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by Dayn2222 Mon Mar 04, 2013 3:48 am
Hello

I'm new on this site. And actually it's quite late for me to know this site. I've lost some items to Ghana scam. I hate facebook now. I don't know what's wrong with me to get this scam. I set nothing on my facebook account.

2 weeks ago, somebody introduced himself as Bradley Becker, he is a widower, his wife died 7 years ago. He has two sons who are studying at Maritime University in Accra, Ghana. And he is an officer who currently posted in Iraq as one of the commander there. And he was pushing me to accept his two sons as his own and gave me their email address [email protected] and their contact number +233241403993. His email address was [email protected] and later he made a new email [email protected].

Here's the copy of his first email to me :
MORE DETAILS ABOUT MYSELF AND FAMILY TOO

From

Bg Becker

To

[email protected]

Dear HONEY!

It's my pleasure meeting you, I hope all is well with you and that you enjoying your day?, My name is Brigadier General Bradley A. Becker, I am US military officer in Iraq , I like you and i will like to get acquainted with you, I am loving,honest and caring man with a good sense of humor and Really want to say am happy to have you as a friend, and want you to know am new in this site, and have no lady friends. I enjoy that new parts of the world, the calm of the sea, the beauty of the mountains and everything that life has to offer. I love movies, reading books, listening to music, see God's tears when it rains, dancing to the beat, cooking .. but I can just as comfortable as at home ... curled up with a good book in front of the fireplace with you by my side. I'm looking for a genuine and meaningful intimate relationships, there is love, passion and romance. I wish you all the best life has to offer.

I was very pleasing,I am 49yrs old single father,My wife died 7 years ago,My father died at the Age of 83, May 8,1999. My Mom, 72. Nov. 20.2003. I have a two sons,Derek and Andrew and they studied at Maritime University.

I am American military officer currently on duty post here in Iraq. I am stationed at the Contingency Operating Base (COB) in Southern Iraq. I have an office of my own. I have been in Iraq for eleven month’s now and I will be going back to US in three weeks from now.

I enjoy my work and my attitude is positive and grateful. which is usually a smile on my face and I have been very blessed. I have had my share of setbacks in life, haven’t we all? But, in spite of everything I have never stopped being grateful for every experience that I have been given. I am a very happy person. I like to have fun, work, travel, play and smile. I think of myself as clever, but harmless.

I am an easy going person, humorous, witty, kind and a very jovial man.I want to experience as much of this world as I can before this lifetime is over. My hobbies are horse riding, baseball, music’s,food, soccer, jogging etc. I'm looking for a woman to love, someone to spend the rest of my life with, someone to share my life, my adventures, Sometimes I will pull you away from your work without warning for some bit of fun, and while your work went undone; your memories will be enriched.

I'm a kind hearten man and Humble with a good heart and with the values of human life because I'm member of the US Army. My friends and those close to me never have to question whether the words I say are sincere.

I am supportive and caring and have a loyal and tolerant character's very humble, honest, understanding and truthful. I'm a very passionate, physical person deeply romantic, optimistic, hopeful, wise, & smart.

I have a good, honest heart and don't like being lied to. I don't need to be buttered up. If you are straight with me from the get-go, I'm more likely to grow to care for you. If I can't tell where you are coming from and what it is that you really want from me and/or for yourself, then it isn't likely to go anywhere further than this page.

I have always been a very sports-oriented / active person. I have light Grey hair and green eyes. I enjoy movies, music, fine dining, traveling. A quiet walk or just talking over some wine and soft music with someone special is always a great pastime too.

I am looking for a good luck,intelligent, passionate, caring, loving, understanding and independent woman. A woman ready to love me for whom I am. I do not seek perfection, as I am far from the mark myself, but I do need to be with someone who wants it, someone who strives to reach her goal. I can help you when you stumble, and you can help me when I stumble, and together we can work our way up the ladder. I also want to meet someone who is contented with her life, someone who is ready to share that life with me, and ready to have my life shared with her.Endeavor to also tell me more about yourself, your life style, your age, your dos and don't, your hobbies and also send me some of your pictures when replying this mail. I sincerely wish you the very best .

I haven't had much time to get out and meet someone new because of the nature of my job so I am giving this service a shot.As i will end here and i look forward to hear from you.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Yours Faithfully,

Brigadier General Bradley A. Becker


Of course I became curious and I tried to find out about Bradley Becker in internet. I found the information about Brig Gen Bradley Becker on internet saying that BG Bradley Becker is really a Deputy Commanding General - Support for Schofield Barracks Hawaii. Him and his wife Sherri has 2 sons Derek and Andrew. And about the university I found on wikipedia that there's Regional Maritime University in Accra, Ghana.

I am a woman, and truthfully I never got any sweet fairy tale email like the one above. Swayed? For sure yes. But though I was swooned by his email, the healthy part of my brain was still working. I keep looking for the informations about BG Becker on internet. And finally I found his promotion facebook page in 2011. I was curious to read the comments under it and one comment was fortunately from his younger brother Bob Becker.

So I browsed Bob Becker's facebook page and I found the General's facebook page has been deactivated and his wife's Sherri still active to January 2013.

And then I confronted the person who introduced himself as Brig Gen Bradley Becker, why his wife's facebook page still active to January 2013 if she died 7 years ago. He said that the last thing he want to do is to hurt me and to stay away from google and asked his sons about that and convinced me that his wife was dead.

Though I lost a Galaxy Note 10.1 and some branded clothes to this scam that I sent through DHL with very expensive charge to Ghana from Kuwait, my brain kept questioning something was wrong here.

He looked convincing by sending some real pictures of BG Becker in Iraq and inside his home. Then I found the real interview video of BG Becker couple days ago. I feel sorry for this humble friendly man to be used as the bait by scams to get some money. And the scams were so clever to use the handsome General as the bait. I guess if any of you read the sweet romantic emails and look at BG Becker's pictures, you could not help yourself to fall in love with him.

MY ANGEL

From

Bg Becker

To

xxxxxxxxxxxx

Dear Hon,

Honey, you have changed my life completely. You're the one who makes me handsome. You're the one who makes me strong. You're the one who makes me feel so important; you're everything to me.

You show your love to me every day. I thank God that I have found a woman like you. Please forgive me for not giving you enough time to chat with me, but I promise I will make up for it once we are together.

All that I can offer you is a family. I can offer you a family that will stick together through the good and the bad. I can offer you a family that will support each other every day. Honey, that's all I can give...I hope that’s what you want.

I really wish that you were near me. I wish that I could just call your name when I needed you and that you would be there. However, knowing that you love me so much is enough for now, and if I can be your husband and a father to your unborn kids and you the mother of my sons too , then I would wait forever to be with you and You're the only one that I want.

Love Always,

BRADLEY


I know there's Nigerian scam, and the method of operation was not like this. And I didn't think that any sane person would use high rank officers as the bait for the victims. But again I was wrong, yesterday I found that even Gen Petraeus name was used as the bait.I didn't know about Ghana Scam US Soldiers in Iraq, though.

My brain questioning was answered when his son sent me an sms (yes how stupid of me to give my phone number) that their passports were almost expired and they needed some money to renew it, beside that they needed money for medical check up and to pay their exams.

That's it. If BG Becker actor was quite patient, his counterpart was not. How could the sons of a general finding difficulties to renew their passports?

And after that the fake BG Becker asked me to send USD 1800 to pay the passport renewal and so on. My infatuations to BG Becker flew away at once after this.

My suggestions for those who got the scams like this is to search everything about the people they use as the baits. Google helped me a lot.

If you asked me if we had voice chat or video chat we did try them. But unfortunately, there were some problems with my net connection. So every time we tried to chat, we had the problems to connect. I blamed my network connection for that.

Thanks for reading my scam story. I hope it will be useful for all of us.
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by Lady J USA Tue Mar 03, 2015 3:27 pm
Same thing happened to me he contacted me Via facebook. He went by Becker Bradley. He attempted to peruse a relationship with me, and was moving very fast. I knew from the start this guy was full of BS. I wonder how many women are victims to this scam. Sad thing is there is a real Bradley Becker who this guy is claiming to be.
by rmnsandrad Sat Mar 14, 2015 1:34 pm
am now the subject of this person. I don't know why this came to me because I have not never registered with facebook chat page but he just ask to befriend me. I thought at the time. " what harm can it be" WHAT AN UNDERSTATEMENT!! Well here is his text messages to me!!!

"i am divorced and having a son who is currently in military school in ghana.
Am honest,kind caring,affectionate,good sense of humor,easy going,free thinker,trustworthy and respect the lives of other people.....
I'm a man that is living life as it comes to me. I don't worry about tomorrow, for it will be here no matter what I do.

The best days of my life are yet to come."

This started March 5th and just today he chat message was...

"never give up of love because in the world there is good men and bad one so you may fell in the hands of bad ones so that doesn't mean every man is bad.

i love you so much babe
i really want to share the love and the happiness with you and i am ready to to bring back the joy and excitement you have lose for so long"

I shouldn't even give him a chance to complete this scan and just ASK HIM for something since they think it OKAY to go after unexpected American women in order to gain material things or money instead of working for what they want. It makes you NOT TRUST anyone anymore.
Last edited by rmnsandrad on Sat Mar 14, 2015 1:44 pm, edited 1 time in total.
by Bryon Williams Sat Mar 14, 2015 1:37 pm
Welcome to scamwarners.

Just ignore him. Do not reply back to him.

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by KimberMoody Wed Aug 19, 2015 9:33 am
I have been one of the many women scammed by the fake BradleyBecker of the Army. Ladies there is a real Bradley A Becker in the military who is very handsome and very married. The one I met via FB even sent pictures indicating he was who he portrays to be. But I caught onto the scam before money was involved. He is a charmer let me tell you. But if you meet him, and he states he has a child/children in Ghanda, this is your imposter. So sad the real Bradley Becker is having his identity used like this.
by KimberMoody Wed Aug 19, 2015 9:51 am
he found me on FB just last week and immediately wanted a relationship. He was having trouble with the FB account so I provided my cell phone number to him so that we could talk on the Whatsapp. He is a sweet talker I tell you. He didn't get the chance to get money from me though. I felt uneasy on some of the chats and where they were headed so I started researching and asking my friends that are in the military questions. When he wanted to keep our "Relationship" a secret a red flag went up. He had the right words to say to a broken hearted woman, but he still couldn't get that nagging feeling out of my stomach.
He states he is from TN and that he has a 13 year old adopted son from Ghanda. He is "Supposedly" on a 3 day safety patrol and wouldn't have access to his phone. But amazingly how he has no access to phone but messages I have sent letting him know I was praying for his safety have been read. So I did more research. Needless to say I came across this website and my heart did drop. So I sent him messages telling him what I found out and Miraculously he has stopped checking my messages. :) I did thank him for making me feel alive again and for teaching me a big lesson........ I refuse to hang my head down for being played a fool. I let it happen. But I can guarantee this will never happen again to me. So be safe ladies............Like I said earlier.........he is a sweet talker.
by Lady Hawk Thu Aug 31, 2017 3:43 pm
Mr. Bradley Becker is at it again!

I totally feel for the real Brigadier General Bradley A. Becker and his beautiful family which includes his very much alive wife.
I did a search on the name and this imposter has pushed a poor woman, whom I'm assuming did not run a web check on the name,
far enough to post a complaint on The Better Business Bureau web site. This man is disgracing an Honorable Man and his family.
I really wish the FBI and CIA would do something about this!

My heart goes out to the Real Brigadier General Bradley A. Becker and his family.

All The Best,
Lady Hawk

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