Hi,
Nice pictures you got there,your a beautiful woman and look young and fresh.
You are welcome for the honesty.You see,I feel there are five very basic but essential elements of a relationship.They are also to a degree sequential.First is honesty and then respect.They go hand in hand and without them any type of relationship,business,personal,family,whatever is doomed for failure.Anyone who is dishonest can not be respected.Without showing respect,it is unlikely to be treated with honesty.Those are fundamental to trust which like respect is earned because honesty was first and was given.When trust is built and respect is earned and they are given and shared,then love will grow.When you love and trust where giving is more important than receiving then commitment becomes a part of the relationship.At that point,you promise and believe it will be forever.You can do this because you love and trust the other person and are committed to making a life to share together.This may sound silly to you,I don't know.But I really do believe it with all my heart and soul.
I will try to be more specific.First, no one is perfect,especially me.I know this though,when the right person or person that seems right comes into your life you will know it.A connection happens and you just can't,or won't let go of them.Your whole life changes and all of the emptiness begins to fill up..It starts with the first conversation,the first time you look into each others eyes,the very first time for everything becomes a moment to remember.Sometimes it happens quickly,other times it takes years.I don't pretend to have the wisdom to explain or understand.This is certain,if you are at all intelligent and conscious,if a person is wrong for you it is obvious.I truly believe it is easier to know if someone is not right for you than to know if some is.
About the kind of woman i am looking for?well first she must be honest,open minded,willing to share thoughts and ideas,a woman that will be there for me,believe in me,love me for who i am ,care for me,be like a Sister,Friend,Mother,and most of all a wonderful Wife....,a woman that will stick with me through the storms of life and still tells me she loves me.A woman that will stick to the oath of for better for worse and till death do us part i am not saying i am looking for a perfect woman but the right woman.The more I communicate with you,the more fascinated i am becoming.I am very definitely interested.We are very definitely at a very early stage of a relationship and I don't expect any unreasonable commitments.I only ask that you be totally honest.I promise to do the same.Respect my feelings and I will respect yours.I know we will not always agree on every viewpoint,but everyone is entitled to their own perspective.If you were to look at an animal,such as a horse from the front.You would see the soft nuzzle and beautiful eyes.If I were behind the horse,I would see a horse's ass.If we could trade perspectives,we would see life as it really is.But i have learn that relationships are very hard.People grow and change with time,people have their own minds,dreams and goals.To have a solid relationship the two people must commit to it.They must work at it and try to find the middle ground between them.People must be able to give and take and to trust that the relationship is what is most important.If a career,or a goal or a idea becomes more important then the relationship itself, then it will fail.The two people must nurture and care for the relationship like you would a flower.Feed it always,water it and help it grow with lots of love,attention and sunshine..I look for a friend,a companion,a sultry lover,and a woman who respects me as I do her.I work hard and will work hard for the relationship.Communication is necessary and most important no cheating or lying and to Work through good and the bad.I look for peace and harmony.The woman to share life with and know she care for me and I can care for her..most partners act are very selfish and self centered that they don't carry the other lover along in what they do and it seems that they just shut the world out on them...am looking for a woman that will not hide anything for me..I want a woman that can make me feel secure,a woman that wherever and whatever we past through together she will never change,a woman that without telling me with words i will see it in her eyes that she loves me.I will be waiting to hear from you very soon.
Yours Affectionately.
Lanier
Yes i have been in Love but she took herself away from me, but i believe i will find my Love again. I'm having this feeling, we will end up being together, i am praying so that me and you will live together and forever.
