by Dotti
Wed Feb 19, 2014 2:39 pm
Unfortunately, as the others have said it is a scam.
But, just to reiterate: As others have pointed out, it's not just the fake job that it is a scam. It is your "boyfriend" that is a scam.
Unfortunately, African scammers posing as American soldiers are a HUGE problem these days. They find news stories about real soldiers, or even visit facebook or myspace pages of innocent soldiers. The scammers then steal the photos from those stories or pages, and create fake accounts on dating sites, pretending to be American soldiers. Sometimes they use the name of the real soldier, while other times they just make up a new name.
Sadly, the VAST majority of "American soldiers" on dating sites are not real. They are fakes, created by African scammers to steal your money. Real American soldiers, especially those stationed overseas, have many responsibilities, and what little time they have for communication they generally want to spend talking to the loved ones they have left back home.
If you were in a relationship with a real American soldier, he would NOT ask you for money. And he would not tell you to contact anyone else who asks you for money either. He would arrange to meet you, in person when he has leave available (which doesn't cost anything!). He would not try to arrange a job for you when he has never even met you. You would NOT request anything from the military on his behalf, and you would NOT have to arrange for a special phone to talk to him.
It is important that you cut off all contact with this scammer now. He will only continue to lie to you. He may declare his innocence, and claim that he didn't know the job was a scam--but he lies for a living so it means nothing to him.
The best thing you can do for others is post information for others to find. Copy and paste the first couple of emails he sent you into a post here. Post his email address and any other email addresses used in this scam, as well as any phone numbers. You can post the photos he is using as well--there is a link in my signature for how to do that.
Many of these scammers use the exact same lies and even emails on multiple victims, which is why posting them is so important to prevent the scammer from doing more harm to others.