Stephan Bohm

Hi ladies!

Watch out for this scammer too. He claims his name is Stephan Bohm. I will post his pics that he sent me and copies of all the emails. I could tell something was off when I would ask him certain questions in many of my emails, like you naturally would to get to know someone, and he never answered them until later. We met on match.com and his email there was [email protected]. I have 3 pictures but not sure how I can upload them here.

February 26th

Wow what a very romantic short note you just sent me .. I really appreciate your message here and will REALLY love to get to know you better. I am seeking a long term serious relationship which may lead to marriage if it's right for the both of us ... I am new to this online thing and hopeful though .. Kindly take your time to write me back and tell me more about you and how we can go about this ... Kisses and hugs in their right places till I read back from you again soon ..I'll attach some pictures for your viewing pleasure ..
Lots Of Love(to share)
Stephan!

February 27th

Good Morning Dearie,

I'm happy you wrote me again dear. I really appreciate your comprehensive write up telling me more about you.Wonder, I guess you should truly know who i am as well. I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would I be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own wife and best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom I can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me,.I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study.I wasn't sure of what to write on my profile on the site but as for kids ... I do have a son , a lovely one at that lol and will tell you a bit about him later on as we get along.He's my pride lol

MY BACKGROUND

I am Stephan Bohm most friends call me Steph lol . I was born to a loving couple, a partly German and partly Dutch dad(who moved to the United States at a tender age) and a Scottish mom. My dad was an international business man who met this Scottish orphan whose only family were close friends. Mom said there was something about the man that no woman could ever resist. Sometimes she said she saw same in me,lol. During my father's movement I studied in Manchester Metropolitan University in the UK,where i got the first degree in Human Resource Management and then i later moved on to join dad back in Indiana in the United States . My father died and mom was left alone.I met the mother of my son while I was in Africa for work some years ago and she moved with me after my project there, she is very good at heart,but something i can`t control took her away from me.She died of cancer ,now am left with our kid (Christopher) he keeps the memory of our good times but right now he stays with his maternal grand parents but I see him often anyway. I eventually moved to Canada from IN just late last year as I felt like I needed to change my environment and start over ... I am open to relocating to anywhere once I find the right woman to call mine again.

MY JOB

I am a Human Resource Expert as well as a project manager and I do any kind of dispute settlements between employees and employers or unions and employers as well as get contracts to recruit and administer over employees for huge projects as well. I have worked at many countries across the globe. The present project is my last on the field and I will quit field works and continue my works from my home office while my men do the field ops. I think i really have gotten to this height cos I embraced work for so long trying to get over my wife, that I worked this hard, but I think I now realize I can move on.

MY DREAM

As you must have read in my profile, i just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is play bingo,LOL.I just want you to know few things more about me before we talk on the phone .I am not a total package , I only need someone who understands the value of a good smile.I cant wait to hear back from you. Till I read from you again soon, Kisses and hugs in their right places till I read back from you soon.You really made me smile reading about you babe ... I cant wait to know more about you.


Hope to read and speak with you soon,

Lots Of Love ( to share )

Stephan !!! (IT'S PRONOUNCED 'STEFAN') LOL

February 27th

Hi Dearie,

I really appreciate this consistent communication and i will say it is a sign of will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead. I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people,. it is a place called joy and happiness. My Grace, i would also be stupid to hold the man of a woman like you. Really i just see in your face that i can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul.I would appreciate it if you take your time to tell me more about how you think we can make this work as I am completely new to this after being absent from the dating scene for about 15 years. I am presently working in Turkey for an Oil company here. I will be back home in about 2 weeks from now.

Christopher was only 8 yrs when his Mom Died of cancer and now he will be 13 years next months , just looking forward to start a family after the contract that am working on just wish to have a reason and someone special that will make me wanna move ahead in life that was why i put my search there and i want to believe i found one which is you.

As i could remember, as a kid i was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realize there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you, i am a type that doesn't judge, no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give you support.

There is no Mr. right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love ,lol but sincerely that is the bitter truth. When i lost my wife , he told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better cant start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realize that , let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co-pilot.

My usual saying, and which i am known for, is that, Life is simple, for those who take it simple, I don't like to complicate things. There is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from. Would like to know more about your family when next I read from you okay ?I believe we both have experiences and need to get to move on by embracing each other and seeing each other as one from this juncture.

My kid is getting older now and at almost this stage of his life,he cant wait to have a proper family, and i cant wait to have a happy home too. After this project , i am quitting field works. Any other job would only require my attention from my home office wherever i go. I want to spend the rest of my life having fun. Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, i rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less.Can't wait to read from you again soon honey.I'll like us take things step by step as this will help us get along pretty fine i guess .

I wish you'v had a wonderful week so far.Till I read from you again soon, Kisses and hugs in their right places....


Lots Of Love(to share)

Stephan !!!

I never sent him money because I googled part of one of his emails to see what poems he may be using to try to impress me. Well several scam sites came up and I was very grateful to have learned this. Even if he did ask me for money there wouldnt be anyway I would send it to him. We are not committed to one another in anyway so he would've been greatly disappointed.
I shudder evey time I hear of victims of this type. There are countless reports of how this happens, warnings on all of the dating sites about how they scam and not to send any one money. My heart goes out to all those that have fallen victim. Once bitten twice shy I hope. All the best ladies!

February 28

Hi Dearie,

I really appreciate this consistent communication and i will say it is a sign of will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead. I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people,. it is a place called joy and happiness. My Grace, i would also be stupid to hold the man of a woman like you. Really i just see in your face that i can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul.I would appreciate it if you take your time to tell me more about how you think we can make this work as I am completely new to this after being absent from the dating scene for about 15 years. I am presently working in Turkey for an Oil company here. I will be back home in about 2 weeks from now.

Christopher was only 8 yrs when his Mom Died of cancer and now he will be 13 years next months , just looking forward to start a family after the contract that am working on just wish to have a reason and someone special that will make me wanna move ahead in life that was why i put my search there and i want to believe i found one which is you.

As i could remember, as a kid i was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realize there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you, i am a type that doesn't judge, no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give you support.

There is no Mr. right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love ,lol but sincerely that is the bitter truth. When i lost my wife , he told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better cant start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realize that , let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co-pilot.

My usual saying, and which i am known for, is that, Life is simple, for those who take it simple, I don't like to complicate things. There is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from. Would like to know more about your family when next I read from you okay ?I believe we both have experiences and need to get to move on by embracing each other and seeing each other as one from this juncture.

My kid is getting older now and at almost this stage of his life,he cant wait to have a proper family, and i cant wait to have a happy home too. After this project , i am quitting field works. Any other job would only require my attention from my home office wherever i go. I want to spend the rest of my life having fun. Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, i rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less.Can't wait to read from you again soon honey.I'll like us take things step by step as this will help us get along pretty fine i guess .

I wish you'v had a wonderful week so far.Till I read from you again soon, Kisses and hugs in their right places....


Lots Of Love(to share)

Stephan !!!

March 2

Hello My Wonderful One,


How are you this evening ? Why am i getting addicted to my email? lol. I get a good glow on my face reading from you. Wonderful. How has your weekend been thus far? I hope your trip this weekend has been a splendid one as well. I knew something was missing since I haven't smiled all day till now,lol. I might wake up late as I haven't slept yet because i have been expecting a message from you, i think i am becoming restless again lol, Maybe i could sense something good ahead of us.

What wouldn't i do to make my dreams come true. It is like a rigger waiting for a trigger. Would you be my trigger? lol. I just need a woman to hold me before I am old. Absolutely I have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right? but for what purpose? To be realistic, except if you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless indeed. how much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? how much do we need for daily fun. Excess and excess leads us to vanity but for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As I always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy SLEEP, it can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy TIME, It can buy piles of books , but can't buy KNOWLEDGE. It can buy food, but not SATISFACTION. Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy LOVE. That is why I refuse to follow the crowd, so as the kind of man that I am, I would give up all that can be bought for that which can't be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods, she should be able to make me smile in all weather.

I am glad that i could get your attention my dear. You have a special thing in your heart, and I intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure out, but i don't mind, lol . Please tell me about your ideology of life my dear. I will be waiting impatiently to hear from you again soon honey.Till I read from you again soon, Kisses and hugs in their right places and where you want them ... lol

All My Love (to share)

Stephan !!!

March