Information on romance scams and scammers.
by emme Thu Jul 25, 2013 3:43 pm
THIS GUY DOESN'T LET GO, IVE NEVER CHATTED WITH HIM. HIS DISCOURSE IS TYPICAL OF A SCAMMER. I HAVE BEEN SCAMMED BEFORE SO I AM CAUTIOUS ABOUT THIS TYPE OF THINGS. HE KEEPS SENDING ME EMAILS LIKE THIS. I DON'T KNOW IF HE IS A SCAMMER OR IS SICK IN THE HEAD. LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.



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Subject: All About Me...
From: Brandt Westengard <[email protected]>
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Dear XXXX,

Thank you for such lovely chat. I am learning about you as I hope
you are learning about me..well hope we can talk much better later today. I
really enjoyed reading from you... you sound so interesting i will love to
know you more better i will like to know everything about you..i want to
take my time and ask loads of question but will be fair enough to answer
them as well . it is a early morning i am a early bird i wake and i see you
have write a message to me i am so glad to read from you ok here i go with
my question ...

1) What do you do for work? Architect and Building Engineer.
2) Where are you from? I am from Italy ...... move to state for my masters
programmer and decide to stay here and call for my wife and kid
3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know? I
love to see people around me lough because when they lough it gives me joy .
4) When was your last relationship and how long did it last? My last
relationship was with my late wife. She passed away almost 5 years ago. We
were married for over 20 years.Thou I dated a young girl 1 year and half
ago but was not ready to settle down. May i ask are you ready to settle
down?
5) What are you looking for in a relationship? companion and a lover and
someone i can trust and share secret with
6) What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?
Honesty, love, communication and trust
7 ) Do you want to marry or have you ever been married? Yes i was once
married and i dont mind getting married again if i find someone my heart
desire
8) What do you look for in a wife & you? A plain heart i don't care about
beauty or age and i am not after material things all that matter to me is
she should have a good heart because i love the inside most and not the
outside of her
9)Do you have children ? I have a Daughter
10) What do you do for fun? I like to go fishing,watch movie in the cinema
i like to hike, swim, shopping, dancing ,and i am full of adventure.
11) What are you most proud about? My Daughter
12) Is religion important to you? Yes i believe in God and i do go to
church but that often and i have a cup of coffee with God every morning and
i whisper to him and he answer me loud
13) Do you follow politics? I dont like Politics
14) Do you believe in love at first sight? I do because that was how i got
married to my wife
15) What is your most treasured possession and why?A medallion i have on my
neck with a picture of my mum and dad with me in the middle its a Gold chain
16) What is your favorite month of the year and why? January is my favorite
month because that is the best month for me and my daughter
17) Which is your favorite book/movie? I dont read to much but like to read
Encyclopedia of Art
18) Which is the last book you read? Modern Art of Collins organ
19) Which is the one job in the world that you would love to do? I will
have love to be a Doctor i love to save life and see people happy
20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite singer? I love music..
all kinds .. all , but my favorite soul
21) Do you like animals/keep pets? Yes i love animals i have a Rottweiler
i name him Bear i love the breed
22) How do you spend your spare time? learn more about my job on the
internet and watch movie and spend time with Bear taking him for a walk
23) Where do you see yourself in five years time? Happily married again and
have a beautiful home where i find joy
24)Do you believe a cup is half empty or half full? my cup is always half
full
25) If you could travel back through time, what single mistake would you
correct in life? bring my mum here after the death of my dad i tried but
she dont want leave Europe to she died because she was lonely and was
always thinking about my dad so she had an attack and know one to help her
she was home alone i always think if i have put in more pressure in
bringing her here that wouldn't have happened
26) What makes you laugh? when i see people around me laughing
27)If you have me coming over, what would you cook?lol I will cook Italy
Wedding soup for you cus its going to be like a wedding day for me meeting
with you
28) Describe your perfect holiday?Any Holiday that i have my Daughter home
with me
29) Are you a morning person or a night person? I am a morning person
30) What is your favorite sporting activity? I love soccer..

I still have an accent and very bad one hope you will like my accent? told
you how people make fun of my voice, and tell me it doesn't match me! I
guess it's typical southern accent, but raspy and deep at times!I work in
my own company and i have very good friend call Bear my dog his a Rott he
loves to play with other dogs. for now am not seeing any woman right now .
i dated a young girl 4 years back she never for one day ready to settle
down. I have been lonely for years now You are the only woman am talking to
right now I have never do online dating stuff before I want someone i can
have a happy home with till the rest of my life . I am tired of been lonely
It's really kinda hard to get someone to trust,Faithful, Loyal and caring
have been waiting and searching for my dream woman someone i can trust
again .i lost my wife 5 years ago...its really a story i don't like to
remember anymore are you ready for commitment in relationship ?I don't play
games, I date a year after my late wife passed away but never work out she
never ready to settle down with me..all she want is sex and my money. I'm
not selfish. I love for the people that I love to be content and happy,
that makes me happy. I'm looking for a Woman that will let me vent, not
YELL, I said vent, and it doesn't have to be about her either. I guess a
good listener is what I'm trying to say, and I want to be with someone that
will open up to me about themselves. There's nothing worse than not
speaking, it's the saddest thing there is in a relationship. Everyone
deserves to be heard but if things can be talked out its better than
holding things in and being miserable. I want someone I can take care of in
many ways. I have a heart full of love to give. Respect does play a very
important part in a relationship that will work, and chemistry is a given.
I love being close, holding hands, being romantic and affectionate whenever
it is needed. When I love someone, I love very deeply, it takes a little
bit for me to get there, but once I do, it's over, I'm yours. haha Trust is
very important. Did I say that? I really want to find my last first date, I
want someone I can grow old with, take care now and forever, someone who
will never walk away but always stand by my side. If I love you, I love you
forever. It's for life. I know I don't want to be alone next New Year's
Eve, I either want to be engaged or married. I know I am not meant to be
alone because I have too much to offer and too much love in my heart to
share with the right person. I want to share all there is in my heart and
in life with someone seeking the same for herself. I think you are
extremely Beautiful and fun-loving in your photo by the way, I don't think
I would have a problem with chemistry at all. .You look sweet and i like
your smile i will like us to know each other more better i find you so much
very interesting to be with.So tell me about your past relationship with
Men?... My daughter is 18... years old and she is studying to be an
Aeronautic Engineer in Washington U.S ,she Stays with her boyfriend over
there, am so very proud of her...I Lost both of my parents as well...Lost
my dad 9 years ago and few years mom die she is alone and thinking about
her husband and she died of heart attack..is hard for me cause am the only
child of my late parents.. Life is just too cruel sometimes...It's ok .I
love It here in the Maryland, I do miss Italy. I Love it here now and i
want to spend rest of my life here cause i dont have any family back home,
I only have distance family over there now..If i found the woman of my life
i can relocate to where she want us to stay in the future.Well i guess i
better stop here for now . Can you send me more picture cos i would love to
see more of your beautiful pictures..I'm new to this online dating thing,do
you live alone? i live alone with Bear, i can't wait looking at your sexy
pictures you're too hot in my imagination.

Hope you have a wonderful day.
Hope to hear from u soon.
Warm kisse.
Brandt Westengard...

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by Grunt Thu Jul 25, 2013 4:43 pm
also goes by yahoo

the yahoo address leads to a profile on BP and to a profile on FB
brandtwestengard
Here For: Serious Dating
Member Since: April 11, 2013
Sex: Male
Age: 50
Location: Baltimore, MD
Race: White


Brandt Westengard
joined FB 28 April
About
Lives in Maryland City, Maryland

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2nd pic on both profiles
by Grunt Fri Jul 26, 2013 2:17 am
Dear xxx,
Thanks for Your prompt response to my e-mail which I do really appreciate. I was wondering what an Angel like You is doing on an internet dating site. I bet You must be surrounded by mass of interest men...*Wink*.Since when have You been on the internet date and what has been Your experience so far? ummmm about myself let me see what i can tell you. My name is Brandt Westengard, i was born and raised in Europe, I moved down to USA over 30 years ago for my masters that was when i gained admission for a Job here in Maryland. But thanks God things work out now because i have my own company here now, I was once married but my wife died 5 years ago she died of breast cancer i have a daughter she is studying to be an Aeronautic Engineer i have live my life and work my ass to raise her more than expectation ...i love being around the beach am an Architect i like my job because i love working with my hand.I don't mind to move to another state, for i want to be close to my lover one. So the woman i do settle down with must understand and be compassionate that i want to live around with her.

You are the first woman i've talked to like this since being single.My first impression of you was a nice one. You are easy to talk with and i feel you are not judgmental and have understanding and compassion for others easily. Tell me i'm wrong. I KNOW i'm not. hehheee.

It's your turn to let me know more about you. where are you from....what are you doing for living and more about you?I attach some of my picture to this message i will be waiting to have us too.

I'll be looking forward to read from you, AGAIN AGAIN !!!Hugs,

Yours forever,
Brandt Westengard...

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Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2013
From: Brandt Westengard <[email protected]>
Ampang, Selangor, Malysia
by Lovelynhing Sat Aug 03, 2013 10:34 pm
I met Brandt Westengard back in April. He wrote me a lot of convincing emails. We became really close, we exchanged phone calls everyday all day long. He made me believed that he was a religious person. I never suspected anything about him until I became a victim. He scammed my bank account and stole almost $8,000.00. I had reported it the the police and submitted his pictures.

If you are talking to Brandt Westengard, please stop it now. You can check and inquire to the police station here In Elk Grove California about the report I had submitted back in June. He is a big time scammer. As I was reading the emails he sent to one person that posted about him here, I was so shocked that he sent the same email to me.

Be ware of this person, don't be a victim
by Painful Truth Sat Aug 03, 2013 11:51 pm
It's unfortunate that you were scammed by a love scammer. These scams are ones that hurt the most, both emotionally and financially.

Could you by chance post up his e-mail address, any phone numbers he used, and first few e-mails he sent to you? Remove your own name and e-mail address of course.

Scammers always operate on scripts, and having the data I asked can help other potential victims realize what's going on before it's too late.

Also, there's a chance you may be contacted by e-mail from someone claiming to be a law enforcement agency, detective, or similar. He'll say that he can get your money back, but for a fee. Make no mistake, this is just another scam - they're called recovery scams. Any money sent will be lost forever, just like in the first case.
by minecrafter Thu Aug 22, 2013 11:05 pm
Bad bad scammer. He seduced me on friend finder. He emailed me copy/paste emails. He says he has a daughter Loren. He says he is a contracter and has huge contract proposal. He wants me to know about what a wonderful person and lover and father he is. He swears to God and on his daughter's life he will never lie because he loves you. He wants calls and kisses on the phone. He said he had to go to Malaysia to deal with multi-million dollar contract and then he is "stuck" there. More expenses than he thought and didn't understand the currency exchange of Malaysia, so I need to send him prepaid, risk free (of course!) debit cards...it seems harmless since I don't have to invest any money and I can really help this man who promises me a life of love and security. He says he prays and goes to Church. He is soooo convincing. I am a fool. He wants me to send YM Discover Prepaid Debit cards to Malaysia. I did...now what will he do with them...in my name, with my social security number? What a fool I was! He preys on vulnerability and seems so wise and careful. i should have known he was too quick to say "I love you." "I will never lie to you because I love you."
Then I get spooked even more when his [email protected] suddenly changes it's "profile name" to Brandt Crawford. He is shocked of course and has no idea what I am talking about. He gets angry. He knows so much personal information about me...I am actually panicked, but it's probably not the forte of scammers to violently confront their victims...just move on. I will cancel the debit cards and learn from this, but I still wonder what negative consequences are yet to unfold because of my stupidity and his cunning evil.

Merged-Pm sent (BW)
by minecrafter Thu Aug 22, 2013 11:37 pm
Bad bad scammer. Brandt Westengard. He seduced me on friend finder. He emailed me copy/paste emails. He says he has a daughter Loren. He says he is a contracter and has huge contract proposal. He wants me to know about what a wonderful person and lover and father he is. He swears to God and on his daughter's life he will never lie because he loves you. He wants calls and kisses on the phone. He said he had to go to Malaysia to deal with multi-million dollar contract and then he is "stuck" there. More expenses than he thought and didn't understand the currency exchange of Malaysia, so I need to send him prepaid, risk free (of course!) debit cards...it seems harmless since I don't have to invest any money and I can really help this man who promises me a life of love and security. He says he prays and goes to Church. He is soooo convincing. I am a fool. He wants me to send YM Discover Prepaid Debit cards to Malaysia. I did...now what will he do with them...in my name, with my social security number? What a fool I was! He preys on vulnerability and seems so wise and careful. i should have known he was too quick to say "I love you." "I will never lie to you because I love you."
Then I get spooked even more when his [email protected] suddenly changes it's "profile name" to Brandt Crawford. He is shocked of course and has no idea what I am talking about. He gets angry. He knows so much personal information about me...I am actually panicked, but it's probably not the forte of scammers to violently confront their victims...just move on. I will cancel the debit cards and learn from this, but I still wonder what negative consequences are yet to unfold because of my stupidity and his cunning lies. Should I notify Friend Finder? Did my credit score get hits and lowered for every prepaid card I ordered for him? Do I tell Achieve Card or American Express or YM Discover Card about him or just say I want to cancel my card. I don't even have the cards anymore...he does. I don't know the account numbers. Still, I will call them, but what do I say? Stolen cards? Lost? Just cancel? Fraud victim...what trouble could I get in for sending him prepaid debit cards (with 0 balance!) overseas to Malaysia? I assume police will do nothing...there is no apparent "crime." Thank you thank you thank you for what you do here. You saved me!!!!! I hope it's over but I am concerned what to do now. I did post also on "stories" in hopes that someone else could not become a victim. Thank you again!!!
by Mumbles Thu Aug 22, 2013 11:53 pm
We've heard of him before:

viewtopic.php?f=13&p=173111

Yes, definitely stop those cards. I don't know what he can do with them but he does.

I use credit.com and creditkarma.com to monitor my credit. Both are free.

“If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweep streets even as a Michaelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music or Shakespeare wrote poetry. He should sweep streets so well ...”

Martin Luther King Jr.
by minecrafter Fri Aug 23, 2013 12:02 am
Yes, he got me too. For over two months. What a con artist! He is seriously disturbed but also very good at what he does. I'm so angry at myself for falling for this. He is evil person. Sorry he got you too. I shared my story in the appropriate place here about what he talked me into doing with prepaid debit cards to Malaysia. He was using a 410 area code phone number. For me he was using [email protected]...then it changed to Brandt Crawford. He was on Friend Finder. He copy/pasted me an email that said "Dear...." and it was another woman's name. What a fool I was for believing his lies...I kept getting suspicious and he would somehow convince me why I was confused and he was soooo sorry.
Thanks for posting here...it helped me tremendously.
by minecrafter Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:09 pm
I thought he might be leaving me alone. But he's back. Now he's threatening me that if I don't call back I will regret it and he's posting to my FB explicit pictures and saying "is just the beginning" he is going to ruin my "Carrier" which I know he means career. He is calling me bitch and saying I stole HIS money...what a crazy luncatic! I reported him to FB as harrassment. He sent a friend request to my husband on FB. I guess if he posted pics I sent him and then "tags" me in them, they appear on my timeline, so I delete/hide/report but other "friends" of mine are now messaging me that I got hacked so they are obviously seeing too. When I closed the prepaid debit card I sent him, I think it might have "trapped" the money he had put on it and now he thinks I stole the money...ridiculous! I still feel like a fool that I gave him so much info he easily could ruin my reputation if he wanted to. I have tried to contact the person who is supposedly taking complaints and working with police about this particular romance scammer, but never heard back. He is so scary and evil but my plan is to ignore completely and never text or call or reply ever and hope he goes away. Not sure what else to do?!
by Lovelynhing Sat Sep 28, 2013 10:30 am
I am glad that you closed the prepaid card that you sent to him. When I found out what he did to me it was too late already, it was only $20+ left in the card. He took $4700.00 from my bank account that was loaded to that card. I have all the proof to show it to you. You may contact the Elk Grove police department about the reports that I sent to them back in June, so if you didn't send him money, can you please call the police department and enquire how to give it to them so that I could at least get my money back that he stole. Before that, I also had sent him $3700.00 plus the $600.00 upon arrival in Malaysia. I have all the proof to show you that this is how much he took from me. My daughter and I almost didn't eat, because we didn't have any money. My payday was still 2 weeks away when scammed me. So please contact the police department to enquire how to give my money back. Because what he did is transfer money from different prepaid card to another. I been praying so hard that one day, there is one person that will do this to him so that he could get his KARMA. Until now, I haven't recover from it, and I am still in a big hole financially from it.

Thank you in advance for your help.
by Lovelynhing Sat Sep 28, 2013 10:34 am
If you want to know more information about how to contact me, please post something here, and I will check everyday. I will give you my email address or you may contact Elk Grove police department here in Sacramento California.

Thank you in advance for your help!

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