Ray McCarthy

Ray McCarthy

Liar and romance scammer

Claims single/divorced/seperated, moved to Chelsea, England, UK from Florida, USA, but presently in Nigeria "oil research project"

Telephone used +234 7085849249

Note +234 is country code = Nigeria

Mail address used [email protected]

IP = 41.155.0.151 = Nigeria



Mails;

Hello xxxxx,

Good morning to you, it's really pleasant to read from you, thank you for telling me much about yourself and as I have promised , I am obliged to tell you more about me, I was married for 15 years and had a son. I lost my wife to a close friend . It was really heart breaking and I was just recovering from the depressing effect when I lost my son in a car crash.I was so shattered and hurt that I had to leave Florida and relocate to Chelsea to start a new life ,my dad had a landed property here which I inherited after he died. I live a rather lonesome life as I no longer keep any friends, the only family I have left is a very old Aunt in Greece who I donnot see often.

I have been living this lonely life for a while now but I have managed to brace myself up, gather the few pieces of what is left of my heart together and try to be happy again, I saw the dating site on the net and decided to give it a trial. I know it isn't going to be easy giving my heart out again but I strongly believe true love will prevail. I hope to meet a woman I can share my daily life with, together in truthfulness, honesty, trust, understanding and more importantly love. I am open to new things and would love to share my goodness as well. I have been unable to achieve this in my enviroment and this has prompted me to extend my search and I am pleased to meet you.

My heart has felt some warmth by meeting you, I can sense you are an interesting woman, I like your profession and I feel your words in the depths of my heart and would like to step further with you.Thank you for the compliment on my picture, I'm honoured and I must say you look equally beautiful as well.

I will stop here till I hear from you again, I'm thinking of you dearly. Have a good day.

Yours
Ray.

Hello xxxxx,

Goodmorning to you, I feel warm every time I get a mail from you, I never thought I could interest any woman, but the more we exchange emails, the more light hearted I feel , and I feel very much liberated. I will always say thank you for this.

Dear, I am touched by your sympathy, my past was indeed an episode of sorrow and sadness which I have summoned all the courage left in me to close. This is the first time I'll reopen the wound and narrate the entire unfortunate experience again .I did this because I feel lucky to have met someone as open minded as you, you are easy to talk to and you make me feel as if I have known you a long time.

I have been living alone for a long time ,it has been difficult living alone in this life, the solitude I could endure but the loneliness can be so depressing at times that I sometimes break down and cry but I have been trying my best to hold on strong and battle my issues with life . I believe one day, I'll smile again. I am presently working on a research project on crude oil found in Africa and this has really occupied my time and has been some refuge from my loneliness. Also , I do alot of reading, I like to read extensively, I also listen to alot of music, classical musics, I donot have friends here in Chelsea because I just relocated here but I have a couple of aquintance . I like to take long walks at times when I am stressed.

I am sure you have had your own life experiences, your own troubles in life,ups and down, and life as we both know is not a bed of roses, I pray our meeting will bring us happiness and we'll never have a cause to be sad again. I have not been able to keep friends again because I wasnot sure if there is a place in my heart left for it but I have pushed all these behind me now and ready to enjoy the goodness of life again.

Dear, there are a lot I want to share with you and talk to you about, I am glad you seem interested in me, if you wouldn't mind , I would like to chat with you so we can get to know eachother even more better. Do you use the windows live messenger? You can download one and open a windows live account if you don't have. It would be really pleasant if you could give this a trial and hopefully we can get to chat sometimes today. I look forward to your reply soon. Till then, have a great weekend. You are warmly on my mind.

Fondly
Ray.

Hello xxxxx,

It's such a pleasure to read again from you, each mail I get from you touches me deep in my heart and I feel I should share some of my dreams with you. You should know that I am looking for a long lasting relationship,living together in a lovely house with a caring and loving woman who will be my best friend, my lover, my companion, with whom I will be able to share all my laughs and sorrows, with whom I can confide in and also she can do the same. I hope you will agree completely that honesty and communication are very important. As for me,I don't want too much I just want for my life, someone with whom I have a close and honest,romantic relationship,always fresh and happy. I am very romantic, I love candle light dinners, cuddling and caressing. The only thing I hate about people is when they lie, are not honest and play games. I am very simple in my thoughts and quite trusting.

I am very tender person if I am with the right person, to whom I allow myself and to open myself completely. I believe life must be lived with passion,and that applies also to love. I want a person whom I love totally, tenderly,without restraints or barriers. You know, I feel that it is a part of my life that is missing but it is not easy to find that special woman that can make me give myself completely to her. I am still hoping to meet her. Do you think that we perhaps have already met what we both are looking for It would be a great luck indeed. And if so, I don't want to miss that chance. You seem to be a very kind and intelligent person, I would like to know much more about you, your life, your dreams and just talk about whatever you want to. I like to do many things.For example, I like to have fun, go to the cinema and beach, Its a pity, because am busy a lot and I don't have enough time for it. Only on weekends. I am active person and I enjoy sport very much .I use every ability to go to the gym or swimming pool. In Summer time I like picnics and being in nature.

This weekend, I am working on my project assessment, it basically involves initial survey and assessments on drilling an oil well in Nigeria. Do you know the country? It's situated in West Africa and oil has been discovered at the Eastern part of the country. I haven't been to Africa before, this would be my first trip as I would have to travel there by the end of next week. I have basically been working at home on different soil samples sent to me by my contact there but will begin field work when I get there. I would be available for chat later in the evening and hopefully you would have been able to download the messenger. I would also try to download the skype and register and we would use whichever works.

It is hard to make new friends as we grow older, most people have their circle of friends over time and it is always difficult to get into them, therefore I really appreciate meeting you and you accepting me and I hope we develop into something really good.

I'll stop here and I wish you a nice Sunday and hope to hear back from you soon.

Kind regards
Ray.

Phrase in the above mail used often by scammers click here

Dear xxxxx,

I am filled with mixed feelings as I finish reading the mail you sent to me, to a very good extent, I understand how you feel, I know how difficult it can be to open ones heart and trust again after all the hurt one has been through in the past because I myself have been deeply hurt and it has made my heart very closed uptight, but just as similar to what you feel, I feel very drawn to you as well. Firstly, I believe age is nothing but numbers in the matters of the heart and not all that glitters is gold. Being young or old is a thing of the mind and it shouldn't negatively affect the way one feels emotionally.

Yes, I want to know you for whom you are, take you for whom you are and if eventually we happen to fall in love, I want to love you for whom you are, I want to be able to have a positive impact in your life and I equally want you to have a positive impact on my life. Why wish we had met before when you can appreciate the fact that we met now and we have the opportunity to build something good together. Just like you, I need a companion, a friend and a lover whom we can share common interest and idea and be there for each other, this is why I have suggested we chat so we can understand each other much more and know the next step we can take.
I am glad to know you are honest and trustworthy and I can promise you these as well, and if there is a chance for a change of mind in you, I would still very much love to continue this relationship with you and it will bring us both sincere happiness.

I am having some sort of problems with my computer in the last two days and it has been quite difficult for me to download the skype, if you do not mind, it would be nice if you can try the windows live messenger and hopefully we get to chat. I will stop here and give you time to have a second thought about us and hopefully I hear from you soonest. Have a wonderful night rest and sweet dreams.

Fondly,
Ray.

Hello xxxxx,

Good morning to you, I'm, pleased to read from you and to know that you would also like us to move further with our friendship, you've been very much on my mind so much, I think about you very often, wondering what you might be doing. You've been quite a good friend to me and I want you to know that even though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart. You are dearly in my heart. I will add you on my messenger and send you and invitation. Hopefully , we get to chat later in the evening. I wish you a loving weekend ahead and hope to hear back from you soon.

Fondly
Ray.

Hello xxxxx,

How are you this morning? Hope you had a good night rest. It was really pleasant getting to chat with you, I had a nice time with you and couldn't help thinking so much of you when I was about to sleep, I laid on my bed and stare at the ceiling, my thoughts - all about you, gives me a lovely feeling. It is amazing because we've only known each other virtually and I am already having all sort of feelings. It leaves me with so much mixed feelings, I feel happy about it and at the same time, I feel vulnerable. I would really love to talk to you again because I spend a great deal of time thinking of you, you seem to have found your way into my heart and you are always in my consciousness. Dear,your thoughts float through my mind like an angel on heavenly winds and I feel every minute I spend with you will be like in heaven and looking in an angel's eyes. Thank you for your phone number, I will give you a call sometimes soon. If not today , then I will call you on Monday.

How's the weather in (your country) today I hope everything is OK with you. I wish you a nice weekend and be sure that you are always on my mind and I look forward to hearing from you soon. Till then, I'm sending you lots of kisses to with warmth from my heart.

Fondly
Ray.

Good evening xxxxx,

How are you doing this evening? It's a pity we cannot get to chat tonight, I had a little problem with my computer, I contacted some sort of virus and I had to reformat my PC. Unfortunately ,I lost my messenger and I will have to download it all over again, but I think I would have to do that tomorrow
I haven't been out much, yesterday evening I was at the park for the neighbourhood celebration and earlier today , I went to Church. I am not much of a goer but today is Sunday and it is rather important I go.

Dear,
I feel like I'm walking in the clouds and swinging on a star whenever I think of you. This evening, I looked up in the sky very carefully to see your face. I wonder if you're there, I wonder if you're thinking of me. I just want to tell you that looking at the stars makes me think of you. By looking at it I just want to be where you are, and hold on to you tight and never let go.

I'll stop here and I wish you a peaceful night rest with sweet dreams, hope to read or better still chat with you tomorrow. Bye dear.

Admirably
Ray.

Hello xxxxx,

It's such a great pleasure to always read from you everyday, it touches me so deeply that there's someone out there who truly cares about me, my heart feels very warm every time I think about you, every morning, I think of you and smile. How did your night go I hope you had a pleasant time.

Over the past few days, I feel more relaxed by just thinking of you,which I seem to do alot, I can sense a deep feeling in my heart for you , I just want you to know that I'm someone you can talk to and listen to, without judging. I'm someone who doesn't ignore your faults but accepts them as part of you. I'm someone that you put your shoulder to lean on when you need support, a pat on the back when you do well, and a sympathetic ear when you fail. I'm someone you can laugh with about everything, you can cry with without shame, and whom you trust completely.

I am a lonely man with a rich but empty heart and I hope we can both find happiness together. Thank you very much for the beautiful card you sent me, it is really nice of you and I like it very much. I have been able to download my messenger and we can get to chat later in the evening. Till then, I'll missing you so dearly.

Cordially
Ray.

Dearest xxxxx,

This is just a short mail to tell you that I would be online by 2100hr,

I sorry about yesterday, my internet was unavailable , I have to go eat dinner now. Talk to you soon. I miss you so much.

Kisses
Ray

Dear xxxxx,

How was your night? I hope you slept well, it was really pleasantt getting to chat with you, I really had a pleasant time and thought of you all night and you still were the first thing on my mind on waking up this morning, it's so amazing how good these makes me feel, I wonder if this feeling is mutual.

Dear, morning is a wonderful blessing, either sunny or stormy. It stands for hope , giving us another start of what we call life .Like the sunshine in the morning, may this brighten your day, and remind you that you're thought of in a very warm way. Have a lovely day and hope to hear from you soon.

affectionately,
Ray

My darling xxxxx,

How was your night, hope it almost sleepless like mine, I couldn't sleep early enough yesterday because I kept tossing on my bed and allowing my heart to enjoy the richness of your thoughts and the splendor of the happiness you've brought into my life.

Dear,you brought love and laughter to my empty, sad and boring life. My heart had known only emptiness until the day you came and filled my heart to overflow with your jovial ways. Your sense of humor has turned my frown into a smile. You taught me how to care again, you taught me to give and receive love by talking to you and trusting in you. You taught me to go the extra mile. Though there are miles between us, I never stop thinking of you, you have brought a change into my life and my heart is forever yours.

I can never forget you, or keep thoughts of you out of my mind. I think of your sweet lips and imagine your kisses, feel them as if it was yesterday. Thoughts of you warm my heart. You complete me, you are everything my heart desire.

I'm getting prepared for today, I still have to put some finishing touches to my assessments and I also have a couple of more things to do, a little shopping and I think I should start packing my luggage if I have the time . I'm sending you a kiss to ease you from the day's stress. Have a lovely day my dear.

love always,
Ray

Phrases from the above mail stolen from;

http://www.weloved.com/love_letters/part1/you_warm_my_heart.htm

My sunshine,

Goodmorning to you, how was your night? Hope your thoughts of me nudged you into a peaceful sleep filled with passionate dreams. xxxxx, I never thought that I could love like this, you changed my world with just your words and your smile. How can it be that right here with me there's an angel because just one night with you in my dreams was like spending eternity staring at the face of an angel.

One need not look towards the heavens to find an angel for I have one here in my heart,you are my angel.
I wish you a good day and I promise to pop up in your mind every moment. I'm going to get ready for the day, but first I have to make my cup of coffee. I look forward to talking to you tonight .Those few moments we share together are magical and precious to me,it spins into a world full of love and passion that everything else around me ceases to exist.

Till I hear from you, you are dearly on my mind.

Affectionately,
Ray

Dearest xxxxx,

How have you been? It feels like I haven't been in touch with you for years even though it's just been a couple of days. I am so glad to read your mails and to know that you have been thinking of me and missing me as often as I have been missing you too. I had a safe flight to Nigeria with you on my mind most of the time, it really amazes me how much happiness I get in just a single thought of you, you've become more like a priceless jewel in my mind, one I can't do but imagine how wonderful life has been in just this short period we've known each other .I feel so alive whenever I think about you so much that it erases the sadness I feel in me.

You have been very much on my mind since I left for Nigeria, I really miss you and it was quite a pain because every attempts I made in communicating with you until now proved abortive. I was unable to call you because my mobile wouldn't work here, also I was unable to get internet connection until now. I had to buy a local phone here eventually so that I can be able to communicate with you, the line hasn't been activated but I will give you a call as soon as it is. I'm quite lucky though because the hotel I booked provided internet facilities.

It's a really different world out here, I have never seen so much black people in my life with such strong cultures, I'll give you an insight of my experience the next time we are on chat, for now, I have been able to check- in and unpack in a good hotel here, their services are quite good but not like that of Europe's. I just have to rest and be ready for an interesting and succesful time here during my stay.

My dear, the night during the flight, I dreamt of us walking hand in hand, in a most beautiful field full of flowers. There's a small river nearby and we could hear the sound of the water. We just automatically walked towards that sound and sat down nearby and talked and talked but our greatest thoughts was conveyed in silence,then I gently rest my head on your shoulder and just listened to your breathing. We stayed there, in perfect harmony, until the sun starts setting and then headed back home and shared a simple but delicious meal, with a good bottle of wine. And we'll loved each other, all night long, never getting enough caresses, enough kisses, enough sweet words. I woke up reaching for you by my side but alas! I was alone.The weather is really hot here and I miss you so much.I adore you so dearly, and long to be with you. Can you possibly be on line tonight so we can chat? I hope to hear from you soon.

Take care dear,
Ray.

Hello darling,

I wrote you this mail three nights ago just after our phone call but unfortunately, I lost internet connection just after typing it and I have been unable to send it since then, I'll send it now and I hope you can relate with it....I miss you so much.

My dearest,

It's 00.29hr and here I am on my bath robe sitting on the couch with my notebook, unable to sleep and thinking of you, dreaming of you, you fill my heart so much as if my entire life depends on it. I keep hearing your voice, your laughter, I can imagine your smile, everything about you fills me with so much love and joy.
xxxxx, It's so amazing what love can do,every time I think of you my heart misses a beat.You're my theme for a dream! Every moment we share together we grow closer. I'm simply hanging by a moment, waiting to see you again so you can hold me so tight that all else fades, I initially thought you might fade away from my mind, but still everyday I wake up dreaming of our time together.Hunnie, you will always be in my heart and I am happy you think of me too, I have never experience a feeling like this,you make me feel like we are in a paradise.

I am glad you are interested in my project and somehow it made me feel more loved. I can understand your curiosity so I think I should explain it to you so you can have a better understanding. I am working on a personal project on drilling an oil well, I was informed about it at a National Geological Conference at Nevada a year ago and I have been working on different soil samples sent to me from Nigeria at different soil levels. My analysis and assessments have been fail proved by professionals at Federal Earth Science Agencies, who have also supported me with 70% of the budget capital. I am here for the final drilling. I think this best explains my project but you can ask me any question if you need some further explanation.

Dear after our phone call tonight, I know for sure in my heart that I will always care for you with all that I am, all that I was and all that I will ever be. Please know that my love and I are inseparable and I would want it no other way and if time could express my love for you then it's forever and a day. I can't wait to be with you, see your smile, look in your eyes,feel your sweet touch, hear your perfect words and kiss your perfect lips.The way I feel about you some people call it crazy, some call it insane, but I call it true love. I really love you xxxxx.

I know you may be upset at me for not sleeping and yes I do agree with you that I have to rest so I will go back and try to get some sleep now, I feel lighter after I have poured my heart. Till I hear from you tomorrow, I miss you and you are warmly on my mind.

Love always,
Ray.

It's a pity we couldn't chat much yesterday but I will be back at the hotel early tonight and I hope we can have a good time together, have a good day and a lovely weekend ahead.

Kisses
Ray

Dearest xxxxx,

Good morning to you, hope you had a good night rest . My night was peaceful as well, I rested well because my dreams were all about you and the moment I woke up this morning, my mind has been enriched with your thoughts. I am sorry we couldn't chat well yesterday, I was really tired and the connection wasn't helping. Did you get my last mail to you? I explained more about my project there and I hope you understand because you didnot mention it last night.

Hunnie, if it's the thought that counts you can always count on me, I think about you all the time because some people come into our lives and quickly go, some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to a new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom and love. Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon. They stay in our lives forever, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.

You have made a huge difference in my life and I will never feel thesame again. I will always be joyful in the splendour of your love.

Have a great day my queen.

sweet thoughts,
Ray.

Phrase in above mail stolen from;

http://www.randomquotes.org/quote/18304-some-people-come-into-our-lives-and-quickly-go-so.html

Darling xxxxx,

How are you today? Hope all is well, Iwas looking forward to chatting with you last night but you weren't online, I guess you had much to do. I am sending you sunny warm greetings from Nigeria and hope we can get to chat this evening, I miss you so much and I care so much about you. Have a nice day.

Kisses,
Ray

Hello my dear,

How are you this morning? Hope all is well. Not a word from you and I am just wondering if you are OK. Probably you are just busy with work and I shouldn't bother myself. Well, I just want to let you know that I miss you so much and I am hoping to hear from you soon. Please write me as soon as you can. Have a good day.

Love
Ray.