If you have been scammed, please post here and share your experience; it may help others avoid the same situation!
by hopeful Tue Mar 29, 2011 6:36 pm
hello....after 5+ years, as i am writing this, my scammer has contacted me.
kelvin [email protected]
phone number 1-530-953-0237, which i googled and it brought me here!
i am so ashamed to say, even after all this time, that this "man" stole a lot of money from me.....if i am able, i will send along his picture, the one he claims to be when chatting with me.

i am sickened that he has the nerve to contact me after all this time!
please contact me if i can be of any help to anyone that has been scammed by him....and please send me information, if you have any, to assist me in bringing him to justice, which i doubt would ever be possible...

i tryed many agencies in the past and thought i finally broke free of his lies, how he found me again, is a mystery....i hate this man for all the pain he caused me, i hope contacting you guys here will be of some help to someone, if not myself....i am in shock right now to hear from him....i just had to write to get this out, my feelings....i am sick to my stomach.... :oops:
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by Helen Halper Tue Mar 29, 2011 11:06 pm
Hi hopeful,
I'm really sorry to hear that you were scammed. During the 5 years without contact with the scammer, I'm guessing that you had at least started to heal. Hearing from him again will have reopened your wounds and I understand how angry and shaken up you must be feeling.
How did he contact you? If it was email would you please post the message, with the headers?
Whatever information you can post here about this scammer will help other women to avoid being scammed by him.
I'm glad that you found your way here, but am sorry about the circumstances that brought you here.

by GomerPyle Wed Mar 30, 2011 1:34 am
Scammers are cunning manipulators hopeful, so you need to be cautious and resolute.

He'll welcome your anger and he'll have a tactic to handle that. He only has one purpose and he'll take his time to get back to scamming you, but that's the only reason he's made contact. The only way to hurt him is to ignore him, and it's the only way to handle him otherwise he'll use any other reaction to make a connection.

For your own self-respect, treat him like something you flushed a long time ago and ignore him. Any other reaction gives him something to work on.

Watch out for the confessional approach, where he owns up to his bad ways and confirms a change of character, quickly followed by a sob story and a need for more cash. It's not a fault in you. He's run out of friends and victims to scam and it'll do him good to learn scamming isn't the answer.

Non-EU citizens should go here to find out about obtaining a visa to work as an au pair in the UK
http://www.ukvisas.gov.uk/en/doineedvisa/
Whenever payment is requested by Western Union you're dealing with a scammer

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