by marbe2169
Thu Mar 13, 2014 12:03 am
I have been e-mailing with a supposedly 50 year old man called Carlos Barnes. I met him at christianet.com. His username is carla8849 at that website. He said he is divorced, has a daughter 15 and supposedly he lives in Freehold NJ. He also said he is a Christian. Controller, broker, and consultant for chevington and rolex. He said he also works offshore for DeBeers. The truth is I doubt all this is true. This are the emails I have received from him. The reason I am on this site is because I did a google search and it took me here because I believe c.barnes01 and c.barnes 03 are the same person. His yahoo e-mail is c. [email protected]
My little angel Marta,
My heart is exceedingly joyful reading your mail again; I appreciate your simplicity and transparency. I pray may this day mark the end of our search for that which heaven has already given amen. Thank you for the time you invested out of your obviously busy job responsibility into sharing with me and for allowing me that unrestricted access into your world, this is the beginning of a journey of faith that could lead us to that dream land we've been praying for. I have been through lots of pains and crossed many troubled waters, but through it all I learn to depend on the lord.
Once again I broke into tear when reading about how you were hurt. I lost my father at the very time I needed him most and my elder brother Bright, My ex wife suddenly became a cheating wife and got pregnant in the process and then demanded for a divorce so she could get married to the guy who got her pregnant, a close family friend; so I believe I know the pains of waking up one day to the reality of a sad departure of your loved ones. Surely there’s a time for every purpose and a season for everything under the sun Eccl. 3:1 there is a time to cry and a time to laugh, time of sorrow and a time of joy, time of loneliness and time to be happy with the one of you love.
Times comes in life when everything don’t seems to be yielding the desired result and you get disappointed or hurt by people you so love and cherish, go through difficult situations, meet a few wrong people, experience some who hurts and pushes you into making wrong choices and you are tempted to think that god does not care, but right now you are a witness to the fact that Every pains we endured was designed to form our character build our self-motivation and sharpens our faith, the testing ground where we are tried, proven and promoted to another level
in life.
In Jeremiah 29:11 it says, I know the thoughts that I think towards you. They are thoughts of peace and not of evil because I want to bring you to an expected end that means giving you a brighter future and a hope…so everything works together for good to them who love God and to those who are the called according to their purpose.
If I would add to what I already told you about myself, I will say that I am a self-motivated, result driven, goal oriented and passionate person in every area of my professional, spiritual and social life. I am spontaneous yet cautious at times, I believe in the possibility of achieving whatever goal I set my heart to achieve. Life is all about setting goals and trusting the lord to help you achieve them. Your must have the capacity to see beyond your natural eyes.
Genesis 13: 14And the LORD said unto Abram, after that Lot was separated from him, Lift up now thine eyes, and look from the place where thou art northward, and southward, and eastward, and westward: 15For all the land which thou seest, to thee will I give it, and to thy seed forever. 16And I will make thy seed as the dust of the earth: so that if a man can number the dust of the earth, then shall thy seed also be numbered. 17Arise, walk through the land in the length of it and in the breadth of it; for I will give it unto thee. 18Then Abram removed his tent, and came and dwelt in the plain of Mamre, which is in Hebron, and built there an altar unto the LORD.
I love to enjoy life when necessary and I’m thankful to God for all I experienced and came out from and for the things I didn't deserve which through his grace I was given. I am very young at heart…I find myself living between two generations I sometimes feel like a youth and other time I find myself doing things my age mate do. You’ll notice this in my mode of dress and the things I do. I take time to laugh even at myself Lol and of course at things the devil tries to tempt me with; things that flesh desire, but wisdom of God guide to know when emotion is on the driver seat.
In my prayers, I asked the lord to compensate my self-discipline, the time spent and the pains I endured with a good and sincere woman who is meek, sincere and honest. someone who is ready for a serious relationship, someone I could share sincere love with, Someone I could hold hands in prayers with, a self-motivated, love to laugh, joke around, going for long romantic walks; someone that enjoys the simple things of life just as I do, That someone special that I will grow old with not only a wife, but a sister, a friend, a mother who loves God.
Please note that I am neither looking for a super model nor a sex partner, neither am I looking for faultless woman, but rather searching for someone with faults and weakness who is flexible and adaptable to a positive change with a readiness to make progress in spite of what had happened in the past and I have no doubt that you are the answer to that prayer praise god.
I am not a perfect man myself because I am still a work in progress, not always at the receiving end as I believe I have a lot to give in a relationship as well and my Ultimate heart desire is to meet that special someone and real soon. This is why I am ready to do everything humanly possible to see this dream come to a reality
Carlos
My sweet angel Marta,
I wish you knew how painful it was when my system freezed. I knew you would probably think I was mad at you or what you have said ...no you didn't say anything wrong what happened was that my pc got planted it happns like that when I am trying to use a video cam with my daughter because too many software are downloaded on this system. please forgive me for this and be restassured you didn't say anything wrong and even if you do, it will not be the best way to correct. I'm so sorry about this please forgive me.
Your knight
My little angel Marta
My heart rejoices always each time I have another opportunity to talk to you. You see like you mention in your mail everything works together for good to those who love God and to the called according to every man’s purpose, but sometimes the choices we made and are making could either stand in the way or comply with the plans of God in our live. The choice we make in life is like a seed planted by the river side waiting for an appointed time to blossom, what we are today is a product of the choices and the confession we made yesterday and what our tomorrow will become is totally dependent on the choices we are making today. There’s no aspect of life that is not predicated on the choices we have made in one way or the other.
So many people are faced with terrible situation today because of the wrong choices and confession they made yesterday, and some are happy because they also made the right ones. Few days, weeks, or months ago… each of us decided to join a dating site by faith and today we are laying a solid foundation of a relationship that has the potentiality of lasting forever. I know we will see each other face to face because few days ago we made the right choice, but this wouldn’t have been possible if we didn’t make any choice.
A man said something that really touched my heart, he said …….Not making any choice is a choice of it own and if you fail to choose, you have chosen to fail. The very day each of us became a member of the site was the very day we set this relationship on the rail of destiny.
We are a direct product of our choices; so it’s important to ask the lord today for the grace to make the right choice that will bring happiness tomorrow. I have made a choice to give my all to see this dream of years translated into a concrete reality. I’ve spent time in presence of the lord to pray about the choice we are making for each other and I have no single doubt that this little choice is bringing us to the place where we will openly profess our commitment to each other.
We can choose to let down the sword, break down the wall and we can as well choose to make this relationship work. Hope you have a wonderful Sunday
My dream woman Marta,
On days like this when my heart is amassed in the wonder of this reality, my mind seem to be spinning looking for the right words to translate the feeling, and when obviously in want of such, I turn to the gifted among the sons of men whose words in song has established hearts, replenished passion, brightened up the hope of a new love story and strengthened in bond the already yoked hearts. This songs from my favorite artist KC $ JOJO, Aron Neville, commissioned is the tool that could best translate what my heart wish to voice out. As you listen to this song, I want you to see my lips move to every words…I want you to pictures you are I holding hands and walking along a park in the cool of the evening while I sing you the song.
I believe we have a life together, I will stop at nothing to see that this journey bring us to our destiny. please pray along with me
I THINK THERE'S NOT TRUST BETWEEN US AND THE LANGUAGE YOU ARE USING IS SO HURTING I HAVE TO CALM DOWN AND PRAY AND THINK THEN I WILL GET BACK TO YOU.
I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST YOU. I TOLD OU EVERYTHING ABOUT ME, FAMILY AND EVEN BUSINESS AND PAST RELATIONSHIP WHAT ELSE HAVE I NOT TOLD YOU?
MY ULTIMATE HEART DESIRE
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My little angel Marta,
My heart is exceedingly joyful reading your mail again; I appreciate your simplicity and transparency. I pray may this day mark the end of our search for that which heaven has already given amen. Thank you for the time you invested out of your obviously busy job responsibility into sharing with me and for allowing me that unrestricted access into your world, this is the beginning of a journey of faith that could lead us to that dream land we've been praying for. I have been through lots of pains and crossed many troubled waters, but through it all I learn to depend on the lord.
Once again I broke into tear when reading about how you were hurt. I lost my father at the very time I needed him most and my elder brother Bright, My ex wife suddenly became a cheating wife and got pregnant in the process and then demanded for a divorce so she could get married to the guy who got her pregnant, a close family friend; so I believe I know the pains of waking up one day to the reality of a sad departure of your loved ones. Surely there’s a time for every purpose and a season for everything under the sun Eccl. 3:1 there is a time to cry and a time to laugh, time of sorrow and a time of joy, time of loneliness and time to be happy with the one of you love.
Times comes in life when everything don’t seems to be yielding the desired result and you get disappointed or hurt by people you so love and cherish, go through difficult situations, meet a few wrong people, experience some who hurts and pushes you into making wrong choices and you are tempted to think that god does not care, but right now you are a witness to the fact that Every pains we endured was designed to form our character build our self-motivation and sharpens our faith, the testing ground where we are tried, proven and promoted to another level
in life.
In Jeremiah 29:11 it says, I know the thoughts that I think towards you. They are thoughts of peace and not of evil because I want to bring you to an expected end that means giving you a brighter future and a hope…so everything works together for good to them who love God and to those who are the called according to their purpose.
If I would add to what I already told you about myself, I will say that I am a self-motivated, result driven, goal oriented and passionate person in every area of my professional, spiritual and social life. I am spontaneous yet cautious at times, I believe in the possibility of achieving whatever goal I set my heart to achieve. Life is all about setting goals and trusting the lord to help you achieve them. Your must have the capacity to see beyond your natural eyes.
Genesis 13: 14And the LORD said unto Abram, after that Lot was separated from him, Lift up now thine eyes, and look from the place where thou art northward, and southward, and eastward, and westward: 15For all the land which thou seest, to thee will I give it, and to thy seed forever. 16And I will make thy seed as the dust of the earth: so that if a man can number the dust of the earth, then shall thy seed also be numbered. 17Arise, walk through the land in the length of it and in the breadth of it; for I will give it unto thee. 18Then Abram removed his tent, and came and dwelt in the plain of Mamre, which is in Hebron, and built there an altar unto the LORD.
I love to enjoy life when necessary and I’m thankful to God for all I experienced and came out from and for the things I didn't deserve which through his grace I was given. I am very young at heart…I find myself living between two generations I sometimes feel like a youth and other time I find myself doing things my age mate do. You’ll notice this in my mode of dress and the things I do. I take time to laugh even at myself Lol and of course at things the devil tries to tempt me with; things that flesh desire, but wisdom of God guide to know when emotion is on the driver seat.
In my prayers, I asked the lord to compensate my self-discipline, the time spent and the pains I endured with a good and sincere woman who is meek, sincere and honest. someone who is ready for a serious relationship, someone I could share sincere love with, Someone I could hold hands in prayers with, a self-motivated, love to laugh, joke around, going for long romantic walks; someone that enjoys the simple things of life just as I do, That someone special that I will grow old with not only a wife, but a sister, a friend, a mother who loves God.
Please note that I am neither looking for a super model nor a sex partner, neither am I looking for faultless woman, but rather searching for someone with faults and weakness who is flexible and adaptable to a positive change with a readiness to make progress in spite of what had happened in the past and I have no doubt that you are the answer to that prayer praise god.
I am not a perfect man myself because I am still a work in progress, not always at the receiving end as I believe I have a lot to give in a relationship as well and my Ultimate heart desire is to meet that special someone and real soon. This is why I am ready to do everything humanly possible to see this dream come to a reality
Carlos
My sweet angel Marta,
I wish you knew how painful it was when my system freezed. I knew you would probably think I was mad at you or what you have said ...no you didn't say anything wrong what happened was that my pc got planted it happns like that when I am trying to use a video cam with my daughter because too many software are downloaded on this system. please forgive me for this and be restassured you didn't say anything wrong and even if you do, it will not be the best way to correct. I'm so sorry about this please forgive me.
Your knight
My little angel Marta
My heart rejoices always each time I have another opportunity to talk to you. You see like you mention in your mail everything works together for good to those who love God and to the called according to every man’s purpose, but sometimes the choices we made and are making could either stand in the way or comply with the plans of God in our live. The choice we make in life is like a seed planted by the river side waiting for an appointed time to blossom, what we are today is a product of the choices and the confession we made yesterday and what our tomorrow will become is totally dependent on the choices we are making today. There’s no aspect of life that is not predicated on the choices we have made in one way or the other.
So many people are faced with terrible situation today because of the wrong choices and confession they made yesterday, and some are happy because they also made the right ones. Few days, weeks, or months ago… each of us decided to join a dating site by faith and today we are laying a solid foundation of a relationship that has the potentiality of lasting forever. I know we will see each other face to face because few days ago we made the right choice, but this wouldn’t have been possible if we didn’t make any choice.
A man said something that really touched my heart, he said …….Not making any choice is a choice of it own and if you fail to choose, you have chosen to fail. The very day each of us became a member of the site was the very day we set this relationship on the rail of destiny.
We are a direct product of our choices; so it’s important to ask the lord today for the grace to make the right choice that will bring happiness tomorrow. I have made a choice to give my all to see this dream of years translated into a concrete reality. I’ve spent time in presence of the lord to pray about the choice we are making for each other and I have no single doubt that this little choice is bringing us to the place where we will openly profess our commitment to each other.
We can choose to let down the sword, break down the wall and we can as well choose to make this relationship work. Hope you have a wonderful Sunday
My dream woman Marta,
On days like this when my heart is amassed in the wonder of this reality, my mind seem to be spinning looking for the right words to translate the feeling, and when obviously in want of such, I turn to the gifted among the sons of men whose words in song has established hearts, replenished passion, brightened up the hope of a new love story and strengthened in bond the already yoked hearts. This songs from my favorite artist KC $ JOJO, Aron Neville, commissioned is the tool that could best translate what my heart wish to voice out. As you listen to this song, I want you to see my lips move to every words…I want you to pictures you are I holding hands and walking along a park in the cool of the evening while I sing you the song.
I believe we have a life together, I will stop at nothing to see that this journey bring us to our destiny. please pray along with me
I THINK THERE'S NOT TRUST BETWEEN US AND THE LANGUAGE YOU ARE USING IS SO HURTING I HAVE TO CALM DOWN AND PRAY AND THINK THEN I WILL GET BACK TO YOU.
I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST YOU. I TOLD OU EVERYTHING ABOUT ME, FAMILY AND EVEN BUSINESS AND PAST RELATIONSHIP WHAT ELSE HAVE I NOT TOLD YOU?
MY ULTIMATE HEART DESIRE
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