Jeff wilshere [email protected]

Met on a legitimate dating site

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WOW! Is it my luck to hear from an angel? I will sure love a chance here? Would you like to know more about me,kindly drop me a line on jefswt at y a h o o c o m, so we can interact more personally.
Jeff

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Oh I forgot to tell you my subscription on match ended yesterday, not renewing my membership for now because I haven't met anyone but lets see where this is to take us..I will attach my pictures to this mail..

Welcome to Scamwarners Spygirl3,

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From: Jeff Wilshere <[email protected]>

Originating IP: 49.205.159.193
Originating ISP: Beam Telecom Pvt Ltd
City: Hyderabad
Country of Origin: India

Hi Xxxxxx! Hope you had a good night rest? I got a huge smile seeing this personal note from you. Thanks for getting in touch,. like I said if we never try then we will never really know. I want to reciprocate the smile so I hope like the sunshine in the morning, may this brighten your day and remind you that you're thought of by one man here lol. I don't know where to start from and I also wish there was a questionnaire to fill out but then if at this age man does not know what he wants then he might have lived for nothing.. How do I make my first impression here? let me give a full biography here.

Name,..Jeff Edward Wilshere
Age,.. 45
Background,...Father is American, mother is German,.
Status,..I am a widower, I lost my wonderful wife and best friend when she was to put to bed, it was not a good experience to lost a wonderful partner with a new born same day.
Job,.. I am supplier and major contractor, I work mainly with government on contract, I am self employed and I have the grace to work with close people .
My father died long ago and I also had my share of the pie when I lost my wife and best friend, since then I delved myself into work pretending to be hardworking even though I know in my heart I was trying to just forget my pain and loss though it sky rocketed my success but am I really successful without a woman to crown me? I know I would give all I have just to have that one thing money can never buy, I have an apartment in Gladstone St Ottawa five years to be back in my root, the I always stay while I am not on any of the oil platforms as it takes me to many places across the globe, I haven't been on the dating scene ever since I lost her, but now I feel ready to do this and for one last time for ever. I know I am a man who understands that loving is not about how much we have in the beginning but how much we can build it into as time goes by. I want a woman to be with me for being herself not changing to suit me but allowing myself to accept her for who she is, I want more than a wife, I want a best friend more like a partner in crime lol. When the time comes you will only find out it is like a force greater than our control is driving us towards someone to make us happy beyond our imaginations. If you ask me what love feels like, I can never have a description enough to do it justice, some says it is like a butterfly in the belle, but I say it is just that feeling you get from someone and you know you like it so much you want to spend the rest of your life living like that. I am a man who knows what he wants and wont waste your time like a fool at my age lol. I decided it is time for me to build a home to, accept a woman and all that matters to her and build our own paradise, it is time to buy the big house for all to call home,. I want to quit field trips after this last contract.Such is my dream, if such is the dream life you want then we can explore this journey called love. Would you give this a chance with me? I know we are not God and cant tell tomorrow, but we can make a good tomorrow by living today right, they say we should dream like we will live forever but live like we will die today, nothing last forever but we are only here today lol. I know I can not promise you all will be well, but I can tell you I know there will be ups and down, but I can promise to work with you on everything to make a better tomorrow, It is like who wants to change the world has to first learn to change himself, that is what I know, we can start from somewhere and who says here cant be that somewhere, pls lets know more about our selves in writing before we proceed to the next level. I will be waiting impatiently for your response,..Thanks for taking time to read my mail lol
Your new found friend
Jeff

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Oh I forgot to tell you my subscription on match ended, not renewing my membership for now because I haven't met anyone but lets see where this is to take us..I will attach my pictures to this mail..

Yes that is him. Many more pics followed. My gosh he seemed so real.

Hi Spygirl3, you are learning the pain that comes along with being scammed. Such great pictures they send. Such beautiful words they give us. We're glad you came here to post your details and stop the scammer from taking any further advantage of you. I hope you are no longer in contact with the scammer. He will continue to try to convince you he is real and we are wrong. They are professional liars and great at twisting the heart.
I saw that you stated you were on a legitimate dating site. I have to tell you, all sites have scammers. I was on match.com. All we want is to connect with someone new, find someone with similar ideals and activities, hopes and dreams. We don't deserve to get scammed. We don't deserve to be treated as any less than the best but they exploit us for their own gain.
I hope you take time to heal. It hurts, it makes us angry, it makes us feel foolish. I still feel all of those sometimes but I'm better than I was when I first came here. I hope it helps you to know you're not alone. if you need support, don't hesitate to ask.