by Elle8816
Sun Jul 21, 2013 6:51 am
Hi,
I picked this guy off Match and now am not so sure about him. His emails are full of places he has been to, he is a contractor etc etc etc. he is a widower with a small daughter yet in his fifties. Alarm bells are ringing.
Email attached:-
Is it a scam? I tried doing the header thing, but do not understand it.
Best wishes
Elle
I picked this guy off Match and now am not so sure about him. His emails are full of places he has been to, he is a contractor etc etc etc. he is a widower with a small daughter yet in his fifties. Alarm bells are ringing.
Email attached:-
Nice to read back from you and sorry im only just writing back,ive been on a trip recently and recently just got back..Thanks for sharing a lot more about yourself with me,i find you very interesting and fascinating ..You do lead an interesting life and im interested in finding out a lot more about you and seeing how well we get along..I will like to spend some time in learning more about you over email and getting a much better idea about your type of woman before taking it to the next step of meeting as i believe everything is a gradual process and what is meant to be will definitely be..
How have you found the Internet dating site since you have been on it and have you met anyone that interests you there that you have connected with for a bit and maybe have hopes of developing something more with him?Its all new to me and im expectant and excited about it..I canceled my profile on the dating site as i felt it wasnt my thing and not sure if there are chances of finding someone i can build a relationship with but i am glad you sent me an email here and i am also looking to develop a friendship with you over time and hopefully see what comes off it..Thanks for confiding in me with a bit more about yourself and your experience ..I look forward to learning alot more about you and also sharing more about myself with you..
To share some more about myself with you,I am originally from Stockholm, Sweden....I recently moved to London over a year now and have not had much time to settle in my environment as work is always keeping me busy most of the time and i get to travel quite a bit...My Full name Fredrik Petr Lundgren, born November 1958... I am a Contract worker..I am into Construction Services/Engineering and also do Antique shopping as a part time job and comfortable with my job and live a comfortable life also..I want to open up about myself wih you and confide in you also..What is it you enjoy doing for fun..I am a very fun person and when i am not working i have a lot of interests that i could be involved in..I like to keep fit and exercise daily,am about average,a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest,good listening, and mostly God Fearing, and a positive person. I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener. I have passion for soccer, I like going to the movies, or watching movies in my room, I like swimming,listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling, going bowling and also a good cook. I am a family oriented person and There is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.. I love my life and everything that is has to offer. I am a strong believer in Karma. I believe that every person is placed in your life for a reason..I love to laugh and have fun. I am very giving, sometimes too trusting, honest, fun, happy person. I will not judge anyone for their past because I believe that everyone has one. I am far from perfect, but I don't dwell on the past..
I lost both of my parents at a very young age and was left with my Mother's sister to take care of me and she did a really good job in taking care of me and giving me a good life..I am the only child of my parents.I have a daughter who is still in her tender age ,she lives with my Inlaw back in United States as she need lots of attention and care and my late wife's sister is doing that so well..My work keeps me busy most of the time but we will be reunited again soon once im done with my present project...I do like to travel and look forward to being able to travel all over the world on vacations some day, it Won't be for awhile, but probably when i retire from work and before I get too old. Smile... More also i need a travel partner to enjoy it with. Will you love that.lol'' Have you ever travel long distance before? Where have you traveled to? I've been to All about the California Coast, Florida, Pennsylvania, Chicago, Texas, Georgia, DC, Paris ,Egypt and London...Thanks for your concern towards my late partner..I have recently moved on and am looking forward to what life has next to offer as ive learnt to always be positive in life and hope for the best..
I want to build a friendship with Someone that will take her time to learn about me and also share about her self with me,never judge me for any reason,an understanding woman who will take each day to build on a solid friendship/partnership over time. I don't think beauty really matters but what matters most Is true love ,friendship and understanding which am I am looking for and hoping I will find my soul mate... Beauty isnt everything or your body shape..I am not bothered by your size and i do know you are fine the way you are else i would not have written you back..I want to know more about the inner person and not the outside beauty.
I am very much interested in discovering a whole lot more about you and your life..your ideal man,your family background,any other thing you feel comfortable to share with me..I am very open and honest and i also hope you are the same and we can keep up a good conversation together..
I would be pleased to read some more from you again when you have enough time and would also appreciate some more pictures from you in my email
Wish you a prosperous week ahead and look forward to read again from you.
Fredrik
Is it a scam? I tried doing the header thing, but do not understand it.
Best wishes
Elle
Last edited by Bryon Williams on Sun Jul 21, 2013 9:38 am, edited 1 time in total.
Reason: Added quotation for clarity.