Re: James Baker from Facebook
From James Baker
[email protected]sweetie thanks for everything you said about yourself, sounds so great and besides you caught me big time cos i never believe that i will find a woman as real as you on internet,though this my first time of being here on internet and i have the believe in God that as am giving it a trial that i will definitely meet the woman of my life that will also love me and my son for whom we are , but will let you know that i want you more than just an ordinary friend,while am also ready to get Commit again to the right woman hope its you if things get to work out better for us.
Let me quickly answer the questions i asked you so you could at least know what my answers are lol..
1.The qualities i am looking for in a woman... she has to be a woman with high self esteem and one who does not give up easily.. one with a fighting spirit and has to know what it takes to make her man happy and one who will not stop at nothing for her family just like me, a woman who will know and understand my kind of man and one who will treat me like i am the best on earth and one i can give the same in return.
2.Yes i am more than ready for a serious relationship now.
3.I have never hurt feelings or jilted a woman in my life because i haven't been into a lot of relationship and i do anything to make my woman happy when i get in a relationship.
4.Yes i drive and i have 3 cars.
5.I have my own house.
6.I am a practicing christian with good faith and i believe in God and also i am God fearing and will be a plus for me to have a woman like that too.
7.I am originally from Rocky Mount Missouri and live in rochester NY now.
8.I have a bad habits of wanting to kiss my woman at all time not minding my environment, I've tried to stop that and I'm sure I could do it with your support if you dont like it.
I hope i am not gonna scare you away with all this answers? lol
Oh, Bryan checked your pictures and i must let you know he really likes what he saw . Everything you have mention about yourself tells me you are the perfect woman i had been waiting for all my life ,I am so anxious to know you better than this,i dont know how to hide my feelings or whatever am always coming out with my word especially to the one i have feelings for, well am sure we could get to meet someday and see this work out.
Baby at this point i think calling each other over the phone might be needed and here is my number here in Nigeria +2348132789371...you can always reach me on here until i will return to the states since my usa number wont receive calls from here it will only let me text.
What i feel for you now is what i can simply divine as the word ''LOVE'' it is more than liking someone. It is being completely devoted to them. It is doing the right thing for your loved one, without letting selfishness and what you want get in the way. It is pleasing someone and going out of your way continuously to make sure they are happy. This is such a simple concept and yet it is so hard to explain. Love is selfless. It completes you. It brings you happiness.
I know you might think what i feel for you is lost but I believe lust is also wanting something. To me its like wanting something for selfish reasons. That's not quite right. Lust is being attracted to someone for their physical appearance. It is wanting the body more than the soul of a person. If you Lust after a thing you want it, but mostly you wish to posses it, to make it yours exclusively. In a relationship, I little bit of lust is nice. It would make your partner know you appreciate them. That you want them and find them attractive. I don't think a relationship founded only on lust would last though,while FEELINGS are what drives us, they make or break us. Feelings can be good or bad. I don't like the bad one like selfishness, anger, hate. But the good ones can really brighten up your day. Love, trust, happiness, contentment. They make your day better, they brighten your mood. Your feelings can be your best asset. When you feel strongly for another person and they know it it forms a bond between you. It keeps you going when things get down and LIFE is what we have that makes us alive.In life we experience a lot of things both good and bad.Life is a teacher and we always learn from it day to day.Life is so short and you have to do what you wanna do before its late,that all about life bcos time does not wait for any one,anyway am gonna be looking forward to read back from you again soon,take good care of yourself, Bryan says HI to you. hummm. hopefully we could get to meet someday soon ,I am gonna be here for just two weeks more to get my work done....Thinking about you .