by Bryon Williams
Tue Nov 26, 2013 2:44 pm
I am making this post for a victim. (BW)
This scammer contacted me through Plenty Of Fish Dating Site with a Screen name of '56andCounting' email [email protected]
He asked me if I had skype and added me and promptly removed himself from the dating site.
Skype Link: Name: Perry Edwards but this number showed on screen link - live:edwrd31158
Below is his first email after we had chatted.
He said he was special forces and was retiring from the Army and relocating back here to England and he was on his last mission. His father had died on his last mission. His wife had died of lung cancer 5 years previous and he made referrals to his colleagues not making it back to base and others getting injured and really made you feel empathy and compassion towards him.
Within days he was declaring his love for me and then on the 6th day his conversation was drawn around to doing him a 'favour'.
[email protected]
Perry Edwards
Sgt Perry Edwards
Skype ID
live:edwrd31158
This scammer contacted me through Plenty Of Fish Dating Site with a Screen name of '56andCounting' email [email protected]
He asked me if I had skype and added me and promptly removed himself from the dating site.
Skype Link: Name: Perry Edwards but this number showed on screen link - live:edwrd31158
Below is his first email after we had chatted.
He said he was special forces and was retiring from the Army and relocating back here to England and he was on his last mission. His father had died on his last mission. His wife had died of lung cancer 5 years previous and he made referrals to his colleagues not making it back to base and others getting injured and really made you feel empathy and compassion towards him.
Within days he was declaring his love for me and then on the 6th day his conversation was drawn around to doing him a 'favour'.
[email protected]
Perry Edwards
Sgt Perry Edwards
I woke up this morning and thought I was missing something. So I got up from my bed, grabbed the computer and sent you a morning greeting. Good a.m. Someday, you will find one who will watch every sunrise with you until the sunset of your life. . I woke up today smiling as I recall our new friendship because I know that years from now, I will still be waking up smiling for the same reason every morning. A warm "hello" doesn't come from the lips, it comes from the heart; doesn't have to be told, it has to be shown; doesn't have to be given, it has to be sent.
God smiled at me just this morning through the rising sun rays. I'm sharing the same courtesy with you by sending you a warm smile that your heart can feel even without seeing. Of all the smiles you received today, there was a smile you didn't see. A smile not from the lips, but straight from the heart - a smile that came from me. Sometimes, life gets so busy that we could not find time to say "Thank you" to someone who has been so nice and wonderful. I tell you, this is no lie. A text from you always will make me smile. I woke up a few hours ago, but somehow I feel incomplete till I remembered I haven't texted to you before I leave for my duty. Have a pleasant morning! People vanish, people die. People laugh and people cry. Some give up, some will try. Some say hi, while some say bye. Others may forget, but never will I. Good morning Xxxxx. Hope to talk soon today.
Subject: Faith and Trust
Hi xxxxxxxxxxx
How are you doing today ? I'm so thankful for your email .It mean so much to my heart and thinking about you and the future is so awesome. I miss talking you and even though I can not make it right now ,I want you to know you are still in my heart and am thinking about you so much. I know we are both not online now but I just want you to know that I am missing you so dam much. I have come to trust and believed our connection and know soon things will be much better having you as my wife .You are so much that I've always wanted in a woman and I just want you to know that for this to work for both of us ,we must ignore every mouth that may rise against our relationship and let trust, loyalty and respect lead us because they are a must for eternal happiness and for the sake of our relationship ,we will need all this ingredient to make ours worked just like others who have shared and shown this in their lives are happy and have lived till end of time .I know we are no exception as far as happiness is concern. No matter how much we may love each other ,if we do not have these ingredients we will never succeed.To be in love means being patient but to be patient means to trust first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart. Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to till you finally meet the person and finally express your true feelings too.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help,Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for him, to be with him, to make him realize how much you really love him.Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you again and again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart and I am among this few you can trust with your heart .To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart and you will never be hurt in any way.
I am telling you all this because it does not boast. It is not proud.. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres. Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going to be enough. Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people. Relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of us being in love because I will never do anything or say any to hurt you. I will always put those smiles on your face and never see them taken away for no reasons . Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open and honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire .
We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. But when your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we care about.Like you just did for me.If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up.When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy.It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, we will need to work with each other to see that we can compromise on different subjects.
If someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants, they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you. Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things.While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there . Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship.Remember loving relationships grow and only become better and this is what you and I are building now .I want to make you the happiest you have ever been and I know you have given me the chance to prove that to you and soon we will get to love each other in person than never .I am missing you every second that pass without talking to you and I know you have the same feelings too .I know we are not online now but I want you to know that sending you this which took me couple of hours to type to find you a bigger smile .LOL . xxx Till we talk again .Please stay safe .
Sincerely,
Perry.
Skype ID
live:edwrd31158
[6:28:40 PM] Perry Edwards: I am feeling little down today but I know I will be just fine . My day has never been any better today
XXXX: Aaaawww
[6:29:14 PM] Perry Edwards: But talking and sharing my feelings and every other thing with you makes me so much better
XXXX: do you want to talk about it
XXXX: good
[6:30:02 PM] Perry Edwards: Yes I really want to talk about it and hopefully you will give me good hopes
[6:30:19 PM] Perry Edwards: Be right back dear
XXXX: ok
XXXX: I am expecting xxxx later but we can talk until he gets here, I am sure she will be a while yet.
XXXX: You are showing as offline now
[6:32:13 PM] Perry Edwards: Back now
XXXX: good
XXXX: : )
XXXX: thats better you are showing as online now
XXXX: so why are you feeling down?
[6:34:00 PM] Perry Edwards: Your emails gave me so much smiles but I never wanted to let my feelings out till we meet in person but I still feel it is right for me to tell you what I am feeling regardless not seeing you face to face
XXXX: they are a little heavy
XXXX: but its better to let it out if thats what you are feeling
[6:40:57 PM] Perry Edwards: xxx I haven't asked any woman for this help I seek of you but I feel I am really connected to you and you understand part of me since we met . I ordered few items couple of days ago because my I needed a new computer ,one which will give me the adge to vidoe call with you and to build upon our trust before we meet in person and also few personal items because the weather here is very hot but Unfortunately the shipment could not make direct delivery to our base but our diplomatic system had to take charge and take care of this but the customs demanded duty fees and customs clearance and due to this ,there has been a hold on my items and I truly need it here before 26 because my birthday is coming up 29 this month . I know you haven't been through this before but I truly ask you for your help to help get my items to me . This is all I ask of you Jane dear
XXXX: What r u asking of me?
[6:44:59 PM] Perry Edwards: xxxxxx I feel really bad asking you to do this for me , I never told you in my email today because it was to do with me and not us but I don't have any means to come out up with the duty fees . I need you to pay the duty fees for me , I am asking you this because I will pay you because I don't want to take whats yours
XXXX: Well I am sorry I cannot help you as I do not have any funds
[6:47:33 PM] Perry Edwards: I understand xxxxxx
[6:48:21 PM] Perry Edwards: I know you are having hard times but can you please get some help to possible help me with?
[6:53:17 PM] Perry Edwards: xxxxx are you there?
XXXX: How dare you pull on my heart strings for financial gain....I have known that there were people out there like you that do this to women. You have succeeded in hurting
XXXX: me
XXXX: yes i am here
[6:56:27 PM] Perry Edwards: OMG .xxxxxx I am sorry if I hurt your feelings . I have heard people taking advantage of women to take their money and I was scared to tell you this but I knew you will be ready to listen to me concerning any issues . This is not me xxxxx, I don't have any pleasure in hurting women
XXXX: I am not so sure I believe you
XXXX: This has all been a scam
XXXX: all your words
XXXX: lies
XXXX: just to get me to send you money
XXXX: if you were who you say you are - you would not need my money if I had any
[6:58:26 PM] Perry Edwards: No xxxxxx , I truly mean my words , I know it will be difficult on your end concerning trust .
XXXX: I do not trust you any longer
XXXX: you have made me sad
XXXX: I have been taken in by you
[6:59:10 PM] Perry Edwards: Please give me a chance to prove to you
[6:59:46 PM] Perry Edwards: xxxxx do you think I will be online for 400 pounds?
XXXX: I do know what your motives are
XXXX: but i have no money to give and would not give it to someone I had not met even if I did have some
XXXX: Why would you do this to someone?
[7:01:26 PM] Perry Edwards: xxxxxx I am very sorry for hurting you ,
XXXX: Whoever your are
XXXX: you probably are not even the person in the picture are you
XXXX: your words are from a book
[7:01:59 PM] Perry Edwards: If for any reason you are upset with me , I am truly sorry . Let leave this behind us and talk about us
XXXX: with a little touch up
XXXX: there is no us
XXXX: and you know it
XXXX: this was all a scam
[7:03:25 PM] Perry Edwards: I undertand xxxxx , I know you will not talk to me after telling you this but I will always send my words across the distance till I am home to finally meet you
XXXX: you will not be meeting me
[7:03:53 PM] Perry Edwards: I have heard about those scams but it truly hurt my feelings you call me one .
XXXX: well you hurt mine too so I guess we are even
[7:04:36 PM] Perry Edwards: I will email you in a few
XXXX: the damage has been done
[7:04:55 PM] Perry Edwards: To apologize concerning all this
XXXX: I believe you are only sorry that I did not comply to your wishes
[7:05:28 PM] Perry Edwards: I care you about you regardless what you hear about people hurting other on the internet
XXXX: no you dont
[7:05:49 PM] Perry Edwards: I am not here to hurt you because I truly care and cherish you
[7:06:28 PM] Perry Edwards: I am not sorry because you ingnored me but sorry what I said hurt your feelings
XXXX: people like you do not care who you hurt
[7:06:55 PM] Perry Edwards: I care about you xxxxx , I truly do
XXXX: you widdle your way into vonerable womens hearts
[7:07:22 PM] Perry Edwards: No xxxxxx
XXXX: and I was foolish to believe in you
[7:07:26 PM] Perry Edwards: Please
[7:07:53 PM] Perry Edwards: Calm down and give me a chance
XXXX: a chance to what?
[7:08:27 PM] Perry Edwards: Chance to prove to you I care and cherish you
XXXX: bullshit
XXXX: you dont care
XXXX: about anyone but yourself
XXXX: your type are despicable
XXXX: you should be ashamed of yourself
[7:09:09 PM] Perry Edwards: I know if we are meant to be together . This will never part our friendship
XXXX: lol you just dont give up do you
XXXX: well I said you amazed me and you truly do
[7:10:16 PM] Perry Edwards: I am sorry and feel so bad right now
XXXX: good so you should
XXXX: why dont you try to be really honest for once in your life
XXXX: admit this was a scam
XXXX: and apologise genuinely
[7:11:53 PM] Perry Edwards: I thought you would hear me out conerning this and will not be worried , but you took it wrong on me , I have reputation and why would I be online for money
[7:12:07 PM] Perry Edwards: No there is nothing to apologise for
XXXX: same reason all the other conmen are
XXXX: then you have no conscience
XXXX: God will deal with you
XXXX: he will take pity on you
XXXX: but remember what goes around comes around
[7:13:30 PM] Perry Edwards: You are over reacting xxxxxx
XXXX: ok if I am over reacting then what next?
XXXX: Im listening
[7:15:08 PM] Perry Edwards: I thought you were a good listner and would leave things even if you don't have any help to offer but up took things up on me.You truluy hurt
XXXX: Well I am truly sorry if I have hurt you but I am hurting too
XXXX: You can turn this arouond all you want
XXXX: but it will not change the truth
XXXX: and you know what that is
[7:18:29 PM] Perry Edwards: Okay , I think we have issues with trust and faith here .
XXXX: lol I think you might be right on that score
XXXX: Iv just lost mine
XXXX: and will never trust anyone ever again
XXXX: You have harden me
XXXX: in less than a week
XXXX: i hope you are proud of yourself
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