Aisha Toks Patterson

During this correspondence, the scammer attached seven photographs, file names:

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You will notice that these emails below could have been sent to anyone! Not once does the scammer address the recipient by name, nor mention anything connected to the recipient's life or interests. This is because all these mails will have been pre-written - and they are indeed sent to every man who the scammer, pretending to be Aisha, writes to.

The scammer is waiting for a recipient of these mails to start professing care or affection for Aisha. Then the scammer will pretend that Aisha experiences an event or disaster which means that she desperately needs financial assistance. And the recipient of these mails will be expected to send money.

If money is sent, a further financial need is likely to follow.

'Aisha' does not exist, and her stories about her life are not true. The emails are sent by a scammer, who is extremely likely to actually be a man. He has no interest in or intention of a relationship, but is sending a pre-written storyline which leads to a request for money. The money is the only thing he is interested in. He hopes to trick and scam as many men as possible with these fake letters and his fake Aisha character.

From: [email protected]
Date: Tue, 22 Jun 2010
Subject: MY NAME IS AISHA FROM AMATEURMATCH.

Hey, how r u doing?
My name is Aisha but you can call me Toks, Am totally new on this dating service called { Amateumatch.com }, I am looking to meet someone we can meet real, I have been getting letters from many men but never read any letter that sound sweet and then i decied to check the WHO IS ONLINE, I got your profile and i think it's like what i have been looking for since i join this SITE and I want you to know that i am only looking for just one guy with lots of love, Well i know True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about but few have seen it. I have this big question to ask you, Pls write me back quick.
Do you know what love and relationship mean ? If you know - explain me.
Do you know longterm relationship is the best ?
Do you believed in soul mates ?
If you don't - let's find an answer to this question together! I am a slim and attractive lady with a beautiful figure. By nature: I am a calm person with a good sense of humor. im a fun and loving person, I think your profile look like what i have been looking for,
My profile name is Paisha39. You can write back if only you are still interested in this and i will be waiting to hear back from you soonest......

From: [email protected]
Date: Thu, 24 Jun 2010
Subject: It Is Really Nice To Read Back From You , This Are Little Things About Me ...........

Thank for the letter and sorry for the late reply.... I want you to know age mean nothing to a true relationship, All that mean is to work things together, Your personality is quite alright, I have to tell you more about me, I am not really good in telling people things about me, I am telling you everything about me because i feel we have samething in common and we share the same view about relationship, Both of us are on the dating site to find a friend even maybe more but as time goes on we will find it out.
I was sixteen years when i lost my parent in an auto crash accident. After the death of my parents, I stayed with one of our far relation who was then before her death a medical practitioner.. She was the person that introduced me into medical line and i even learnt woman hair dressing from her, that was where i started my life, But being a lady with no one to help her, then going to college is already a challenge of life, let alone going on to pursue anything beyond a nurse. I feel very lucky and honored to study in El Camino College in Torrance California.. Thats where i met by best friend in school and she introduced me to this online dating stuff also she met the man of her life on here and to my suprise, It was not long at all before they got married and i was really happy for them. It was her case that got me convinced that this online dating really work. I have been on this dating for a while now but all the men that wrote me only want sex and dirty talk, Well i dont do that cos am not a cam girl and if i am to do this, It will be only with my true love, I am single, searching for someone that will make me happy till the end of my life. I have heared things like that dont exist but i feel like it does. I am a shy lady at first and this is why i am looking for someone who can be cool with me and not just looking to have me as a sex girl, If you think you can do this then hit me back, I attach my pictures so you can have a better idea how i look like. I will send more pictures later when you reply. But, honestly, I think that the inside beauty is much more important than how people look, isn’t it? I want you to know being far away does not mean we cant meet..
Please include a picture with your response so I can put a face with your real name.. I would have love to chart with you on the IM but i am not really use to that, We can only talk through this letter okie.
I edited my profile recently, so i think it is yet to be reapproved. but i can tell you more about me through mails. Hope to read from you again, I think it is better we keep contact through mails till i get back. I will be back soonest.

From: [email protected]
Date: Fri, 25 Jun 2010
Subject: Can You Tell Me More About You Now ......

It is a good thing that you replied my message, I will also like to know you better, I am Aisha Toks Patterson 26 years old and am a christian lady from California, I have no kids. I am 5.4 tall, brown eye balls, Brown hair, Bust: 34", Dress: 4/5 Waist: 28" Shoe: 8.5 Hips: 36". I'm d/d free, I work as a student nurse while i was in LA at the ICU for 2 years and now am in Africa to do the claiming of my late dads property. My My hobbies are like riding my little scooter which is my favorite,swaimming, playing videogames, dancing,reading, listen to music,watching movies visiting the beach for a walk and i will also like to find someone who i can share my interest with as well share yours with me too, I'm an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy going and i don't think that i'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.
Can you tell me what you do for a living and where you are at the moment, I want you to know age means notting but just a number so you dont need to worry about the age different.
Let me tell you more about my late parent, before my dad died, He work as a truck driver in California and my mom work a cook. To cut the story short, I am the only child of my late Parent, I have been without paret since i was 16 years old, This is the reason why i need to work things out on my own to be someone in life. Now talking about if i am going to be back in California? Yes i will be back soon as am done with the claiming so i can gather some money together and move back to California.. My time shedue here in nigeria are going to the meeting on claiming my late dads property from Monday to Saturday around 10:00 AM and i will be back at 06:00 PM, Then take a nap and wake up around 09:30 PM and i will reply all your letters by 10:20 PM african time, You can hola me on the hotel Cell mobile and the number is +234 7066 175 193.
So tell me more about you, then i will also tell you more about me in my reply and probably send you some of my pictures. I understand everything you wrote and i really wish to get a reply from you soonest.
Aisha Cares..!!

From: [email protected]
Date: Sat, 26 Jun 2010
Subject: Thanks For The Letter.........................

How are you doing honey ? Well as for me am fine and okay, I dont have to do much today than to wash some of my dirty cloth, dry and iron them. After this i will have to go down the hotel for a little swim and then come back to have a nice rest before i go to the meeting.
Honey, in my opinion the role of man in a relationship is to be a provider of support while woman should be the major provider of strenth. The man should guide his wife to feel secure with their relationship and encourage her to seek out what her heart desires inregards to life choices. Though man and woman have equal role to play.
The most important things to me in a relationship are love, trust, and communication. I want to feel as if I am more in love with a man everyday that we spend together. In order to attain this a couple must develop a supreme sense of trust where absolutely nothing is held back. Part of trust is to have good communication. Whenever a problem arises it should be talked out without anger or resentment. I also think sex is an integral part of a relationship.
In a relationship I would like my man to play the role of an equalpartner. When I am not strong I want to be able to turn to my man to confide into and look to for help overcoming any problem that I face. I want him to be the person I love the most, respect the most, and consider my best friend.
I would hope that my man will be there when I need him most and always be able to speak to me with both frankness and sincerity. I like it when a man can openly show his affection or a smile that shows me that he really loves me. I really enjoy when I can bring my man into all aspects of my life. I like a man who can keep a positive attitude during difficult times, who is open to trying new things, and shares my passion for life and for helping our fellow human.
The things that I don't like in relationships are when we loose the ability to be able to talk openly. Also, I do not do well with people who think they are better than others and are always thinking about themselves... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning, I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and i realize that at times its more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and i have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return.
My do's: I am romantic, great at suprises, very funny and can usually turn a frown into a smile, very giving, full of patients, full of life and try to get the most out of everyday. I am good at inspiring others as well.
My don'ts: materalistic people, smoking, drugs, money-hungry motives, boastfulness and people who love to fight.
I think with the way you answered my question, It clearly shows you are ready for a lifelong relationship, It is not as if i am in a rush to get married but i know what i want, and with your answers to my question i think you are best for me. I know what you want from me and i will aslo be happy to show you mylove and happiness through out our life time together if am not wrong,where exactly do you think this communication between us could lead to.
Let me know what you have in mind and also let me know your daily schedule so that i might be sure of the exact time i can meet you at the computer so that we cantalk more.
I am looking for someone that has the freedom that I do at this point in life. I also wouldn't mind being with someone who knows how to pamper a woman.. I am not at all a materialistic person so I mean this in the sense of passion and affection.I am a little careful with my feelings at first, until I get to know you and then I can be a very loyal and caring person. I am an attractive woman and even more important, I am petite and have been told that I have a great smile.
If I had to characterize myself I would say I have more of an exotic look because of my lighter features. I am at a very stable point in my life and the only thing missing is that special someone.
I will talk to you later.
Aisha Cares.

From: [email protected]
Date: Sat, 26 Jun 2010
Subject: This Is A New Relationship And I Have A Suprise For You .................

Darling love, I hope all is Well with you and hope you are thinking of me, I feel happy most whenever i get message from you and i really will like to read more cos reading your mail makes me more closer to you, I am not going to be home to day, I am going to visit the Zoo,
How i wish you are here with me honey so we can go together, Honey i think with all we have talk about, for me since we have know much things about each other and we match our self and we are looking for the same things in life i think we should call it Relationship and i believe it will lead us to a very good place.
In life, we receive a wonderful opportunity, and that is to love. Love comes in many forms, You love people in different ways and for different reasons, depending upon how they have touched your life.
Love is a very powerful word and can describe a magnitude of feelings, but its main context carries the same meaning.
Well, relationship can mean two things :
1) It can mean that we have a connection, which I think exists.
2) Relationship also means to be romantically and sexually involved and I think we aren't at that level.
But it is a good thing we have great feelings for eachother. So, I think at this point, given the amount of time we have e-mail one another, we definetly have a friendship forming based on some external and internal similarities that are developing into a relationship that will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant.
What does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a man who can display his affections for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy. And a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate.
This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are many man out there that are set in their ways.
They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advices. Stubborn man are a major turn off for me. I like a man who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open minded. Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost.Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust,love gets unstable.
I think being eceptive brings about sensitivity as well. A man who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with. I wou,d say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring, Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.
If I'm sad, I'd like for him to be able to comfort me and cheer me up. He doesn't hAve to do much, but just knowing that he's there solacing me is more than good enough.
I am very happy i met you because you send me some good mails to read when am lonely down here and what you make me feel for you is nothing short of the ultimate happiness. I attach some picture for you to see how i really do look okie, I think we need to arrange a date. I can come over to your place, but i can come over to you if you care.
Well i will have to stop here and hope to read more from you soon dear...
Aisha Cares.