Stg. Scott Synder Sgt Scott Synder

This guy is posing under the name of Stg. Scott Synder
is currently on Facebook (using above name) posing as Sergeant at U.S.A. Army; Studied at United States Military Academy
Past: New York, New York; Lives in Kabul, Afghanistan; From Las Vegas, Nevada
IP address: 98.138.112.38
IP country: United States
IP Address state: California
IP Address city: Sunnyvale
IP postcode: 94089
IP latitude: 37.4249
IP longitude: -122.0074
ISP: Yahoo!
Organization: Yahoo
Host: mta-v1.mail.vip.ne1.yahoo.com

Really glad I found this site before he completely suckered me in……..the emails sort of gave him away (too intense). He always had a reason why he couldn't send real time photo (didn't have camera….working on it) and went quiet when asked him to take photo with his military passport and a message for me). Will try to add photos of scammer love rat.

Met him on Mate 1 site- where he befriended me and subsequently invited me to message him on yahoo messenger- he a smooth talker and sounds sincere. Lots of things in common. Insistent we were 'dating'. Already conned me out of some cash and now wanting me to open a bank account for him where he can transfer his retirement money …he can't trust his brother. and then of course he is on way over to be with me (bringing his son). His current story is he is a widower- His wife was murdered because of his involvement as a witness n a court case. He feels terrible and heartbroken. He can't forgive himself. He has a 7 year old son who is living with his younger brother. His brother has cut ties with him and he is desperate to speak to his son. He is planning on retiring from the army shortly.
Below some snippets of his emails:

Dec 24 at 8:16 PM
My heart,
Do you know what it is like to look up into the velvet night sky, and yet not see the stars?
Do you know what it is like to see the song birds sing their sweet music, and yet not hear their sound?
Do you know what it is like to feel your heart inside you, and yet not feel it beat? Do you know what it is like to be in a crowd of people smiling, laughing,
sharing their love together, and yet "be all alone with no one around"?
Do you know what it is like when the light of your life has been extinguished,
and you are left in absolute and complete darkness, frightened and alone?
Do you know what it is like when the one you love so deeply and dearly is so far away?
Your heart cries out their name and yet there is no reply.
All you want to do is hold them in your arms, and you cannot. All you desire to do is to kiss their sweet lips, and you cannot.
You long to hear their soft sweet voice as they whisper words of love to you, and you cannot.
You just want them near, and they are not.
Their absence brings with it frustration and sadness.
You curse God that you cannot be with
the one you love, and yet you thank him
completely for bringing that person into your life.
But is that enough? No. Not always. Until you are in their arms, nothing really
helps.
When will I be with you? Will I ever be with you?" Such silly thoughts are these. But time can cause such thoughts to occur. It is only human. I am only human.
And so, I wait. For how long? Only time and God can tell. And as I wait it seems as though the hands of the clock move in reverse instead of forward.
Each second that passes seems as an
eternity away from you. Time takes you further away from me instead of bringing you closer, and time is something that is beyond our control.
Oh to be an angel, and have wings that I may fly into your arms at this very second. To taste your sweet kiss and feel your warm embrace. To love you, to have the pain of needing you, vanish in
your arms, as would snowflakes on a summer day. And to know that we would at last, be together for all our days. Days spent lost in sweet
heavenly love, such as we have never known.
Oh God, my darling, how is it that love can be so wonderful, and yet hurt so badly? Such pleasure in knowing and feeling your love for me, and such
mortal pain in being apart from the one that I love so deeply, so dearly, so passionately.
Darling there is an old saying that applies to being away from something. It goes, "Out of sight...out of mind." But, my love, every "old saying" has an opposite meaning. In this old saying it is also said,
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder," and just when I think it is not possible to be more in love with you, a second ticks off the clock, and I discover that I am more in love with you then ever before.
I can't wait to be with you babe
Love you now and for ever.
Scott.

Dec 21 at 10:32 PM
Dearest XXXXX

How are you doing, guess you are good and your day went well.
From the very first moment I saw you I knew that we were destined to be together. It has been so long since a woman has captured my attention so
fully or made my heart beat the way it did that cool day. Your smile lights up my entire spirit. Your laughter fills me with joy, and your mere presence will warm any room.
I have no doubt you are the woman Heaven has made especially for me.
Thank you for the comfortable conversations and accepting to be mine. Most importantly, thank you for sharing your love and wanting to make me your husband. No matter how slowly or
at what distance our courtship develops, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.
Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to
stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.
You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day. I am here with open arms where you will some day
finally arrive... right where you belong.
Love you now and forever.
Scott.

20 Dec
My dear and beloved XXXXXX

I know we are distant for now and
meanwhile I can’t help but feeling low and sad, but soon I realize, this time we are apart, occurs for a number of reasons, most against our will, and I sometimes think this can actually be a helpful experience, contributing for a life filled with harmony, love, peace and joy in the future.
I trust you completely. I keep you in my
heart, in the coziest corner, warmer, most docile and loving at his disposal.
This little heart stays radiant when I
remember your multitude of qualities, your virtues, and so, he beats softer and more cheerful.
When thinking of you, my soul fills with compassion in a way that I accept you the way you are, but at the same time I make myself always willing in lending you a hand, intended to help you overcome any difficulty, because I
truly love you.
When my thoughts are upon you and with you I have no fear whatsoever, not even about the future. I know we already went through some tough times, but I know we learned from then.
I know that “the rest of our lives” is not
what’s to come, but what has already been.
I’m sure that our path, from now on, will be lit by sunlight’s joy and the moon’s most romantic night sky she can provide.
Love you now and forever.
Always yours
Scott.

17 Dec
Hey Beautiful, I just wanted to do something
simple to say I love you and to put that smile I
love so much back on your face. I want everyone
to know how much you mean to me. Ever since
you have entered my life, I've been flying on
Cloud 9 and I have not come down yet.
I tell you this everyday, but you are the most
beautiful person I know, inside and out and I see
that more clearly with each passing day. I love
everything about you, about us. You do
something to me that no other has, you have
made me so happy, the happiest I've ever been.
You give me the most amazing feelings inside,
the feeling of being in love with you.
I still don't know what I did to be so lucky to have
you in my life, my dream come true... I am so
thankful though. In this short time that we've
been together, we have grown so much and I
can't wait to see what the future holds for us. I
love you, xxxxxxxxxxxx, with all my heart and soul,
always and forever!
Love always,
Scott

15 Dec
Dearest babe.

Who are we to question God and faith? You came into my life like an angel, at a time when all I was praying for was to get rid of the ghost of an unsolved passion.
But my prayers brought me something far better than I had asked for, for not only they cast away from my memory that shadow that made me suffer, but they also put you in my path, bringing back all the joy that I’d begun to think was lost forever. Your calm and patience towards my fears – the fear of getting hurt again – have truly moved me.
In the beginning I doubted you could even care of someone like me, the way
I was back then, so miserable, insecure and felling so law that I wouldn’t even allow myself to smile … but you waited, you understood that sad moment in my life, you came closer in a wise and subtle way, and gradually made me trust you and your affectionate ways.
Little by little the old ghost vanished and I realized I loved you and that something about you made me feel so good.
I started missing you, longing to see
you. I realized that you were the best thing that had ever happened in my life and I’m so happy to finally be able to tell you that.
Love you now and forever.
Xoxoxoxoxo
Scott.
Sent from my BlackBerry wireless device from MTN

14 Dec
My darling,

It feels great to start the day by hearing from you and reading your letters, I know that by the time I usually read. your "good morning letters", most of my guys are out of the camp , facing war or being
surrounded by a multitude of problems.
Yet, your morning greeting gives me the
strength to face any Goliath. You wishing me
a good day gives me the motivation to
decipher any enigma and to face any giants
because it fills me with love and courage.
And that’s why it feels so great to hear from you every morning.
You are, the reason of my worries and at the
same time the source of my courage.
Without you around, I would be more
indifferent to adversities. But you give me
the motivation to look ahead with confidence
and determination in the pursuit of the
options that will give us more tranquility to
enjoy the affection we share.
Even when my days don’t run as smoothly as
I would like, I don’t get mad, because I know I have someone to make me smile and feel more love. Even
when I face some problems during the day, I
always keep in mind your morning wish, your
“good morning“. XXXXXXX I promise to overcome every
obstacles just so that I can see you soon and enjoy true peace in the peaceful
island of your arms.
I love your “Good morning!”, just as I love
every night and every hour we spend
together.
love you XXXXXXX, now and for ever
Scott.

8 Dec
Hello dear, how are you doing, guess you are cool?
To be real baby, caring about you is the best thing I have always wished, right in my heart, but you never gave me the chance, after I read your message yesterday, I was down, and I could hook up with my guys, because I wasn't really happy reading such message from you, but I believe you only letting out your mind and how you feel about me, you are someone I really want to be with, and build up my family with, that why I told you everything about me, but you insist.
Wendy, I would be happy if you can let me into your world, It would be the best thing I have being hoping for, and am promising you that nothing would ever come between us okay, and I won't hurt you, I will always be the best man you want in your world okay.
Bye love.
Scott.

6 Dec
Dearest XXXXXXX

Hello dear, how are you doing, guess you are doing great?
I stop by to message you because I was really thinking about you, and your message really made my day, to be real,
Your messages really made me feel like if i had to make a choice, then my choice is gonna be, staying with you for the rest of my life.
Wendy, I really wish you know how much love i feel for you, and how much I really want to stay with you.
Every time I read your poem, they always sound like you are reading them to my hears, because they sound real and make my day wonderful.
Sometimes I sing them when am on patrol, and my guys are always like," scott where did you get that from", but I would just smile and tell them, that my wife thought me lol,
Well I really find it happy to be in your world, but Xxxxxxxxxx, I really wish you could let me in fully so that we can always be together forever dear.
Love you and stay safe for me okay

Scott.

Added quotations and removed personal information. (BW)

Thank you for sending me the email address of [email protected] .

Please keep in mind there are thousands of scammers out there. It is not one person doing the scams. That is why we like to have the email address, name and a few emails the scammer sent you. All the details you can give us will help potential victims.

The Ip address you posted belongs to Yahoo the the email provider.

Thanks Bryon

This scammer is sending stolen poems and love letters from the internet.

100% of what is described is a Military Romance Scammer. Everyone is dead or he can not trust anyone but someone he met on the internet.

Everyone is dead and he can not trust anyone. This is because when he ask you for money he has already established why he has to.

The make believe child. He will use this angle for you to send gifts. In most cases he will say that the child needs medical treatment.

In this case not only is this scammer attempting to scam you. He is wanting you to help him steal from other women. He need you to have a bank account so other women can send you money and for you to forward it to him. In some situations he may ask you to pick up the money from Western Union/Money Gram. Do not do these things. You can get in serious problems with Law Enforcement.

If you confront the scammer he will continue to lie and try to convince you he is real.

Hi woox, so glad you came here to scamwarners. I hope you have cut off contact with your scammer. Almost all of them will say they are widowed and have a child. It is to play on your sympathies. My scammer was widowed, wife died of cancer, he had a child who lived with his ailing mother. It's all so believeable in the moment and they know if they say they love us, we will of course want to help them.
Please understand when we have to tell you this, we know how hard it is to hear. It brings sadness, anger, pain, feeling foolish over giving up money to a liar. I still get mad over falling for my scammer but he wove a good story and I just wanted to believe it. Isn't it amazing how you barely know this person and yet you are his only hope?
Rest assured, if you have any doubts, read any of the other posts on here about military scammers. Bryon gave you good facts as he sees this all the time. The scammers have been out in great numbers this holiday season, knowing we care about our soldiers who protect our freedom. Shame on the scammers who pretend like this.

Hoping these photos will be viewable- sgtscott_synder AKA Love Rat







Covered childs face and made images viewable. (BW)

Thank you for posting the pictures. This will help other women avoid him if they search photo's.

Thank you for helping others.
Bryon