by valady51
Sun Jan 20, 2013 2:35 am
I received an email through Match.com from a man with the username "newcommer552" and asking that I respond to him at his email address "[email protected]." He indicated that once he had found me he was done with the site and wanted to concentrate his energy on a serious relationship with me. Too much, too soon, too fast!!! We wrote to one another 5 or 6 times and each time something felt suspicious. Then this morning I received an email that clearly was a cut and paste job and way too philosophical. His written English was not quite right and then it was perfect but then again not quite right. Red flags each day -- big one today! So I googled a passage from the email and SURPRISE!!! It was right on this site posted by jerseygirl56 a little less than a year ago:
Dear _____:
Hope you are having nice morning with a little excitement. Going on line to find a suitable companion, seemed hopeless for me, at the beginning. Most of my earlier contacts that wrote me on the first two days were from much younger women. They always left me feeling bewildered and asking the questions, should I be flattered or insulted? In addition, there was always the concern - "what were the motives"? My faith was restored, when I decided to write instead of wait to be written. I wrote you and you appeared I thank my "lucky star" and enjoy the wonder of it. Essentially, I was so deeply happy that you displayed the qualities I was looking for, found out that we shared a lot of the same interests and I adored the expressive e-mails.
Lonely times make us search harder for the good times. Bad times are only vague memories and we can look to the future with optimism to happy times. To "give" and "receive", to pamper, to spoil, to guide, to care for in all ways, makes for a wonderful relationship. There is no need for anger, when there is understanding, loyalty and sincerity, open communication and the ability to compensate for differences. Life is meant to be enjoyed and thusly, should not harbor hurtful thoughts and actions. Life is full of obstacles - to survive; one has to approach the obstacles with an open mind and a desire to overcome them. Let your heart tell you, if you want to be victorious in the challenge. Is the challenge worth the extra effort? Will it make your life better? Then pursue it with all your might. They say "Love" overcomes all obstacles. But to love blindly - leaves scares in your heart. The "ups" and "downs" in peoples life can be painful but can be healed with limitless compassion.
Happiness is created in many ways - mostly in what people do and say! Your words encourage me to drink long and hard from the cup of life; to capture every drop of adventure that comes my way. I often ask myself, why we met - even if it was in such an unconventional way! I truly believe that a "path" is mapped out for us, when we are born. Are we given a purpose - are we given instructions on how to live our life and what we are to achieve? We are guided by our parents, teachers and friends and unconsciously adapt some of their ways to our life. However, there is a greater plan for us in the making. We are tested daily to make us stronger. Stumbling blocks are put in our way to overcome and make us rise above them. Many people travel from cradle to grave without ever seeing themselves clearly, without accepting heartache and grief and without ever wondering about their past, present and future. They accept their life blindly, without questions or true understanding of their own value and potential. They become frustrated, disillusioned and bitter. We have all been given the tools to excel, feel more important, more fulfilled and more useful. You have shown me that you know how to use the tools so don't ever let anyone tell you that you will not accomplish and excel at what you have chosen, or perhaps, what had been chosen for you. What measure do they use to compare, or do they feel inadequate in their own achievements?
Success is a passion for living. Success belongs to each and every human being. It is not for the few, or the chosen ones, or the rich, or the educated. Success is for everyone. IT IS FOR YOU. Success is simple; it means having, doing and becoming the best that life affords. It means service to mankind. Success means applying your best effort to realizing your best results, leaving the world a better place. It is winning at the game of life. Success is life itself! Success is no secret; no mystery; no cause for frustration or misery. It is yours to claim.
So, was I meant to come into your life to help you see your own worth, to encourage and support and show you the heights that you have already accomplished. I have not chosen your "path" and don't know the plan decided for you, but I know you have a passion for life, so you are and always will be successful. I am grateful to you for giving me your trust, but I think you now know, I would not misguide you. When I think about you, a picture comes to mind, a woman sweet and gentle, with a heart that is one of a kind. Your light shines ever bright - your love an endless sea.... and nothing could be sweeter than the love you have for me. , you are my inspiration, but most of all my gift from God to me. I want to wish you a happy new day and with this email welcome you to an inspiring weekend of good luck and success in all you do. This letter may not be too romantic but inspiring enough to start your day. I thank God above for you, May you always find new blessings .For as long as you may live!! am sorry i don't usually receive text massages on my phone, i have wondered why but i must try to rectify it as soon as possible.
I will always love you if you permit me to do just that..
Hugs and Kisses,
Mario
OMG - Really???? This -- after telling me of all the tragedies that had befallen him -- the death of his wife 10 years ago, the death of his only son and father in an auto accident, his having one daughter (Antoinette) who lives in Palermo, Italy with his mum...which is where he was supposedly born....blah-blah-blah. For your additional reading enjoyment below is the 3rd email I recieved from him (he doesn't even know me and he mentions becoming my "hubby"):
Dear _____:
Its a new day again, that I wake up and the first thing that comes into my mind is to check my email and see if you have written me. I panicked this morning with fear of not being disappointed but at the end it will turn out that your email is there and the fear disappears for happiness to return. You are just the person that I want to be with even without meeting you yet. This little period of email communication is enough for me to say so and I can say it again and again and even louder.sorry, like I am rushing things. LOL , but my inner spirit is telling me that there is something special about you that attracted you to me, something that i can feel right inside me.
Since 2 days now It's been wonderful, I never expected to feel this way nor actually be with you in this way, experiencing life with you even though we are yet to meet each other. You are wonderful to me. You make me really happy and even though we are apart, i know this. The feeling that I will get will be overwhelming when I will get to see you for the first time after all this while of email communication, my feelings for you has grown dramatically. I want you to be my best friend to whom i trust in, enjoy life with, share all adventures and all i have to offer forever.
I was thinking so much about that wonderful day, when I am going to meet you and see your beautiful face. I am getting butterflies in my stomach just at the thought of seeing you for the first time. You make everything complete and I can't imagine spending time with someone else and having these feelings for anyone else. I'm anxious to see you soon. Time is ticking, and it's going by really slow. i think it will be nice to speak on phone someday to multiply our zeal and hunger to meet each other. thank you for telling me more about you.
It takes a strong woman to accomplish everything that you have in your life, You are what I dreamed of when I decided to go into relationship again, someone with integrity, honesty, love, affection, God fearing, and with such a charming personality. I never thought I would find you, but here you are. I am glad...
I want to give you my heart and soul, I have no doubt we shall make a good match, I could not ask for more. I will be the luckiest man in the world to be called your hubby, I'm truly honored.
Have a nice day, filled With love..
Mario
Enjoy the pic:
http://scamwarners.com/main//guestuploa ... Valdes.jpg
Dear _____:
Hope you are having nice morning with a little excitement. Going on line to find a suitable companion, seemed hopeless for me, at the beginning. Most of my earlier contacts that wrote me on the first two days were from much younger women. They always left me feeling bewildered and asking the questions, should I be flattered or insulted? In addition, there was always the concern - "what were the motives"? My faith was restored, when I decided to write instead of wait to be written. I wrote you and you appeared I thank my "lucky star" and enjoy the wonder of it. Essentially, I was so deeply happy that you displayed the qualities I was looking for, found out that we shared a lot of the same interests and I adored the expressive e-mails.
Lonely times make us search harder for the good times. Bad times are only vague memories and we can look to the future with optimism to happy times. To "give" and "receive", to pamper, to spoil, to guide, to care for in all ways, makes for a wonderful relationship. There is no need for anger, when there is understanding, loyalty and sincerity, open communication and the ability to compensate for differences. Life is meant to be enjoyed and thusly, should not harbor hurtful thoughts and actions. Life is full of obstacles - to survive; one has to approach the obstacles with an open mind and a desire to overcome them. Let your heart tell you, if you want to be victorious in the challenge. Is the challenge worth the extra effort? Will it make your life better? Then pursue it with all your might. They say "Love" overcomes all obstacles. But to love blindly - leaves scares in your heart. The "ups" and "downs" in peoples life can be painful but can be healed with limitless compassion.
Happiness is created in many ways - mostly in what people do and say! Your words encourage me to drink long and hard from the cup of life; to capture every drop of adventure that comes my way. I often ask myself, why we met - even if it was in such an unconventional way! I truly believe that a "path" is mapped out for us, when we are born. Are we given a purpose - are we given instructions on how to live our life and what we are to achieve? We are guided by our parents, teachers and friends and unconsciously adapt some of their ways to our life. However, there is a greater plan for us in the making. We are tested daily to make us stronger. Stumbling blocks are put in our way to overcome and make us rise above them. Many people travel from cradle to grave without ever seeing themselves clearly, without accepting heartache and grief and without ever wondering about their past, present and future. They accept their life blindly, without questions or true understanding of their own value and potential. They become frustrated, disillusioned and bitter. We have all been given the tools to excel, feel more important, more fulfilled and more useful. You have shown me that you know how to use the tools so don't ever let anyone tell you that you will not accomplish and excel at what you have chosen, or perhaps, what had been chosen for you. What measure do they use to compare, or do they feel inadequate in their own achievements?
Success is a passion for living. Success belongs to each and every human being. It is not for the few, or the chosen ones, or the rich, or the educated. Success is for everyone. IT IS FOR YOU. Success is simple; it means having, doing and becoming the best that life affords. It means service to mankind. Success means applying your best effort to realizing your best results, leaving the world a better place. It is winning at the game of life. Success is life itself! Success is no secret; no mystery; no cause for frustration or misery. It is yours to claim.
So, was I meant to come into your life to help you see your own worth, to encourage and support and show you the heights that you have already accomplished. I have not chosen your "path" and don't know the plan decided for you, but I know you have a passion for life, so you are and always will be successful. I am grateful to you for giving me your trust, but I think you now know, I would not misguide you. When I think about you, a picture comes to mind, a woman sweet and gentle, with a heart that is one of a kind. Your light shines ever bright - your love an endless sea.... and nothing could be sweeter than the love you have for me. , you are my inspiration, but most of all my gift from God to me. I want to wish you a happy new day and with this email welcome you to an inspiring weekend of good luck and success in all you do. This letter may not be too romantic but inspiring enough to start your day. I thank God above for you, May you always find new blessings .For as long as you may live!! am sorry i don't usually receive text massages on my phone, i have wondered why but i must try to rectify it as soon as possible.
I will always love you if you permit me to do just that..
Hugs and Kisses,
Mario
OMG - Really???? This -- after telling me of all the tragedies that had befallen him -- the death of his wife 10 years ago, the death of his only son and father in an auto accident, his having one daughter (Antoinette) who lives in Palermo, Italy with his mum...which is where he was supposedly born....blah-blah-blah. For your additional reading enjoyment below is the 3rd email I recieved from him (he doesn't even know me and he mentions becoming my "hubby"):
Dear _____:
Its a new day again, that I wake up and the first thing that comes into my mind is to check my email and see if you have written me. I panicked this morning with fear of not being disappointed but at the end it will turn out that your email is there and the fear disappears for happiness to return. You are just the person that I want to be with even without meeting you yet. This little period of email communication is enough for me to say so and I can say it again and again and even louder.sorry, like I am rushing things. LOL , but my inner spirit is telling me that there is something special about you that attracted you to me, something that i can feel right inside me.
Since 2 days now It's been wonderful, I never expected to feel this way nor actually be with you in this way, experiencing life with you even though we are yet to meet each other. You are wonderful to me. You make me really happy and even though we are apart, i know this. The feeling that I will get will be overwhelming when I will get to see you for the first time after all this while of email communication, my feelings for you has grown dramatically. I want you to be my best friend to whom i trust in, enjoy life with, share all adventures and all i have to offer forever.
I was thinking so much about that wonderful day, when I am going to meet you and see your beautiful face. I am getting butterflies in my stomach just at the thought of seeing you for the first time. You make everything complete and I can't imagine spending time with someone else and having these feelings for anyone else. I'm anxious to see you soon. Time is ticking, and it's going by really slow. i think it will be nice to speak on phone someday to multiply our zeal and hunger to meet each other. thank you for telling me more about you.
It takes a strong woman to accomplish everything that you have in your life, You are what I dreamed of when I decided to go into relationship again, someone with integrity, honesty, love, affection, God fearing, and with such a charming personality. I never thought I would find you, but here you are. I am glad...
I want to give you my heart and soul, I have no doubt we shall make a good match, I could not ask for more. I will be the luckiest man in the world to be called your hubby, I'm truly honored.
Have a nice day, filled With love..
Mario
Enjoy the pic:
http://scamwarners.com/main//guestuploa ... Valdes.jpg
