Hi, as requested I'm including the 1st and 2nd message(hope that's ok, he gives alot of info in both. One other thing, he uses the phrase, "happy to read from you" rather than "happy to hear from you". He uses thought for taught and other grammatical errors as you can see. Hope this helps others.
Hello Angel, (my name is isn't Angel, just a pet name which he also uses others like darling, sweet pea, etc)
Thanks for leaving me your email address on the site, if you are interested in a serious relationship then i will hope that my search ends with you and will be getting off the site immediately, i also believe taking it slow is a good idea so i decided to give a reasonably comprehensive info of me as i mentioned above, I became 57 yrs old April 3rd, 2017, I am friendly,open minded, humorous when i am not excessively stressed with work,am independent, caring,sharing,a lovaholic as well as gallant, My hobbies are traveling, reading,listening to music and making someone happy, My favorite color is green, I like anything soft, i like blues,R&B and any soft musical, i like a compassionate and tender lady who will be there for me always as i will be for her too, I like nice cloths and shoes,cars though i don't worship them, I am a lone ranger and i live comfortably.
I was born in April 3rd 1960 and that same year i lost my Mum and the year before i lost my dad,they had a plane crash in 1959 as i was told and my dad died instantly while my mum suffered severe injury and was on wheelchair till she died in 1960 right in the hospital where i was born immediately after giving birth to me so i grew up with my grandma the only surviving parent of my dad who was there for and with me till she passed away over a year ago,till then she and my daughter were my only surviving friends and family as i lost my wife 5 yrs ago to cancer,my mum was an orphan so she didn't have a family almost like myself, am alone in this world today with my 12 yrs old daughter SONIA who is in currently in boarding school as i don't have any close friends but my dog Juno, my grandma always wished i would find another good woman and have more children before she died though i have always believed if i would have anymore then i would want to adopt one but was not qualified without a partner but now i also discovered she didn't want me getting lonely when my daughter is not around as well or my daughter not having anyone young to play with, she used to say that my being shy and uncomfortable around ladies wasn't an excuse and that she could get me a nice lady with a good heart if i was really ready again well guess i wasn't really ready then,her dying wish was for me to meet that better half of mine and settle down,after celebrating her one year remembrance i want to fulfill her wish as well as mine and fill this void and this lack,i am hoping to make a home and find the fulfillment in a new family again at the shortest possible time when i find that special lady.
I am a drilling engineer by profession, my job entails maximizing the recovery of crude oil from the subsurface. mostly on an oil platform like the oil rig, i am currently an independent contractor and i have been for the past 3 years so i travel for work mostly guess it made traveling one my hobbies and i am currently in UK for a construction job for 5 months and have already been here for over 3 months so will be back home within or in 2months.
With relationships i haven't really had much fun with any lady after my late wife as most of the ladies i have met are opportunist hoping to grab what they can, especially the pretty once which is part of the reason why i came on net to find my Mrs. Right,so am hoping to meet a fun loving lady and a fact is also i believe age is a number and the outer looks of a person don't define them but the inner characteristics, am searching for happiness anywhere and everywhere, please write me back and send me some pictures of you, hope you like the pictures of me and Sonia.
Jan.
Here's the second:
Hello Dear xxxxx
How are you today? Was great to get a message from but i should tell you this I am not one to be sympathized with for my past pains so please don't sympathize with me, i have been through a lot yes but still i don't see my life as tragic at all in fact i believe everything happened for a reason and my past made me who i am today, a better and stronger man, I am sure you would notice i had my child quite late as she is only 12 yrs old now, i was in a relationship for 4 years with someone i thought i would marry but she kept on postponing our marriage for so long because she had her own agenda and it was just her extorting from me and my grandma then i married my wife for 7 years before she died anyway when i finally realized this it was already so much time wasted in my life for her because my 3 best friends conspired to introduce her to me just to extort from my family and all the while my friend kept convincing me she was the best woman for me and when i finally put up a security on my account and everything else accessible to her because of funds missing and everything also made sure my grandma stopped giving her money she dumped me and left a week before our wedding so this made me paranoid and i haven't had any friend since then since i find it hard to trust people enough to bring them close enough also didn't date for a long time till i met my late wife who helped heal me and restored my hope in women again so you can imagine how hurtful it was for me to lose her and be alone with my little angel and then my grandma passing on was a major blow for both me and Sonia anyway I do believe that somethings happens to us in life and we can't blame ourselves because God has his own plans and people have their own problems so i never let things get to me no matter how hard i get tested in life, my grandma was never in support of her being in my life but i was stubborn so even when she died recently she gave all her physical funds to charity though she left me 2 properties guess she just wants me to learn something, i miss her everyday and know she has a reason for such a decision so now i am looking for something beyond a pretty face or body not meaning to say you are not but like i mentioned in my last email what matters the most is the beauty of the heart not the face neither age or any of what people worry so much about these days matters to me but true love and happiness, i would rather live 5 years happily and die than live a long sad life.
I guess we are looking for the same thing someone to love unconditionally though i will be 100% honest to you so will tell you this about my belief even though not sure the extent of your faith, i was born a christian and my grandma was a deaconess in her church before she died but with everything i went through though not broken as a person i am only finding my way back to faith again and this makes me feel there is surely a reason i met you as i have always prayed for someone to grow with, someone we can encourage each other and i like the message you sent me and i understand your delay in response but work is so hectic at the moment to reply swiftly so please bear with me for writing some what later but for me an email is like a date and i like to be proper so had to wait to make time to write this message to you, i have a lot of love to give and i just want to find that person that deserves it and if you were the one i would be so sweet to you that you may end up diabetic, see i believe women are priceless jewels to be treated with care and respect and if you were mine i will call you my golden egg. At this point in my life i am willing to do anything to experience some happiness in this one life that i have with my daughter, i also don't believe in giving up so i am committed and divorce also not an option i was thought that if something is breaking then fix it don't throw it away by my grandma so if you get involved with me then you will be stuck with me till death so i am glad you are different and for some reason kind of already figured that.
Thanks for the lovely photos, Please tell me more about your family, do you have kid? if yes what are your kids names and ages? you know i keep thinking what it would have been like if me and Sonia had other family members but we don't at least none that i know about so you are very lucky to have any family member anyway, i guess me and Sonia are a blessing to ourselves though Sonia is currently in a boarding school, because of the death of her mom and then my grandma she has psychological/depression issues so decided to take her to a special school for help, i try to make time to see her 4 or 5 times a week when i am around home depends on work load, thank God she is getting better and will be home soon, she used to light up wherever she goes hopefully she will again, decided to add some most recent pictures of me and Sonia.
Well just to mention some more about me, I was also born in Winter park , Florida and spent some part of my life growing up there and moving back home once i am back home and after finishing this job, i think you already found out that i travel a lot for work and i have been to over 25 if i have to guess as you can see in my pictures i sent in my last email and the weather here in UK is very cold with me being offshore and so on and i love it here as i spent some years growing up here in UK but mostly in London but this days my i am mostly just traveling for work though i am planning to change profession to real estate investments after this job so i can have time for my daughter and maybe you, if you are God sent to be my best half as i am wishing and praying , i must confess you seem like a beautiful soul and down to earth and this makes me very interested and glad to meet you, think we should just go to Las Vegas tonight and get married #SMILE#, let it be on the record you are very pretty and don't look your age in fact you will pass for a sweet 16 years old high school hot chick and i am surprised that you are still single i would be on a queue for 20 yrs begging you to date me...lol, how long have you been online trying to find someone? I would like to know more about you and see where it leads also, what are your plans for the future? how do you spend your everyday? anyway till i read from you again accept my kisses angel.
Your New Friend,
Jan.