by Kathy95918
Mon Jul 27, 2015 8:07 pm
This is the 2nd email I received the first one is the same as the others that start out : "As I mail this greeting, I'm sending you a morning prayer in hopes that your day will be great, without a tear or care. May the day bring you hope and many reasons to smile, with enough happiness in your heart to keep you warm across every mile. ".
Thank god I did not go any further with this SCAM and I can block the email. From the bottom of my heart thank you for this scam site. To good to be true, then it probably is.
Hello my dear,
I hope you're having a fantastic weekend and everything is moving on smoothly with you as it is with me. The weather is bad here, but I hope it gets better by the close of the weekend. Thanks for your response to my message, which shows me how serious you're, as far as communication is concerned. I appreciate all the effort you are putting into this communication, and I like everything you have already shared with me about yourself and also the pics you are really a nice woman. I can feel your sense of humor in everything you shared with me about yourself, and it fills my heart with joy each time I get the chance to stay in touch with you.
You're the only woman I'm currently communicating with, and I strongly feel the connection between us, but I still think that we need to know each other better, because I do not want any of us to get hurt or be disappointed during our meeting. I have been thinking about you and what you are doing the whole of yesterday. I strongly believe in giving time and a natural course to a person, because if you admire someone and don't want to hurt that person, you should make sure that there is an understanding between the two partners. You don't need to be critical, cruel, too ambitious and most importantly there must be trust and loyalty between the two people involved. Good relationships have good qualities, such as willingness to compromise and a willingness to communicate openly. When you do not have these basic qualities in a relationship, then that relationship cannot develop. We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time, so when your loved ones do not give their support when you needed it most, then you need to look at this relationship carefully, because we all want the best in life for those we care about. I am looking for a serious, caring, supportive and honest woman, not a rich woman, because I am ready and willing to take care of my woman as far as she respects me, cares about me, supports me in everything I do and puts enough effort into our relationship.
Just some piece of advice:
When you set your resolution, everything starts to go in the direction you wish, and the moment you want to conquer the hearts of others, every fiber of your being immediately orients towards this goal. On the other hand, if you think it will never work, every cell of your being will be deflated, giving up the fight. This is the subtle work of the mind. We write and perform scripts of our own lives. We shape our future, so we must have the courage to do what we think is best for us, and we should enjoy life to its fullest, because this course in life will not repeat, it is precious and irreplaceable, so I would like to share my joy in the second half of our century with the woman I love.
Once you have chosen not to love again due to past experience or when you try to protect yourself from future emotional pain, you end up hurting yourself worse. True love is about learning to trust someone with your true inner feelings, without listening to what people about you. Yes, they can do things that can cause excruciating pain, but real love is about following your heart. You can try to protect you forever, but you do not do yourself any favors. You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust. To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile, cry together and trust one another. Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given much respect and trust; it should receive that love back. The best proof of love is trust. Loving, trusting and respecting one another can lead to true love and happiness. It is hard to love and hard to trust, but finding love and finding trust was a gift from you to me. The relationship should never be taken for granted. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and respect are necessary for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you do not trust the person, you will never succeed. To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust your partner first. You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust, because that is the only thing that will never fade.
You may take some risks and realize that it may have a bad or good outcome. You'll never know unless you try, but maybe start of rebuilding the relationship with yourself. You must love yourself and know that you are awesome... And once you realize that, everyone else will and everything will fall into place.
Distance does not matter if you really love someone, but what matters most is your hopes and trust for that relationship to work out. Distance cannot hurt a bond between two people that’s based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love. Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart, which never lies. There may be many people who are trustworthy, but only a few of them are worth trusting with your heart, so you have to choose wisely. To be trusted is a greater compliment, than to be loved. You can love many, but without trust you have nothing. The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart. Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it is the insecurities that come in the way, because love has just one important ingredient.
Can you trust me? Are you ready to give me the benefit of the doubt? I understand that you have been betrayed or disappointed before, but I don't think that should stop us from giving each other the chance to know more about each other. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. True love keeps no record of wrongdoing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects trusts, hopes and perseveres. Love takes much trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you have, even when you know it's not going to be enough. I hope you're getting my point, because I will very happy if you understand. One must have the ability to compromise with each other. You should bear in mind that being in a relationship with someone is like being in an organization with more than one person in it. Therefore, there are different opinions at times, but you should know how to compromise on different subjects. If your partner is not willing to compromise, then he is not emotionally mature to meet your needs.
Honest and effective communication is one of the desirable qualities that one should have in a relationship. You have to be open and honest, because a relationship based on false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship. I want to engage in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs. If you want your relationship to grow and become better, you have to eliminate those who don't meet your needs, especially when they continually fail to support you, and not compromising, and not being honest. These qualities help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner.
Happiness is the only thing on earth that nobody can buy with money. Money and love is not the same thing, because the more you spend your money, the less you have, but the more you invest in love, the more you get in return. Love does not cost a thing, but it does require commitment. True love is when material things don’t matter. With money, you can buy some things, but with love, you can find everything you need. It is not money, fame or power, no; the greatest adventure in life is love.
As I already told you, I'm very patient, calm and I have a good sense of humor. I'm always positive and optimistic in everything I do, and I follow what my heart tells me to do with deep thought, but I like sharing ideas when the need arises. I'm sometimes quiet and carefree. I love young children very much. My heart melts when I see young children smiling, because they are like an angel to me. I don't mind if my partner has male friends. I do not get too jealous in my relationship, and I do not interfere in my partner's private affairs. I am always willing to accept my partner's family and friends if only she will feel comfortable about it.
I like the simplicity in life, such as eating popcorn and curling up with someone special, watching a good movie, eating a candlelight dinner together, adventure, romance, travel, camping, music, nature, visiting the beach, sitting by the fire and watch the sunset . I like to play video games with my son when I'm less busy. I always like to wear a smiling face, even when I'm sad, but I'm very serious when needed. I like feeling like public kissing, walking hand in hand, and hugging. I like women who respect her husband. I like women with a good sense of humor. I like women with outgoing and friendly personality. I like women who have the ability to be herself, and not try to put on an act. I like a woman who is ready to listen to me and willing know me better.
My perfect day would be a quiet, rainy day. Rain always calms me and makes me feel calm. I sometimes like to spend some time alone in the room reading books, watching a good movie and play my harmonica. My life sometimes gets hectic sometimes that it is difficult to find time to relax, think, and spend time with my family. Another perfect day would be planning to go on vacation. I love the day before going somewhere big, because the anticipation of seeing new places always leaves me refreshed and happy. Overall, the best days in life, is when you spend time doing what you really want to do, instead of what to do.
I am willing and ready to open my heart for only that one special woman in my life so we can help each other in life. I really want you to know that in life, all relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt should not be part of being in love. I want you to trust me when I say never do any bad thing to hurt you or let you down if you give the chance to take this communication to the next level. I'm not after your wealth or to play with your feelings, but am seriously seeking for a serious woman for a long term relationship which may lead to marriage, if possible.
My dear, I want you to know that there is a big difference between love and desire, as we started this wonderful relationship as friends, that is not how it will end, because the feeling I have for you is very strong, so I want us to give each other the chance to develop this communication into something wonderful. I think I have shared with you more about myself, so I will conclude here, but I will be waiting patiently to hear from you soon.
I enjoy rainy Sunday afternoons in boxers and a t-shirt under a blanket watching old movies. 