I have met Ben Smith on the internet partnership forum "parship". He has added a picture and given me two adresses: <
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12-6
You sound like a very Interesting person to know. Let me start by telling you some Basic but important things about me. I am currently on my way to Dubai, U.A.E for a business Trip. Due to this business trip it would not be possible for us to have a physical meeting within the next 2 weeks. Exchanging emails would be the best way for us to know ourselves better. My job is a long story, to put it simply, I am a Private Contractor in the Oil Rig engineering sector and Business Man. Explaining the details of what I do would have to be in another email. I used to smoke but I quit 1 year ago. I drink occasionally. I'm always very direct and straight forward, I'm 183cm in height, and I live alone in vienna presently.Vienna was not were I intended to move to when I left United Kingdom initially. When I first came to Austria, I lived in Salzburg for about a month. During my stay in Salzburg I realized that living in that citie was not something I wanted to do anymore. The best option for me at that time was Vienna. So I made a decision to move there. The main reasons why I moved to Austria was because of my job. There are many other reasons but I will tell you about it in the future or in another email.I am a very spontaneous person. I tell you whats on my mind when I feel it and this has made me a very honest person naturally. I believe life is like a book, people who don't travel just read only a few pages. So it is possible I relocate unknown reasons in the future. I'm also a very Optimistic and Open Minded person. Being Optimistic and Open minded has always attracted people to me Naturally. I'm not the kind of man who base his feelings on the Outer Beauty or physical appearance. I believe in the Beauty on the Inside because I learned long ago that it is much better. My membership from the personals website will be expiring soon, I do not think I would be needing it anymore. I still know very little about you and would love to know a lot more. I'm new to internet dating, however I think you are a sincere and Genuine person. So now its your turn. Tell me anything about yourself that you would like me to know. Or maybe something you are proud of about you. I'm an Open book, so don't hesitate to ask me whatever you want to know about me. I attached a of my pictures to this email and I hope to get some of yours soon as well. Bye for now
Ben
12-8
Good Evening,
How are you today? I've decided to tell you my life's story from the very beginning. My name is Ben schmidt. I was born on the 14th day of December in 1960. I am a Petrochemical Engineer by profession. I earned my degree from the University Of Aberdeen, in Scotland in 1983. My father was German and my Mum was Italian. I am the only child my parents had. They are both deceased. My parents met in Vienna and back then my dad was a social worker for the Austrian Government. We stayed in Vienna for about 6 years then moved to Dublin in 1967. My Dad tried to pursue a career there as a Professional Antiques collector, but things weren't going to well, so once again we relocated to greener Pasture's and this time we headed for Aberdeen, Scotland. One fateful day in 1977 my Father was involved in an Auto Crash which claimed his life.A few months before I graduated, while on a class tour to Liverpool Cathedral. I met my late wife at the University of Liverpool, she was a very sweet woman and I couldn't think of anyone else I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. About a year later we got married. In 1987 we had our only son Nathan. In 1997 we moved to London,United Kingdom due to work related reasons. Late into 2003, I lost my mum to cancer of the Colon. This was a very miserable time in my life because I suddenly became an orphan and I felt alone in this world. I thought the worst had happened to me. But the worst blow came in 2005 March, when my perfectly healthy wife went to sleep one night and never woke up. I've been a widower since then and although I have been involved some relationships over the last few years, nothing really ever came out of it. I have been through a lot of difficult times in my life's Journey. Both Physically and emotionally but like they say, what does not kill you, only makes you stronger.Although I said I do not pay much attention to the Outer beauty, I do appreciate beauty and of course, I would prefer a nicer looking woman over one who is not so attractive at a glance. But I also know that the prettiest people do the Ugliest things. Intellect is a Trait that attracts me to women. I have observed that pretty and attractive women rarely poses this quality. But you seem to be a woman of intellect and yet you are good looking. Thanks for your pictures. Moving to Vienna has been very rewarding for me in different ways. I can't really say I'm living the dream but I think happiness is actually something we give ourselves. I like to travel a lot and exploring Europe is something I hope to do for the rest of my days. Well I hope you understand everything I've said so far.Bye for now,
Ben
12-10
Good morning Eva
Sorry i did not reply your email at once i had to visit the the Ruler of Abu Dhabi, Sheikh Khalifa bin Sultan Al Nahyan. I also took the opportunity to do some pleasure sight seeing, I also took sometime out to learn about the history of UAE by visiting the Heritage Village (A Culture Museum), and the AL HUSHEN PALACE - now home of the Centre for Documentation and Research. I sometimes consider myself ambitious because I have a lot of dreams I wish to achieve before I die. So let me tell you what having a good time means to me, I like to go Skiing in the Winter. Two places I usually go to are Rossland, in British Columbia and Winter Park, Colorado.when I am in Europe i visiting some Ski resorts in Austria, like Kirchberg and Kitzbuhel. I like to read all kinds of books ranging from Non Fiction to Biographies, I also like super thrillers and Espionage stories. I have a whole lot of other things I do to catch some fun but it greatly depends on who I'm with and where we are. Sometimes I go to see a movie at the Cinema or maybe just listen to some good music. I'm thinking about going on a short vacation after I'm done with everything I'm doing down here.In my short journey in life, I've noticed public opinions about relationships usually do more harm than good. For this reason I like to keep my relationships private because when both partners sit down and talk about there differences they usually find better Solutions together. I have been very single for almost 2 years now but didn't really take note until i moved to vienna. Nathan and I are very close.He is practically my only true friend. I have always tried to be there for him just like his mother would if she was still alive.I could keep going on and on but i have to get to work now i would drop you another note later .
Ben
12-11
Good evning ,How are you doing today? As for me, Dubai has been very great so far. I must confess after reading your email I was impressed once again. I have a feeling I would be even more impressed when I get to meet you in person. I think it is time for me to explain what I do for a living. It is important for me to do this now because most of my expectations aspirations is to archive my goals in life and in other for me to do that, I have to successfully execute the contract I am currently working on. I used to work as a Contract Engineer for Micron Eagle Engineering Group based in Aberdeen, Scotland for the past 20 years. For the last 2 years I worked at the Pearl River Delta in Aberdeen on a Jack Up rig Platform. I used to wake up by 6 a.m every morning to catch my chopper down there. I would have to work from very early, till very late in the night. I had two colleagues/friends I used to work with, Andrew and Patrick. Andrew, Patrick and I used to stay at Patrick's home in Aberdeen while we were working there, he got married for the second time in 2009. He found his woman on the internet and to be sincere they seem to share true love, he changed my point of view towards online relationships.Presently I am an independent contractor of international repute(Self Employed), I specialize in the oil engineering sector. What I do basically is supervise the constructing of oil rig platforms ranging from Northern Europe to the middle east, to far east Asia, I also handle rig renovations and maintenance. I sometimes dabble into Supplying Construction materials to other Drilling Construction companies overseas. The present project I am working on here in Dubai is a contract to reconstruct and renovate two Semi Submersible Oil rig platforms. I intend to quit field operations after this contract and continue future jobs as a Supervisor from my home office, while I let my Colleagues handle the field operations.My trip down here is supposed to come to an end in approximately 2 weeks time. International trips that are work related are a rear occurrence for me they only happen once or twice a year and are usually very sparsely spaced. I can go on writing forever but I have to go to bed . Bye for now and I hope to read from you soon.
Ben
12-13
Good evening
How was your night it was very nice reading from you ,it brings joy to my heart. I know from the way I rambled on in my email to you about my work and the way I have been so busy with my job lately, you might think it is where I invest almost all of my energy. Well the truth is I like my job but I have a lot of other interests. Life is simple, for those who take it simple. I don't like to complicate things, there is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from but because we live in a Monetary system we spend most of our lives trying to acquire wealth and secondary needs, while our primary needs and goals are left unseen. I worked very hard, for a very long time to make sure I acquired a lot of wealth, but in the long run, apart from the money to acquire some luxuries, for what purpose would you need more money? To be realistic, except if you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. I know I have spent more than half of my lifetime on this planet already, this realization has made me start to re-asses what my Main Goals are. What could be more important than a happy ending?I also enjoy taking cruises, shopping, hanging out at the park or museum. You can also catch me taking long walks at the beach but its usually always lonely when you don't have someone to share that time with, someone to hold hands with; dig our feet into the sand, to Listen to the waves crash on the shore. To feel the sun upon our faces. Someone willing to travel to new exotic places and appreciate the things we've got, Even if it's not a lot. To feel the wind flow through our hair. To feel heaven as if we were there because that special someone is next to me and there's no other place I would rather be. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he has no happy ending if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own, Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing we still need to hold hands. A woman whom I can call a partner in crime
. A woman who I can tell anything. I think it is time for me to find this woman or die trying, because I embraced my work for so long trying to get over my late wife, that I worked so hard but now I the time has come for me to move on and find Love and Happiness again. My spn told me that just because something good has ended does not mean something better can not start.I sincerely and honestly think you are a very interesting person. I just felt compelled to tell you a lot more about me. I hope to read from you soon.Lots Of Regards,
Ben
P.S: We can chat on Windows Live messenger or Yahoo messenger in the evenings, I'm usually logged on with my phone and on my laptop when I'm not at work, I think chatting is a better way of getting to know someone over the computer. My ID on windows live Messenger is the same as my email address
Ben
12-20
Hello my angel. I dont know what i have done that i deserve a second chance. I lost one and yet i found another angel. How did i become so lucky. I trusted my instincts and got only you from that market and you turned gold. My instincts still direct me, move ahead with her in my journey. I really thank my God., I mean i ask for something good and he gives me the best.
Hiding from the whole past, rains and snow, for i may be reminded of some memories, trying to forget yet i wont let go.Walking through a crowded street, i could still hear my own heartbeat..So many people around this world my dear, tell me, where do i find someone like you? lol Pleas take me to your heart, take me to your soul, show me that wonders can be true. They say, nothing lasts forever, we are only here today, Love is now or never, pleas bring me far away! give me your hand and hold me, show me what love is, maybe i haven't got a clue, be my guardian star. take my hands before i am too old,lol. i could go be with some friends to have fun, but they don't really comprehend. I don't need too much talking , without saying anything, all i need is some one who makes me want to sing. And you do a great job on that. I have written a song i would sing for you when i get to you. In less than few days i would handover and come see you. Would you mind picking this old man from the airport? lol.
Have you ever danced in a rain? give it a trial and see how free your soul really is. We should really take this to another level. let me hear the voice of an angel. Be warned i have been told i have an unsorted accent, but sexy,lol. When could we probably have a chance to have a live chat on Google talk you can get that easy? now i can hardly get you out of my mind.here is my number you can give me a call 441916451729
Yours Forever,
Ben
P.s
Yes i like to cook
I am fine with chocolates too
i am also fine with voting for a greener world I love nature too i feel at peace with nature help
12-20
Hello my angel. I dont know what i have done that i deserve a second chance. I lost one and yet i found another angel. How did i become so lucky. I trusted my instincts and got only you from that market and you turned gold. My instincts still direct me, move ahead with her in my journey. I really thank my God., I mean i ask for something good and he gives me the best.
Hiding from the whole past, rains and snow, for i may be reminded of some memories, trying to forget yet i wont let go.Walking through a crowded street, i could still hear my own heartbeat..So many people around this world my dear, tell me, where do i find someone like you? lol Pleas take me to your heart, take me to your soul, show me that wonders can be true. They say, nothing lasts forever, we are only here today, Love is now or never, pleas bring me far away! give me your hand and hold me, show me what love is, maybe i haven't got a clue, be my guardian star. take my hands before i am too old,lol. i could go be with some friends to have fun, but they don't really comprehend. I don't need too much talking , without saying anything, all i need is some one who makes me want to sing. And you do a great job on that. I have written a song i would sing for you when i get to you. In less than few days i would handover and come see you. Would you mind picking this old man from the airport? lol.
Have you ever danced in a rain? give it a trial and see how free your soul really is. We should really take this to another level. let me hear the voice of an angel. Be warned i have been told i have an unsorted accent, but sexy,lol. When could we probably have a chance to have a live chat on Google talk you can get that easy? now i can hardly get you out of my mind.here is my number you can give me a call 441916451729
Yours Forever,
Ben
P.s
Yes i like to cook
I am fine with chocolates too
i am also fine with voting for a greener world I love nature too i feel at peace with nature help
12-21
How are you doing my dear, how are you today? I just got back from Abu Dhabi where we went for a meeting here in Dubai and first to say hi to my beloved and most wonderful Angel How was your day ? and how is the situation over there. If ever you think of me out of the blue, just remember it's all the kisses I've blown in the air finally catching up with you! In my thoughts of you there is an underlying love that is present in every word, every glimpse I hope you feel it as I do, for it is what I am and ever I will be.LOL! But Hey! seriously, i must admit without second thoughts, Being in love is what makes working all week bearable. It makes cruising with your windows rolled down feel like you're riding in a convertible. It makes you dance to the rhythm of the copy machine and makes Friday night really feel like THE WEEKEND."LOL!
Tomorrow i will back at work, i got the final footings going on. i am late right now cos i will be meeting with someone i work with tonight concering this so we can finalize but i still don't want to go because i wanted to write a long note, but then, i know i will carry you on my mind all day. Pls know that i cherish you so much. Happiness is not found at the end of the road, it is experienced along the way. So take not for granted each moment of your life and you will find a reason to be happy each day.
You are my shinning star. I know you will never fade. You will be my light to help me read my map of happiness!pls have a good day, and pls dear don't over work yourself for me my eight wonder.
P.S
Say hello to my girls for me ,cant wait to meet you all ..
Ben
12-22
Good morning my love,.How are you today? i just got to work, even though late, but then, i have Eight locals down with serious injuries and four gone. This is the most painful thing i have come across. Now the Rig tow they were rushing to fix before my arrival, did swing into the best place after rolling down on them before time, so they were catalyst to its best position, but they did pay a hard price for this. I hate accidents on site, sometimes it makes you feel like not having to use local labors, because they sometimes make these mistakes that doesn't make sense. I feel bad enough to feel responsible for them. The eight have been taken to general hospital now, i just pray for the best for them, i pity the family of the deceased. They spoil my mood this morning cos they should have waited for us before making such vital installations. These are even men who lack basic insurance for that matter, risking their lives and now i feel responsible for what has happened to them. Maybe i should have been on the rig early enough.
can't write much this morning honey, would try later. Just know that you mean a lot to me OK? and i really appreciate you dear. The joy i feel in recent days is my best.
Ben
23.12. Good morning my love, and i must say thanks for your care. It was good enough a day, because the rest would be fine, even though thier mistake did cost me well over 50g but i am more than joyous that they are going to be ok. I am seeing the dead one's family today. They just want to spoil my mood. I would be online most of the day today, i will leave my messenger on, so pls see if you could catch me there, i would be more than glad to have a live chat with you honey. tell me, how was your own day? call me honey, your voice lifts up my spirit. i love you so much most wonderful,. you are a kind woman, thanks for the suggestion, i have taken care of everything already ,lol. pls make sure we can chat today, and call me when you are ready.
Thinking of you as usual.
Ben
21-23 Eva my love i love you you so much i and i am happy you know i need you right now i am frustrated with the situation over here can you meet me on msn messenger or can you download google talk messenger i would be online waiting for you there so we can talk things out i love you and i love our girls too .
ben
