Now his "name" is Ricky Cole his "last project" is in Lagos Nigeria, his profile in Fb is
http://www.facebook.com/ricky.cole.7370/about, and you can see his pic there.He is blond-blown hair, 45yold man with blue eyes. He claims he is widowed and he has a 7y old son. He send me some photos together. His tel in Nigeria is +2348139518050, not in Lagos but somewhere in the central Nigeria...I didt call of course!!!
He met me on FB and he insisted to give him an email to communicate with me.I did and
the first email, attached with a photo with a babyboy in his arms(his son):
I got your message and i am glad you did write, I guess you should truly know who i am, I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. Am on my computer now. If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me,.I will break this down to segments and it
would be like a case study. hehehe
MY BACKGROUND
Am Ricky Cole, most friends call me The man, i was born to a loving couple, a home, by an German man from Florida and a British woman. My father was an international business man who met this British orphan whose only family were close friends. She says there was something about the man that no woman could ever resist, sometimes she says she sees same in me. During my father's global movement, while i was twelve i left to study in Pace University New York where i got the first degree in civil Eng and then i later moved on to join them back in the United Kingdom. My father died and she was left alone. I met my late wife and best friend in New York. she was a fashion designer. Very good at heart. Actually i could say i met her in a funny way, would explain that later. and yes i have a son his name is Vincent and he is 7 years old.
MY JOB
I am a global contractor. I do basically with oil platforms, rig constructions, renovations or over water bridges. We have worked at many countries across the globe. The present project here is my last on the field and i shall quit field works and continue my works from my home office while my men do the field operations. I think i really have gotten to this height cos i embraced work for so long trying to get over my wife, while i worked this hard, but i think i now realize i can move on.
MY DREAM
I just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is play bingo........lol. I am a total package, i only need someone who understands the value of a good smile.
I cant wait to hear back from you.
Your turn
Ricky
the second:
Hello S...,
I really appreciate this communication and i will say it is a sign of will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead. I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people,. it is a place called joy and happiness. My Grace, i would also be stupid to hold the man of a woman like you,. Really i just see that i can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul. As i could remember, as a kid i was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realise there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you,i am a type that doesn't judge. no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give your support.
There is no Mr right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love ,lol But sincerely that is the bitter truth. When my wife passed away, he told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better cant start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realize that , let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co pilot. My usual saying, and i am known for it, is that, Life is simple, for those who take it simple. I don't like to complicate things,there is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from.
My mother is very old now and at almost 80, she can still sing. Now she cant wait to have a proper family, and i cant wait to have a happy home too. after my last project here in Nigeria, i am quitting field works. Any other job would only require my attention from my home office wherever i go. I want to spend the rest of my life having fun. I have a house in new york where i found my wife and got married, i have one in South Chelsea London, while i have no home. Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, i rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes and a super woman. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less.
I say, who says we cant pick rags and turn to riches? Who says we cant design our own paradise together.It is workable just walk by my side, please send me a picture of your beautiful self.
Ricky
another one:
Hello my wonderful S...,
How are you today? Nice to hear from you and also thanks a lot for even letting me notice today about my Facebook profile cos it was opened for me by a friend of mind when i was in Uk ,honestly am not good on computer am just getting use to it as am a field man that is always busy with the nature of my own work,all the same i will take my time to make amendment on my Facebook profile,cos i don't live in Virginia but he does.As for your mail about if you can find the man who will love ur kids,i guess that's not a problem cos i just have a son with me and can't wait to have others even if am not the biological father,cos if i must love a woman then i must be able to value everything around and about her.Honestly i don't know Why am i getting addicted to my email? lol. I get a good glow on my face just waking up to read from you. Wonderful. How was your night?. I knew something was missing since i haven't smiled all morning till now,lol. I was almost late for my chopper in the morning, i woke up late, i think i am becoming restful again, Maybe i could sense something good ahead of us.
What wouldn't i do to make my dreams come true. It is like a rigger waiting for a trigger. Would you be my trigger? lol. I just need a woman to hold me before i am old. Absolutely i have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right? but for what purpose? To be realistic, except if you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless indeed. how much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? how much do we need for daily fun. excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As i always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep. it can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy time, It can buy piles of books , but cant buy knowledge.
It can buy food, but not satisfaction, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy love. That is why , i refuse to follow the crowd, so as my own man, i would give up all that can be bought for that which cant be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods,. she can make me smile in all weather.I am glad that i could get your attention my dear. You have a special thing in your heart, and i intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure, but i don't mind,lol. Please tell me about your ideology of life my dear. I will be waiting impatiently to hear from you.
yours
Ricky
Another one:
Dear Strati,
Hello my goddess,. how are you doing?What on earth will make you think that i mistake you for another person when you are the only one that run through my mind,trust me you are the only woman i take my time to write to,for me any place outside Africa i address it as state.As for you thinking that your man chapter is closed,i must confess that i don't blame you cos when i lost my late wife so i used to think not until when my friend actually advised me to move on and even had to go extra mile to create Facebook for me and now actually meeting you have changed my mindset cos deep in my heart i can feel something that make me to give you more attention and wanting to have you,i will appreciate if you can erase that thinking from your mind,and give love a chance to see the best life can be.
Can you imagine how yesterday went. I was with the nine rascals at the quarters. Oh! i need to tell you who the nine rascals are. They are my professional buddies. we work together, we have more of a friendship relationship than Employee employer relationship. When one of us has an occasion to grace, you would be thrilled. we could act much and make a crowd laugh out their stress. there is Nelson, Bishop, Owen, Chan, Lee, John, Brian, Nekky, and mike. Nelson met Debby online while we were in Qatar, then we moved out after our project. Then Chan was always getting on Nelson's nerves, but really, they have always been like that. Bishop would call them, cat and dog. They would make fun of each other and i tell you the whole party would laugh. But today, Even Debby is Chan's best friend. After their marriage, we went to Saudi to bid for a project on one of their oil platforms. I personally logged most of my funds in the bidding's and so did many of us. It got to a point that we were knocked out by their local politics. It left us almost stranded, please don't laugh at us,lol. But somehow you wouldn't believe it , Debby did most of the work of getting our naughty asses out of there. We were disappointed that we lost big, but as humans, we don't know God has a bigger plan for us. Just the week we got back to Europe, we got this biggest project of our career in Dubai. We were bidding for a 4 million gain project and we got a gift of over 10 m,lol.
Most of my colleagues still have this envy in them, but as it is , i did not make myself but God did. When we went back to the states to finalize nelson's wedding. we met her family. My dear, they had us for days and the old man did not want the rascals to go. They impacted so much into thier lives. Even the man calls on us like a father time to time till now. What i know is that, we were able to get people's love , not because of wealth but because of our simplicity. That is one thing that can never be compromised in life. So yesterday, i gave them an exclusive on how i met this woman who has become a screen saver on my mind, and they were thrilled, saying they cant wait to meet her. They promised they had a bet on who would be closer to her. can you believe that. They all said, Hey .....pls put up her pic in the main room,lol.I cant wait to finish this project in less than weeks so i can come show you how much i can steal your heart, Let us see if you can resist this Happy man! LOL. The day was fun cos we left early. And i start visualizing how soon i can see my woman.
How did your day go? do you think you have listened to your heart? listen to it and you will find out how much you can gain! I am just a man who wants my best friend with me. Someone i can look at and smile for no reason. Someone i cant wait to get home to be with. Someone to hold in my arms and whisper to her ears. someone to run my fingers through her ears. Someone who is never afraid of telling her deepest thoughts to me. Someone who sees me more as her twin.
What do you think?
yours
Ricky
and some more...
THANK YOU FOR WARNING US ALL!!!
S
) in November of Twenty 12.
