. As I said before, i'm quite physical. I love to hug and touch and be touched. I love to show affection to my woman and i love it when she's very affectionate with me. I love women and i always desire to respect them. When i have been with a woman, i have never taken advantage of them unless they have wanted me to. Even when they want me to be physical with them, I always want only to honour and respect them. I am Divorced for 1 years am looking forward to meet my Wife that will be honest and faithful with me . When that time comes, i will give her the gift of Truelove , i long to be intimate only with my future wife so that we could be able to give unbridled passion. When i find the woman who i feel is my soul mate, i look forward to when we can spend time alone, cuddling on the sofa, watching tv/films. Making out, caressing and kissing.... I can't wait to Meet my future wife. I am a sexual person and i love the thought of being intimate with her in every way. I want a wife who feels the same way. Who has the same sexual appetite as i do and desires to be as intimate as i do. But all of this must be within the context of an exclusive relationship. So i will protect the sanctity of my future marriage. It doesn't matter to me if my future wife has a sexual history. As far as I'm concerned, when we marry we start from fresh. Her past is not of importance to me.Can you tell me more about yourself?..
Do you want to have children, or would you be happy with the children someone else already has?I have a daughter of 12yrs old and her name is Martina,children are precious gifts from the almighty God and we should take good care of them both physically and spiritually in the lords direction so they would not go astray and i can be that loving mother you seek and desire.Yes i want kids so much. I love kids And teach them the love of God. But i don't want to be strict with them. I want to shower them with love, devotion but with discipline. Not harsh but enough to make them able to make their own decisions. To teach them to be tolerant of others and loving to their own. To do great things but not necessarily to be seen by others. I want my kids to grow up loving their parents and grandparents. But to find their own destiny and what God has in store for them. I don't want to dictate their lives but i do want to mould them and direct them in the ways of the Lord. To love God but not to become narrow minded sheep that church sometimes makes us into. I want them to love God and have joy in what Jesus achieved for them on the cross. But i also want them to fully appreciate the grace that God has given them and live their lives free.
I'm just been mistreated where I'm now and i can't decide in my mind what to do next,I've made some mistakes in my life and there's no way i think i can correct it,it seems that all women are just the same,they break your heart and leave you with pains,a woman has broken my heart and left me stranded and i don't think another woman would make me happy but rather she would make matters worse,how am i sure you would not be like my last date,i am a very down to earth person but i just don't know how my heart should be broken,my last date brought me into so much trouble now that i can't figure if i would get out of it,can you show me that you truly love and care for me?Can you take all this pains away and make me happy?Can I count and trust you with my life?.I must know this cos with the way life is going,i think I'm locked up and can't seem to find a way to get out.I need a true relationship based on trust and affection. Love is a delicate subject but the basis of a long lasting relationship is trust and without it we r nothing,but can u imagine in a far away country that i know little or nothing about lost and can't seem to find a way out,how can that be.I'm so lonely and I've nobody to hold on to and there's no one to pull me up.Maybe if u truly in search of a lady that would be truthful,respectful and loving you just met me,but fate only brought about us meeting here. I need a woman that would be ready to make me happy,a woman that would heal the wound of my broken heart
Received: from [197.242.106.232]
Date: Wed, 14 Nov 2012
From: john cole <[email protected]>
Lagos, Nigeria
pics are stolern from the 2008 MS album of a man, 47, Mesa, AZ, Philip R.
