by boots201
Tue Feb 25, 2014 4:05 pm
skype marvin.lopez114 or Marvin Murphy Lopez
This one didn't send the usual "template letter" but got "template chat", here's the 1st one. Wow ... did he think I wouldn't notice that he would have to be the fastest typist on earth. LOL
This one didn't send the usual "template letter" but got "template chat", here's the 1st one. Wow ... did he think I wouldn't notice that he would have to be the fastest typist on earth. LOL
Well i will start by saying, I’m Marvin Murphy Lopez by name a Military Staff troop’s trainer, and member of the military night patrol team, my rank is WO4. My military education started when i lost my parents and had to live with my uncle back in the States and includes the United States Military Academy (U.S.M.A) at West Point, New York (Class of 1977) Infantry Officer Basic and Advanced courses, Armed Forces Staff College, and a U.S. Army War College Senior Fellowship at the Hoover Institution, Michigan University. I lost my parents at the age of 12 in a plane crash. So I don't have any family expect my son. Thank you very much for your contact, I use my leisure time to search for the love of my life because I figured out lately that I need to love again when you got along. I want to love and be loved. I want to settle down again. I have been a lonely for years now.
12:16 PM
Yes you are right my dear, it was not that easy with me but i took the courage managing the past and folloow up with the present although it was that difficult for to ciope with but did try my best but still remember it very much. I do have one son (Sam, 13 yrs) who mean the world to me and have been my focus since I lost his mom. Sam is with a caretaker in America now but in the care of the government but enjoys the weekend with the caretaker. I do not seek a replacement mother for my son... Rather, I seek one amazing woman who will only accepts my relationship with my son but won't feel threatened by or jealous of this relationship and who can meld seamlessly into our family unit… I don't need to rush...I will like to tell you little about my self
12:22 P
I'm pretty much a trusting person for the most part however. I have found myself to have people abuse that and make a fool of me. I believe each person deserves their own chance and don't judge anyone. In fact I try to keep an open mind with everyone at least as much as a human being can. I believe in romance! I love romance and being romantic. I enjoy pampering my woman (when I have one that is)... I'm affectionate, love cuddling, kissing, holding hands. I’m very romantic and love to be romanced, pampered and treated like a special man. I am just an admire person looking for the real meaning of love. I am sweet, caring, understanding, patient, humble, I love people who accept who I am responsible am rich in good spirit and willing to share the real meaning of love to the right person. I love feeling secure and being sure that I can trust and be trusted. I love companionship that allows for having ones own space as well. I love being able to share interests but also have some of my own.
12:23 PM
Yes surely you are right my dear and i will like you to know that although that relationship still holds with my son, i am still willing to open up for the woman i find in my life which turns out to be you now as you have kept to be the only woman i am getting to know about and will wish that we can be able to build something up together as you are a nice woman and do appreciate your nature.. I am willing to relocate provided that the relationship is moving in a long term/serious direction.. I am not
interested in bopping around "trying women out" on a more serious side, I am not about having sex with just anyone. I must have feelings for the person and she for me. There must be that deep seeded trust before it would move to the sexual phase... There are just too many diseases out here and to be honest. I have seen what they can do to a life if you are careless sexually. I wouldn't want that for anyone I know or care about...Don't get me wrong though if the relationship were to get to that phase. I am completely into pleasing my woman, COMPLETELY! The reality is that I truly do seek a lasting relationship. For this to happen we should be come Sociable, emotionally, intellectually, socially, spiritually, physically (call me shallow but looks do matter) and sexually..Even with all this love must exist and there must be that ever elusive "spark...” In essence, I seek the proverbial "Total Package...” Rather than "settling" for someone I could be happy with, I seek someone I cannot imagine living without (a subtle yet important distinction) for a lifetime together filled with passion (both in and outside the bedroom)intensity and bliss..
12:32 PM
Aww!! Thanks so much for that compliments anyway and i know that this will take us far and not end up just here but will like you to do me a favor and that is if we both can get off the dating site and see how we can build this together without the worry of other members from the dating site. I’ve got a great sense of humor to make people happy all the time. When my partner is happy am also happy and I see to it that our little family will befull of Love and happiness. It’s not quite easy being a single parent but being a single parent gives a lot of life experience in many things. I wish to meet a woman that will always be there for me and my son, a woman I can trust and Love, A woman that will always be there for me.
12:38 PM
Yes that is true and i know with that experience we can both make a great family and also see to it that we are the happiest couples on earth if this should go far with us
12:42 PM
Wow! That is a lovely answer to me, Honesty,Trust and Willingness of partners to assist one another when it difficulties and also trying to comfort the souls of other partner when in hardships is important to me in a relationship. What makes you laugh?
12:49 PM
Oh i see.. I am so sorry for your loss anyway, do accept my heart felt sympathy and just hope you take everything to heart like i do the same also. My parents were the world to me. Well i lost my Dad and Mom years back. i have no brother or a sister but i have only my son who is not like my brother and sister even like everything to me my dear .. I am willing to accept your kids and yourself into my life and i promise to make you all happy if you will give me that chance anyway. What do your friends mean to you?
12:56 PM
Wow!! That is quite normal, i wish i had friends like you do, but i am not with friends except with those i work with in the army. My friends mean a lot to me too.. that's if only you are not that kind of selfish ones. i don't make friends who are greed and lazy. The friends i have are very hard working and i think makes me laugh when im in sadness. What do others admire about you?
1:01 PM
