by jomo
Sun Nov 24, 2013 2:14 pm
I met this guy who says his name is joe Jameson on match.ca. A couple of days after chatting with him he suggested Yahoo Messenger. I created an account and we have been chatting since about September 22. He has even called me 3 times and sent me a birthday gift. He says he is from Grandbury Texas, although he was brought up in UK but his origines are South Africa. He won a big contract in Tableview, Capetown, SA. Unfortunately he missed his plane, then rescheduled, arrived at destination with missing luggage and his credit cards were stolen. Finally he asked me to send him an iPhone or BlackBerry so he could communicate with me. I refused. I told him that I was well aware of scams on internet and that I would never send anything to anyone I had never met. I asked for a videocam conversation to confirm that the pictures received and the man I was chatting with is the same. His videocam didn't work!! We continued chatting for about a week. He then got a mobile somehow. He then asked if I would pay for airtime for only $35. I refused. I told him I couldn't believe he couldn't pay his own airtime. I then decided to stop chatting with him. Unfortunately before I realized that this was a scam I have sent pictures of me to him. He has my address and phone number. I will try to post the pictures he sent me.
Below are part of emails he has sent me:
Sept. 22, 2013
" How are you today?Sincerely,i must say enjoyed our chats and your efforts in reaching out to me.Duly appreciated.I guess you should truly know who i am ,I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound.Hope you having a great day,missing you already and i look forward to chatting with you."
From: Joe Jameson <[email protected]>
Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2013 14:35:27 +0100 (BST)
Subject: Re: Re : Re: Re : Hi
Bonjour Belle,
I really appreciate this consistent communication and i will say it is a sign of good will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead.I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid's walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people,. it is a place called joy and happiness. My princess, really i just see in your face that i can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul.As i could remember, as a kid i was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realize there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you, i am a type that doesn't judge. no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give your support.
There is no Mr right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love,lol,but sincerely that is the bitter truth. When i lost with my wife, he told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better cant start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realize that , let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co pilot. my usual saying, and i am known for it, is that, Life is simple, for those who take it simple. I don't like to complicate things,there is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look at it from.All a man needs is a good woman to stand by him and a place to call home.Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, i rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes and a super woman. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less.I am recovering a bit i must say.
I say, who says we cant pick rags and turn to riches? Who says we cant design our own paradise together.It is workable just walk by my side.You tickle my fancy and i believe you will be a part of me in due time.Have a lovely day my Angel and i look forward to reading from you as always.
Musings,
Joe.
-------- Message d’origine --------
De: Joe Jameson <[email protected]>
Date: 6 oct. 2013 à 14:26:11
Objet: Bonjour Belle
À: undisclosed recipients:
Hello My Sunshine.LOL!
How are you today?You must wonder why i call you sunshine..can't get the picture of you off my mind.The only reason why this is possible is because you have portrayed yourself well and you have been yourself and that is good, because if i ever fall in love with you for beauty, I wouldn't walk more than miles to see more beauty, If i love you for wealth, I wouldn't walk more miles to see more, If i love you for smiles, I would see more in tv , lol but the only thing i can fall in love with is you, that can't be gotten by anyone else because its being YOU! that is absolutely what no one can ever be. Like i said, it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel the way you do with some people. the answers are never there...trust me, the day relationships starts falling is the day people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each other. Life is boring if perfect,life is worse when there is nothing to change about anything.
The balance in life is based on the facts that, there must be thieves and criminals for the police to remain employed,. The medical practitioners would run out of business if we are all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of boredom if there aren't offenders. If everyone are vegetarians, Oh my! guess how many people would not earn a living. Christians bring out the best in Christianity because of the presence of Islam. White gained from black, blacks earn from white. If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless. who would do the laundry? who would drive the car? who would guard who? who would keep whose money? lol. The essence for this short words is that, if you can read the meaning in this. you are my woman for sure. The moral of the speech is that,. We were all created for each other. There is much fun in helping. We can all be better if we accept the fact that we can't live without each other. The world would be a better place if we can start accepting things we cant change. Because , the only constant thing in life is, CHANGE! Sitting here thinking about you, brings out a part of me that loves everything.
I have a proposal for you this wonderful day. Because i know you at least care about me, after all you wake up to check on my mail and know if i am still alive,lol. that is something. So i want your help today. There is this woman whom i just met, and i could be scared about how she has gotten my attention, but i would be stupid to submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a place that can not be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting such a woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, i am not known for fears. I know a journey of a thousand years start with a single step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! tell her if she is willing, i would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing or everything. Once i have her hand, i can promise her forever. Tell her i know this is not going to be a kid's walk...tell her i know there are times we would argue in future but tell her i would teach her to know that even while we argue we would still be holding hands because there are many sides to a coin...tell her life is short but we can make paradise out of it...tell her, her worries have become mine, because i do not really know how she has done it....tell her, that coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was by choice, but then falling for her is beyond my control.You know where to find her my dear, just go to your dressing mirror and you would find her staring back at you, lol. Please look into her eyes and speak this to her for me, but above all i want you to tell her as you stare at her in the mirror that words cannot qualify how she means to me...xoxoxo
Musings,
Joe
Below are part of emails he has sent me:
Sept. 22, 2013
" How are you today?Sincerely,i must say enjoyed our chats and your efforts in reaching out to me.Duly appreciated.I guess you should truly know who i am ,I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound.Hope you having a great day,missing you already and i look forward to chatting with you."
From: Joe Jameson <[email protected]>
Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2013 14:35:27 +0100 (BST)
Subject: Re: Re : Re: Re : Hi
Bonjour Belle,
I really appreciate this consistent communication and i will say it is a sign of good will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead.I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid's walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people,. it is a place called joy and happiness. My princess, really i just see in your face that i can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul.As i could remember, as a kid i was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realize there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you, i am a type that doesn't judge. no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give your support.
There is no Mr right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love,lol,but sincerely that is the bitter truth. When i lost with my wife, he told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better cant start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realize that , let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co pilot. my usual saying, and i am known for it, is that, Life is simple, for those who take it simple. I don't like to complicate things,there is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look at it from.All a man needs is a good woman to stand by him and a place to call home.Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, i rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes and a super woman. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less.I am recovering a bit i must say.
I say, who says we cant pick rags and turn to riches? Who says we cant design our own paradise together.It is workable just walk by my side.You tickle my fancy and i believe you will be a part of me in due time.Have a lovely day my Angel and i look forward to reading from you as always.
Musings,
Joe.
-------- Message d’origine --------
De: Joe Jameson <[email protected]>
Date: 6 oct. 2013 à 14:26:11
Objet: Bonjour Belle
À: undisclosed recipients:
Hello My Sunshine.LOL!
How are you today?You must wonder why i call you sunshine..can't get the picture of you off my mind.The only reason why this is possible is because you have portrayed yourself well and you have been yourself and that is good, because if i ever fall in love with you for beauty, I wouldn't walk more than miles to see more beauty, If i love you for wealth, I wouldn't walk more miles to see more, If i love you for smiles, I would see more in tv , lol but the only thing i can fall in love with is you, that can't be gotten by anyone else because its being YOU! that is absolutely what no one can ever be. Like i said, it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel the way you do with some people. the answers are never there...trust me, the day relationships starts falling is the day people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each other. Life is boring if perfect,life is worse when there is nothing to change about anything.
The balance in life is based on the facts that, there must be thieves and criminals for the police to remain employed,. The medical practitioners would run out of business if we are all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of boredom if there aren't offenders. If everyone are vegetarians, Oh my! guess how many people would not earn a living. Christians bring out the best in Christianity because of the presence of Islam. White gained from black, blacks earn from white. If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless. who would do the laundry? who would drive the car? who would guard who? who would keep whose money? lol. The essence for this short words is that, if you can read the meaning in this. you are my woman for sure. The moral of the speech is that,. We were all created for each other. There is much fun in helping. We can all be better if we accept the fact that we can't live without each other. The world would be a better place if we can start accepting things we cant change. Because , the only constant thing in life is, CHANGE! Sitting here thinking about you, brings out a part of me that loves everything.
I have a proposal for you this wonderful day. Because i know you at least care about me, after all you wake up to check on my mail and know if i am still alive,lol. that is something. So i want your help today. There is this woman whom i just met, and i could be scared about how she has gotten my attention, but i would be stupid to submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a place that can not be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting such a woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, i am not known for fears. I know a journey of a thousand years start with a single step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! tell her if she is willing, i would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing or everything. Once i have her hand, i can promise her forever. Tell her i know this is not going to be a kid's walk...tell her i know there are times we would argue in future but tell her i would teach her to know that even while we argue we would still be holding hands because there are many sides to a coin...tell her life is short but we can make paradise out of it...tell her, her worries have become mine, because i do not really know how she has done it....tell her, that coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was by choice, but then falling for her is beyond my control.You know where to find her my dear, just go to your dressing mirror and you would find her staring back at you, lol. Please look into her eyes and speak this to her for me, but above all i want you to tell her as you stare at her in the mirror that words cannot qualify how she means to me...xoxoxo
Musings,
Joe